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apologize, your brother is still family

>>18619292
Family doesn't mean a fucking thing, if he's going to talk shit talk shit right back.

However you may have gone too far talking about his gf which might have hit him a little too deep, I'd apologise for that at least.

the thing is, he's a bully. we don't fight too often, but when we do it always escalates to him trying to physically intimidate me. I'm weaker, so of course I'm not going to overpower him any time soon.

i'm fed up of people taking advantage of me because I'm weaker.

>>18619256
Work the job while continuing to search for a better one.

I'm sorry mate, life is tough
The fastest you accept yourself as you are, the lesser the pain will be
Remember you probably are a wonderful person and deserve to be happy

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>>18619223
What is wrong with being gay? I see only positives?

>stupid frogposter

>>18619254
it started with normal porn then slowly gone to traps now its me wanting to be the trap but i like girls
how to fix this?
>>18619260
im not gay

>>18619211
Blue board, enjoy your ban. But yes,thin condoms are still safe to use, and they protect from everything a regular one does

>>18619211
Just don't buy chink shit and you're good to go.
Yes i lose a lot of sensation aswell.

>>18619211
Casual sex with sluts you have 0 emotional connection + condom is bad.

So the answer is to have qtie gf in monogamous relationship where she is on pills or do pull out method.

>>18619206
Do it early in the morning, set it yourself as a goal to go to sleep just to wake up for doing that.

Another advantage is that so early you wont have other people around you.

Bycycle is better than nothing but jogging a few laps is way better. Start really really slow. You will probably get sore muscles quickly.

Cardio is good and all, but there is a saying "Abs are made in the kitchen"

eat less or eat better food

>>18619206
>>>/fit/ sticky
Not being fat is 90% diet 9% sport 1% genetics.

I suggest you swimming. God tier cardio + helps with body dismorphia (you will see other fatasses).

>>18619178
I am sure you can already answer all these questions yourself.
Let's discuss how you proceed and make a move in enlightening her and show her how you can care for her.

Well but dude you never know, worst case she is in a Sub /Dom relationship and likes that treatment

>>18619178
he knows she's anti social and naive and is taking advantage of her. show her you care for her more.

do you have feelings for her?

if so have you made them known?

UPDATE: she didnt like it when her bf was bullying her about the fact that she doesnt have any friends, so i came with an idea that she talked with him about it. she just said that she talked to him and he said that he felt sorry that he didnt know he was hurting her feeling's saying all those things he said to her. is he lying?

>>18619168
>would I be able to file a police report in order to get him charged for vandalism?
Maybe

>If the security cam somehow doesn't work, would I still be able to press charges if a mechanic finds water in my tank?
Not if you don't have proof that it was who you think it was.

Also what did you do to provoke this guy? Don't say you didn't do anything, people don't do shit like this for no reason.

>>18619173
>Not if you don't have proof that it was who you think it was.
Well, there's another camera inside which definitely should show him walking outside. I know the exact time, because I literally saw him walking outside 5 minutes before it was time to clock out with a water bottle in his hand. Then he comes back inside telling another coworker "yeah i did it" and starts laughing.

>Also what did you do to provoke this guy?
I was giving him a ride to work and dropping him off at home since his car broke down. I did this for 2 weeks. However I got tired of his bullshit.

Red Flag 1:
When I arrived at his house in the morning, he's almost never ready, meaning I have to wait up to 10 minutes for him to come out causing me to rush to work so I'm not late. On 2 occasions he simply did not wake up, so I had to end up leaving him.

Red Flag 2:
I'm on my way to drop him off at his house, when he suddenly tells me he pre-ordered food and has to have it picked up. Ok, whatever. I stop at the food place, and the cunt actually has me wait nearly 40 minutes for his fucking food. This obviously means he did not preorder anything and just wanted to guilt trip me into stopping there. He lied.

Red Flag 3:
He says he wants me to drop him off at this other place 30 mins away because he's going to use that persons car. Ok sure whatever. We get halfway there and he tells me he doesn't know the directions. So I waste another 10 mins trying to get my slow phone to work with google maps. We get there.

Guess what? The person's car he's supposed to use didn't have the key where he could find it, so without telling me anything he goes inside the warehouse looking for said person. I wait, 10, 15, 20 minutes for this fucking guy to come out. I decide to go inside the building to see if I can leave(He apparently lost his phone that day, so I couldnt call/text). I didn't see him. I left him. I then told him the following day that was my last time giving him a ride.

Now he's mad.

>>18619226
Also he somehow came to this genius conclusion that I owe him $35.

I specifically told him it's $20 a week for gas.
Week 1 - He gives me $20 for a work week's worth of rides.
Week 2 - He gives me $15 for a work week's worth of rides. I told him to just give me $5 the next time.

Now he's saying I OWE him all the money he gave me because I'm not giving him rides. What in the absolute fuck. He's also trying to say it shouldn't be $20 because I left him 2 times, which is stupid since I still wasted my time and gas driving up to his place to pick him up.

That's like buying a 1-week bus fare pass and only using it for 2 days, then trying to say they owe you money because you only used it for 2days. Not how it works.

The guy is degenerate, druggie piece of shit.

Perhaps you consume a lot of sugar?

>>18619167
Work out more. Endurance training doesn't just help you run farther.

Diabetes

ask how her trip is

Trust her until you have no reason to, because I know you are wondering if she is fucking other dudes. No point in causing shit if you can't prove it.

Furthermore, no, you shouldn't need to text her that much unless you have something to actually talk about A couple of weeks isn't serious at all, especially someone met on Tinder.

>>18619159

Yeah, like you *did* say you didn't want to bother her on her trip. Halfway through the trip, send a message with "Hey, is the trip going well?", and otherwise just wait until she gets home and ask then.

She's on a holiday, let her enjoy it and tell you about it later

That's crazy you still live with her, like those awkward whose turn is it to do the dishes conversations?

Honestly keep your door closed and avoid talking to her or giving the option to be spoken to. If you can be home as little as possible for work or the gym and exercise. Personally I would be on a ton of camping trips just to avoid being there on the weekends.

Watch out for the coming night where she's going to get totally trashed and you have to take care of her puking ass while she cries and says she wants you back.

>>18619171
I'm handling the awkwardness. I'm asking if anyone has had this feeling about an ex... like am outsiders view of her now. I can see all her flaws and she looks like a compleate stranger all of a sudden. As if all those years went away and I cant imagine us being together anymore.

>>18619191
I see what your saying. Rule of thumb. When you break up with someone, wait a week or two to delete all contact from phone to Facebook (the week is a buffer zone giving them the chance to talk to you, not you talking or spying on them). Severing all contact prevents that shit from happening.

I had a breakup after a long relationship and terminated her from my life like that. It was devastating for me. I didn't even talk to her in classes we shared in college. The moment she dumped me was when I realized she wasn't the same person and I wanted no more part in her life and wanted to expunge her from my thoughts and heart as rapidly as possible.

Don't do long distance, there, that's my advice.

>>18619128
>bipolar
>long distance
I am sorry anon, but she isnt gf material. Bipolar is heritable. You dont want crazy children, do you?

Also LDR is scam. If you cant cuddle them, there is no relationship at all.

Find new girl to date? Preferably not crazy?

>>18619128

Yeah, don't get into a long distance relationship with a mentally ill person and then become confused and accusatory when the relationship goes poorly. You knew what you were signing up for so your best course of action is to start being honest with yourself.

>>18619120

Okay.

>>18619120
you did something a pedo would do?

>>18619124
not exactly

>>18619106
fuck and bounce

>>18619119

Shut up

>>18619138
fag

Do technology or computer sciences. You have the right idea. Sacrifice a career you're passionate for and try to have hobbies you find fulfilling

Right now, you have no idea what being a computer scientist is like, but you probably have some deluded idea of how great it is to be a computer scientist. You should find a job or internship in computer science so you can see what it is really like, since you will never learn that in a classroom. Same goes for the other choices.

Get the job you want and just ignore her. Who cares if she's your mum? You didn't chose her, she can fuck right off, you owe her nothing.

>>18619040

Are you financially dependent on her? If yes, give lip service to her bullshit, and find friends you trust and talk to them instead about your goals.

If no, issue an ultimatum. You didn't choose your parents, and you're not obligated to put up with their shit, you're an adult