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anyone else upset with their body? like, im trying to accept it, but its hard you know?
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i went from 5'6 100-105 lbs to 120-125 lbs in a year due to medication. had to buy all new pants. it was devastating for me because i feel terrible about my body a lot especially being in the fashion industry.
recently i tried on my favorite pair of size 00 pants because i couldn't fit into them 3 weeks ago and now i could fit into them. i'm not weighing myself anymore because it makes me sad so instead i've just been eating less for weeks on end
i wish i could stop caring about weight so much
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I am 130lbs and 6'4" (sorry if I did that wrong - I'm Australian). I am stuck in between loving myself as I am quite into thinspo style and wanting to be muscular. My sense in aesthetics makes me want to be skinny, my half faggot side makes me want to have a godlike lean muscular body. If I was cuter I would be 100% happy to be a tall twink, but I just look like an angry 7/10 at best.
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>>18639244
>maise williams
I assume you wanted to post an example of what would be considered the "ideal" woman?
Maise is an inbred limey.
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Getting ghosted (sort of)
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So I was dating this girl and one night she just ended it over text. Since then she keeps saying that she wants to be friends and just didn't want to be in any relationships anymore but she avoids me Everytime I try to talk to her irl. Advice on what to do? I really miss just being able to talk to her.
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As hard as it is, try to focus on not talking to her. Really, this is the ONLY good option. There are tons of reasons for this. First, it's the best way to move on. Second, if you keep talking to her, she'll probably just get annoyed, and the chance you may have to talk to her normally a few months from now will be a LOT lower. Third, she maybe expects you to be a bit broken up over her and trying to contact her. She will only be able to notice how much you actually mean to her if she gets what she asks for, which is less interaction with you.
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Thank you. I might just wipe her contacts so I can't bother her.
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>>18639257
Good call, stuff like that may feel kind of extreme and final, but you need to focus on what you need right now, and that is to not be reminded of her, and to not have the option to go after her
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How to determine if a friend is gay for me 2017-08-20 04:37:34 Post No.18639219
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So this guy i met two weeks ago has been randomly smiling at me, touching my arms etc.
I like him but im scared that he might not be gay. What is the best course of action? How do i make a move that wont be awkward if he isnt gay?
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Ask him if there's anyone he likes, or ask him about relationships he's had/sex related stuff when it's in the ballpark of the topic of converstaion
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>>18639219
kill yourself.
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>>18639240
but what if he is also scared of telling me?
I'm posting this on auto, but that board moves at the speed of a snail. I'm trying to sell my OEM Subaru BRZ headlight units. They are HID projectors. Mine are in great shape: no scratches, no yellowing, and I took them off the car at ~11,500 miles. Like most people, I don't drive at night.
I'm asking $600 for them. The problem is I don't really know what a good price is, but $600 seems fair to me. I found a listing on ebay where someone is trying to sell the driver's side unit for $490. Another person on ft86club dot com said he saw some go for $600. These don't seem to go on sale at all because they are actually really nice. The FRS headlights go on sale for less than $100 frequently, however Toyota only put halogen bulbs in them and they don't have the turn signal integrated like mine do.
No one at ft86club has answered this question either and I'm tired of cheapskates asking $300 for them when there are worse options available for more money (read: spec-d). Fuck
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cool thanks
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Romance? Or something... 2017-08-20 04:13:43 Post No.18639153
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K 4chan... it's been a while, quite a while, but I've found myself in a situation, and I can't figure it out.
I've done some research on the subject that follows, but scientific notions out there seem too marketed, so I'm here in search of real world examples/first-hand experience.
Bit of context - I'm 30, 6'3", attractive, educated, employed etc. I'm not generally big into 'sleeping around' as I prefer encounters with meaning--usually find myself in flings or other short-term situations. Not to bad-talk the ladies out there, but I tend to get bored.
Over the years, I'd say I've dated 4 girls in particular who 'ranked' pretty high on the intensity/attraction/intimacy chart. 1 in particular above the other 3.
Fast forward my life to a couple weeks ago, and I met a girl, and my god...
I hosted a house party earlier in the evening, was high and drunk as shit, and my friends dragged me out to a club at 3am. They were open till 10am. We were there about an hour, and I was ready to phone it in. On my way out, a girl walked by and we locked eyes. We both stopped dead in our tracks.
Never in my life have I experienced a feeling so intense, and this is what I'm here asking about.
Where does this feeling come from? How can a person make someone feel this way just by existing? It doesn't make sense to me, and it's borderline torturous.
No drug, no experience I've had, no girl I've ever dated... nothing comes even close. The 1 girl I mentioned before (stood out from the other 3)... If she were the porsche among the 3 cadillacs, this new girl was like the bugatti and made all the others seem like tricycles.
I get so detailed with this not to express my 'hopeless romantic' self, but so people responding understand... I'm 30, not 16. It's not a high school crush that I can't get over. It's... something else, and I don't know how to process it.
If you're wondering what happened... that night was her last party night before she moved to Tennessee.
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>>18639153
Humblebragging
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Thanks for the advice...
Am I not asking a legitimate question?
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Perhaps she was a very genetically diverse person. Diverse genes (which can be seen in the form of physical traits) generally cause you to be perceived as more attractive because it means you are likely to be a lower risk mate. Diverse genes reduce the risk of birth defects, and can even mean your children will be less susceptible to certain illnesses.
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How do you cope with being the baby of your family? I was an accident. I'm in my early 20s. My parents are in their 60s. I have cousins who have children older than me. I have siblings who are almost 20 years my senior.
I've been treated like a pet/grandson my whole life and I think it's affected how I developed growing up
How do I fix myself to become the eldest firstborn Chad?
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>>18639126
You won't, unless you become wildly succesful. I'm the youngest too, and honestly being the babby has upsides, my older brother has all the responsibilities and I've gotten away with a lot desu.
They focused on my brother which allowed me to keep to myself
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What's a good way to get high without using medicine and home supplies
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>>18639106
nutmeg
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A fulfilling life with varied pleasures
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The smell of the god-riddent crispy jews on Haunika @ Aushwitz
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Hey, I'm heading to college soon as a freshman- and I need a bit of help, mainly in the fact that I have no fucking idea what to study. I'm currently supposed to be going into Pre-Pharmacy stuff, but I don't know if I should. People say there are going to be too many pharmacists in the future, and that automation will fuck them over in the long run.
Besides that, I'm not really passionate about it- I only really enjoy public speaking and electronics. All I want in a job is security and enough time/money to enjoy life with my loved ones. I'd really rather not do anything too crazy in college- engineering and pre-med seem especially difficult things to do, especially since I'm the kind of guy that never had to study much in high school.
Anyone got tips on choosing a major, or college in general?
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If you don't know what you want to do, don't go.
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I've got a full ride, and really don't wanna waste the opportunity. I worked hard to get scholarships, I just don't know what to do.
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>>18639086
figure out whatever youre good at and what pays well. (if money matters to you)
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Okay. My photos on my phone are taking up a gigantic amount of space. I want them off.
But there are some problems:
1) My computer doesn't detect my iPhone when I plug it in.
2) This means I can't transfer my files off of it onto my laptop.
So does anyone have any ideas? I was thinking maybe I put them on the "Cloud", download them all on my computer, then delete them all off the cloud (lots of explicit shit)?
Here's a thicc girl.
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>iPhone
Found your problem.
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fuck the cloud. what happens when you plug it in, anything at all? is laptop windows or mac?
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>>18639094
Laptop is Windows. It doesn't detect it cuz the charger port's fucked, so I have to charge it through alternate means.
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Got a coworker who is in an arranged marriage, stopped wearing her ring 2 months ago, claimed she lost it and would buy another one, 2 months later and no ring. She argues with the guy whenever she's on the phone and walks home in rain because he won't pick her up. I've spent alot of time before, during and after the shift over the past 2 years with this girl and we've become very close. But due to mythical husband, I'm yet to take it out of work. I have totally fallen for this girl and the rest of the store assumes her and I are together since she acts the same way towards me. Been freaking the fuck out because I'm frustrated I got no card to play here, not trying to ruin someone else's marriage or butt in, but I want this girl bad. Been told everything from "wait it out" to "she's being selfish and using you", I'm fucking lost and sick of crying myself to sleep over this. Analysis or help?
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If she's had an arranged marriage, she'd never leave him for you. You might get a bit of side action, but she'll feel guilty very quickly and you have no chance of a future with her.
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>I'm fucking lost and sick of crying myself to sleep over this
Seems fairly standard for falling for someone who isn't with you, so you shouldn't consider yourself a freak.
That said, falling for someone is simple, even if it rarely happens to you, so you won't be lost forever if you get over her. You should try to get over her, because if you meddle you most likely will just start more shit. Even if you think you have a chance of getting with her, there's necessarily going to be a year ahead of you where things just get more pressured and stressful, and if you go through all that and things end up not working out in the *ideal* way, you'll just be more heartbroken than if you tried to move on now, and she may be worse off for it too
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She doesn't seem guilty getting in my arms and so on. Do those kinds of marriages ever end in divorce? She's from Nepal and apparently the divorce rate has like tripled over them. Am I being used?
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Hi, I have no one to talk to and I am reaching a point of desperation. I am very afraid. My father died last year and I don't think I am over the grieving stage but I really don't know. Since he passed I have been working to better myself but I got fired from the job that I admired three weeks ago. Ever since then I have been in a downward spiral because I have been trying not to be depressed about the loss of my father. I dont know how to open up to people anymore either. This is the main reason I lost my job is because I work in an office setting so you see people every day And I am hiding a lot of pain so when people look at me and expect a reaction I just look down or keep looking forward to hide my pain that I would never ever ever want to share with anyone no one deserves to feel as horrible as I do. When I lost my job I started abusing drugs like molly and lsd and the reason for This is I think i have a genuine desire to be dead so I am mentally preparing myself for suicide by running the rest of what I have left into the ground. I want to have a wide and be happily married one day thats all I want. I think I have a psychological problem but I cannot receive help for it because I can't afford professional help. I am very terrified of myself because I have a gambling problem as well.
I understand that I am seen as weak at this time and I think that also may be one of my issues is that people's perception of me does not influence me at all at this point. I have lost all of my social skills and I don't even have social media. I am seen as weird by everyone.
I don't know if this is really advice , I just have nowhere to vent this out because I don't want my family to be stressed out knowing that I'm reaching the bottom of the barrel. I am ready to die because I am a loser who just drains resources and I do. I also just want to be dead with my father as well which is a huge motivating factor for my behavior.
Thank you for reading. May God bless you
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>>18639045
Contact a local hospice and ask for a grief support counselor. They will offer support groups and likely some 1 on 1 sessions for free. If they charge you then go to a different hospice. Some funeral homes will do this as well, but start with hospices.
They will likely refer you out for the gambling problem, but the can tackle the grief with you.
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>>18639128
This. It may be hard at first, but you have to force yourself to try. You're always in control of your own life. You only reach the "bottom of the barrel" when you give up. Good luck anon.
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Gay guy here. Fresh out of high school, with no experience dating or having sex, I became friends with another gay guy with fairly similar interests to me. I never was really into him sexually or romantically. He was really into me though, and foolishly, I decided to date him thinking I wasn't going to magically meet someone else I was into, and might as well compensate for lacking any experience with those things from high school.
Ended up getting attracted to someone else though, and I broke off our relationship after a year. It was a bad situation, and I was entirely at fault, naive/idiotic/etc. He didn't take it as terribly as I take breakups (for instance), but was pretty broken up for a bit. We've drifted apart a bit since.
It's been a handful of years now. We're cordial but don't talk too often. I suppose this is the proper relationship we should have at this point. I feel pretty bad about my actions, and would want to be better friends, but it isn't too feasible anyway, we live in different cities. I would talk to him more online, but it's often me initiating conversation, and I don't want to impose if he's moved on, or still trying to move on or something.
What's the proper way for us to regard each other in this situation? Also, if you've been in a situation like this, how do you suppose I should feel (or mention or not mention, atone or not atone, etc) about by past with him? How do you suppose he feels about me?
tl;dr- staying friends after a breakup- what's appropriate and normal?
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How many of these guys are there in the US, right now?
What do we do about them?
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>>18639026
how many betas? impossible to measure, especially since there's no strict definition and even if we had one there'd still be so much variation between them all that no blanket concept could help them as a group.
if you see someone who is more pathetic than you you can try to help them and advise them, but thats all you can do for anyone.
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>thinking he can do anything other than taking himself out of the group
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>>18639026
send them to charlottseveille
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Im having sex for the first time later this week, with my new(and first) gf. I masturbate a lot and im worried about busting quick. Should i masturbate beforehand so i last longer? I wont have a condom either since shes on birth control.
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If she doesn't know you're a virgin, make sure she knows. Don't bother trying to masturbate beforehand, it'll just complicate things. Either get her off with your mouth and hands before you fuck, or just fuck and if you cum before she gets off then make out till you're hard again and rail her fucking brains out.
Just relax and enjoy your girl no matter what you're doing together.
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>>18639023
>I wont have a condom either since shes on birth control.
wear one you fucking tard
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this is all you need to know OP
As long as she knows you're a virgin, it's expected you'll come quickly or not at all. But who cares, it's a very virginal attitude to think that you're going to be harshly judged by your performance. Sex is fun.
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My boyfriend has cancer. we found out today.
he's going to die in the next year. I've been with him the last 3 and he's proposed and what the fuck will i do? it's the fatal scary kind.
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cherish every moment together you have left. i'm so sorry anon, can't even imagine that. be there for him.
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>>18639013
one way or another you're going to lose him. id rather see it through desu, both for selfless and selfish reasons on every level, so id just agree and enjoy the time i have left and watch him die and move on.
but you do you honey boo boo
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>>18639013
Nothing we say here will help ease the unimaginable amount of heartache you're going to face.