My boyfriend has cancer. we found out today. he's going

cherish every moment together you have left. i'm so sorry anon, can't even imagine that. be there for him.

>>18639013

one way or another you're going to lose him. id rather see it through desu, both for selfless and selfish reasons on every level, so id just agree and enjoy the time i have left and watch him die and move on.

but you do you honey boo boo

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>>18639013
Nothing we say here will help ease the unimaginable amount of heartache you're going to face.

>>18639013
why dont you ask what can i do to help prevent his death instead

So many people are afraid of death in the western world (not like that's a bad thing), but it leads people to often distance themselves from their loved ones as they're dying. Don't do that if you can manage it OP, maybe in the long run you'll be glad you stayed by his side too. Make this last year as good as possible.

>>18639151
This actually ISN'T very good advice, if the doctors he's seen aren't optimistic about his prognosis. No one can die happily if they invest all their energy and hope in staying alive.

Party with Chad

>>18639013
Damn. Be brave anon, I'm sorry... You should really try to cherish the time you have left together, if your bf still has the strength or the will to do so...

ask him to help you find a bf to replace him once he dies, it's not as crazy as it sounds

marathon fuck sessions. like, every weekend and on Wednesdays. Get a whole lifetime of sex and cuddles out of him before he expires. also watch thirteenth warrior together at some point, awesome movie.

>>18639013
Don't think about it and act as you normally would. Dreading it daily will only make it worse. This is probably going to be the most painful thing you will ever experience in the end, but the more you think about it the worse it will be.

>>18639013
Here is what you will do.

You will find in yourself the strength to be his strength for as long as he's here. And then you will grieve, but with the comfort of knowing you did all you could for him.

>>18639013
Marry him so you can get all his assets when he dies in a year, then find a real man without shit genetics.

>>18639013
:'( Marry him quick smart and make a bucket list with him & help him enjoy what time he has left.

Cheat on him and make him a cuckold.

>>18639628
or all his debts, cancer is really hard on a bank account

>>18639784

Depends on where you live

>>18639151
Depending on the type of cancer there's fuck all to be done about it

For example if it's pancreatic cancer or already spread to multiple organs it's pretty much game over

>>18639013
Just be there for him. Let him share with you all his feelings. But also remind him that for now he is still alive, and have fun with him. Plan things to do with him and do it. Trips, dates, projects, things like that.

And please be understanding if he does not want to seek treatment. If the prognosis is bad enough then going through chemo and shit will just make his last year utterly miserable

have an affair

What do you have to lose if you marry him, either way he will die. At least he will die happy, you can always marry again.

Put yourself aside and stay with him until the end.

I lost my brother to cancer and even though I spent a lot of time with him I regret not spending more, it's going to haunt me for the rest of my life.

I'm so sorry for you and your boyfriend. My best wishes.