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Does romantic partner A who smokes weed multiple times a day every day (and doesn't have a job or go to school) have the right to say anything to romantic partner B who works 40 hours a week but who likes to get drunk in their shared home twice a week on the weekends?
tl;dr I just want to get drunk more than once a week i don't drive or leave the apartment or do anything unsafe. i hate feeling like one minute my partner is my child and depending on me for entertainment and bills and the next my partner is my parent yelling at me not to do XYZ because i said so
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Does romantic partner A who smokes weed multiple times a day every day (and doesn't have a job or go to school) have the right to say anything to romantic partner B who works 40 hours a week but who likes to get drunk in their shared home twice a week on the weekends?
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I have a feeling that if you dropped the loser you might feel like drinking less.
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>>17958549
they deserve each other. carrying and mantaining losers is for losers who are afraid they cant get anything better.
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Student loans
How do student loans work? How much can you borrow? When do you have to pay it off? Can you decide when you pay it off? What can you do with the money?
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>>17958541
chances are you are not bright enough to need a student loan
if you were you would have done an internet search first, or even contacted a specific college to ask them
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>>17958992
I sometimes prefer to hear advice and personal experience. These are things i cant search up
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Uh its a normal loan. Anon if you have to ask "can you decide when to pay it back". You come off as wanting to do somethibg shady with it.
The worst part about student loans is you cannot ever get rid of them. Normally when you declare bankruptcy your loans go away. With student loans and child support stuff it never goes away.
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This girl I know on a "hello" basis drove me home from uni. We had some small talk in the car and she offered to help me with getting a job.
She's a genuinly nice girl. Is she doing this just because she's friendly or do I have a shot with her? I have low confidence and she's way better looking than me.
She gave me her fb to send her my CV. I might not see her for a few days or even a week. What's my move here? How/when do I ask her out?
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>>17958513
sounds like shes being friendly
but only you can know the real reason. analyse the way she talks, her body language, etc.
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>>17958525
should I ask her on fb if I can make it up to her with a coffe after giving her my CV?
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>>17958569
she's probably just being friendly but if you are going to try and escalate this would be the way to do it.
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What is an adult hobby, since /v/ insists video games are for manchildren and people who never leave the house?
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>>17958499
drinking in bars
watching television
drinking at home
going to work
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>>17958503
That's pretty depressing and boring.
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>>17958499
Chain smoking
Getting lung cancer
Dying
Sucking dick
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i lost my friends back in may and i went trough a shitty period ever since. my life's been going downhill. i don't even know why they stopped talking to me. i was lonely and i had no friends what so ever and i would often find myself crying me to sleep. i was desperate so i contacted some old buddies and started hanging out with them just to have something to do and not feel lonely but never told them this. at first i tought this was the greatest decision as i got to know even more people and develop more friendships. i've just been lying to myself as they are not actually my friends. i started to feel more and more unwanted and unimportant as days passed on in the last time. i just feel like nobody really gives a fuck about me and i'm just another guy they hang out with and this hurts me. troughout this experience of meeting new people i met a girl that i liked a lot and she didn't like me. i got over that so i won't get into details. i started speaking with this other girl like 2 or 3 months ago and at first it was just a friendly thing and recently i developed feelings for her. i wanted to tell her that i like her and shit on new years eve as we were at a party togheter and we talked a bit in a corner but i didn't. and now she speaks with this other dude and i happened to look into his phone to see how much they are speaking and it just depresses me really. i feel very envious thinking about it. knowing all my effort was in vain and this guy just comes out of nowhere and bam. speaking about my love life also, i am not that lonely. i have had multiple girls that have liked me in this period but i declined them as i didn't really like them and i saw them as time wasters. i don't really know how to establish relationships with girls. i consider myself too nice at times and that i don't act up when i need to and i loose any opportunity i have. i just never seem to get the girls i want. shortly my life is a fucking mess.
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>>17958496
try to get into some hobbies or focus on your career and wait it out, i'm going through something much like you, but i'm naturally introverted and don't get lonely.
but seriously what are you after? you played it too cool on the girl you could've had a chance with but all the while turning down girls that have shown an interest in you? don't look at them as time wasters, look at them as a chance to get your dick wet, it sounds like you need it, Anon.
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>>17958599
the thing is i don't fear rejection, it's more that i fear getting rejected for being too insistent and clingy. all of those girls that have shown interest were mostly just hoes if i could describe them that way so yeah
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>>17958599
or rather judged for it. i don't know. i live in a small town and i feel that it might affect my reputation aswell
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thinking of moving to somewhere like Nepal and becoming a Buddhist monk, /adv. I'm an 18 year WASP male from the UK, any pointers?
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>>17958490
First and foremost.
>Kill yourself.
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>>17958490
>any pointers
totally
look up the average day of buddhist monks in a monastery (also consider what you are allowed to do and what you aren't allowed to do as a buddhist monk)
live like that for a month
tell me how it went
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>>17958490
stop being a retard
meditate at home and fix your actual life instead of running away like a bitch
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What is going on with my boyfriend? Is he gay? 2017-01-15 11:21:50 Post No.17958483
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What is going on with my boyfriend? Is he gay?
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So my boyfriend has been getting really strange lately, acting very feminine. He was never all that manly to begin with, but still nothing anyone would consider odd. Now that we have been together for a while, he's turned into a full-fledged faggot. Like singing karaoke versions of the Rocky Horror Picture Show, wearing nail-polish and lipstick and spending hours on his hair, and cuddling in my arms like a girl would do.
On top of that, he has always this weird kind of aversion to being dominant towards me in any way, particularly during sex. We have sex regularly, he's just really gentle and its kind of odd because I've never been with anybody like that.
I confronted him about this behavior because I actually don't have anything against it, I just want to know whats going on. But all he did was get really defensive and say that he's very attracted to me.
I believe that he is, sincerely, but what is going on? Is he transgender or something?
Thank you for you help
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Baby, don't you panic
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He warned you OP. He tried to tell you the water was turning the fricking frogs gay. All you had to do was buy the filter.
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He wants you to fuck his boipussy.
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How do I become a security guard in a major city? Is that job well enough to support yourself?
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>>17958476
Get a security license, which is easy, then apply.
There are always security companies hiring because security attracts the dumbest most expendable fuckwads on the planet, so they get recycled often.
Yes you can support yourself on it, and its an easy job because they have to expect you to be retarded to turn to security to begin with. Pay-wise though you'll be making as much as you did if you worked at McDonalds.
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>>17958479
Is it really minimum wage?
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>>17958479
Truth.
It's common though for security guards to work nightshifts/on the weekends which depending on your location can greatly increase your monthly pay.
It's an alright gig I suppose, personally I'd get too bored of it after a year or two but it pays the bills and often there's not a lot going on.
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How can I stop being so insecure about my height?
I'm 20 years old and a kissless virgin. I have no one but myself to blame. I'm only 5'3". I live in the midwest so there's tall men everywhere. The average girl is like 5'5" + boots makes them even taller. Walking through college hallways or walking downtown... it's depressing being the only adult the height of a 10 year old. Women, men, all taller than me. It sorta makes me feel like an outkast, but I'm sure that's all in my head. The problem is, I can't get it out of my head. My only "hobby" is fashion and most clothes are too big on me, which make me look even shorter. I just can't win.
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>>17958457
My aunt had a thing with a man your height.
She's a 6ft tall black goth woman.
Their height difference wasn't shocking though.
What was shocking was that this guy was a total loser, a junkie who cheated on his wife with many women throughout our small town.
This guy had anywhere from 5-10 women interested in him at once.
If a junkie lowlife that skateboards through the town all day instead of looking for a job can get girls so can you. I don't think height matters. Sure some girls are into tall guys but there are girls who don't discriminate.
It also helps that you're confident and sexually intuitive. This guy had an ego bigger than any tall guy's confidence I've ever seen. My aunt also told me that he was the only man who actually cared to show a woman pleasure. Foreplay and confidence will keep a woman around.
Oh by the way he was around 40 at the time and he was sleeping with women much younger.
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>40 year old junkie cheater that skateboards around town all day
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>>17958457
as long as you are slim or muscular, you should be fine. especially if you like being fashionable.
you may need to shop onlin and get a decent alterations tailor, but don't wear shit too big for you, it'll just make it worse.
and you have no-one to blame for that height, so ditch that emo shit now, girls pick up on that weakness even more than your height. Forgive yourself because you had no control over it, move on, and mature-up, you 20 year old child.
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Hate to start another "functioning alcoholic" thread but here goes.
So my wife drinks often. She doesn't get so drunk she's hungover much, but...she has 6-8 drinks anywhere between twice a week and once every two weeks, with occasional spurts where she does that every day. She goes to work sober, she does everything she needs to do. She's happier and awesomely productive drunk. Does science sober, makes art drunk. Occasionally gets high and wants to fuck for like 4 hours straight. So it's pretty cool. She's climbing the faculty ranks at her uni awesomely, she's publishing her first graphic novel, and she's rediscovering her sexuallity alongside psychadelics.
She IS bipolar, and medicated for it. Hence doing well at work.
That said, I don't think anyone is going to say her substance patterns are healthy. There just aren't any obvious negative consequences except added strain on her liver_kidneys on top of her meds. She's been managing this act pretty well for about a year and a half. If she starts to feel like it takes too much to get drunk, she takes a month off then goes back to it. She's not 100% honest about it to her meds prescriber, but her bloodwork hasn't come back bad either.
Thoughts?
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>>17958415
If she drinks like once or twice a week I wouldn't worry about it.
6-8 drinks isn't even that much whether we're talking 8 shots or 12oz beers.
My dad was a literal alcoholic and his liver failed him, he drank -every day- to the point he was blackout drunk for decades.
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>>17958424
I think like psych wise it's only like 5-6 or something to count as a "binge"
It isn't good for her, and I'm kinda worried for the day her bloodwork comes back bad. On the other hand, we both know that day will come sooner for her than others (meds, etc) anyway. Alcohol might make it come even sooner but...she sees it as a quality v quantity thing.
She did ask me to tell her if I ever think it's out of control. I don't think it is but it also seems pretty not so good.
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>>17958428
If medically she isn't supposed to be drinking then you have the answer. She shouldn't be drinking.
A normal person could live past 100 on 6 drinks a night, one or two nights a week for all their lives.
I do everything better when I'm drunk
Work, video games, sex, beer pong, cleaning, writing
I've tried the sober life and it just never measures up to me on alcohol, not even close
I feel like I'm actually a better version of me because I don't allow anxiety to hold me back on alcohol. I've tried many things (exercise, meditation, therapy) and nothing does it the same
Is it ok for me to for me to be a functioning alcoholic? So far it's only benefited me in the last 3 years
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Obviously health problems are going to catch up with you. Eventually you'll start to just feel normal due to tolerance as well.
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you will compromise your health in the long run.
I would advise you to stick with meditation and exercise, they definitely work but meditation takes practice. throw in some positive affirmation, at least temporarily, to get your head in the wrong place. remember it'll take at least 4-6 months for your brain to make those permanent changes so stick with it for a while
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>>17958404
Try and moderate it. If beer or spirits help you relax and focus better like this after just the 1 drink, then you won't need to get stone bloody drunk and be less healthy in the long run.
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I am sort of new here, mostly just lurk but I'm in a predicament of sorts. I'm a guy 22 and I'm into this girl 20. I met her about a year and a half ago and had a thing for her since. When we met she was having issues with her boyfriend. They argued regularly, didn't sleep together and were all around toxic. One day he bangs her before work and then as he leaves tells her they're through. (He gloated about this.) They broke up, she and her other roomie need a place, so I step up and offer the other bedroom in my apartment as my then roommates were moving out. She is of course sad but I do my best to cheer her up and eventually she does. We spend a lot of time together, we get really close, she cuddles me when were together and when were out. She ends up randomly bringing home a guy one day just so they can bang. It was weird but we weren't dating or anything so eh. That guy is a one night stand, but then she started to stop interacting with me the same... Until I took up her offer to go smoke with her. She suddenly got excited and happy and I was happy again. It was cool, but then another guy comes along and catches her fancy. Randomly my Aunt asks me to house sit for her, so I invite the girl over to chill.. She brings this guy with him. (She asks first but kind of implies she won't come without.) So they come over, we all cook dinner together and chill. And their relationship kicks off, for about 3 months, then it wavers harshly. He stopped inviting her over, started making excuses to not hang out and she clung on. Until three nights ago when he dumped her. Today we were hanging out and we were patrolling Tinder together. And it made me realize that I may have an opportunity to try and get her. Even crazier is a little later my Aunt texts me to ask to house sit this weekend. So my question is, am I getting a second chance? Or should I give up on this girl?
TL;DR I'm into a girl who is now single and a opportunity has arisen, what do /adv/?
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Okay if shes still ur roommate and u rely on her cash each month for the bills dont make a move
If she makes a move on you b4 the next man then go with it...but only if she makes the move
If she gets with a new guy be the parent who isnt happy but never shows it otherwise you push the child away aka you lose her friendship...and possibly a roommate
Hope that helps
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>>17958387
Seize the moment and get your ass out the friend zone.. Invite her to smoke one with you then ask her after you guys are baked if she would like to go out some time... I dunno what is she into find out then seize the moment...
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>>17958387
Hum i think you can try to make a move
I mean you know each other for a while now i doubt she won't be your friend anymore because she rejected you as long as you're not a dick about it
So in worse case scenario you have a shitty evening
Best you have gf
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I've been struggling with this idea for a few months now. I graduated college last year with a BA in Literature but can't find a job to save my ass. I minored in Psychology but I've lost most of that knowledge. Should I cram for an extended period of time/brush up and go for the MA in Pscyh or go get a second BA (in Psychology)?
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>>17958375
Start small, nigger. Go work at a library.
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>>17958375
Let's look at our choices, OP.
What's your cumulative GPA? If it's 3.5 or more, you'll have a good shot at an MA. And if you want to pursue it even more, may be even a PhD. Mind you, these two take a lot of work.
For starters, my first thought was to suggest writing freelance. Personally, I've written freelance work for online companies -- blogs, short stories, and even copy. I only have a BA in Political Science. I suspect someone with a degree like yours, you'd be able to pump out a lot of written content, high quality content too. Anyway, this is something to look into if you're looking for work quick. (Upwork and Constant Content are quite good, though you need to start with small contracts that are usually between $5-$10. Once you get experience and can show other companies you're a qualified, then they'll start contacting you for jobs instead of the other way around.)
Go with your gut though, OP. What do you really want to do? If I were to flip a coin -- heads is an MA, tails is another BA -- what would you instinctively want?
What I'm trying to say is this. A second BA is good if you REALLY want it, but it doesn't necessarily make you more desirable for jobs. If you're doing it for knowledge and learning because, hey, you like learning then by all means -- but only if you can afford it.
I'd suggest an MA personally. This is only because it's a more marketable degree since it's generally seen as more professional and translatable to a job. But that's my $0.02.
Good luck, OP.
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>>17958375
MA hands down. MA trumps a BA, especially if they are in the same field.
A lot of graduate programs let you take prerequisite classes anyways for the very reason you are worried.
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One thing I'm terrible at is roleplay, so general and specifically sexy nurse/schoolgirl advice please. Things to say, do, how to initiate, how to get myself in the mindset, vids to take notes from, anything helpful.
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On adv everyday...sad i know
But what makes us believe this isnt bait AGAIN
Is it that hard to be sexy?
Can advise but whats the real struggle? Dirty talk? Actions? Poses?
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>>17958355
i cant help you, roleplay has never been my thing. but that image made me lol, so heres a (You) and a bump
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>>17958360
I just dunno what to say to fit thematically really, I feel like I'm just piggybacking off what the guy says.
"detention again huh?"
"y-yeah"
"What was it for this time?"
-pause-
"I've been falling behind on classes"
"Oh yeah, which class?"
-pause-
"uhh... Biology..."
The point is is that the pauses where I have to think are so offputting because usually I aim to 'think less, do more' during foreplay/sex.
And I have no clue how to even start as a nurse
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Hi, from Texas and looking for a fresh start.
I've been wanting to give myself a 'new life' for a while now. Starting it all over, because frankly? My current situation sucks. I've already lost connection with all of my family and old friends. No social media for 4+ years either. I don't want them to find out. Ever.
My plan is to do this:
-Pay off debts (Owe about $3000 to like 10 different places, going to kinda suck)
-Change my full name
-Seal it off of the public records (as to not have it accessed by family online)
-Change my gender (wanted to do that anyway)
-Change my ssn if possible; if not then whatever
-Might change name twice because i'm a paranoid motherfucker
Is there anything else I should be aware of, or anyone who's been in a situation like this? Any advice would be veryhelpful, I've looked all over the internet and I haven't found anything helpful enough to my specific situation.
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>>17958317
Move to New York and become a male escort. Rich women love that cowboy thing.
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>>17958342
haha oh damn that'd be fun, may consider
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You can't change your gender you fucking faggot.