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this has only happened to me with 2 girls in my life (i'm female for the record)

>my co-workers and i all eat at the same table/room
>have a co-worker who is like a sweet, cute and very feminine girl who is more on the quiet side
>while i'm talking to someone else or telling a story i can see her look at me with her smiling
>mfw i start to feel awkward/nervous and homo as fuck
>as soon as i catch her looking, i look away immediately and try to avoid eye-contact

what the fuck, she's so cute.... i hope i'm not attracted to her, but i feel super shy and awkward around her. i react like the way i would with a guy who i'm attracted to basically.

this happened to me before with another girl back in middle school, who was oddly enough had very similar vibes to my co-worker. am i bisexual? or are these girls just the types that everyone kind of can't help but fall in love with a little bit??

also, i don't know if it's related, but a lot of lesbian and bi girls take interest in me. unfortunately, none of those girls are attractive physically to me so maybe that's why i disregarded them? i can't imagine having lesbian sex though, that sounds like something i would regret.

>pic somewhat related
i don't have anything against gay people. i just want to understand my sexuality a bit better or re-affirm that i am straight...

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>Be me
>see an ant on my screen
>squish it with the force of a million suns
>It dies.
>INSIDE MY SCREEN.
Is there any way to get it out without having to pay some guy in the computer shop?

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>be me
>24
>be very driven
>want to become a doctor
>by no means a genius, and getting into med school in Canada is incredibly tough (something like 5% of applicants accepted)
>no social life throughout undergrad so I could study and get good grades
>have interviews lined up, but depressed and lonely

I sacrificed so much to be where I am, and while becoming a doctor is my ultimate goal at the moment, I don't know how much more I can take. I just want a tight group of friends to hang out with a few times a week and a woman I can love.

Is it possible to have a social life and be passionate about your academic life and future career? Will med school be any better? Residency? Life as a doctor?

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Earlier today, I got into a fight and hit the guy real hard, and now my wrist hurts really bad. I can't move my wrist at all before it hurts excruciatingly bad. Is my wrist broken?

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Kissless virgin here.
I've been told I'm a 6 to 7/10 by attractive girls, I'm semi-confident when I need to be, I have a successful job, car and I'm very academically confident
But I just don't know how to talk to girls, I have no experience. I had a girl""friend"" for like a year in HS but it was more of a friendship, we just held hands.
I have a habit of just completely avoiding girls, sticking to male only friend groups and leaving when girls show up or hanging around unfuckable hambeasts and girls with boyfriends.
Anyway I've just started university and I'm meeting tons of girls, tons of qt Asians, and I wanna go somewhere with it.
How do I start out on the right foot /adv/, how do I get friendly with girls but not be their friends?

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I've tried getting advice on this scenario 2 times already with no responses so this is another try at what seems to be impossible to answer.

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I have never had a girlfriend and I'm 24. A co-worker asked me out to a dance last week but I told her I sucked and hated dancing and said no. She approached me again and basically said I had to go with her or she would be alone (guilt trip) so I said maybe.

There are positives and negatives about her. I will include extra info in brackets.

Negatives:
-far left-wing liberal (I'm right-wing)
-taller than me (I feel less of a man)
-older than me (she is 30)
-she has dogs (I'm allergic)
-she is very chatty/hyper (I'm not, some stuff she talks about bores me)
-I have a mental illness (don't feel I can cope)

Positives:
-she is attractive (not my ideal, but still hot)
-she is the first and only girl to ask me out/notice me (something I strongly encourage)
-she dresses nice/cleanly
-prior to this, I felt very comfortable around her

Overall I feel the negatives outweigh the positives and sit on the fence because I lack the experience and willingness to try something that isn't my ideal (which may never happen). But at the same time maybe I need some experience before I can say what is and what is not ideal.

What would you do /soc/? Put yourself in my shoes.

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im high off shrooms and every horrible experience i've ever had, particularly those revolving around parental abuse, is making me want to kill myself

what do i do

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How do I stop hating life?

Here are things I've tried
>travelling
>working out
>improving myself
>trying new things
>going out of my comfort zone
>making friends
>engaging in ambitions

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Can I just make up entire positions on a resume?

I've only ever worked at a pizzeria that recently closed down, had that for like 2 years. Its been like a month of applying to places like Best Buy or Target, not a single call back.

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I'm moving to Florida in the fall, but i can't decide if i should move to Tampa or Daytona Beach. I've never been to either. So I'm not sure which to do.

Advice?

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Alright, so this probably won't make any sense, I'm stoned off my ass, but I could use some advice.
>Female joins close group of friends
>Develop feelings for her
>She has feelings for me
>She's nervous about dating so we become friends with benefits
>After some time I fell deeper in love with girl
>Confesses to me that she has feelings for one of my best mates, wants to be with me but doesn't want the feeling of guilt for having feelings for him while being with me
>Tell her we'll work something out, we can get through this, at this point we love eachother
>She doesn't listen, insists we stop before she hurts me
>She can't keep her hands off of me, keep relapsing but she keeps insisting we stop, even though she's sure nothing will happen between them, but can't let go of her feelings for him, still feels guilty.
>Genuinely do love eachother, but I feel like she's using me weather she realizes it or not.
>She has too low self esteem to believe me when I say she's worth it, that all I want is to be with her, that there's no reason to stop if we still have feelings for eachother and my friend has no feelings for her other than wanting to fuck.
>How do I get her back?

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What kind of careers are open to me?

I'm a 22 soon to be 23 year old of middling intelligence. I've been working in food service since I got out of high school, my last job being at a fairly high end coursed meal establishment. I'm sick and tired of working in food and the long hours it entails. Most of my relationships have ended because I wasn't available enough and I'm sick of it.

My only real attributes are strength, size, and dexterity working with my hands.

I've considered talking to an Air Force recruiter but got cold feet. Now, I'm not really sure what to do.

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I want to marry him and make babies with him. What is the best way to go about this and get a man to propose to you, especially if it starts out as an awkward meeting and potentially dangerous situation for him?

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How do you overcome overprotective parenting?

I'm a 25-year-old male neet with zero life skills and zero drive. All throughout my life I had to fight tooth and nail just to have friends and be able to go out and do things, with my mother keeping me at home with her as much as she possibly could. Around 19 or 20 I realized that she was never going to let me be my own person, and the constant arguments and tension at home were constantly wearing me down and exhausting me. So I gave in. I stopped talking to my friends, because it was too painful for me to be invited to things with them and always have to turn them down, for reasons they and I couldn't understand, reasons that I was never given. I felt like I couldn't be the type of friend I should have been, like I wasn't able to live up to the kinds of friends they were to me, and instead of constantly letting them down by being forced to turn down doing things with them, I chose to stop giving them (and myself) false hopes altogether.

Since then I have basically become a complete recluse. I want to make it on my own but don't know how. Living here I'm not permitted to cook my own meals because I might cut or burn myself. I'm not permitted to drive at busy times of the day because I might get in a wreck. Every single person that drives down the street is watched like a hawk by my mother who springs up from whatever she's doing because god forbid someone drive a car by our house. I have never mowed a lawn because my father never showed enough interest in me to bother teaching me basic shit, and when I asked if I could, he would always say "Maybe..." with a goofy stupid fucking grin on his face and then never talk to me for the rest of the day. I don't know how to do fucking anything, I have no friends, I have no self-confidence, and I feel completely trapped.

How do you take steps forward when someone in your life is constantly holding you down? Please help.

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As a male, I still don't fully understand my own heterosexuality.

I am 24 and I am heterosexual but I feel so... unable to express it? Like for example, in my head I am thinking "Wow, I am super horny right now. I want to fuck that girl until her head pops off and then put it back on her body and fuck her some more."

But physically, I never express shit like that. I don't really flirt or talk to women at all. I feel like I am at a loss for expressing male heterosexuality. Like what can I even do?

I feel like I just can't express anything.

What can I do? Masturbation doesn't even help which is frustrating. I just want a woman ontop of me. but not a prostitute.