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I just need a quick, honest answer.
Me and my ex broke up a few years ago after a short relationship (it was my fault, I have changed my ways since).
She is currently dating someone, but she is always in different relationships. I dont think she is cheating on/with anyone, so I think she cant be alone, so she has to get a new partner as soon as the last one leaves.
Now, I want her back, We have been texting on and off the past month, and Ive told her I want her back, and she has not said the same thing back to me.
She would say like "im in love with my boyfriend" But she would never say "no".
So I want to wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend, so I can just get in there and be with her again. I dont think my problem is "if" she wants to be with me, I thinks its more of just waiting.
How should I stay in contact with her? I have been texting here every other day and we just talk for a minute or two, Should I just keep this up? Lay off it? Go harder?
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>>18067176
You're exes for a reason.
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>>18067258
This.
If it was meant to be you wouldn't have broken up in the first place. Never make the same mistake twice, that's just stupid.
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I think loneliness has changed me
Before I started college I was able to articulate myself in person pretty well, my thoughts during chats and discussions flowed out pretty well.
Since I've started colleged I've had pretty much no friends, I'm in my second year now and I've still got no friends. When I do talk to people I often trip over myself with my words and I can't express what I mean to an extent.
I'm not sure if it's because I've become socially retarded or if I'm now depressed/nervous or what, I have become a lot more sad since I was back at home, perhaps my thinking patterns have become fragmented? Maybe I just don't like the people I'm surrounded by, do you guys have any /adv/ for me?
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>>18067158
All I can say is don't give a fuck and say what you want
I do it and I still feel lousy but at least I can talk to people
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>>18067158
>Being only twice as tall as a subway sandwich
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New co-worker tomorrow 2017-02-20 06:32:26 Post No.18067069
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Our company is getting this new co-worker tomorrow and i got the job to show him around, what are we supposed to do to fill a day? PLS HELP
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>>18067069
show him where everything is: bathroom, break room, cafeteria, etc
talk to him about his role if you can (for example, give him some tips on how to work most efficiently)
introduce him to people in the office.
and talk to him about general shit he'll have questions about? stuff like hours, when paychecks come in, holidays, etc
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You got an entire day with him?
Do what the anon above said, but take your time. I love giving orientations to new employees. Its so fucking easy.
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bump for more advice, panic attack incoming
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Anyone know what's up here? Looking for someone who understands the female psyche. I've been dating this girl, and since we started going out she has been really quiet around me. She's not a quiet person and was not particularly quiet before we were going out. I know I've not done anything wrong and that she still likes me because she has said as much, leaves me cute notes and presents etc. Anyone got any idea why she would sudden but come so silent?
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Not everyone has to talk constantly like you do, normie. She's comfortable enough to be with you in peace and quiet, and your normie brain can't comprehend that and thinks "SUMTHING MUST BE WRONG SHE SHOUDL TALK COSNTANTLY LIKE I DO!!"
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>>18066987
She might be nervous around you. The social her may be a facade and the more reserved version you see is the next layer of the onion.
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I do not understand normies or extroverts, nor do I understand how to be an interesting person. Every hobby that I think of seems boring and no more interesting than shitposting (ex: what the fuck is so interesting about hiking or any potential experiences that would come of it). I don't have anything to talk about with strangers as well.
I've been thinking about this subject for years and it's still fucking pissing me off. It just never ends.
t. INTP
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Woah, scary cartoon boy, anon.
I don't know, what do you find so fun about shit-posting? Why are you so keen on understanding normies, or how to be an interesting person?
Have you tried doing anything?
It's always easy to break things down, but when you actually get out and do it, it may help you understand the mentality. It's usually less about the activity, and more about personal development.
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I don't have hobbies because I want to be an interesting person. I have hobbies because I like doing the activities themselves. I sail because boats fascinate me, I read because I like stories, I weld drunken art in my garage because I like it and find it fun. The trick that you think normals possess is just the desire to enjoy things. It's hard to enjoy things when you only see the world through the lens of a computer screen. Life is wind on your face, dirt beneath your feet, and tastes and smells ticking your senses. If you want to enjoy life just step out of your cave every once in a while.
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>>18066969
Cool story bro.
But why are you telling this to us? If you want to know why are people doing thing you dont, you have to ask. There are no crystal balls capable of predicting what have you tried to say by this post.
And using intp personality type as an excuse is very weak excuse. Try harder.
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I want a new job but I’m having a hard time finding anything. I’m 21yr, male, living in North Carolina and I currently work as a lineman fueling, towing, and marshaling planes for private aviation ($8/hr + tips for pilots). I am also going through college full-time, 12 credit hours.
The job needs to be:
>Entry level
>Part-time
>Minimum wage
I really don’t want to work retail, and if I don’t have to deal with a lot of people that’s a plus. Ideally, I’d like to have a job where I can just come in, do my work, and go home. What should I look out for and get into? Any advice?
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>>18066941
zip code my dude?
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>>18066979
28411
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Is it bad that the only reason that I want to be financially successful is so that I can have lots of money for drugs and hookers?
I want to fuck constantly and this seems to be the only way.
Drugs are self-exclamatory.
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>>18066890
sounds cool! I just want to be financially successful so that I don't have to worry about having a roof over my head, food to eat, and being able to pay my bills on time.
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>>18066907
Well I am referring to financially successful, not just financially stable.
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No it's not bad. You can do whatever you want. Hookers would be plausible but the drugs would not. While both are addictive one is more detrimental to your decision making. Spoiler, it's the drugs. Things like financial stability and success usually don't belong in the same sentence as I regularly do drugs.
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>On pretrial probation
>Have scheduled breathalyzers
>PO says he can come by my house any time as well
Will he actually come by my place?
Its been a couple months and hes never come yet. Sometimes I feel like having a drink or two, is it worth the risk?
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>>18066839
instead of asking if having the drinks is worth the risk of being caught ask yourself is having the drinks is worth being a criminal fuckwad.
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>>18066853
>having a few drinks in your own home makes you a criminal fuckward
Probation is a joke and a money grab. It's highly unlikely he'll show up at your house or even your work now or ever OP. Keep in mind if they have you take a UA any time that alcohol stays in your system for a couple of days, and considering your charges seem to be alcohol related they may spring for the testing that detects alcohol more specifically. A standard UA won't catch it but if they test for alcohol more closely it will.
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I'm afraid of going to see the doctor. On an unrelated note I have a large quantity of apples in my possession. What should I do?
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>>18066724
invest in Apple?
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>>18066724
Eat an apple a day. This will keep the doctor away until you run out of apples.
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Thinking about changing my name in an MMO 2017-02-20 04:03:04 Post No.18066714
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Thinking about changing my name in an MMO
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Hi /adv/ looking for some input on something i'm considering doing, but first here's some backstory
>playing an MMO
>get invited to community discords for said mmo
>would meme on occasion and known for jobbing during certain raids and would get shit on for it
>usually don't really pay attention but has been getting somewhat annoyed by it from time to time
>a few times in said discord would ask questions and shitpost in the shitpost channel
>people would get triggered at me asking questions about gameplay with one of them telling me every time i speak in the discord they get extremely angry/irritated
>after that people in said server block or get very belligerent with me and would attempt to instigate something with or get a rise out of me
>it doesn't work and they get mad about me not giving them a reaction
>eventually got kicked by admins because i "memed" too hard
>becomes a iiterally meme in the process
Honestly i'm surprised that people bothered making me a meme and legitimately getting triggered by me. I actually proud of it but i actually want to step down from it figuratively speaking. Regarding the subject of the name change i had been using said name for 9 years and i'm finally getting bored and i feel that its time for a change. regarding all this is me changing my name in this MMO a bad/wrong thing since i feel like giving myself a new name since i don't feel like using my 9 yo name anymore and a little bit of the meme attention getting a bit much niw?
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I get the impression that you're being an asshat without even realizing it
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Well what's the name?
Also I name change in MMOS all the time desu
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>>18066717
That might be the case but some friends I hang with have dealt with same kind of aggression and standoffish issues with other people In the community
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Scarlet freedom
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Sup /adv/.I'm 18 I think I'm depressed and have a mild social anxiety but I'm not diagnosis. I don't have money to get diagnosis. And I can't go alone. I do sometimes think about killing my self. But it's just a "what if" situation. Sometimes I thought to my self maybe I'm just an attention whore. Because I'm so desperate to drop a hint behind. Maybe I just want someone to care about me I thought to my self. But I still have both of my parents. Am I greedy? For wanting a special treatment. I think I am. I have a friend when at age of 9-13. But and then a lot of shit happens and at age of 13-14. I only have my uncle. He's a great person. We always sitting on the veranda and talk about our problem. And then he found his special person. I was happy for him. But after that I found my self sitting alone at the veranda at night. When I'm 15 that's where it's got worsen. I don't have anyone to talk to. Like literally no one. I talk to my self and wall on daily basis. I even hope that I got schizophrenia just for the sake of hearings voice that did not consciously come from me. I can't share this sadness with no one except wall if that count. Not even my parents. I once tell them about my not yet diagnosis depression. And they just laugh it off. So how do I overcome this shit. How do I know that I really have depression and social anxiety. I don't have any pill or antidepressants pill. If you think I need one can a not prescribed people just by one. If you don't think I need one maybe you could tell me how to deal with it. Or maybe you could just hit me with the cold hard truth. Don't worry and sorry for disappointing all of you but I'm not gonna kill myself. At least not now.
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>>18066607
Her head wouldn't kick back like that. The area of the bullet is too small. It would just go straight through her.
Not as dramatic though
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>>18067043
she'd fall down/crumble on the spot though, so that part's realistic
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>>18066607
>I'm 18
>wants to commit sudoku
Come on dude! Life gets way better than you think if you work hard on it
Just be someone you WANT to be. You have your dad for the love of god, ASK HIM!
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How do I fight someone and not get in trouble?
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A gentlemanly verbal debate
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If getting in trouble is makes the difference between whether or not you'll fight somebody, then you probably don't have enough reason to fight them in the first place.
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Should I cut it /adv/? 2017-02-20 02:16:09 Post No.18066479
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So I've this thing on my face for a few days now - It's next to my right eye. Don't know where it came from, I just noticed that it was considerably long. It doesn't necessarily hurt - I mean it stings when I pull on it, but that's it. Lately I've been really tempted to cut it with a scissor or something but I'm not sure if I'll cut a nerve ending or some blood vessel or something. Would appreciate any help from any derma anon.
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>>18066479
I did that to one on my back
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>>18066479
I think it'd be best if you go to the clinic. Maybe the doctor know what to do with that thing. I have kind of similar problem like that on my finger but for me it's hurt. So what I did I go to the nearest clinic and the doctor give me some sort of liquid thingy and she asked me to applied that medicine on my finger and after a month and two it's shrink and gone.
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I have friends, quite a few of them actually. And good friends too. But I never socialize with them and hang out. Most if not all of my evenings are spent alone, but I prefer it to be this way. I'd much rather do something by myself which I think is useful rather than go out and get shitfaced.
Of course there is the instinct to socialize though, which occasionally makes me depressed. What can i do about it? I feel lonely occasionally, even though I prefer solitude.
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>>18066427
Go out and socialize when you feel lonely? This doesn't seem like a terribly hard question to answer.
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What is it that feels uncomfortable about going out?
I personally don't go to clubs or bars a lot, because it's too loud to make conversation and wears me out fast. However, I do enjoy spendig time with my friends in a more relaxed and quiet setting.
How about cooking and eating together, playing good old games, movie night at home? You don't have to get drunk, you can still listen to music and you will actually talk.
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My two closest friends, a guy and a girl, are living with this other girl who doesn't like me. I try to talk to her and she pretty much ignores me and overall it's just obvious she doesn't like me. I don't really like her either because of that.
The other day I was over visiting my other friend there and she was just so cold toward me. The three of them just went into one of their rooms the moment I walked away for a second and I heard her just say "that was so weird!" because I tried talking with her.
It really feels awful. I feel like my two closest friends are going to drift away from me because of her. The three of us used to drink and do drugs and get fucked up together, now it's the three of them. I don't know how to stop feeling bad about this. Help!
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>>18066373
>boohoo she doesnt like me
have u tried fugging her?
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>>18066373
Ask her what her problem with you is. That or talk to one of the two that you feel frustrated that she hates you for no reason.
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>>18066373
Call the girl out on her bullshit next time. The worst thing that happens is they tell you to leave.
I had to do this once myself, and I am an incredibly meek person. This bitch was being incredibly passive aggressive, so I (somewhat autistically) outburst "Why are you such a fucking cunt?"
A few weeks passed and this girl basically disappeared from my friends' lives because she was "afraid" of me. That said, the living situation was reversed compared to yours, I lived there and she just came over to mooch weed and beer.