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When your boyfriend throws shit like "you're so pretty for a mexican girl" would you get offended? Would you break up?
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No, and no.
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>>18092550
>"you're so pretty for a mexican girl"
that's not even racist
just stupid
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>>18092553
I feel like it was purposely made to hurt.
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So my gf is a foreigner in my country and she's decided that she wants to move back to her home.
She asked me if I was willing to follow her and well, I am not.
I love her very much but I can't!
Main reason: it took me 8 long years of doing shit jobs with my degree to get the dream job, Ive now been working it for about a year and a half and I can't go back to doing shit jobs.. I mean this job was the plan, this is why I bothered getting that degree in the first place!
I can't leave my job!
I don't want to break up with my gf.
What do?
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>>18101876
How long have you been together? How serious is it?
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>>18101878
We've been together for about a year..We live together currently (unoficially: She has her own place but she's always at my place)
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>>18101881
Are you willing to throw away 8 years of hard work for her?
I wouldn't, but that's easy for me to say. Its a bit selfish of her to want you to move
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I've been told I was intelligent all my life. By my parents, my peers, and other various figures. I had top grades from elementary school to college. However, im pretty fucking autistic so I never had a social life, thus never developed a solid personality, never really stepped outside my comfort zone of school, vidya, reading, and occassionally playing a sport/musical instrument.
The only thing that I could really feel good about myself for was my own ideas of my intelligence. Without it, id be completely worthless since I really have nothing else going for me. I'm not good at connecting with other people, not a hard worker, nor do I have any passions or interests to give me motivation to wake up in the morning.
Yet everyday I doubt I even have such intelligence to begin with. I'm shit at debating. Every sort of logic or rationality test I take online I end up performing shit on. However, personality wise I tend to follow the INTP archetype, who are typically masters of reasoning. But an INTP without intelligence is about as worthless and miserable a human being as you can get.
I know that all these sort of tests are fucking bullshit but I really have nothing else to go off on. I never took a proper IQ test administered by a psychologist, and at this point im too scared to.
I dont think there's anything inherently wrong with being stupid. I just feel for someone who put all their eggs in one basket, to have their own self worth denied would give them nothing else. Like I said, im too autistic to develop myself in other areas, so while I understand the solution to all this would be "get out more, gain experiences in the real world, make friends" the reality is it's not fucking happening. I'll probably see how far I can get in life, since I haven't exactly failed at anything yet, at least as far as college/career wise. If that day ever comes where I feel like a complete and utter failure, I'm pretty confident I'll just shoot myself.
what do,
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>I never took a proper IQ test administered by a psychologist, and at this point im too scared to.
>However, personality wise I tend to follow the INTP archetype, who are typically masters of reasoning.
Fucking lol, you sound alot like me when i was younger. Just realize that you are not extraordinary in any way.
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>>18101035
starting to realize that at this point
well, how'd things end up going for you
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>>18101031
What are you saying? What is this? Are you trying to say you're paper smart but not street smart?
First I would suggest learning how to communicate your thoughts. If you can't do it typing in the comfort of your own home, you definitely suck at it on an interpersonal level.
Learn logical fallacies. Start visiting forums on politics or some other controversial topics and develop your own arguments. They will get picked apart... -this is okay. You will learn.
Next, once you have a few ideas of how to express yourself clearly you will have won half the battle. The other half is learning to vocalize your ideas in a social atmosphere. This part is about developing confidence.
Good luck
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How to become gf material: max difficulty 2017-03-05 12:45:51 Post No.18100812
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How to become gf material: max difficulty
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Hey /adv/
I'm 21, and I've lived all my life in a fratty college town.
My last real relationship was in high school. I'm insecure, because unlike me, all of the girls in this town are supermodel beautiful, energetic, and their hobbies aren't weird in a bad way. It would be so nice to meet someone who would want not just sex, but also to spend time together when my mood is bad. But I don't know how to attract someone like this. Do you have any tips?
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What do you actually want, a boyfriend or a husband?
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>>18100822
A relationship where the other person enjoys my company, not just hooking up. I think boyfriends do that too.
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>>18100812
> all of the girls in this town are supermodel beautiful, energetic, and their hobbies aren't weird in a bad way.
no lol most people are average, by definition, and lazy, maybe you just have different habits
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>be high school senior
>be beta faggot
>have been talking to popular girls since freshman year
>they have told me they are not into partying and drinking or drugs
>believe them, even though they hang out with people that do
>a few weeks ago, they were talking about a party
>mentioned everybody being so drunk, herself included
>butt in like a tard
"i thought you weren't into that"
>she tells me she isn't and tries to reflect everything, mocks me and calls me a weirdo.
>all the popular kids do this to me, so I think it's just a joke.
>it was not a joke
>later, I overhearing her telling her friend something sinister.
"oh my god! we're so fucking mean to him!"
>tfw i have been mocked by the popular girls since freshman year
>i doubt they never even saw me as human, just a pet
So I want to know how I can get revenge on them without getting into trouble. I want to just shake them up or shock them or make them cry. But I do not want to harm them or anybody.
Also, since my school has a high abortion rate, I can assume they have had abortions, so I could use that to my advantage.
tl;dr How can I mess with stacy bitches without getting into trouble?
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I think you know the answer
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>>18100520
no shooting, just fucking with them until they cry or have a mental breakdown
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>>18100523
Shooting will make them cry and have a mental breakdown.
Maybe you could plant drugs in their bags or something and get them caught.
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Anons, I've fucked up...
>Be me
>Comfortable, nobody around
>Searching exhentai for monstergirls
>See doujin about 9/10 centaurcutie
>Decide to give it a read
>Suddenly, my mom wants something and I get to her
>Don't tab out
>Sister walks inside my room without my knowledge
>Sees centaurgirl, pushing out her very visible horse behind
>I return, see my sister, my eyes filled with shock
>"Anon, didn't know you like horses that much."
>She laughs at me and walks out.
What do I do to convince her that I'm not really into horses and that anime centaurs are a bit different from just horses?
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>>18100320
lol nothing, just don't talk about it. say you were looking up weird meme shit, a lot of people do this.
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You're over thinking it. Never bring it up. If she does, "Yeah theres some weird ass memes on that website somtimes haha!"
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she's just giving you a hard time, I don't think its that big of a deal. I'm sure she likes her fair share of weird shit too.
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>Feel like getting a girlfriend is the only way to salvage my future
>Know that the average girl probably doesn't want a relationship as deeply as I do
>Have a bad feeling that people like me walk into relationships and walk out absolutely destroyed
I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend before. What is love like?
Is it a euphoria unparalleled in this world?
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>Feel like getting a girlfriend is the only way to salvage my future
Well there's a delusion if I ever saw one
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Get ready for 20 year old females who have had 10+ other partners before.
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>>18100299
I feel that it might make me see what's worth while in this world.
I'll never know until I experience it.
You've got to want to succeed.
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How do you have fun and adventures in ypur 20s? Im not talking about taking a trip to thailand with your buddies, Im talking about crazy unforgettable experiences youll remember forever
I want to make the most of whats left of my 20s and not have regrets
>inb4 have lots of sex
I dont enjoy it
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risk taking criminal behaviour
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>I don't enjoy sex
Well get an WoW account then you faggot, because the only adventures you're living are virtual
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlakRSYzMWs
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When to get physical?
I went on a date last weekend with this girl, we got coffee. We're supposed to go out again today and I'm wondering when I should start getting physical with her. Should I hug her when I see her? Should I try to kiss her afterwards if the date went well? Please advise.
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>>18099689
Do what feels right. Watch for clues from her. It's not the same amount of time for every person. Pay attention.
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It depends completely on how the date went. If you spent the whole night laughing, interjecting each other, having inside jokes, and flirting, then sex or at least a steamy make out session is not weird afterwards.
If you just made polite small talk and there is no indication that you feel more than lukewarm about each other at surface level, going in for a forced kiss because you feel that needs to happen after the first date is just awkward.
You can typically also tell when she straight up wants a kiss. Making excuses to delay the last moments together, prolonged eye contact, her being flustererd or fidgeting, weird long silences that are not uncomfortable etc.
I would absolutely greet her with a hug or a kiss on the cheek next time, though, depending on which one is more common/normal where you live.
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>>18099689
I'd like a short hug and smile upon greeting.
If the second date allows it and it feels right, maybe some hand holding when you walk.
Hug at the end and see if the body language is right for a kiss.
Since people don't really say they want to kiss, you have to read the body language.
My first kiss with my bf was a little awkward, but we survived it. It was after a hug and we just held on a little longer for a kiss. It was wanted by both of us, execution is just strange in the beginning which is normal.
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Is it unrealistic to want to lose my virginity with a virgin?
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>>18099652
No, but it's necessarily going to reduce your chances. Any additional factor or checked box you need will do that. That's the balancing act of standards vs success rate.
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That depends on your other standards. If you find this so important that you give it top priority, and are at least average in what you have to offer, it should work.
If you want a girl who's slender, pretty, sweet, dynamite in bed, intelligent, entertaining to talk to, into you and a virgin who's level-headed and not wanting to wait until marriage... good luck, even if you were a male model that would be a lot to be on the look out for.
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Are you a guy or a girl?
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>tfw i have 3 different fuckbuddies at the moment and get fucked by approx. 1 a week
Am... am I a slut? And is there anything wrong with that?
For context, I am an 18 year old gay male.
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>>18099551
youre going to get AIDS
tip: just because the media tells you something is okay does not mean in reality it's okay.
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No, that's normal for faggots.
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Yes. What the fuck.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, that guy who says monogamy is dead and fart guy
Fuck off
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To the women. What do you offer us men in terms of an LTR, that I can't get elsewhere with far less hassle whilst maintaining my freedom?
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>>18098976
Companionship, support, love, intimacy, affection, intellectual and emotional connection, exclusivity, loyalty.
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>>18098983
>[citations needed]
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Do Autistic people get less severe sentences for crimes like stalking?
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Warum?
Vat did you dwew?
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not if its self diagnosed autism
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>>18098524
>>18098542
A lawyer I know said that someone who was getting a big drug charge got it down because they had ADD
I was just wondering if it applied to me
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Hard time getting aroused
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Recently hooked up with a girl (I'm 20 and a virgin) and when the time for me to preform came I just wasn't aroused. So instead we just cuddled for a couple hours instead (she was only wearing panties) and I didn't get aroused that whole time.
What could be the problem here. Do I have erectile dysfunction? Low T? I don't masturbate btw and neither do I watch porn, and I'm in perfect health
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>>18098506
you need foreplay you dip
need some of that becky
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>>18098510
No I mean it was after the foreplay. I we made out and I did the thing with the bra and touched her tits. Then she went to unzip my jeans and my dick just wasn't hard.
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>>18098519
Wow you say it like you were exchanging compulsory pleasantries
If your dick didn't get hard, it wasn't foreplay. That's the purpose of foreplay... getting your dick hard and her snatch wet
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I don't find any of these girls attractive and I would only have sex with the one on the right. Is there something wrong with me or is this totally logical and okay?
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there's something wrong with you. go see a doctor immediately.
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>>18098286
Tell me more please.
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>>18098279
No, the chick to the far right is better looking than the rest. Not by much but I see it too.