So me and my female friend used to talk a lot, text a lot, and hangout often. We were basically friends with benefits. We told each other about our day, shared each other issues and all of that. Over the summer i had an operation on my leg. After that I texted her to see how things were going. She said her usual stuff and said she'll come visit. She never did. I thought maybe she's just busy. Later on I got out and it was her birthday in a few weeks. We'd usually just go out to some restaurant for her birthday. So I made some reservations, called her, no answer, tried three times later that day and no response. I texted her no response. Even in classes she doesn't say hi or anything like she used to. I don't know what happened. Or what i did wrong. I didn't treat her bad, it treated her like a princess. I treated her good and everything. I love her and still do. I was on the verge of asking her out on an "official date" later. It seemed evident that something could happen. Earlier in the year, my parents got divorced and my sister died from cancer. I felt the need to press on and could because of her support. But when this happened, I just felt everything started just falling apart. Grades started to drop, motivation was down, social life was starting to dissolve. I just felt there would be no purpose. Some nights id just lay in bed wanting to just end it all. I don't what to do. Too much has happened in one year for me. And I've just been having thoughts and have been just depressed. I've tried constantly to rebuild and to keep ok going. But I just keep thinking about her and everyone else. I just need help getting everything back together. Or finding something to occupy me.
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>>18109656
Usually when girls disappear, it's because they found a new guy to be with. Trust me on this, recently happened to me and left me devastated for a bit as well. There's not much you can if even over text you don't get a single word answer. Sometimes people need space or time to figure out their own problems, but not even responding to you at all when you were developing a close bond, typically means that the girl has found a new dude. Send her a text saying how much you care about her and ask if she's pushing you away because she found someone else. See what she says.
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Sorry, but she found a new guy.
You gotta bail out of this.
Get your shit together and move on.
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>>18109667
I've tried to see what's wrong, I've sent a couple texts with no response. She isn't with a guy, or the school would know. What did you do to get through this?
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Pressures of getting into med school
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I have a 4.0 GPA and will sit the MCAT this year. I've worked so hard for the 4.0 GPA and other things needed for med school that all I need to do is get a good MCAT score. I really want an Ivy League med school so the only thing holding me back is getting a good MCAT score. I've been studying for the MCAT since 5 months ago. Lately I've felt so much anxiety and a shitty state of mind because the stress/pressure of it all.
Is it normal to feel so stressed/anxious/down in times like this? I remember reading med students are far more likely to suffer various mental illnesses during their studies.
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>>18109651
Not much advice, but I can sort of sympathize. I'm a pre-law student about to enter the LSAT prep phase, so our situations are somewhat similar, if mine more mild. Good luck to you is all I can say, I suppose.
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>>18109771
Thank you! Best of luck to you to
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>>18109651
Yes, it's completely normal.
What helped me is finding an activity to unwind - I go swimming and meditate.
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How do I find the happy medium between being too reserved and being creepy?
>be me, freshman in college
>join a fraternity for the parties
>I occasionally have to stay sober at parties
>while sober, if I make eye contact, I quickly look away
>mostly out of fear of looking creepy
>rarely ever talk to girls while sober
>while drunk, I'll still be anxious but will talk to girls that are close to me
>say a lot of dumb, uninteresting stuff, slur my words in extreme cases
>most girls who aren't equally drunk are turned off so I fuck off
I've had some success when I find that perfect level of intoxication but it's difficult to get there and stay there.
What do?
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>>18109643
What fraternity let a pussy like you pledge?
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You, my friend, are a fag!
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>>18109660
Some brothers have said the same thing.
>>18109663
So help me senpai
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I have never tried to have a prostate orgasm but would really like to, I sadly don't own anything that could really take place of a dick, any advice on how I can achieve one?
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It's very, very hard without a specialty vibrator.
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>>18109671
But still possible without right?
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>>18109673
It's different for everyone. Start doing kegels, find a good lube, and just start going at it with a finger every so often. You might get there, you might not. Personally I never have.
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i'm 23 and i'm a relatively normal guy but i've never had a girlfriend.
i just came back from a trip with a bunch of people from work and i'm stuck here thinking i really screwed up.
there's a girl I work with who's the same age I am. we both like each other (as friends) genuinely and up to this point it was just that. On the trip I got hammered, she got hammered and I really came onto her. I was leaning on her and caressing her hips and rubbing my face on her cheek (i was completely gone and pretty much uninhibited). I would have gone for a kiss but I felt like she wasn't ready yet, she did caress me back but kept saying I was drunk and laughed it off.
Now I'm back and I felt bad because I thought I kinda creeped out on this girl who was my friend because I was drunk and couldn't control myself. I told her I was sorry for being a mess and she said it was ok and laughed it off, but I feel like there's something weird in our friendship now.
I wonder if I'm completely overthinking this because I was just lonely and I found someone who's genuinely a cool person and I might have ruined our friendship, or I can make this up somehow.
I don't even know, I'm just kind of thinking out loud on an anonymous board because I can't talk to my friends about this (they're not very experienced either)
I really do like her as a friend and I've always thought of her as the funny sibling i never had, but after this trip I find her attractive.. it's very strange and I actually kind of wish it never happened because I love being friends with her and now I can't look at her without thinking about her the other way..
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Ask her out
Unless this is a career job
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>>18109589
It is somewhere I want to stay for a while..
if I ask her out and she says no.. it'll be disastrous which is why I can't do anything right now.
i honestly just wish i could go back to how it was before and just see her as a friend but I just can't stop
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You my friend, are a fag!
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Why does alcohol make the pain go away?
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for a little bit, but it comes back full force after wards
so not worth
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>>18109601
It only comes back if you stop drinking
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>>18109628
Eventually you won't be able to drink enough to get drunk. When the alcohol stops working you will be irreversibly fucked. Beyond salvation. Even if you come out if the addiction it will be like coming out of a dream where half your life just passed you over.
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How to cope with loneliness? I have no friends to talk to after school. What do I do? Can social media sites cope with it.
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>>18109548
I'll talk with you, what you wanna talk about?
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>>18109548
Join an online community having something to do with one of your interests, 4chan is a good example.
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>>18109548
do wat i do and get in ur car at around 2am and drive around town swirvin
cops will pull u over thinkin ur drunk but ur actually sober. i do this to talk when really lonely cause i am foreign and have no family here is good method
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I forgot my lockscreen password, how can I bypass the lockscreen on android?
I tried using android sdk, but my phone won't show up under adb devices, since I most likely don't have usb debug switched on.
How can I still enter my phone without a hardreset?
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Ask the CIA what your password is.
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Give it back tyrone
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You can have it reset by using the gmail account it's connected to. You haven't forgotten that password, right?
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I think I'm addicted to porn, what should I do?
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>>18109476
Slowly cut yourself off how much are you watching it? Is it daily, hourly? We need details
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>>18109481
1-2 times a day. Maybe 30-45 minutes
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>>18109492
That's not even that bad that's normal at most. If you honestly feel addicted though cut your self to every other day, then from every other day to every two days just repeat that process and build it on up. That's what I did and I was able to fit in atleast a month, though going that extreme can mess with you it did for me in some cases
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Anyone else get violent fantasies? Like today some bitch stepped on my shoe on the train and I spent the whole train ride fantasizing about hitting her over the head with a pipe iron and smiling/shivering about it. How fucked up am I adv
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that's a very personal thing to say. Even anonymously.
keep it to yourself.
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>>18109461
you must be new to new york. dont expect your leather shoes to stay clean on the train.
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>>18109461
It's pretty normal in today's fucked up, hermetically sealed world, I think we've all had violent thoughts at one point or another
But you shouldn't indulge in them. Unless you want to go to prison. Which is up to you.
Find an outlet for your aggression and energy. Play a sport. Play an instrument. Play video games. Whatever you gotta do.
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how do you stop imagining suicide on train tracks if you take the subway everyday? i know japanese people have a huge problem with this too, they've even have locked doors on train tracks until the train comes.
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>>18109455
I think the same thing
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>>18109455
I imagine this everyday but I live in NYC and the train delays are already a pain in the ass, even worse when someone jumps onto the tracks. I just tell myself that I don't wanna be that asshole that gets everybody to work/school late and traumatizes everyone who saw me jump, and of course the train conductor who'll probably get huge feelings of guilt.
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>>18109460
this isnt family guy, we're not forming a suicide group.
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>one day gf is virtually begging for more attention despite talking for hours that day, starting fights about it
>another day she pretty much ignores me all day, generally acts like she doesn't want to talk at all
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Well, that ain't gonna last too long.
Here, have some whiskey and break up with her.
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>>18109454
Some people have bad days anon. Most people can't say "I'm having a bad day" and instead act out. I would suggest talking to her and explain your concerns.
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>>18109454
Starting fights about what? She's arguing about how she needs attention?
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How the fuck do I pass this shit test
"I'm not that kind of girl"
It stonewalls me every time and I just turn into some autist sharing a bed with a girl with no sex and lame kissing. I'm good enough to get them in bed but I often get the "i'm not that type of girl"
How to pass this master shit test?
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Set a mood for it.
Do some risky maneuvers, but don't force it too much.
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>>18109456
I'm talking about during the risky maneuvers a girl will say this. Some girls will even suck dick, but won't have sex.
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Honestly, if people are playing "shit tests" on you, there's no reason to stick around. The fuck is wrong with you if you are so thirsty for sex you will let people literally manipulate you like this.
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I don't have a personality. What do?
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>>18109433
you do. you just compare it to others perceived personalities and it upsets you because you think other people like them more.
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>>18109444
I guess you're right, but it'd be nice if most people didn't find me boring.
Thanks anon.
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>>18109469
this may sound tumblry, but i think its true.
generally the most boring seeming people are the most interesting. someones generally considered boring for not sharing the majority's interests, which means theirs are more unique and niche, which is by definition more interesting.
you look at people who are 'basic bros' and think they're 'interesting' just because they are popular.
big difference.
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I was a nerd beta growing up, but as luck would have it I'm just a late bloomer and now I'm tall and physically attractive but still a pussy on the inside
Women are initially drawn to me but they are repulsed when they realize I'm not Chad.
I've been taking my fury out by yelling at the girls I date to get them to cry. If they pull some shit like "it's not you it's me" or "I don't know what I want" I know I lost so I just let it all go cause I have nothing to lose. My first instinct is to slap the shit out of a woman but I don't want to go to jail so I call them miserable cunts, tell them to kill themselves and just yell at them instead and it seems to do the trick in hurting their self-esteem.
Will I have legal repercussions if I verbally destroy a girl who uses me?
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yelling at someone is further proof you're still childish.
control your emotions.
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>>18109429
There's no reward for being "mature" in those situations, she's gonna leave anyways might as well lash out
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>>18109437
You keep thinking like that and nobody will take you seriously.
They'll still think you're the same "immature nerd beta", using your own words.
Get a grip. Control yourself. It's just a lady saying no. Forget about her. Move onto the next one.