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Is there any safe way to detect a cheater?. I've just watched a video about a girl doing a blowjob while speaking with her boyfriend on the phone she was saying things like
"i'm on the streets, i'm going home now"
"I want to make love you"
"It's not me the one who flirt with your friends, it's your friends that flirt with me"
while she was literally giving a blowjob to another dude in an expensive hotel room
I don't know what to think anymore. My relationship has turned LDR, and now i will freak out everytime i speak with my gf on the phone. She could be literally sucking someone else's dick while saying all this stuff. I mean how can women be so fucking void of any feeling of guilt?. How can you notice the difference between a real "i love you" and a fake one that they say while fucking another guy on the side
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>>18314261
link the video, for research purposes
and in general, if they seem distant and closed off from you
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>>18314261
Those are cuck videos, made for cuckolds.
Don't worry about it OP, *most* people are decent and wouldn't pull blatantly cold hearted, assholish things like that. And if they were that kind of person, you'd see the signs early on.
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>>18314261
>watching cuck porn
>going all crazy over cheating
Solid bait.
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I don't like living anymore.
Is it still suicide if I asked someone to kill me?
I am too afraid to kill myself because I fear God too much. If I go through with it, I will be stabbed in the heart. Will I go to hell still?
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It's called assisted suicide. And the person who killed you would be convicted of murder if you don't live in a country where it is legal AND get it done legally, which is not that easy.
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>>18313999
He will not be caught. My only worry is my afterlife.
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Just live through it man. Save money, travel, do something wild. Life has its ups and downs. It can suck, but it can also be beautiful. Live long enough to see it all through. You've only got one life anyways, might as well see how much you can do with it if you really don't care.
Girl who I liked and asked out rejected me. However she is currently trying to get info about the hiring process of my company. My company is really prestigious, and I worked my butt off to get an internship and eventually full time there. I honestly don't want her to work there, I just left her text message unanswered. I also graduated yesterday and I will probably never see her again. Right call? Shes not my gf or fwb, so I see no point of giving her valuable information.
Cindy if you're seeing this, fuck off, I don't want you to work here. If you ever get hired here I will make sure I pile a shit load of work onto you and get you coached out.
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You're under no obligation to help her get a job. Cut contact and all that, fine whatever.
But to actively try and sabotage her job if she manages to get a position there is a massive dick move. Not only does it make you look like a massive fucktard, you also look like a whiny faggot bitch who can't get over a girl rejecting him.
But then from your post you do sound like a massive whiny faggot bitch so do whatever.
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>>18313778
I'll be in a higher title than her and I could give zero fucks desu. I just don't want her to be working in the same company as me.
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>>18313787
>I just don't want her to be working in the same company as me.
Thats not your call, your employer gets to make that decision. What you can decide on is if your going to be a grown up and get over it or be a spiteful child and throw a hissy fit.
hey /adv/
I'm having a massive identity crisis.
few stats before I lay my question out.
>24
>Male
>USA
>Brown Person
>Portland, Oregon
>Chilean National
>University student at PSU
I'm having second thoughts of living in america;
my family and me migrated here when I was 14 years old, with me, my brother and mom and dad from Puerto Montt, Chile.
Ever since the first day, I've always felt out of place, Like I didn't belong here, you know that feeling you get when you are a guest in someone's home. That feeling, I never really liked that feeling, and for a the first year, learning English, I thought it would go away when I became familiar with this country.
but 10 years later that never happened. I feel the same from the first day, I've made no friends in the past 10 years, my English still is not very good . and I get called wetback even though I'm not Mexican and I have legal residency here in the US.
3 months ago, I got to go back to Chile and visit my family and honestly, it was like what I would imagine a fish being put back into the water it came from.
all this time, I've felt rejected by american's and american culture.
I've felt hated and I've come to realize that this country will never accept me for who I am. This country and the foundation it is built on, is not built for people of color.
this whole last year has only proved my theories right.
I honestly want to break it to my mom and dad that I want to finish my degree and go back home.
I don't know how they will take it, but I can imagine that they will take it very hard.
I honestly, just feel wrong here. like I'm trespassing in this country. I've felt like this from the first time I came here.
I don't feel like myself here. I have no friends here because of my English and all I do is go to school and come home and play Starcraft and sometimes come on here and practice my english with people.
I just can't pretend anymore that I'm an american when I'm not white.
how do I tell my parents this?
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sorry for my english.
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>>18313694
>I've made no friends in the past 10 years, my English still is not very good.
Nigga, what the fuck? 10 years is enough time for both, so it's purely your own failing. How did you managed not to improve your English massively despite being surrounded by it? 4 years in HS alone should've done the job.
>visit my family and honestly, it was like what I would imagine a fish being put back into the water it came from
Because family. Why do you think actually living and working in Chile will be any easier? You lived enough in Murica for it to have an impact on you even if you don't realize it right way.
>This country and the foundation it is built on, is not built for people of color.
Not initially no but at this point it's pretty brown already and will get more brown in the future. Sounds like you pay too much attention to couple racist idiots and your own dislike for it. You don't have to be white to be American.
>I don't know how they will take it, but I can imagine that they will take it very hard.
In the end it's your future so their opinion on it shouldn't matter too much. Now whether it's worth moving to a country with much worse economic opportunities and because you think you'll fit in better there, eh, wouldn't say so. Overall Murica is pretty shitty compared to other first world countries but switching to a 3rd world one seems like a knee jerk overreaction.
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>>18313694
Do you live over by PSU? Because Portland is already a white city, and you're in the whitest part of town. My story isn't exactly like yours, but I'm a brown person also living in Portland, OR. My family emigrated from Mexico when I was eight, and I moved out and moved to Portland in my late 20s.
I think you're far more likely to have a decent, successful life in America than in Chile, but it's ultimately your call whether or not you want to stay in the States. For the time being, though, get the fuck out of west Portland. Move to the other side of the river.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Thanks for the new thread. Gonna ask again.
Girls, what's the deal with always chasing me each time I reject you? Just a while ago a girl I've been super cold to contacted me again. And I am cold towards her because she outright wanted to keep me at an arm's length.
What happened is that she was like "why are you telling me your stuff so early on?" even when we were growing to confide on each other, and she told me "dude take it slow". I couldn't handle her speed and I had already trusted my stuff to her, so she had with me (yes she did tell me stuff she doesn't tell anyone else with ease). I couldn't handle her proposal and I just outright refused to be close to her anymore. She has been wanting to approach since. And it's been a few months.
By the way, something similar happens with most girls I've had something romantic going on. Like my ex, who tried contacting me some weeks ago despite us having broken up like two years ago, and after she said really hurtful things about how she wanted some other kind of guy. Or some other girls who rejected me in one way or another but keep trying to contact me while I give them the cold shoulder.
Seriously what the fuck is going on? This is outright infuriating.
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Girls:
Will you be my friend?
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>girl doesn't like raw fish
>I do
;_;
Can we be a good couple?
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Girlfriend of 3 years was sexually abused as a child. For the past year and a half she has been having triggers (possibly because of birth control?). As a result, sex life has diminished from once-twice a day to once every 3-4 weeks.
It really pains me and I want her to get help. I finally got her to get some mental health counseling and I'm proud of her for that. She starts it next week.
I have been feeling depressed and unloved. I look at couples my age (early 20s) and see that a lot of them love each other and kiss each other in public and hold hands etc. My girlfriend, if we're in public and around our peers, even strangers, she just kind of shuts down. She's really against PDA and feels really awkward.
This has nothing to do with her not wanting people to know she has a boyfriend or something. She introduces me as her boyfriend and is generally very public about it. She just has issues with PDA.
Other than that, is sex. I fucking hate that we haven't been having sex as much. I'm INSANELY high libido. I could go for 2-3 times a day 7 days a week. I've legit been masturbating up to 4 times a day because of how sexually frustrated I've been.
Anytime I talk to her about it just to vent is met with her crying and saying that I attempt to make her feel bad on purpose because she's been sexually assaulted and that because I know that she's been sexually assaulted that I shouldn't bring up sexual frustrations/PDA/ or any issues of that matter.
What the fuck do I do /adv/?
I love this girl but sex is minimal and no affection is shown to me in public makes me feel rejected as fuck. Sometimes I get scared of kissing her on the cheek because i'll get rejected by my own fucking girlfriend in public.
Yesterday we were going to a concert and she was getting ready in a room of people. She looked hot as fuck so I wanted to just hug her/compliment her and she didn't want me to touch her to not fuck up her makeup.
I'm tired of this shit. She doesn't validate me enough.
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Hey man, if you relly "love" this girl, sex wont matter to you as much. Id advise you to think about how difficult life would be living with sexual abuse. I dobt really have and personal experience butbi know what love is and this isnt it. Move on.
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>>18313225
Can you be even more ME ME ME?
If you value getting your dick wet over her mental well being, just find another girl.
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And I ugly? Be blunt
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Nah, I'd say you're average. You do look really young though, and a bit awkward. You probably just haven't come into your own yet.
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>>18313150
Yeah I just turned 18
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No, and stop looking pathetic. Look more confident and smile more. That will go a long way.
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I want to become vegan. I don't give a fuck what other people do/eat, but for my own reasons I want to follow this lifestyle.
That said, I'm pretty social, and don't want to come off as a pretentious asshole at events where food is involved. Is it possible to politely refuse a certain type of food without sounding like a douchebag? Should I just lie and say I have certain food allergies?
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There's nothing pretentious about "I'm vegan" as long as you're not preachy or holier-than-thou
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>>18313022
And there's like 1 out of 5 vegans who aren't pretentious... Lots of people don't realize how insufferable they are.
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>>18313034
I have vegan friends. I have no problem with how they act, and, as someone who likes to cook, it challenges me when I cook for them.
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A few days after taking this, the uti didn't get better and I got a flu and my fever still isn't gone, my minds all messed up and now its itchy and burns everyday and is worse.
Before this I took antibiotics and it didn't work.
I use to take vitamin c powder all the time but stopped and I think I got an e coli infection from not taking the vitamin c powder and I ate dirt without realizing.
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Holy shit, you REALLY REALLY NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR. You might be close to the emergency room if you don't. Hell, you might be close if you do, and close to death if you don't.
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Go see a doctor immediately. The infection could be in your bladder, or even your kidneys. Cranberry will not fix it. Vitamin C will not fix you.
You. Need. A. Doctor. Now. Before your kidneys get infected and fail and you either die or are on dialysis for the rest of your life.
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>>18312880
What the heck? Dude, GO TO A DOCTOR! What are u doing here? U may die if u dont...
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How can I kill myself & make it look like an accident? 2017-05-13 11:37:37 Post No.18312817
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How can I kill myself & make it look like an accident?
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Sorry for the gloom /adv/ but I'm in search of ideas. Not too sure about it yet, but I figured it's one way to go without hurting my family & friends too much. Don't worry, you won't be responsible about my death, cause I always chicken out at the last moment.
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Pussy, not even able to kill yourself with honor, you'll be forgotten for being weak.If you want to kill yourself, that's one sec of pain, be more ambitious and kill the whole planet with you.Dying is easy, living a life following your guts is way harder
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>>18312840
I'm neither Japanese nor Italian. Sorry but suicide isn't highly regarded where I live. While I wish I could thrust a sword in my bosom or slit my wrists open in a hot bath thub like Charlie Five-Angels I am in no situation to do so anon
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>>18312843
How stupid it is to still fear living culture after death
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What is the most profound thing about life you've realized or learned?
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Meditation or hookers will fix any problem life can throw at you.
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>qt bank teller
>she seems to like me
>finally work up the balls to ask her for her number
>she blushes like fuck and gives it.
>every indication she is interested in me
>pic related
>no response
D-did I fuck up?
If so, how?
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>>18312581
Should have just left it at the first message. No one says "sup" besides middle schoolers. Anyway, its only been about an hour and a half. Chill out dude she might just be busy.
to answer your question your second message was retarded but not enough to fuck up if you saw she liked you
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>>18312581
Advice to take for life: Just because you are rejected doesn't mean you fucked up. I mean, you haven't even been rejected yet, but I'm sure other Anons will repeat you that for a couple hours, so I'l move to the next step.
Even if she never replies, don't take it so personally, ok? Sometimes people have their own shit to deal with and change their mind.
But for Christ sake, don't de so jumpy and give her a couple hours to reply, dude. She might be in a swimming pool and left her phone on the locker room, for al you know. Chill.
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>>18312603
I texted like 45 mins after her shift ended.
But yeah I should patient
I just get panic of die alone because I clearly have no game
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How do you buy condoms? Where is the best place to buy them (pharmacy, convenience store, etc.)? How do you know which type to buy?
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>>18312324
t. 16-year old/virgin
Just go to the pharmacy or even a grocery store and buy a pack
Most people wear medium/normal size, if you're 7"+ or really thick get a large
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If you in the US, just get the cheapest pack from Walmart.
They all equally suck for the man. The only thing to watch out for is allergies.
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>>18312339
Stupid question, but how do I act when I get to the cashier. Especially if it's all I'm buying.
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I've just inherited almost $200,000.
My father killed himself when I was 4 years old and left everything he had in my name. I came of age a few years ago but only recently got everything finalized and transferred.
I know while it's a decent amount I can't go crazy with it. My only plans with it so far are to use it for my final year of school and maybe a down payment on a house later on. I also quit my job awhile ago because I knew his was happening so I could focus on school so I'll be using it for rent, and food.
A lot of it is in term deposits as well to build some interest.
Anybody have advice on what I could do with some of it? Is it good to think about investing? Who do I talk to about that stuff? My bank? A broker?
I also don't know whether to tell my girlfriend about it. I've told her that I'd never get married without signing a prenup, and she's completely against it. I haven't told her that I inherited this. She may understand more if I told her, but I'm also fearful she'll stay in the relationship just because of the money.
Tldr, I inherited a lot of Monday. What do I do?
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>>18312271
>I inherited a lot of Monday.
OH SWEET JESUS NO
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>Qutting your job over 200K
Stupid move. You should keep it so all your daily expenses are covered, and only use it if you absolutely need to
Go consult a professional financial advisor or at least post this on /biz/. You should save some of it and invest the rest.
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Buy a house. Preferably all at once.
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How being cheated on in a past relationship affects your future relationships?
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You'll be smarter next time and learn the signs. Every bad experience comes with a lesson.
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>>18312146
you will be more careful who you date
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From experience:
>After being cheated on, went on an online dating spree. >Fucked few different girls.
>Finally found one i liked very much
>mfw 6 months into relationship i start seeing signs
>she is really into a married guy friend
>tell her about what i see
>She denies it
>decide to believe her because dont want to extrapolate being cheated upon into this relationship
>Keep seeing more signs for the next 6 months
>Break up with her
>7 months past breakup, finally feeling better