Do you think I should give up on getting a black gf?
I thought these racial tensions were an American thing, but after the incident with the black tranny getting fired for being a racist it seems like Europe is getting sucked in as well and the racial division seems to be greater than ever.
>>18681569
finally nobody responds. apologies for breaking that streak
>>18681570
Thread was made less than two hours ago, there's still time.
>>18681569
Dear op, lack of replies is also a reply. You simply provided no information whatsoever. Your thread is stupid and even as a bait is weak.
When I sit at home, I envision myself approaching girls and its all good. I know I can approach, I know what to talk about with them, I filmed myself so I know how I appear and I am satisfied with it.
I know they are humans just like me and would enjoy a random interaction, with such a handsome and intelligent bloke as me.
But when it comes to actually doing it, I just... sort of dont do it in the end. I know myself so I dont lack confidence.
How to kill this one little obstacle that leads to inaction?
>>18681432
It is called going outside from your comfort zone. Normies use alcohol.
>>18681432
I kind of know how you feel. I'm probably not quite as confident as you are yet, but I find myself in situations where I have a good opportunity to approach someone and simply choose not to. For me, it's because I begin thinking about how the interaction will play out and decide that it's simply not worth the effort. I think the solution is not to think about it and just do it.
When you see someone and feel like you might want to approach them, just go for it right away. Don't give yourself the time to think about what might happen. As soon as the idea of approaching someone comes to your mind, juat go for it right away.
Not sure if this is the advice you're looking for, but it's the best I've got. I hope it helps.
>>18681432
Convinced at this point that the random casual approach is a myth.
there are specific contexts in which the social rules change, ex. bars, concerts.
Most relationships seem to start from shared social circles. It's hard enough as a male to even get anywhere from a warm start like online dating.
I do have friends who have made this work somehow, one of my buddy is in a 3 year relationship with a girl he met in line at a taqueria. Another buddy is pretty successful with getting numbers while talking to customers at work. I've had it work once, with just bumping into a girl outside a concert smoking a cigarette and later texting/banging.
It can work, but prepare yourself for an overwhelmingly high rejection rate.
So I moved into a new house that my friend recommended, and I don't like what I'm seeing. The bathroom is filled with spiderwebs, the house owner is not here and the only one here is an old lady that don't speak English. She doesn't even know what the wifi password is. I didn't sign any lease, so should I leave the place or just clean it up?
If you didn't sign anything you're not tied to anything. Be free, and tell your friend his taste is shit.
>>18681339
Alright, I just hope that he doesn't get mad or anything
How do i fix my hecking sleep schedual? I fall asleep at 6am and wake at 4pm
>>18681189
Stay awake until afternoon and sleep then
>>18681189
Get a job. That forces you to get up in the morning otherwise you lose your job.
Which Instagram/other is this from?
I tried to find it with Reverse Image Search but the big monkey face means it doesn't work.
Thanks everyone.
>>18681127
>ask them to write something really specific, preferably someplace specific on their body
>force them to video chat with you
>literally never get catfished
It's 2017, how does this even still happen?
Thanks, but I meant... I wanna have a "gotcha!" moment, showing that the pic is from the Web.
Google Reverse Image Search doesn't work, but this is obviously from somewhere.
I kindly request that someone with superior skill to my own, returns with a startling and dramatic result.
Thank you.
>>18681209
Jesus Christ don't be a retard just ask them for what >>18681131 said, this isn't hard
> met this chick online
> hot, funny and (suprisingly) not fake...
> we start talking on kik, then facebook
> we definitely like eachother a lot
> mfw she is in another country
we're just talking right now, but shes unlike anyone ive met in person which is why im so pissed. i can afford to fly to see her as often as i need but i dont know, am i kidding myself?? if money wasn't an object, what would you do /adv/? ive never felt this way about any girl before, even girlfriends...
I would consider an actual LDR only if I met her at least once, for a long period of time at that one meeting.
Later on, if it holds more than half a year with more than 3 meetings, I'd seriously consider going "official". Later on, after a year or two (or after finishing studying whatever I'm studying) moving to her (or the opposite, if possible. Depends on you.)
But generally, I wouldn't recommend LDR AT ALL. Only sexting ldr works. Not actual romantic relationship.
>>18681101
how long have you been talking?
>>18681168
Few weeks now
>>18681153
Yeah i was thinking something along the same lines. an aunty of mine has a fiance in new zealand and she is in australia and they alternate seeing eachother every second weekend.
Would it be sensical to buy a cheap laptop off eBay because I need my hard drive contents and a new laptop anyway
I found a cheap one that has no os on it can I just put my hard drive in that and it'll run?
>>18681077
All I need need is it to run an old version of fl studio
>>18681077
No, when your laptop was initally set up it also installed drivers specific to your hardware. You can just pull the hard disk out and use it as an external drive with a cheap enclosure. Reinstall your software on your new computer and you're good to go.
>>18681094
So buying a converter to make the hard drive connect to USB on a working laptop is the only way?
Give me a good reason not to buy my buddy the $400.00 scanner he's had his eye on
The cost isn't something that would cripple me, and I want to do something nice for the guy, but I worry that I'm being irresponsible.
is he really that good of a friend? are you seeking his approval?
because you're asking anonymous people on the internet for reasons not to rather than just doing it
Get it for his birthday so you don't seem creepy
I'm in a deliema.
I'm planning to run away from home. I'm fucking sick of the society (I live in Saudi Arabia), I'm tired of dealing with my family. I hate not being able to be myself and being called weird constantly. I don't want to continue getting harassed by religious police every time I leave the house because I have dreads. I have a plathora of reasons.
The one thing that's really stopping me is that I'm probably the only thing keeping my family together, and if I leave I'm afraid my father will blame it on my mother and beat her or something similar. The only person I feel bad for is her and maybe I could stay until she moves to Canada by the end of the year, but I feel like if I stay in this household or country for one more month I'm going to try and kill my self again. So wat do?
>>18681014
I don't know, with that kind of slang
>>18681014
a year is not really a long time. go to Canada with your mother.
>>18681024
I'm not going with her regardless if just stay to make sure she leaves safely with my little brother.
I haven't slept all night and now I'm experiencing a tremendous amount of fear and uncertainty. Is this normal?
>>18680983
you can not sleep for 3 days before you'll start hallucinating. I recommend getting some shuteye before that starts happening.
>>18680983
Yes, it's normal. Get some benedril and go to bed.
>>18680983
yes when i do this i freak out about my future. just sleep and eat some good food
and later "sleep on my house", feeling anxiety because i don't know how to dance
She wants to go because she don't wanna let down her friends, and later came over to my house, the first thing i wanna do is kiss her but i'm nervous as fuck because i'm not good kissing.
Edit: she already said on texts that she really likes me, and so many things, but i have the fear of not acting alpha enough and ruin the "date".
Have you been yourself while texting? If you have just keep doing that, she likes you the way you are. No need to "act alpha".
>>18680966
you're 99% not bad at kissing, just place your lips on her lips and copy her, that easy. and shi better prepare your roof for her arrival on your house.
>>18681277
and btw this guy is right ^
i feel like everything sucks right now. how do i start to feel better? im at a really shit college (im doing a program where ill auto-transfer out to an amazing university in june), but for the time being, i feel so isolated. i talked to this girl for a while and had a streak with her on snap, and i invited her out to lunch, but she couldnt and she hasnt talked to me since or want to rearrange. so fuck me, right? i also saw on my friends social media hes hanging out with this chick that i was super infatuated with over the summer, and i know hes probably banging her so as soon as i thought i was over it, i kept pulled back in. i really just feel down, things just suck right now. i really hope they pick up. im just writng this to vent mainly.
also, i shower twice a day, shave, use deoderant/anti-perspirant, and i dress nice and try to carry myself. i started working out slowly, but i still feel down. ive also been treating my face with moisturizor and trying to drink a lot of water. girls have always called me cute, and im not a complete social retard, im funny and extroverted, but i am shy to start with and i do have some anxiety. are these just the motions of life? im in uni currently. any advice on how to pick myself out of this rut? im thinking only time can really help.
>>18680970
>im thinking only time will help
yup. sounds like you got some prospects for yourself there bud so just keep doing what you're doing.
>>18680980
thanks. ima try to fix my sleeping schedule and eat a bit more healthy and not beat my fucking beat all the time.
i want to fuck my long-time friend's girlfriend and i think she is into me, she's been messaging me on facebook literally all day for 2 days and keeps asking provocative questions what do?
>>18680948
dont shit where you eat. youre going to lose a friend for a hoe
>>18681002
this. I jus Lost a best"friend" of 16 years from this.
>>18680948
She's leading you on,
and you're accepting it because you want something that isn't yours.
Take a step back and really ask yourself why you want to fuck this girl.
how could borderlines and autists take the advice of be yourself
>>18680903
Don't, be yourself is shit advice. I mean the sentiment is correct, but its a really bad way of delivering that message.
You can understand it in the sense of be the best version of yourself. Work on your issues, but don't remove the things that aren't causing aby problems.
>>18680903
>>18680906
I disagree with this guy. think about the people you like, do they seem fake to you or genuine? Would you say that they should be any different then they are for someone elses sake?
Okay.
Why the fuck is life so hard? I'm only 20 and feel like I'm on hard mode. I'm supposed to either get good grades or fuck anything that moves. I can't do neither.
lol if you think that is hard. It's just gonna get even harder, boy.
>>18680846
*growling through teeth*
JUST BEE YOURSELF
>>18680846
Because you are stupid frog poster.