When I sit at home, I envision myself approaching girls and its

>>18681432
It is called going outside from your comfort zone. Normies use alcohol.

>>18681432
I kind of know how you feel. I'm probably not quite as confident as you are yet, but I find myself in situations where I have a good opportunity to approach someone and simply choose not to. For me, it's because I begin thinking about how the interaction will play out and decide that it's simply not worth the effort. I think the solution is not to think about it and just do it.

When you see someone and feel like you might want to approach them, just go for it right away. Don't give yourself the time to think about what might happen. As soon as the idea of approaching someone comes to your mind, juat go for it right away.

Not sure if this is the advice you're looking for, but it's the best I've got. I hope it helps.

>>18681432
Convinced at this point that the random casual approach is a myth.

there are specific contexts in which the social rules change, ex. bars, concerts.

Most relationships seem to start from shared social circles. It's hard enough as a male to even get anywhere from a warm start like online dating.

I do have friends who have made this work somehow, one of my buddy is in a 3 year relationship with a girl he met in line at a taqueria. Another buddy is pretty successful with getting numbers while talking to customers at work. I've had it work once, with just bumping into a girl outside a concert smoking a cigarette and later texting/banging.

It can work, but prepare yourself for an overwhelmingly high rejection rate.

>>18681475
No no, in my experience this is the way to meet women. What else is there?
Uni? Hell no, if I fuck up with some chicks there, I will drop.
Friends? Hell no, I dont want my relationship to be discussed by everyone.
Random street approach is the shit, women NEVER reject you outright like "fuck off scum", I was given some fake numbers but thats about it. Also, no social consequences whatsoever, you can have two dates in one day, it is amazing.