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>have a job
>get a job offer for way more money
>accept offer
>put in two weeks notice
>call new boss back and tell him when i'll be available to start
>day before I'm suppose to start
>they tell me they no longer need me
>unemployed

what the FUCK am i supposed to do
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>>18473076
Call your old boss, let them know things didn't work out and that you'd like to return. Can't hurt to try, hopefully you left on good terms. Next time try and have a contract signed before putting in your two weeks.

Alternatively what can you do except start applying. Start contacting your family and friends now if you can't afford rent and need someplace to stay.
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>>18473141

pretty much this. if you're lucky they didnt get a replacement yet and are able to get you back in iwthout missing a beat. offer to work a few extra days to make up for it perhaps. but unless they are total fucking assholes they shouldnt be mad that you had a good offer and took it.
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>>18473148
Yep, to expand on this, even though they won't be happy that you left, if they haven't got a replacement they'll be happy to have you back since finding someone new is expensive (training, recruitment costs, loss of your knowledge and experience).

At my current workplace about 20% or so of our "new hires" are people who return after working somewhere else.

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there was this girl i was into in highschool, never really told her.
We both graduated and went on separated ways
A year later found a paper note handwritten by herself where she showed me her love. I still liked her too but convinced myself that it was too late and never reached out to her, letting it all to cool off.
i did that cuz i knew i cant retain a relationship for too long and was afraid of fucking it up. didnt want to dissapoint her so i let her go.
2.5 years later and i have been with other girls but i cannot get this one out of my head. i still regret it almost everyday and wonder what would happen if i had reply.

what do i do from here /adv/? does it get better?
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I mean you can try to reach out to her to try and catch up and see how it goes but at the end of the day I wouldn't have high hopes of anything happening after the initial message. I wouldn't consider it too much of a missed opportunity because you didn't know it was there to begin with so if nothing happens don't sweat it.
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>>18473066
Will your dick fall off if you said hi to her?
I mean, goddamn.

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I have an issue where I am very cognizant when I begin to date a girl and I always seem to make myself not want to be her after awhile. Is it because we never had that 'oomph' or am i just sabotaging shit? Help guise.
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>>18472995
>not want to be her after awhile
you're not meant to become her when you date her anon. you're not doing it right.
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Besides the typo, it sounds like disinterested abandon and self sabotage. There is something going on in your life and you need to fix it before you're sane enough to date someone.

It also sounds like you're emotionally unavailable. When was the last time you allowed yourself to be vulnerable with a woman.
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Yeah, sorry for the typo. I am an idiot after all. I meant I don't want to be with her. I started being open after I broke up with my ex because I was closed off beforehand. I just never get far with a woman because I just stop feeling it as if we just don't click. I try to enjoy my time, but it feels so alien and different than my past that I never fully enjoy it or look forward to it. Kind of feels super with them compared to the past, desu.

Haaaaay /adv/, so..... I'm the guy from yesterday with the same pic that wanted tips on where to go with gf.

Turns out not only I managed to bring her to a motel, but I also convinced her to use a thingy I bought for anal cleaning for anal fun.

Follow your dreams children.
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>>18472936
Btw, thanks for the patience yesterday.
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Saw this thread, good job. Sometimes your gf isnt a cheating slut whore afterall like 4chan says.
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>>18472950
Unless she's an actual oscar winner actress, she wouldn't dream of cheating.
Believe me, she went through some shit and we've been through some other related shit.
Shit is serious. And I'm still sticking in the shitter.
I don't know why I said that. I'm just happy.

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I made a trade on localbitcoins to buy bitcoins. After i made my bank payment, seller decided he is unsure about my ID verification, refuses to release bitcoins. The site sided with the seller even though no evidence. They said refund through bank but fee is too high for a small amount, id be losing most of it. What can i do? I already emailed seller about this, and for security concerns they refuse to complete trade. How can i get my money back or let them finish trade?
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Moving into an apartment soon. Don't think I'll be paying for internet. What are some things I should download that will come in handy?
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>>18472891
download your neighbors wifi, perhaps?

Download all of wikipedia with wikitaxi, that should keep most of your curiosities contained, I guess.
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as much porn as you possibly can
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You'll probably be paying for internet, it's not expensive and it's the most important thing about life.
Unless the governments giving you the apartment because you don't earn much... then idk.. vodka and ebooks.

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I'm free for four more days before roughly six months away from the office comes to an end. Should I spend this weekend partying and living it up, or resting and taking it easy to be ready to go back to work?
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My husband wants some extra weekend work. Would it be wrong to have him work on the weekends for one of my high school bfs?
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>>18472871

It's a shitty idea.

Also why in the fuck would anyone want extra weekend work? Are you that boring to spend time with?
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>>18472871

if hes okay with it i dont see the issue.

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My cuz asked me if I would do a job with him.
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Sorry did not know it would come out sideways.
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>>18472867
is he trying to get you to buy something so that you can "get a high paying job"? this stinks like a pyramid scheme.
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Yeah thats a pyramid scheme, fucking textbook. No real job has you paying the boss money while you try to recruit other people and/or sell shit that you bought off the boss with YOUR money. If you can recruit a bunch of suckers, or resell all the knive sets you bought, it actually works out for you. But if you dont, you are a sucker for someone else. Tell your cousin hes involved in a pyramid scheme and to get out.

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I matched with a girl on Tinder. Went on a date with her, made out. She then left the country for six weeks and gets back in a few days. We've maintained contact but I've completely lost interest in her and don't know how best to break it off. She apparently cut out all the guys she's been talking to and acts like we're already in a relationship, which is why this is so hard for me. I feel like she's way too attached.

I want to just do it over phone call but she's so eager to see me again, sending me day countdowns and such. What do I do?
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Actually meet up with her, see how things go and if you can reconnect. Even if it takes just an hour or two out of your time, it's not a big deal to let her down gently. Hell, you might have a nice dinner or something out of it.
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>>18472865
Meet her and see what comes out of it , if you still had the same feeling then tell her but if it changed , thank me later my dear anon :)
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This isnt hard....

what do you do when you lose the person you love? the person I was seeing made me realize there's a whole different type of person that exists that now, I feel like I was spoiled, and everyone I've met pales in comparison, and seems to just be the same person in a different package. should I just step away from the game for a while, or would that be doing myself a disservice?
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>>18472857

do whatever feels right. what even is a 'disservice'? just because you wouldn't be actively dating?

fuck if the occassion arises, and date if you find someone worth it. thats it. those are the only two rules to dating.

your scenario doesnt make any sense, i mean if you met the right girl are you going to just say 'OH I CANT DATE YOU CUZ IM STEPPING AWAY FROM THE GAME!'

just chill.
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>>18472903

I'm just saying it's exhausting trying to make myself talk to people when they are all just so disappointing.
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>>18472952

then dont. if it happens, great. if it doesn't great.

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So there are those life RPG apps coming out, they're interesting but Habitica and Life RPG just don't seem to do the trick quite as well as my regular google docs page.

Are there any really quality daily planner / RPG apps? And why are they quality?
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/b/ros I need help, first a little background on me
>19m
>college athlete workout 3-4times a day
>not taking any medication and have no health issues

Recently Ive been with a girl and have had trouble staying hard, it's not that I"m unable too, I've done it before and have had sex successfully plenty of times, but recently today It happened twice when we tried, this has happened before in the past.

Any advice?
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>workout 3-4 times a day
maybe try to keep it down to at most 1 work out per day

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Below is my 'vanilla' section from a fetish dating profile.

>I am 6'4" Big Handsome Man with a polite demeanour, the first thing people usually notice about me is my friendly personality, closely followed by my charming smile, though I do have a rather dark sense of humour.

>My main hobbies are playing computer games (Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Mount & Blade) on my desktop, and D&D (5th Edition) with my friends at the dining table, I enjoy listening to Metal and Classical music, going to the cinema, and walking my dog along the canal. I like to talk about history, science and politics; I am naturally Left Libertarian, but I try to take a Centrist point of view in discussions.

I really have no idea what to write, or how to talk about myself on a profile without droning on.

Thank you for any and all advice.

Kind regards
OP
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Recently, I have not had a job since April (due to trying out a company that turned out to be a scam). After I made it back to my hometown I was unable to find another job up till late June. With all my saving dried up and being behind on my bills by 3 months I am about to lose my car due to not having enough money to pay my car payment (that I have less than a year worth of payments left on).I need about 600$ in order for me to make a payment on my car so I can continue to commute to and from work. Once I get my first paycheck I will be able to get back on my feet but, until then I run the risk of losing my job if I am unable to get there. I don't really know what to do and I could use some advice
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