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oh hi, welcome to millennial dating

>>18475961
>Sends random Snapchat of her in a choker (it's her sister on her phone)

Chokers are really in right now. Just tell her it's a really cute look for her.

>Let me play grab ass on 1st date
That's just her boundary. Totally up to her.

>Keeps saying wants a relationship but doesn't want to come over so we can actually hang out (not even trying to fuck).
This is a bit odd. Could just be cautious of entering your space alone, I guess. Meet her in public first then invite her back over.

Could also be that she wants you to put in the effort to come get her.

>>18475968

Fuck man this is just dumb

I want her bad too


Her best friend just added me on Facebook too, wtf do I accept? Is it a trap!?


>>18475970
She has a car but lives far, don't want to come off needy. Just want her to come over so we can talk privately and Lerner each other know what we want. Ffs man wtf

>>18475865
Stephen Prata's "C++" is what you're looking for. Some of the points in his book may be outdated, but still, it's easy to read and pretty understandable. Then go for "Effective C++" by Meyers.

>>18475865
sci wiki has some good recs

Either find a girl who loves games and dank memes as much as you do or get some real interests.

How much of a boring basic bitch millenial you are when your hobbie consits in videogames

>>18475888
nice trips, i do have interests like school/basketball/gym? idk, bicycles and shit, idk what else do ppl find interesting. making male friends is the easiest shit ever but what the fk is up with girls man

Type youtube.com into your browser and press enter

>>18475834
This

>>18475828
Make shit when you want to. Nobody wants to see forced unfunny shit

I'll play.

>>18475779
what's the game?

uhm. yeah. how can i contact you? email?

pls respond

Married anon here.

The relationship starts with what's called a "honeymoon period". The honeymoon period is the classic "in love" stuff. Butterflies, romance, lots of sex, everything is easy and fun and wonderful (or at least pretty good).

And then, the honeymoon period ends. It always does, this is inevitable. It may take two weeks, it may take two years, but it ends. This is when the relationship becomes harder. You need to work at it more, it's not as easy or simple. You get on each others' nerves more, you see more of your partner's flaws. They frustrate you, you argue, and the sex becomes less frequent.

If they honeymoon period was the only thing holding your relationship together, it'll fall apart. If you or your partner is always chasing this initial high, it'll fall apart. If neither of you are willing to compromise and work through things, it'll fall apart.

So, once the spark disappears, what's left?

The trick in love is to find someone that makes this harder work feel easy. Someone you get along with, someone you can communicate with, someone you can trust and be yourself around. Someone who can legitimately be your friend as well as lover. A real partner.

That's where the real love lies. This is the sort of relationship that will endure.

Maybe look for people you respect/admire and date them.

>>18475648
outside of elementary schools and at bus stops.

Drink more. Duh.

get a tulpa waifu

Just bad advice, but it's on you to follow it.

>>18475623
Oy, fuck you m8 you little piece of wankIt,

JUST channel your inner Australian

>>18475578
search for phone gps spoofing, there's probably an app to do it.

but i love to doubt, and all i do is needlessly replay our talks and times together, even though her and i know it's incredible what we put together, my mind does all it can to dupe me otherwise.

she's a decade older than me, while i'm in college. regularly, all the women i come across are virgins or minimally experienced. she has slept with probably hundreds of guys and done crazy shit she's told me about, all the while affirming i'm the best thing that's happened in her life thus far, to the point where she'll regularly text me when she's at her parents, even. she has dropped practically all of her friends just to spend time with me.

one thing that might be important to mention, is that our habit of roleplaying daily for about three weeks has been broken since this wednesday; she has a shitty ISP and they've promised fixes every day since then, and the new estimate is tomorrow, so what brought us together so recently in the first place isn't there for us at the moment.

tl;dr things are going better with a girl than i've had in ages and my mind's refusing to believe it at all costs

i will be around all evening to answer anything i can or clear anything up. anything and everything is sincerely, dearly appreciated and needed.

also - went to counseling for four years, and psychiatry for two. meds were horrible, and counseling had absolute minimal effectiveness, if any. been about 1-2 years since i've been.

just stop eating lol

>>18475585
why eat when we're all going to die anyway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=to7BMBJR9P4

observe above person
Realize that you don't want to be like that
Conquer the notion that food can beat you

Really what you have to do is learn to limit the calories you intake. It's hard but everyone has to do it.

You have to find something else to occupy the hole in your soul, though. I suggest chewing gum to get the endorphin release that eating food gives while also avoiding chugging down unnecessary calories.