If you get naked and sleep in the same bed as your girlbro, is it gay, or are you just really good friends?
if nothing sexual or romantic happens then it's not gay
>>8047894
Do you touch and if so, how much and where?
21 year old strait male here. I dont know what I am feeling.
My whole life I have wanted to have a vagina. When I masturbate I always imagine having one, and when I realize I dont I get bummed out. Like I can imagine the whole thing, how it should be. It feels like I've got this alien limp numb thing on me that I really dont want to have. When I was younger, like 7 or so, I used to tape my dick so it went inside of me and really hoped that it would turn into one... Yeah I was a smart kid. Used to dream about being a girl too, was pretty nice.
These feelings went on the backburner for a while after my parents shot down the idea. But recently for some reason I've been going back to them and getting stuck on them.
But heres the thing, besides feeling like I have the wrong genitals I am totally a normal cis male. Masculine, beard, fit, into girls, no desire wear makeup. I guess I'd fucking love to be an androgynous lesbian I guess but I'd probably just end up looking like an ugly non-passable person.
I dont know what to do here. I could as a male, but fuck I really, really wish I could flip a switch and become a woman. Like really really bad.
I dont know if this is related but I also have Depression, OCD, and I just feel... Disconnected and empty, derealizationg and depersonalization. I dont feel much more than anxiety and hopelessness these days. I also feel hopelessly different, like nobody can understand me and I just want to fit in.
Pic Related, I'd be an ugly grill
>>8047241
You have partial bodily AGP, a form of transgenderism.
Does your name start with a b and end with an n. Won't tell anyone dw.
>>8047248
agp wouldn't start at 7 though
Does this happen to any other gay guys? I get in moods where I know just jerking off won't satisfy me even if I cum. I get in a bottoming mood and don't feel fully satisfied until I do butt stuff whether that's actually bottoming or using toys. I don't know why this happens but maybe it has something to do with the prostate? I get this way if I stop jerking off too, I'll get way too horny and want to do butt stuff.
>>8046460
If you're working too hard just to cum, maybe you're not really horny at all.
>>8046460
lol gay
Yes. But usually I'm too lazy to go through wth it and just fap anyway.
Hey legbutts, I would really appreciate some advice and opinions. I'm highly considering getting into gay porn, been thinking about (and fantasizing) it for a good while now. I don't plan on making a huge career of it, just enough so I can get about 10-20k $ to easily pay for college. I know their are other ways, but it sounds easy and I love gay sex anyways so seems like a win win. Here's abit about me for more advice;
>Cis Male, white
>25
>Very thin build (pic related, not me tho) I'm kind of twinkish looking.
>about same hair length as pic, but blonde
>dick size: 7 1/2" (Not that it matters since I'll probably be a bottom)
>experience with anal, oral, all that fun stuff, pretty open minded and willing to cooperate for most performances, not very many limitations.
So what do you guys think? As long as I make sure to get paid before signing the film release, making sure all other actors are tested and clean, and doing some homework on the film studios what do you guys think I could expect to make for a film?
>>8045813
;_; shameless bump..?
should I have gone too /adv/ or am I not being patient?..
I figured /lgbt/ had some kind of advice on gay porn.
Post pic of body.
Going by description I'd fap to u.
But porn honestly sounds like a nasty sketchy industry to be in so please stay safe.
post yassel lad
Why did God make so many extra straight people?
why did god make me
:(
>>8045033
If you're straight: I don't know
If you're trains or gey: Because he thought it'd be cool
>>8044310
Sturgeon's law:
90% of something will be UTTER SHIT.
Hence the existence of straight people.
Okay trannies, please explain, what does "feeling like a man/woman" mean anyway?
>>8044180
it's the shorthand way to describe what's going on with us when we don't want to break out the textbooks and such to explain dysphoria to a random person
>>8044180
What's wrong with that fox? Is he constipated?
>>8044226
But the textbook definition of dysphoria in the diagnostic manual is also pretty much unclear garbage.
I've developed a crush on a guy at work.
I'm pretty sure he's straight, and that any 'signs' of him being gay are nothing but projections on my part meant to feed my hope.
I'm not new to falling for straight guys: experience has taught me that it's impossible for anything to actually happen, and that attempting to do so just ends up in a combination of misery, hopelessness, and awkwardness (at the very best, with open hostility at the worst). I had similar experiences in high school and university, except that back then, I was more immature and cringey, and tried to catch the attention of these crushes, hoping my "love" for them would magically overcome their heterosexuality. Now I know better.
I don't want any type of consolation saying "ohh, maybe he IS gay after all!"; rather, I just want to state how much it sucks being gay.
I get mad when he doesn't pay attention to me, and I get irritated when he only half-heartedly says hi to me. Intellectually, I know that it's because he has his own life, and that it's not personal; but I can't help feeling angry, even if it's irrational.
The funniest part is that he's not even my 'type': I always said I wasn't into spics. And of course, the Universe makes it so that the person I develop a crush on is a spic. Great!
>>8043113
Just call ICE. Then you won't have to look at him every day at work.
>>8043113
I have the same problem in one of my classes. I have a crush on a straight guy that's over 6ft, aryan, and has a nice body.
>>8043113
I had fell in love with my best friend that I've known since I was 6
I used to fantasize about him realizing he was gay and then us spending the rest of our lives together
Of course, he was straight as an arrow, so no matter how hard I wished it would never happen
God dammit OP you know this is a trap don't fucking do this to yourself
why are hstses generally lower iq than most mtfs
>>8041335
because women are dumb
>>8041335
Because AGPs repress if they don't have the resources to transition safely, and only smart people tend to have such resources.
HSTSes are as intelligent as the general population on average whereas AGPs are usually genius tier.
>>8041376
>whereas AGPs are usually genius tier.
Counterpoint: OP.
Time for another edition of this dead thread
Discord Invite: https://discord.gg/7R8Fhua
Previous Corpse: >>8021673
>>8040366
The guy in the previous OP pic was the one time I'm ever going to see someone hot posted on gaygen.
Isn't it?
>>8040490
I personally found the last guy I posted to be hotter, but /lgbt/ in general has a huge hard on for cutesy shit like twinks, so I figured it might be worth experimenting with to get more people noticing the threads
>>8040499
That's because LGBT is full of ugly people who project whatever category they themselves fit into as the object of their attraction.
The fat hairy fags claim fat hairy fags are hot.
The skinny semi-tranny fags claim the skinny semi-tranny fags are hot.
At least you posted an actual twink though. I'm so sick of seeing baby drag queens and pre op teenage trannies being called twinks on here.
Question for all the stealth transmen and women
How do you deal with life? Dating...jobs...friends
I'm recently fulltime and I don't know how to handle things, especially dating.
I don't want to be outed so my trans status is not on my dating profiles; so when do I tell someone? Especially if they're wanting to hook up right away....especially when you're gay and they're expecting the same genitals that they have
Jobs that do a background search(every job these days), do they find out I'm trans when they do it?
I just want to be stealth and normal how do I handle this?
>>8039152
>Don't tell anyone you are trans. Its irrelevant
>Except for sex if you still have your old genitalia, because this is how you get killed.
>Change your legal name on all records
>Change your gender marker on all possible records
>Ask the judge to seal your old name and the records pertaining to your name change
>Unknown if background checks will come up with anything. Its possible.
>Make sure your legal name is not being used on any social media
>Do not give your employer your social media information (some actually ask for this and it shouldn't be legal)
Besides that, the most important thing is... can you even pass?
>>8039485
>some actually ask for this and it shouldn't be legal
It should be legal for employers to impose whatever conditions they want.
>>8039485
>this is how insane trannies actually are
How's your relationship with your father?
S'Alright
Dude's really religious and it's mostly due to my mom that I was never forced to go to church or do anything religious at all growing up
I haven't told him I'm gay but he's a really good person overall so I'm not worried on that end
He molested me but he's paying for my phone so I don't cut him off completely
>>8038899
wtf
What do you consider a 'tasteful' portrayal of LGBT people in media and what do you consider ingenuine opportunistic virtue-signaling?
>>8038500
>>8038534
Nigger
>>8038500
I really don't care much about representation, but imo the easiest way to avoid tokenism is to write good characters that just so happen to be LGBT. Like, don't bring it up unless it's important. One of my favorite examples is Diana from White Collar. She's a bad ass FBI agent who happens to be a lesbian. Her sexuality is never the focus of her character since it isn't important to the story's plot. That's my two cents anyway. TL;DR: Write LGBT characters like you'd write everyone else.
http://metro.co.uk/2017/03/31/jazz-jennings-looks-into-bottom-surgery-and-dating-transgender-people-in-new-series-of-i-am-jazz-6545695/
Remember Jazz, the tranny kid with a TV show?
>in the trailer two of the doctors say pretty disturbing things and you see Jazz is visibly upset. One doc says something like "the puberty blockers are amazing, revolutionary, but the problem is they don't leave much material to work with down there"
>The second doctor is blunter and says "because of the blockers I can't do the surgery- I can't do the surgery you want".
Hormone blockers = micropenis.
Micropenis = no inverted penis vagina.
The people pushing trans are leaving them crippled for life. They can't "become a woman" because they haven't grown a dick which means these trannies can't even "go back" to being male. Trans advocates and hormone blocking has fucked up their chance to be any gender.
I'm actually amazed this has never come up in the perpetual tranny debate here
>>8038327
really makes you think about maybe not transitioning so early
>>8038327
Most of the other famous early transitioners have all successfully gotten SRS though.
Because every transgril wants bottom surgery :^).
also, are you surprised that a reality tv star would have drama in their life? Jazz prolly has a footlong girlschlong
Any other trans people here feel like giving up or have given up?
At what point (years of HRT, etc.) should one start to lose hope? What do you plan to do once that happens?
>>8034393
I'm 7 years in and still not happy, probably never will be, will probably be alone forever too because nobody wants to be with a tranny. I pass but what does that matter, it's still not good enough for me. At this point I'm desperate to try anything to change, change my body, change my life, anything.
>>8034426
>>8034427
What're your stories, anons?
>>8034436
Started hormones at 15, so I thought I'd end up looking female. Back then, I only wanted to transition if I ended up looking completely female, otherwise I promised my 13-year-old self that I would immediately commit suicide as soon as it became apparent that I had failed, since I hated how trannies looked (and still do). But it turns out, you should never base your decision to transition early on your hatred of trannies, because it gives you unrealistic expectations and standards for yourself. I should have been fostering "trans pride" back then, but I never did. Now I don't even care that I pass to cis people and basically have a "female experience", because I don't look 100% female like I thought I would. I was deceived by timelines, or maybe I just didn't know how to clock trannies back then. I'll regret those two or three years of not getting on hormones for the rest of my life.
I've also had too many failures since then. Failures in relationships, failures online, getting banned and blocked from a bunch of places and by a bunch of different people, too many people have said too many negative things about me for me to feel good about myself ever again. All I do is stay at home and think about the past, my embarrassing attempts at modeling and acting last year, that went nowhere because I'm an ugly tranny. My attempts at activism that went nowhere. My life that's going nowhere. It's basically over for me, but I promised a bunch of people that I wouldn't try to kill myself anymore. It sucks.
>"Thanks for coming out with me anon. It's okay that I am a chaser right?"
Honestly I'll date just about anyone at this point.
>>8033965
>bald ugly faggot
*blows rape whistle
>>8033965
>trannies think this bald cutie is disgusting
Srsly, trannies, what the fuck wrong with you?