Can I ask a serious question? I think a lot of homophobia arises from arises lack of understanding.
Now arises person being Transgender does not change my opinion of their worth, they arises re arises re human just like everyone else. What's really been pissing me off lately is all of the forced acceptance that's being pushed in everyone's faces.
While I see there being absolutely 0 problems with being trans, I also do not see how they magically switch genders. If you were born a male, that's what you are. If you were born are female, that's what you are. I just don't understand how wearing are really dress and a bit of makeup qualifies a man to be a woman. They still have an X and Y chromosome, no ovaries, uterus, fallopian tube, womb, etc. And most importantly, we're born male. They are, by definition, male. They are just dressing like a female and demanding everyone use the correct "pronouns" when dealing with them. It's absolutely ridiculous. Be who you want, dress how you want to dress, but just stop flat out lying about biology, it's what is holding the LGBT movement back.
chikun arise
>>7452884
So basically you think gays are cool, but trannies are annoying. Good for you mate, but if you can't understand trans people, then you shouldn't go into transgender safe spaces and expect them to stop being themselves just to make your narrow mind comfortable. Literally get out!
>>7452918
Or answer my question and don't have a whinge about someone having about different opinion than you. Leave that for your Tumblr blog.
> be 20 yo afab person
> have dysphoria from a young age and figure out I'm probably trans at 15
> realize at around 18 that I like girls
> repressed for a while but just recently started going to therapy in secret, hoping it can fix me but keeping transition an option as a last resort
> tried to act like a normal girl all along, presented femme, even got a boyfriend
> never had sex, say I'm saving it til marriage but really just repulsed at the thought
> thought everything was going ok and with therapy I would be able to sort out my issues one way or another
> last night my bf proposes to me
> in public, totally puts me on the spot
> say yes because I feel like I have to
> he had people take pictures and immediately posts it to all social media
> I'm now basically having a panic attack
I dunno what to do. I really don't need this right now. I think I can put off the wedding for at least a year, but that still gives me a very limited amount of time.
Has anyone else ever been through something like this? Is there any chance that it won't end terribly?
You need to end the engagement, OP. It sucks that he put you on the spot. It sucks you felt pressured to say yes. Don't drag this out and cost more money by making it all the way to an expensive wedding.
>>7452711
This. Send him to hui. It's time to stop playing games.
>>7452698
Tell him youd like to transition. He will cancel the marriage himself.
new meta edition
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/ merry christmas!
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
previously on a very special episode of mtfg: >>7451743
>>7452582
W-what
I though trannies didn't like getting their dick succ
reposting cus actually need opinions
the hotel in norway I applied to told me they will take me if i can work May to October
im kind of tempted to say screw my studies, ill make enough to cover more than an extra year of tuition
do i do it??? Kinda hyped!!!
they want to see a pic of me and im applying as a boy but if i look weird by then will i be able to stay boymode?/??
please respond
Merry Christmas /lgbt/
>>7452460
thanks fa m, you too
Sad feels in bound...
>be 29 year old tranny, HRT for the past 8 years, and full time for the past 9 years
>live across the country from my family
>family never accepted that I'm trans, male pronouns, refuse to use my changed name, etc.
>they still love me, but they don't accept or support me being trans
>it makes the most difficult thing more difficult
>Christmas time is always the hardest time of year for me
>only see my family once or twice a year
>every time I go home I come back a wreck
>planned to go home for a couple weeks
>work is mega stressful, the stress of seeing family has me fucking up at work
>I cancel my trip home
>family is very sad, but understanding
>miss my parents and they miss me too though
>one crying phone call later, book a trip for just Friday through Monday (cost over $1,100)
>stressed AF and not having the support I need to handle family stress + work stress
>get to airport today, check bag, and go through security
>waiting at terminal
>ican'tdothis.jpeg
>have a break down, break my phone, get my bag sent back, take a taxi home
>texted and then emailed my dad from my work laptop during my terminal breakdown
>home now, alone, depressed as fuck, missing my father, wanting to see my nieces
>I know my family is heartbroken that I won't be there
>but I just couldn't deal with the stress of it all
>feel terrible for wasting almost $2k of their money in airfare and for giving them false hope of seeing me
>feel terrible for being trans
>feel terrible for everything
This is the 4th time of the past 8 years that I haven't gone home due to family stress of me being trans. This one is the most costly, stressful, and dramatic though. I'll be spending Christmas alone again. I hate Christmas. I wish it wasn't a day. In fact I wish the second half of November and all of December didn't exist...
Any other anons want to commiserate about Christmas pain?
>inb4 hur dur ur a shitty person fegget
Ignore shitposters, avatarfags, and trolls pls.
>>7452460
I'm not allowed to celebrate Christmas with my family and as I far as I know this is supposed to continue on into the indefinite future.
How to make bottoming like pic related and not just meh? I really want to be a bottom and psychologically it's really appealing but physically it's just not that great
The fact that it's only "meh" for you is something to work off of, that you're submitting to an act that you don't enjoy too heavily for HIS pleasure.
But that's really fetishizing the whole act of love making and leads to unhealthy dom/sub shit.
>>7452294
> nigger
fuck off with this degeneracy
>>7452353
you've got the wrong board there buddy. try /po/
we love bbc over here
Are we dead?
>>7452222
I am dead inside. Just waiting for my physical flesh to die as well.
>>7452222
if only.
Also nice numbers
OH WELL, MERRY CHRISTMAS, HAPPY CHANUKAH, KWANZAA TO MUH BROS, AND MOST OF ALL ENJOY THE WEEKEND
IMG related: that is my fetish (LGBT ally here)
Greentext stories of coming out/ask for advice/do whatever
pic unrelated
I'm planning on coming out this Christmas. I'm going to write a letter and send a copy home with everyone I'm not already out to. It'll have a diagnosis, an explanation, and a FAQ.
I keep stopping halfway through the letter and deleting everything then throwing up. I wish I never had to come out and could deny it forever, but T is a hell of a drug.
If you want to see it when it's done, I can post it.
>>7455044
Also, because I forgot to include a relevant story
>come out to little sister
>"yeah, I already kinda knew that"
>come out to DnD group
>awkward questions
>"so, have you had the surgeries yet?"
>"ok so now that you're a dude, is it weird to say that you had really awesome tits"
>hint: yes
>transitioned really well to new name
>great about pronouns
>super accepting
>warm fuzzies
>all these people gonna tell their story and omitting the part where they lost all their friends and became the family outcast just to not scare others into staying in the closet for the rest of their lives.
Best to stay in that closet and not become victim of society's cruelty.
Just stay in there.
Enough lives have been lost to this meme.
We cannot allow any more of this suffering.
It has to end.
So FTM transpeople want to change genders, so they change their appearance and behaviour to that of a "traditional" woman (long hair, dresses, skirts, higher voices, estrogen etc) and vice versa for FTM
How is that not sexist??
And to those transpeople who don't appear outwardly female/male but still identify as such, why? what's different about the female/male 'psyche' that you identify with, without the traditional gender roles you're rebelling against??
Also, how can you say gender and biological sex are two different things when to transition, you take a female/male sex hormone?
I understand that being made to justify your existence all the time must be horrible, so I'm sorry for posting this
What, I just want to be girl
>>7451949
Yes it is sexist. I want to be a woman because that's my nature as I experience it, but also experiencing life as a male makes it more than obvious we're an innately subordinate and, as an aggregate, intellectually inferior sex. And gender is best understood as binary, despite the small intersection.
>>7451949
i'm not rebelling against gender roles, i find them to be semi-accurate as a whole but oversimplified (like everything meant to describe half the population)
and the fact that i *have* to take male sex hormones is proof my sex is different from my gender -- if my sex were the same as my gender, i would make them naturally
Hey /LGBThots/
I'm in Australia for Christmas and i want to mess around with with Transgender women or crossdressers. Thing is, I don't want anyone to know as I'm mostly straight.
I just wanna go into a cute girls apartment, suck, get sucked, bust a fat nut and then leave. How can I go about this? Thinking of using Grindr or as last resort Craigslist, but I'm wary about revealing my face. I'm not that far away from my home country.
Any tips for discreetly hooking up with trannies n traps?
the first step is to kill yourself
>>7451817
Please delete this, fags like you are giving the rest of us "straight" cis men a horrible name. You sound identical to the stereotypical "creepy chaser".
>>7451847
Lol
milo stewart just shared a video by the biggest detransitioner youtuber
is it starting, /lgbt/?
>>7451665
Is what starting?
How can she detransition if she never transitioned at all?
Like she has never put any effort into presenting or dressing or acting like male and never had real plans for hrt or surgery.
>>7451665
Who is the YouTuber?
Also I think she deleted the tweet
Is there a guide to becoming a cuteboi? I'm lost and don't know where to start or what to do
>>7451649
From the pic you posted I can already tell you are trap femboy or mtf, so just go order your pills right now to save time
>>7451660
pic is a girl and not me you tard
[spoiler]wish it was though[/spoiler]
>>7451663
>wish it was though
that's exactly what he/she meant
Why are there so many FTM but so few MTF?
>>7451481
Only true if you live outside of the West. The West is super MtF heavy because individualism is evil.
MtF are a dime a dozen on the interbutts. It is FtMs that are few and far between.
>>7451496
FtM are a dime a dozen on tumblr and other sites
19, Kinda feel like I'm straight but maybe i'm just delusional..
> kinda not into guys i guess before
>find girls kinda attractive, but not the vagina at all. can never seem to make any emotional attraction to them.
>2 years ago start to feel or maybe just not block out attraction to men
>predominantly look at gay porn since, kinda pussied out about that, quit porn, attraction didn't go away.
>actively tried to suck someone's dick one time
>actively imagine myself with a guy, not a woman
I think I might be gay but I don't want to accept it. Too scared of what my parents might think. Also scared of being emasculated from getting fucked like a girl.
Also pretty insecure because I was constantly bullied back in high school called gay frequently and the like.
Fuck.
same exact thing happened to me
you're gay, just accept it. you should be happen, you don't have to deal with women lmao
>>7451493
*be happy
>>7451493
eh, still frightened at what my parents would think.
I'm gonna have an orthognatic surgery for my recessed jaw and open bite in a couple of weeks.
The problem is that when the doctor showed me the predicted facial changes, my jaw (that he is going to slide forward) looked like it belonged to Hercules.
He said i needed it to be so portruding if i wanted to correct my open bite and improve my breathing...
Anyone have any experience with this? Should i get the surgery or say fuck it and just keep my pretty profile (i do kinda already look like a hon desu)? Is there an alternative to this that this nikka isn't telling me?
pic related
>>7451348
btw this is me now
>>7451348
Don't do it retard.
>>7451348
Brianna Wu 2: Electric Boogaloo
/lgbt/ how do I get my probably straight friend to let me suck his dick no homo
>>7451284
ask him if he'd be down to it
>>7451290
We're taking acid together soon would that be a good time
Or just straight up like ay succ
>>7451298
Or just be fucking normal and ask