How do I stop letting grindr determine my value? I've been using it since high school and it's honestly just been terrible for my self-image. I understand mentally that I'm more than this but I feel as if I'm worthless if I can't even score with the desperate straight dl dudes.
Have you guys ever rid yourself of this sort of sex centered life? How can I regain my confidence as a man?
>>7465465
>delete grindr
>be happy
delete it stupid
>>7465550
/thread
k so i am about 4 months on hormones, and i am realy wanting to be dominated by a man. my best friend keeps hinting at me that he want me to suck his dick, and in return he will fondle my boiboobs and stuff until i orgasm.
Is this a good idea? we have been friends for years now, and also he has a girlfriend, but she says he doesn't give he enough sexual attention, so i am surprised he is actually interested in me. i dont know if i should let him use me or not, because i might get sad if i have sex with him and then he goes home to his gf and gives her all the love and attention while i am left all alone...
i realy want the D, and also i do care about him a lot. Should i just do it and let him use me?
Have more pride in yourself, girl.
>>7465333
but...i am realy lonely
its not like he would be just any random man, he is my best friend who i love and care about, i want to make him happy, but i am scared that i will get myself hurt if i do it, so i dont know
You're both interested. What's the issue?
Do I go full goth or full bimbo
Or is there a way to do both
>>7464897
do both and be a dumb 'perky goth' chick with her tits out
t. looking for bimbogoth gf
>>7464897
I know this might be a hard to understand concept as it did not originate from within your autistic mind, but have you considered just going for a normie look to appeal to the broadest variety of people?
Yeah I know mindblowing.
>>7464947
I have no interest in appealing to the broadest variety of people, I have interest in appealing to myself. If that means no one likes me, then that's fine but I imagine that at least some small niche of people will find the look I go for appealing and that's good enough for me
Come for support from the LGBT community and discussions. https://discord.gg/P4XPM
Discord links if that one does not work
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You guys are the experts, does the person on the right look trans to you?
>>7464503
I've been on this board so long that they both do.
>>7464503
>tiny forehead
>female inside eyes
>female nose flair
>girl cheek molding
>sculpted chin
No, why?
>>7464514
*female inset eyes
Greeting, LGBT, my younger brother, as of late, had been an avid visiter of this website, and of this board in particular, and has recently been referring to himself with the acronym "MTF" and says he longs to be a "QT trap". I have no idea what any of this means, but he's become a nuisance and we can't even take him to Church without him wearing his knee-high rainbow stockings. Seeing as you probably indoctrinated him towards this degeneracy, I'd like to know if there's any cure or path to becoming a healthy Christian individual again.
>>7463928
>a healthy Christian individual
DAISAN NO BAKUDAN
>>7463928
Whoa an obscure Homestar Runner reference! Their animation and the sense of humor aged ridiculously well. You just brought back a lot of fond memories with suudsu, OP. That's the email where they try to help The Cheat sleep, right? I remember "The Denzel" from that too- I still can't pinpoint why exactly that name is so funny but it is.
>>7463928
No cures, only dank memes and hormones.
Its as if they been through a war
>>7463765
Anyone who has dodged a positive HIV test gets it.
>>7463765
Not only did we go through a war we're always fighting the war, the war of cishet oppression.
>>7463765
Because they broke under the weight of being pressured to grow up, surrendered their manhood in the hopes it would lead to an easy woman life and are now dead on the inside as they slowly realize they will never be or be seen as a "real" women by either cis sex.
In the end, they are much like Edvard Munchs "The Scream". Shocked and bewildered, neither male nor female.
Is it just me or is ghosting much more pervasive in the gay (male) community than it is among straights? At first I thought it was just me and that there was something wrong with my dating etiquette or "résumé" so to speak (haven't completely ruled it out tho!), but several of my gay friends have complained of it having happened to them multiple times as of late, too.
Why are we so horrible to one another, /lgbt/? Are we just flaky by nature? Too conditioned by society to avoid conflict that we think it's easier to take the most passive route possible? 'Cause that shit fucking sucks, guys.
General ghosting stories/venting thread, too, I guess
Majority of us work as secret agents.
It's a painful part of our job, having to leave without a trace, leaving our loved ones in the dark of what truly transpired.
It's simply too dangerous for them to be involved.
>>7463450
This happens to me pretty often too.
t. tranny
>cute guy from Tinder who's in town visiting from 6 hours away asks me out to show him around town
>surewhynot.tiff, it'll be a good way for me to get a hang of how to date since i've been on like two my whole life and neither went anywhere, plus there'll be no stakes because it'll be a one-time thing so no need to worry
>we hang out, he's really cute and well-adjusted but also smart and down-to-earth and accomplished and driven and why the hell is he even going out with me, wtf
>we have a magical time going out to dinner and walking around the city until like 2AM even though he has to be up at like 6
>he gives me his number and snapchat and says how I should come up to visit him
>think he's just blowing smoke up my ass, but after texting and snapping regularly for weeks i realize he's serious
>omg a boy is actually interested in me, i'm really going to do this
>take off work and take a bus up to visit him for a weekend, have another magical time aside from the times he took me dirt biking and rock climbing where my frail, twink body gave out multiple times
>i'm officially catching feels
>invite him down to see me a few weeks after getting back, he gives me a maybe, but i think nothing of it because things are otherwise going well and he's otherwise acting normal
>ask again a few weeks later to see if he's given it any thought
>he stops messaging me altogether
>never heard from him again
>tfw
pretty sure he found an uglier but more accomplished twink who lives closer to him
Any examples of trans women that transitioned late but pass well?
>>7463245
Without FFS etc. - Ren Spriggs
With FFS - Blaire White
>>7463272
>le asian
fucking dropped
post some white transwoman instead
>>7463302
Okay, pic related but they've had heavy FFS/implants/plastic surgery etc. tho
Nothing worse than being alone for the holidays. If you want to talk. I'm here for you anons.
I just realised that he's most likely celebrating christmas with his gf.
Maybe I should stop feeling altogether.
>>7463526
No, just start pursuing guys that are obtainable and single.
>>7462423
no one showed up to my Christmas party so I drank 3 1/2 packs of Cruisers and cried myself to sleep. I understand they might be busy but they didn't even respond.
How many of you here would consider yourselves trutrans? Also, if not, why did you transition?
>>7462118
Because blanchards trutrans/autogynephilic is debunked.
I'm slightly trutrans because I didn't have a repression phase. I openly acted girly and said I wanted to get castrated before I even knew what trans was. Now that I'm transitioned I'm quite masculine though.
>>7462132
>mfw don't care if it's debunked
It's still the best excuse out there.
Besides the fact I'm still alive and not trying to commit suicide is proof I'm not trans.
So what. I'll be a little sad some days of my life.
Not worth freakhood
>>7462118
You make 3 of these every week, cara. Trutrans doesn't exist. Some are early straight transitioners and that's fine some don't get dysphoria until much later. Just because you don't think they're androgynous and 'hot' doesn't mean their transness is less valid.
Happy holidays and a happy New Year my fellow bisexuals!
Let us welcome the New Year with a bisexual advice thread. Got a question? Are you questioning? Got some advice to give?
This is the thread for you.
Did you know we have a discord? Join our ranks today!
https://discord.gg/qTEVZVX
>>7461895
Reminder the Discord is filled with a bunch of vain cunts
I have a crush on a lesbian friend of mine. She thinks I'm straight. Actually, I still think of myself as (mostly) straight but I feel like suddenly a train hit me and now I can't stop thinking about her romantically. How do I let her know this without making it sound like sexual curiosity? My fear (besides making our friendship weird) is that she'll think I just want to use her to play around a little bit but I'm here like genuinely scared of the intensity of what I'm feeling.
Is it gay to unironically like Traps, real guys that can pass as girls and the most feminine looking bishonen type ?
up
help
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=br-Gh4B7d8A
/lgbt/, how many of you are virgins ?
https://strawpoll.de/eza9g5a
A majority of virgins for the moment.
>>7461313
Lol, how can you even sure to not be hetero if you are a virgin ?
>>7461318
Are you for real ? go back go to /pol/
Anyone else here /LGBT/ in awful shitholes? Thinking mainly trans, though.
How do you deal with it? Any plans on leaving?
>tfw mtf trapped in Dubbo
In two days my parents are leaving for a new york trip with my sister. while they are gone I am leaving this fucking hell hole and those smug cunts will never see me again. But for the next week I am
>mtf trapped in Hamilton
>>7459702
>tfw mtf trapped in a smaller city of Poland
>tfw you're 3.5 hours train ride away from your therapist (one of 4 or 5 in the whole country that actually prescribe HRT)
>tfw your therapist gatekeeps you and you spend the rest of your money for stupid medical examinations that have nothing to do with being trans
>tfw you have to sue your parents to change your legal gender
>tfw you can't tell anyone that you're trans because nobody even knows what that means and reacts aggresively by default
>tfw you're poor and getting any job is difficult, especially if you're trans
>>7459750
Damn GL anon, any backstory you are willing to share?