Hi /lgbt/.
Haven't really lurked this board too much, but I've been on 4chan since before it was a board itself, so forgive my ignorance if this board has a culture or unofficial rules.
I recently moved to Scottsdale AZ, and I'm having a hard time finding friends. Since this is a red state, I'd like to have more lgbt friends. I'm also looking to date, but I need to go out and experience the city more.
I have grindr, okc, a4a, and a bunch of other local apps to try to meet people, but I've only met one or two off of those, so I was wondering if anyone on this board is in the area or has any advice to give to somebody like me?
A bit about me: I'm 23, male, full time working and making pretty good money, have my own 2 bedroom luxury apartment. Love cooking, drinking, anime, video games, metal music, RPDR, and have 2 cats. I'm also pretty good looking, I just don't want to post a pic of myself because it might seem like a "rate me" thread.
Anyway, just thought I'd give this a shot.
TLDR: New to Phoenix, looking for LGBT friends and/or dates.
I'd hang out with you but I'm nowhere near there. Good luck senpai.
>>7441362
I sometimes spend winter down there at my parents condo. I'd def suggest not using hookup apps. Get yourself involved in a local community/group make friends the good old fashioned way and have at it. Chances are you'll find someone just like you who's looking for a connection.
>>7441729
I've been trying to check out groups on Meetup but nothing really interesting is on there. :/
I honestly have no idea what to do, /lgbt/.
I thought just pretending to be a real girl online would help suppress the feelings of dread, but no. It only makes it worse.
I'm a horrible abomination that will never pass even if I could get on hormones, or even afford FFS. Just looking at cis girls fills me up with so much despise, I want to explode. My heart beat quickens, and I feel like there's no reason to be alive. I'm hanging myself on christmas eve.
There's no particular reason i'm making this thread besides the fact I need to vent to my only friends.
Sorry for your genes. Hope you'll feel better no matter what you chose to do. You should give hrt a try, if you have nothing to lose.
>>7441818
If only, anon. If only.
>>7441313
I'm not your friend, but I think you don't give yourself enough credit. Figure out what you like to do in life, and go do that. The gender thing is secondary. Be somebody.
>tfw bottom with hemeriod
It doesn't hurt unless there is significant girth
Never itches or bleeds
What do I do with out going to the doctors?
Also I don't like the way it looks
>>7441302
Use supplements, creams, witch hazel, Epson salt baths do not bottom until that shit clears up other wise you could get a fissure which is the most uncomfortable shit ever and require surgery or even have the hemeroid prolapse. It sucks but there is no real cure other than surgery op.
>>7441302
For some reason mine feels no pain while bottoming, but taking a shit hurts like hell.
I have found drink lots of water, eat heaps of kiwi fruits (the soften my shit better than anything) and it should go away, but unlikely to stay away
>>7441337
Op again
Mine only hurts with a fat toy/dick
I always have soft poop so it feels like I always have to strain
When I do this my asshole pokes out slightly
Does anyone have experience with the surgery
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i just fapped to a cute straight bj video. the interaction between the couple was so real :( i must say it gave me feels
>>7441249
Link fsggot
Is dying my hair Silver a bad idea if I got a baby face?
>be successful young man a few years ago with loving parents and a place at a world-class university- but dysphoric and miserable
>now a 4/10 NEET tranny (admittedly less dysphoric and miserable) who fulfils all the old stereotypes right down to the black plastic choker we all seem to own these days
>always reassure myself by saying "at least I'm not into ageplay or anything weird"
>tfw been craving littlespace more and more recently
How do I live with myself, knowing that I'm this much of a degenerate?
>>7440950
and to be precise, this is not at all a sexual craving
it's like I need it to feel psychologically okay
If you live for others, you will be unhappy
If you live for yourself but hate yourself for it, you will be unhappy
The only way to be happy is to allow yourself to enjoy what you enjoy
>>7440950
>be successful young man at university
The word success does not mean what you think it does.
What does identifying as queer mean? I can't find any straight answers.
It means whatever the person saying it wants it to mean. I'm not kidding
>>7440758
It's just means the person's not straight
>>7440758
I means she's not interested in your chode
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>>7439157
LEWD DISEASE
Does anyone have any of the trans discord links?
Also is anyone in Toronto right now?
>>7440512
i was gonna make the next thread..
Why is there a fucking Bewitched marathon on the LOGO channel right now? I thought this was supposed to be a channel with gay shit.
>>7440492
Anon bewitched is gay af witches in general are super gay
>>7440498
You just watch too much Buffy
(aka you watch too much LOGO)
uncle abner is gay
Didn't see a questions thread nor a bisexual thread so I'll make one of my own.
How do I know if I'm bi? I'm a male who's been attracted to females both romantically and sexually my whole life, but until recently (around when I was 16, I'm 18 now) I'd never seen any romantic attraction towards guys. Now, there are some guys I just find so cute and want to cuddle but since that's the furthest extent of it I'm not sure if that makes me bi.
At what point do I know it's not just nonromantically thinking some guys are cute and actually being attracted to guys?
You find features in men that make you want to cuddle them. This is 'bi' because on 4chan pansexual, which everyone is, is a dirty word.
Can you jerk off to men?
Generally if you can you'd fuck one in real life.
>>7440378
As I understand it, pansexual means being attracted to all sorts of "gender identities," being attracted to universal features rather than both male features and female features (as bisexual people are). I don't think I'm pansexual because, when I meet a nonbinary person, I see them as either looking like one particular sex and judge their features thusly or I see them as purely androgynous and don't find them attractive. Either way, even though I guess I can be attracted to nonbinary people, it's never nonbinary features that I'm attracted to, per se.
I dunno, as you may have figured out I'm not very well-versed in LGBT stuff.
asking because of general curiosity, how does HRT effect facial hair, both MtF and FtM?
>>7440217
HRT prevented facial and body hair for me, because I stared early. Don't have hair anywhere besides my legs and arms (I'm Mexican). If I don't shave for a while, I just get a few tiny hairs on my chin, I couldn't grow any more if I tried.
So I guess I'm not the best to ask. I do know that FtMs tend to grow a lot of facial and body hair, and I always find myself surprised by how leg hair looks on cis men and FtMs compared to mine, it's much "bushier" if that makes sense.
>>7440247
Also I don't actually "shave" my face, I just pluck the hairs out with tweezers. Sorry if that was confusing.
>>7440217
For MtFs, is does nothing, or make the hairs grow slower, and they may lose color.
FtMs grow facial hair, but I don't think it grows that well.
Hey /lgbt/, I've got loads of free time due to being on break from uni, a Netflix subscription, and an interest in getting into /lgbt/ fiction/movies.
Any recommendations? Particularly interest in ones I can Netflix due to the convenience.
>>7440129
Although it's not an explicitly lgbt thing, Sense8 is pretty watchable. It has a transbian hacker and a fairly chiseled gay latino for main characters, among others.
>>7440129
Obviously Orange is the new black is the best choice
Binged the first season the last two days and even if I feel like it's a bit forced, you have tons of lgbt issues as major themes
I really recommend it, it's really enjoyable to watch despite having some weaknesses, especially in the first couple of episodes
It's on Netflix by the way
>>7440129
I know this is pretty far off topic, but there's some dope stuff on netflix
Cooked is a great documentary series
An Idiot Abroad follows a british man across the world, there's a few parts where he meets drag queens/trans ladies and is confused by it, since he's never really experienced it before
>Lesbians most violent group after straight men
I wonder where transsexuals fit in.
>>7440112
if they include trasn they should separate it between straight, lesbian and bisexuals.
i'm sure bisexuals are far more violent, both men and women, they have a lot of sociapathic tendencies, and the higher vioence between couples.
>>7440252
Blanchard probably wouldn't retweet this if they grouped them up desu so I doubt that's the case.
>>7440112
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I just had a little talk with someone who disagrees with me about gender. Genderfluid people in particular.
I thought I'd post the conversation here.
I'm the red marker, blue marker is the other guy.
Other markers are 1 random person who just commented a few times
I'll post more when I get them edited
I'm not looking for pity or anything like that.
I'm looking for constructive criticism and outside opinions.
Did I make sense in my posts?
Were I terribly wrong?
If someone could read through these and share their thoughts that would be great
>>7439609
>arguing in youtube comments
how about you just kys
>>7439637
I know what you mean, but whatever.
I just really want a third opinion on this
Neat huh?
>Pharah is straight
>Pharmercy is dead
>>7439535
And D.VA is Shinji
>>7439582
fanships never die
So, what are you waiting for?
>>7439482
No worries, senpai. My next 20 mg shot is tomorrow.
>>7439482
ur mama
>>7439482
For my fucking insurance to work.