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i think im starting to hate women for not dating me, is that normal?

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I cut my hair regularly, take showers regularly but I'm not confident. When will the problem have solved itself?

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Rundown
>8/10 and me meet last year through mutual friends
>End up seeing eachother every day because our schedules match
>We become great friends
>I'm only a 3 or 4 on good day but I am confident as hell
>We always sit next to each other, etc
>Hang out outside of classes too
>I even take her out on what I consider to be an unsaid date
>Still no idea if she feels the same way about me the way I feel about her
>Today me and her friend are talking
>We bring up relationships, asks about a girl that was in my snapchat story yesterday
>Then she and her friend start whispering
>Casually look away to not look intrusive

Does she like me? I don't want to ruin what good friendship we have just by telling her how I feel. What do i do. I have been madly in love with her, and then stopped, and now I'm starting to fall for her again.

Yes, we always look at each other in the eyes, and she always is touching me like my chest or shoulder or what not.

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I've been dating this girl on tinder. We've only been on 2 dates but we are hitting it off pretty well. After the 2nd date she went for a trip overseas for a bit. She messaged me a fair bit while she was on her trip and she also messaged me that she wanted to go on a another date when she gets back.

She gets back today so my question is how long should I wait until i text her about the next date?

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My gf and I had a great summer with each other. We started dating in June and we don't see any end in sight. We're happy with our relationship. We go to the same school. But now that school is starting we will never get alone time and will have less time to talk. I'm completely fine when it's just me and her, but now that my friends and her friends will be in the mix, I'll be a complete awkward mess. I feel as if I will be hesitant to approach her and talk to her if I see her with others. It won't feel right. I feel as if I won't know what to say to her if other people are around. Have you experienced anything similar and do you have any advice?

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How do you get over someone you have a crush on?
I recently startet using tinder, and matched with this girl I went to school with a years back. It startet of as just joking and flirting, and we talked about everything. Became really good friends, and after a few weeks we hooked up. We hooked up a few times, but after every hookup she just startet to ignore me more and more. We stopped talking like we used to before, and whenever I tried to start a convo she would just answer in a way that completely killed the whole conversation. After a while she just startet ignoring me completely. I don't get why this affects me this much because apparently she's just an ignorant hoe, but I can't stop thinking about her. I even had to delete her from my snapchat because I couldnt stant seeing her mystory of her being at parties and living her life like I don't excist. It annoys the shit out of me that I let her ruin parts of my day and fuck up my head. What should I do?

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I dunno what to do. My doctor wanted me to get an MRI for my back to see if there are any abnormalities since my accident 2 years ago, basically to see what is causing the chronic back pain. He sent me to a pain clinic, they want another MRI. My insurance won't cover the second one because I didn't go through the steps again so the hospital wants to charge me a $400 co-pay.

I am currently unemployed (long story) and I am only bringing in $800 a month. So $400 is a bit much. I was doing self study to get A+ and Network certified since I am good with computers and already know the bulk of the material through experience.

I dunno what to do about the money. Maybe I should just give up, get another job in production as that is the only job that I am qualified for. Just ignore the pain again and accept it as what I deserve like I had for the past 2 years.

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I know it's dumb to ask 4chan for love advice but I kinda ran out of ideas, I'm in highscool currently and there's this girl that I really like and I've told her so but she doesn't like me, is there any way I can get her to like me. She's a pretty sweet girl and not the slutty type just in case it makes any difference

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How do I talk to women when I have nothing to say besides some along the lines of "I want to fuck your titties" and I don't really care about them?

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Life sucks, we all know this. Some have it worse than others.

I'm mostly speaking to those who cannot hold down a job or are too anti-social to integrate into society, what keeps you going?

What gives you hope that one day in the future things will turn out okay?

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>No gf
>Handsome looking according to /soc/ standarts (not really, I see myself as the average looking north-american citizen in a mexican shithole)
>Mid-time part job
>While not a virgin, haven't had sex in years because every girl I've encountered is the same cold hearted bitch
>One of my newfound friends suddently got cancer and died yesterday (barely knew him, was a great human being, I truly wish him the best in the afterlife/quantum universe were he survived)
>My opportunity for a much bigger job has been crushed by someone elses arrogance
>Suicide is not an option
>Murder, however, is something I've been thinking of doing very recently if things keep going downhill

I feel really angry and depressed
''Gotta have a little bit of sorrow, so the good times can come''
While the good times come, how do I deal with this? How am I supposed to not give up after this bullshit? Any more of it and I'll go full Supreme Gentlemen

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My psychologist has suggested to admit me into a mental health facility, any experiences on what it's like?

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I have a fresh PhD in English lit from a top 40 school in America and I'm looking for a country to teach English in that will pay me enough to live on well and also make $250 per month payments on debt back home. I'd prefer university and college jobs, and won't teach people under the age of 18. (Used to teach high school and I'm not going back there.)

I also really, really love psytrance festivals and spin psytrance myself.

Where should I teach, /adv/?

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A little background is in place
>18
>Joining the military for a career, its the family tradition
>Get a huge deal once in a life time kinda thing
>68Whiskey Option 40 contract
>That means I have a shot at being a Combat Medic in the 75th Rangers before I'm 20
>No fears, quick learner even with ADD
>one problem
>I. Cant. Swim.
I'm terrified of the water. I've been trying to learn from friends but no one could teach me. I dont panic, I just cant get the hang of it. My parents refused to teach me. How do I learn?

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What is a "healthy" amount to of time to take to your significant other daily?

I've been officially in a relationship with this girl for 2 weeks. I think she is really awesome and I'm really into her. However, she seems to always want to text 24/7 (almost too clingy), which is find but sometimes I have things to do (i.e., work) that limit how much I can talk to her. Although my past relationships were complete shit shows, we always used to maybe text a few "cute" things to each other during the day then either meet up and/or talk on the phone at night. Thoughts?