I never feel like doing anything but being alone and sad.
I still live with my parents and got no friends and am unloved virgin. No job, only current studies at college. Balding started early at age 16 and my head looks like a potato.
I live far away from town and every job application seeks "experienced super social people". Got nothing to write on my resume except from my current education. This tiny town in northern europe got nothing for me.
I want to experience love but I never feel the urge to be social and I never connect with people. I got no hobbies and feel like doing nothing so it is just dumb to try, it will most likely only be another nut-kick in confidence.
And I will without doubt be someone people don't like, I don't drink, I got no job, no home, no happiness, no humor, don't find snapchat amusing at all and no friends. No reason at all for people to want me as a friend.
I don't blame them and it is all my fault.
Trying to think positive never helps as self-doubt is always there to contradict and kill the positive thinking.
My life is hopeless and I got no idea how to break my negative circle. I feel rock-bottom horrible but never suicide level. Even playing video games feel stale and sleeping is like the most entertaining stuff. Lifting at the gym for three years and counting gets me nowhere.
What am I supposed to do apart from killing myself? Manning up and "stopping with the fucking self-pity" is easier said than done and not an option.
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>>18648530
Life can always feel hopeless. But there's always hope no matter what situation. If you put the work in. You can have the life you want. Start off by believeing that and your half way there.
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I want to believe in hope but it is incredibly difficult to do so. I just hope that my life will change someday by a miracle but everyday is the same.
I don't feel the urge to do something and I don't even know what I can do. I am sometimes outside but nothing changes and I find no opportunities.
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I'll try to address every point:
No gf: hardest one. Physical appearance and voice very heavily influences sexual attraction. Women probably just don't find you attractive. If you started balding at 16 that's pretty bad for your looks.
Studies/job: You said you are studying in college. Keep studying and then get a job.
Living on a small town: I urge you to move out to a city and start living on your own.
Friends: try to talk with someone in college classes and ask for their hobbies. Making friends without hobbies is hard, atleast for me, and the connections built are usually very superficial. Not sure I can help you here. Oh by the way, you said you play video games, and yes that's a hobby so you can play games with people who do the same at uni/college, maybe?
And my main tip: fuck those who disregard your situation. Fuck those who say "man up" without knowing any of your circumstances. Fuck those who give you garbage advice such as "be confident bro". Fuck those who look at you condescendingly as if you were of lesser worth. Fuck those who say that you're a fag for complaining about life.
Every person is different and no one but you can decide which way you should take, sadly you have to figure this out by yourself.
I started receding at 16, I'm 19 now. I can somehow hide my receding hairline. I had listening problems in both my ears. My body is genetically crap, even when very lean. I have a disease in my trachea. Only thing I see in my future is travelling aboard to start working, get friends and have a good life with plenty of money. I have had suicidal urges but no attempts, and probably never will unless I am very certain I will die
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What is wrong with me?
I feel extremely dehydrated (even have dry mouth) while constantly peeing any water I drink. I'm also sweating a fuck ton and couldn't sleep at all. This is a first time this has happened to me. Water isn't staying in my body and I get dehydration headaches. Like as soon as I drink water, I can feel it going to my bladder immediately.
I'm not diabetic at all. What else could be wrong?
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>>18648505
male or female?
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>>18648505
Diabeeetus. Food poisoining. Cancer. Hormones imbalance. Parasite.
Go to doctor before you die.
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Maybe some sort of electrolyte deficiency? Idk, you should probably see a doctor.
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I'm having an affair with a girl and last time she was asking what things I'd like to try out.
I actually really couldn't come up with something so I told her I'll think about it.
Now I still don't know what she actually expects me to tell her or what we can try out, I'm a novice at this even though I don't come across like that because I'm quite rough and dominant on her during sex.
Where I can get some ideas, inspiration for what to try out with her?
Maybe some of you have some ideas?
I don't even know how far I can push, what kind of answers she expects.
What we / I already do:
- choking her lightly
- spanking her ass with my hand until its really really red
- tie up hands
- dirty talk
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Additional info, she's definetly not a shy girl, also likes to take the lead sometimes.
She was also a bit dissappointed and told me to have a little bit more fantasy when I told her I can't think of anything now.
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>>18648483
If you cheating on your girl you're a piece of trash, kill yourself.
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>>18648509
I don't have a gf, it's just an sex affair, no strings.
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Hello /adv , okay so 2 months ago i broke up with my ex who abused me mentally even tho i truly loved her . She just started to not care about my problems anymore even tough i didnt do anything wrong .
Well fast forward 2 months and i had several relationships all didnt last very long . I believe i was in a rebound phase . So anyway then i met this girl , she has a really gigantic crush on me and loves me a lot . And so did I when we came together , but now i lost interest in her but she still loves me endlessly and i have no idea what to do .
PS: I also have been very depressed the last couple of days because I really miss my ex . She was so beautiful and adorable until she changed into something horrible . I just dont know what to do about those two things and i would like some advice if you have any !
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Please clarify to me how someone getting tired of listening to you complain about your problems is considered mental abuse.
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Not sure if I am too cynical.
I grew up to a divorced family. Yeah I was raised by my mom but my dad was still around to help. Despite him being a constant drunk/ smoker. Grew up with my mom working hard to get 2 MS degrees and living a pretty okay life. Not rich but we were never dirt poor. I learned that no one could put me down than me, and to always work hard, try my best, dont do drugs,etc.
I went to hs with some pretty nerdy kids, we all graduated and at the time I thought they were some of the smartest/strongest kids I knew. Overtime I started to realize that one bad day could literally shift their character/morality. From being cheated on to getting an STD they continuously started to do drugs like smoking weed, ecstasy, etc. At first , I would notice it slowly with different people but then I saw how non-nonchalant people were. Some of them watched as their friends beat up a homeless man(which I intervened to stop), their lack of actions caused the man to die the next day by the same attackers. But no sympathy would be shown.
From things like the story above to cheating, lying,stealing,drugs,etc. They would constantly do things that would be immoral. Then smile the next day and pretend they were innocent. I kept calling things out and eventually I lost a lot of friends. It took time but I recovered 3x from it but it just amazes me when I check these peoples facebooks 3-4 years later and they are out doing drugs,raving,etc.
Yeah I am not perfect,I could always improve but I know that and each day I try to improve myself .
Maybe I am too cynical? Maybe I am being too harsh on people for expecting the same standards, maybe I am right for having a standard of who is around me?
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Nah, your friends are not good people. Stand by your beliefs and you're good.
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>>18648457
And why are you trying to be with them? Get real friends, no, you are not cynical but you are neither a victim so stop trying to make yourself responsible for people who aren't worth it and build friends who are good for yourself.
Be kind but above all be kind to you
Always white like a dove but smart like a snek
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>>18648457
Trust yourself and be moral, there are good people who will have your back, and you can die in peace when the time comes
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been doing it on and off longest time prob couple months
recently started again and working out and when i get rock hard i pretty much lay down and dry hump my bed for a second for relief
I'd like to get a gf but since southern california is an interesting zone for dating I haven't had as much luck as I have before in like central california where women are thirstier for a guy that works out etcetera.
what do?
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>>18648434
>Southern california is not as good
What literally went for vacation to southern cali and got like a thousand tinder matches, and I am not even that good looking
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Lasting more than 2 hours in bed 2017-08-22 11:38:02 Post No.18648423
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Lasting more than 2 hours in bed
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Female side please respond..
>23 y.o guy
I'm lasting more than 2 hours during inercourse
I know lots guy have problem with lasting long but I have problem with lasting too long
Do females like a very long time in bed or no ?
I have a gf and she always gets tired faster than I am.. sometimes she tells me that it hurts when I go too deep inside her..
She really tries her best to stay long ...
my questions is ... does she have any worries inside her head that I'm lasting too long and that she might think that she isn't enough for me .
Thanks
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> I'm not a girl
She might think like that
And maybe you should find different GF to fuck that lasts longer
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>>18648443
>OP here
I'll have to talk to her about that
Nope , I don't want other
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>>18648449
It has happened to me, if you are doing all the work and only focusing on fucking her, it will be hard to cum
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>first GF
>Everything is amazing for about half a year
>Suddenly Stroke
>becomes an emotional wreck and we split after about a year of trying to make shit work out
>Second girlfriend
>Everything is amazing for the first couple of months
>SUDDENLY MITOCHONDRIAL DISEASE
>becomes an emotional wreck, has to spend multiple stints at a mental hospital even and we split after a year or so of trying to make shit work out
>third (current) girlfriend
>everything is amazing for about 8 months
>SUDDENLY BREAST CANCER
>.....
I don't know if I can do this again. It sounds fucked since I can only imagine what she's going through but I don't know if I can hold on and keep pretending to get back the person I actually liked.
Should I try to tough it out for her or call it quits right now just to avoid the pain, emotional drain, and guilt I know that's going to come?
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>>18648412
Depends how much worth is she to you?
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>>18648412
Haha ...
it's always hard for people when gf/bf is sick ...
Cuz when sick ...people go OHhhhh shit I better get movin
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>>18648417
A lot.
This is why I'm thinking maybe I should just leave and and spare us both a strained and stressed relationship.
I just hate how this keeps happening. If I leave, I think this will be my last relationship. I can't keep cursing these women.
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Why do I my inside body when I breathe? 2017-08-22 11:33:26 Post No.18648410
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Why do I my inside body when I breathe?
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So I recently got aware of my breathing and I can't take off my mind of it, when I take a breath in I feel my upper body and it's really weird, how could I be normal again, It feels like I'M breathing wrong altough I get enough air, like I'm not suffocating it is just feels really weird like I should be feeling different sensation instead of the one I feel now.
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Think about something else. Your putting yourself in this mindset that your trapped. Tour over thinking and letting no issues take hold of you. Just let go.
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>aware of breathing
lmao you didn't know how to before?
How do you stop getting so easily attached? This has to be my biggest personality flaw, I can be talking to a girl for just a week and already care immensely about her.
I always say that pretty much everyone in my life has the ability to hurt me more than I could ever hurt them.
A sort of good thing about it, but not really, is that every girl I've been with I'm always head over heels for them, but when the relationship inevitably ends I'm so much more affected by it because I care so much more.
I get attached to a girl, I start ignoring every other girl, everything I do in my day to day is thinking about that girl, I constantly check my phone hoping she responded
Just recently, I had been hanging around this girl a lot, I invited her over to a party I was throwing, and we held hands, cuddled and slept in my bed, the next day she got home and sent me a heart emoji and asked to see me the next night, yet when we did she mentioned nothing of it. We hugged goodbye which was a first. I attempted to hang out again, she said she'd let me know, then she would text me later and not mention it. Finally I asked her out in person, we were supposed to go out today and I asked if we still were and I get back "idk I'm kinda tired"
How do I stop getting myself so involved in everyone who gives me attention? I feel like I can't help it, I tried to keep my hopes down with this girl and I just could not
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Thank me later.
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So what you need is a distracting hobby or to put your phone on airplane mode at random. When Im talking to a girl I like I purposely distance myself from them because I know that I can easily get attached. Over time you'll learn how to drop women just as easily. I let them hurt me because I know that I could say a few words and shatter her self esteem or make her feel bad.
Back to her, what stopped you from fucking her that night of the party? I need some more details before I jump to conclusions
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We were both drinking, but I got sober eventually and she was still drunk for most of it, when she woke up and we went to my bed she was more sober
We cuddled, held hands, felt up her boobs a little, but then soon we both fell asleep
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Is there anything at all you can say to a girl that would make her interested in you?
I'm too scared to fuck things up, so I don't say anything at all to her.
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Not speaking to her makes it even worse. Stop overthinking it and just talk to her. If she doesn't like you oh well can't help it and you know she's not for you. Move on to someone else after that.
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>>18648135
I'm terrible TERRIBLE at holding a conversation. I will fuck up any small chance I have with her by opening my mouth.
At least this way there's some small chance she'll like me.
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>>18648398
Ya okay keep telling yourself that and get back to me when it doesn't go anywhere.
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I may have fucked up
>My gf may be pregnant
>Abortion is illegal in my country and you can face up to 8 years in jail
>We can't have the baby, we are both college students
>She wants to abort
>I can't even think of killing my own children
Wtd? Guys
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>>18648109
Look up home remedies that kill babies and stop useing the pull out technique, twat
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>>18648109
Dump her
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>>18648109
Go for a summer holiday to a country that allows it. Even if you don't have the money, a little bit of debt to get this done will save your educations and your future.
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Not sure what to do now.
I've been friends with this guy for about a year but 2 or 3 months ago we started going out on dates and what not... im the shy type but whenever we hungout he seemed to like that so he asked me to hangout often and what not.
Things go well for a while and then last night i ask him if he wants to take a trip to california with me for vacation and he was silent for a while and told me "I really wish you wouldnt cling to me, its not fun" and i asked him what that even meant and he explained how the reason he liked me and went after me was because he likes it when women don't give him attention, it's like a challenge but once they give him the attention he wants, he loses interest and its something he can't control apparently so he ended up getting out of the car and i texted him a couple times this morning and nothing.
I dont have much dating experience but is this kind of behavior normal from a guy? are some guys just in it for "the challenge" ? he didnt sleep with me or anything, the most we did was kiss and he seems like he's completely done.
tl;dr guy i like only liked me because i didnt like him and now that i like him, he doesnt like me. what do?
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>>18648093
He is a homosex
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>>18648093
Ya no that's really fucking weird and childish. He looks at relationships like there a game to play. Instead of what they actually are. Please dump this idiot he's not ready to date.
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Is it possible for a man to be attractive with a narrow and small chin? Not receding.
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How about the rest of your face anon? Do you have a nice nose or nice eyes?
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>Do you have a nice nose or nice eyes?
Yes, next to no upper eyelid, positiv canthal tilt, natural squint-ish. I broke my nose though, so I'll have surgery to put it back into place this winter.
Maxilla is good, jaw is strong but my chin is narrow and small af (everyone else thinks it looks normal). It kinda look like Nessman's or Ballou's.
I just kinda answered my own question, didn't I.
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how do you get over a friend who ghosted you? i became emotionally attached to this person over the last two years and all of a sudden i haven't heard from them in months. i am in pain over this and feel like my heart is broken. please help
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Reach out to them bro. People get busy. Howd you meet? Ages?