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>22 virgin
>no friends
>no social skills
>never had gf
>only go outside to buy groceries.
>live alone.
>still shower, shave, decent hygeine
>generally tidy/clean living spaces.
>poor health, very overweight.
>was depressed, not anymore
>like to think i'm not a bad guy.
>I don't have autism
>I have insane issues though
>needy, guilt trippy, overly-attached
>get mildly aggressive and very upset when abandoned, which I always am.
>scared of women and hate them.
>terrified of other humans generally now.
Advice? how do I fix this?
how do I fix my life?
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lose weight, get hobbies, do things you love, do some social things
that's pretty much it. the rest will fall into place but it will take time.
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>>18648783
Get you diet under control. Exercise. Get therapy. You atleast know your faults learn to ways to change them. Start going to social events and meet ups around your area.
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>very little energy
>i already take several vitamin supplements.
>I take no medication.
>playing video games feel like a job
>sleep is the best part of the day
>masturbating feels stupid and annoying.
>the thought of an instant painless death is attractive.
>becoming voluntarily homeless is attractive.
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Anyone got any tips for a sprain ankle?
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Saw it off
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>keep elevated
>medicated ointment
>lay off it as much as possible
>medicated ointment
Basically it.
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Ice-Heat alternation every 15 minutes, stretch 3x daily, perform light motions with ankle while sitting on the edge of the bed at least once daily. Should be good in 2-3 days.
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>something angers or worries me
>can't stop thinking about it the entire day
how do i just get over stuff
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>>18648733
Think about something that preoccupies your mind. Work out.
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>>18648745
I lift and it does help but what should i think about?
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>>18648753
Anything that interests you. I don't know your mind so your gonna have to play around with that. Also practice useing that focus when you lift with every day things that will keep you preoccupied.
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>tfw 24
>tfw realize most social groups have always annoyed me
>find people with similar interests
>they get way too into it for me to want to be their friend
>tfw constatnly feel like holden caulfield when he calls people "phony"
wtf is wrong with me?
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>>18648728
>I'm better then everyone
Change your standards and get ride of the "phony" thought. I'm the same way to some extent. When see shit I either cringe or call it tacky. I picked it up from my mom. But I've dialed it down.
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>>18648728
Nothing wrong if you can use that to your advantage, you know.
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>>18648741
its also that i tend to hate people who remind me too much of myself
>>18648772
I do have an easy ability to just get along with people when I want to, but fuck me I really don't want to as much anymore.
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Got a speeding ticket for going 62 in a 35
I'm 18 and this is my first ticket, should I pay the ticket or get an attorney or just show up to court on my own?
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>>18648705
Pay it and stop driveing like a retard.
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>>18648705
Show up in court because usually theyre lazy and just drop it to 5 over the limit
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>>18648705
Unless you're facing more than a fine, don't bother with a lawyer. It's generally worth showing up to court, particularly if this is your first offense, just to throw yourself at the mercy of the judge. It often saves you a few bucks, and can potentially keep your insurance rates down.
It's up to you though if the time and hassle is worth it to you though. Like I personally won't go to court for anything less than $200 because my time is worth more than that.
What brand of toilet paper is best? Price is not a factor here.
All the ones I ever use seem to feel like sand paper.
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>>18648696
Use your hand. most gental wipe ever
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You probably have hemorrhoids then. Everything's going to feel rough until you sort out what's causing it. If it's chronic, usually I just use whatever face cloth happens to be nearby, and just rinse it off afterwards.
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A bidet, you uncouth swine.
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a friend of mine just lost his dad. we had a long, sad conversation online about it, but the whole time all i could think was "when will this conversation end?" and "when is he gonna be done grieving and back to normal?"
he's one of my best friends and i just can't sympathize with him despite having gone through the same thing a few years ago. what level of autism am i on and how the hell should i handle shit like this?
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>>18648693
Kys you non empathetic fuck.
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>>18648693
>best friend
>when will he stop being sad about his dad dying
Reconsider your relationship asshole. Being a friend means being there for them.
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Does anyone know if that Starbucks/ASU program is worth it? I want to finish up a degree I started, and I just found out my job won't be renewing my contract at the end of the month, so I was hoping I could kill two birds with one stone.
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I've been depressed for quite some time now, nothing interests me, everything from video games to movies and sports are a huge bore to me. I have no ambitions or motivation in life and I don't know how to fix it.
Secondly, I've never had a girlfriend though I am good looking 7+/10 since I never go out. I recently started working somewhere new and I really like this girl, really good looking and interesting/fun to talk to but she likes someone else and it really hurts me to see I can't get her.
I'm at a very low point and the sadness is killing me, any advice would help tremendously. This loneliness is a curse..
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>>18648653
I recommend that you listen to music you like or music that makes you sad so that you can cry and let al that shit out, also go to a gym or do some kind of exercise since it makes you happier and more confident, at fisrt it will be boring but trust me if you give all you've to the exercise it will start to look like a challenge everyday to get better and better, and about the girl just ask her out if she rejects you welp you didn't lose anything, but if you never ask her out, you would lose an oportunity that could have been taken.
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>>18648653
Try a dating site, Get a new hobby or a new game. Participate in events, hang out with people. Read philosophy books look at art, listen to music, watch cartoons. Eat exquisite foods. Share your life with your friends.
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>>18648653
Just start by going to a dating site. Pretty sure there are women out there that may like you, and may want a bf/gf
I'm average looking and well dressed, but I have terrible anxiety and compulsive issues that completely destroy any chance of extended social interaction. No pills or therapists can help.
It's my senior year of college, and I've kept zero friends. I sit alone at the trolley stop, looking for familiar faces, but can't find any. I've begun drinking myself to sleep every night.
I keep praying that God would send someone who understands, but I think I'm losing faith.
I'm so lonely. It's like someone took a straw and sucked every bit of hope and love out of me.
Any time I try to put myself out there it feels like no one notices.
I feel like I'm going to end up killing myself.
How do I get out of this?
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>>18648639
get on the pill jew
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>>18648639
buy a diary faggot, before you kill yourself so that your family can know how fucking pathetic you were, and not just random people on the internet
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>>18648639
Work out brother, it makes a big difference in the way people treat you, then try to find others like yourselves that are introverted personality types. Assuming you're not a dick I'd be your bro in a hypothetical situation where I didn't have to go out of my way to do it/if I didn't work 24/7
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Evening /adv/
Can you please tell me the qualities of a charming man? So I can improve on them and be a better man
I need it not only for my self in general, but for my job too
Also how do I practise it? (I understand less swaering but I am sure there is more to do)
At the same time I don't want to be over the top nice guy who can be a pushover and end up looking like a cunt
Also 10/10 bombshells thread
Inb4: go back to /b/
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>Can you please tell me the qualities of a charming man?
He's charming.
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Samefagin
I am sure you lads can get something out of this too
Also bigger 10/10 girls folder
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>>18648595
Good point but there a way to be charming too no
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Im just genetic trash. Ugly body shape, no muscle nor any predisposition to building it, ugly face, asthma, bad eyesight and a plethora of other issues. Im the typical example of a kid that bullies would pick on in school in cartoons and movies.
Im just genetic trash, is there a point to continuing to live?
I wont reproduce anyway, not because I couldnt find someone who is also at the bottom of genetic pool, but because i wouldnt do to my kid what my parents did to me.
I experience life as a living hell, compared to some jock who cant but enjoy it.
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Genetic trash are people who have incurable genetic diseases which mean their lives are highly restricted in what they can do and where they can go. You're not genetic trash, you're just a little bitch.
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>>18648581
Your brain seems to work well. Use it instead of focusing on shallow things.
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>>18648581
Man don't use these fucking excuses. I'm a fucking geek, not beautiful, I have asthma, terrible eyesight, a stupid permanent acouphene from tgoing to too much concerts, and I can still live (and bang).
Stop complaining about stupid shit, train your lazy ass body a bit, have some converations with people, USE YOUR FUCKING BRAIN TO DO SOMETHING ELSE THAN COMPLAIN ON 4CHAN. ffs you're just making excuses for your lack of self confidence and impopularity.
I met this girl at this party, for the most part we were sitting down drinking and chatting away.
She then gets up and i noticed she has this walking disability similiar to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6j7jB1FXqHo but to a lesser degree. She still needs some walking canes to move around but apart from that you couldn't really notice.
Me being the drunk fuck that i am i made out and fingered her. But now i'm becoming a little self concious about being seen with her this friday, i don't want to be labeled as THAT GUY who went out with a disabled chick, also i know i sound like an asshole here but i can't help feel this way.
Am i overthinking this? Should i just proceed with it and say fuck it? I kinda like her but i don't want anything serious at this point, just looking for a quick fuck.
TL;DR Is going out with a disabled chick gonna ruin my image even though she's a solid 7/10 with big tits
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>>18648563
>Is going out with a disabled chick gonna ruin my image even though she's a solid 7/10 with big tits
If you're the sort of guy to think it is, you don't have a good image to protect in the first place
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>>18648563
Ya your overthinking. Say fuck it and enjoy the ride. Who cares what other people think of you. Your still getting pussy.
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>>18648563
If anything it'll make you look better
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So I have been getting this thing happening but only while I am at work. One or both of my ears randomly start acting up, outside noise is very slightly muffled but any internal noise I make such as speech or even breathing sounds like it is amplified 20x and I can also feel pressure on the inside of my ear pushing outwards when I breath. Swallowing will temporarily relieve the symptoms for a few seconds.
It only happens once or twice a month and ends shortly after I get off work. I cook in a kitchen so it is hot, there is a lot of noise and I am in near constant motion if that affects anything but I have been doing this for years and the problem only started around 3 months ago. It doesn't seem to be linked to stress because it can start on busy or slow days. I am a Caucasian, male, aged 29. I have no allergies so unless I started developing some that can't be the cause. I don't think going to a doctor about it will help because my ears will be fine by the time I get to the doctors office.
Anyone have any ideas of what might be going on?
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>>18648539
I don't know anon I'm not a fucking doctor. Go to a professional that actually knows there shit. For all I know you could have ear cancer.
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>>18648539
>outside noise is very slightly muffled but any internal noise I make such as speech or even breathing sounds like it is amplified 20x
That's called autophonia.
Follow this anon's advice >>18648564
Does it runs with pain or/and any other symptoms like dizziness, headaches, nausea, disorientation or tinnitus (hearing a beep)? If it does, go ASAP. If it doesn't, it could be an earwax blockage; you should NOT clean your ears with any kind of tool.
t. medfag
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>>18648632
No other symptoms. I'll scheduled an appointment with a doctor but what could be triggering the effects for it to only happen at work?
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So, not sure where else to put this, but I need some help picking out some furniture. I need a desk for a computer that's no more than like 41" wide, but that has a decent amount of shelves or drawers/cabinets on it to keep a bunch of stuff I have. Budget's about $300 for it. Looked around some and found a few that are either wide enough but with like maybe one drawer and no shelves or too wide but with enough space. Have a dog in return.
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>>18648534
Bump
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Hmm, what I'm seeing in that size is basically just a table. Do you have wall space? Maybe get a basic desk and put some shelves above it for storage.
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>>18648880
Yeah that's what I've been thinking of doing. Seen some nice looking shelves I might pick up instead and just get a basic desk or table. Thanks for the help anon.