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>3.5 year long dry spell

>Get 3 straight A semesters with lab research/internship so i can get out of the Midwest and go to grad school on the west coast
or
>Stop going to ape shit with school and focus on some Wisconsin milk maiden so I can fill this gaping hole of loneliness that I feel every day when I wake up in the morning.

I've ignored my need for human contact for years. I feel like talking with a girl about some shit is all I really need right now. I thought I could take it /adv/, I thought I could take being alone. Being single single sucks nigga.

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So basically I am 24, still live with family and just started dating at the beginning of this year. The only reason I even started is because my family surprised me for with a baby kitten. If they never got me the kitten none of this would have happened. But that is another story.

So over the year I've dated about 12 girls. Some only lead to first dates and some led to a lot more. All of them have been from online dating except for one.

I want to get out there more. I have hobbies but I have no one to share them with. I only have one real friend of 20 years and rest are just acquaintances from work which I never hang out with outside of work.

Yesterday I was out with my family for dinner and this cute asian girl (who I thought was with her family) came in and sat near us. I told myself I had to at least talk to her. She eventually got up and went to the restroom so I waited a second and went and caught her as she was coming back. Introduced myself and asked if that was her brother. She said it was her husband. Basically said Oh okay, and continued on my way. I'm glad I at least tried though because I would still be regretting it.

However like I said above I don't really have anything to get me out of the house besides photography. I live outside of the city towards the country so there is almost nothing to do out here or to meet girls. I have been going down to the river where I've occasionally seen cute asian girls but literally every time I go alone they aren't there only when I'm on a date with another girl.

I guess basically what I am trying to say is I need to find a way to get out of the house and actively go around and talking to girls in real life as opposed to online. How do I meet new people when I left all my friends on the west coast 5 years ago?

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What's the best way to structure my goals and to give myself motivation? What the best way to practice capacitance, self control and discipline?Any resources that can help me learn this?

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Not sure if this goes onto this board but can someone translate the kanji displayed in this artwork?

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My life is pretty awesome but I'm depressed as fuck and hate myself. The literal only problem in my life is not finding my dream job out of college after 3 months (engineering), but besides that I have not too much to complain about. I feel like a failure and probably have some sort of anxiety disorder where I feel like my life is never good enough and I constantly need more.

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What do you think?
https://youtu.be/sXooh_FXJ2c

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>Live in interesting country
>Had an interesting childhood
>Have interests in wide array of subjects
>Well-traveled
>Has a great sense of humour
>Likes a variety of entertainment
>Well-versed on topical subjects

Still come across as the most boring ass person possible.
What the hell do I do to sound more interesting?

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I recently graduated from highschool. Not in college, currently just working. I feel like I have damn near no social life. I mostly just work, stay in doors and sleep. I barely ever talk to people anymore(Not like I talked anyway). I'm a shitty shy person that can go through life without saying a word(if possible).

I'm confused on what to do. I'd like to be in a relationship with someone but in order to do that I'd have to socialize but I just don't know how to, I'm socially inept. Since I barely talk to anyone I don't really have any connection to anyone. I used to feel for a girl in High school but I never really got to do anything. Theres also a girl at where I work at thats cute af but I dont talk to her and wouldn't know how to start.

How do I socialize with people? How do I get myself into a romantic relationship? I don't want to be lonely. Don't we all want love? Possibly give stories on how you people have gotten into intimate relationships please?

TL:DR

Recently graduated shitty shy guy with no social life. How do i socialize? How do I get into an intimate romantic relationship? Possibly give your stories?

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So this is a complex confusing issue I need some insight on, and I didn't know where else to ask.

I have pretty bad social anxiety. It gets way worse when the idea is possibility of a relationship is present. Therefore I don't talk to many girls.

The other day I was talking with my step mom about this and she said I did pretty well talking to my cousin at dinner and shed never seen me so comfortable.

I was comfortable because I always thought of her as my cousin but is she? As my step mothers, step sisters daughter, would it be acceptable to persue a relationship or does that make me a cousin fucker?

We're both legal age btw

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Is it possible to get a girl that you marry for life that's the total opposite of you?

Like I wanna be a music producer tattood and do drugs but I want a girl who's introverted and a gamer and no tattoos.

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Porn doesn't seem to get me hard anymore. I don't watch anything that hardcore, just nudes and masturbation mostly. I still have lucid sexual dreams that make me hard but porn just has no effect anymore. How do I reset my brain so every bit of nudity gets me as hard as I was when I was 14?

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Looking to go to a strip club for the first time tonight, where do I get the best bang for my buck? I.e

>no cover charge
>or at least, a "drink minimum" instead
>touching allowed (at least for lap dances)

My budget is about $100, not including transportation. I just want a more "interactive" lap dance, not looking to get laid or a VIP room. Don't care at all to watch a girl pole dancing on a stage

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im in a tangle, /adv/. i need perspective.
i broke up with my gf recently and it was a great decision. ive been in long term relationships for 7 years and theyve always been with depressed, slightly BPD girls, and it made me think i was also depressed. now that ive been single for an appreciable amount of time ive realized i can pass as a normie, and ive been spending a lot of one on one time with this SUPER cute girl who im absolutely in love with. im pretty sure she's interested but ive never had practice with regular, normal ppl courtship. i get nerves, I act weird, I sometimes get defensive when she teases me and go too far when I'm teasing her. So far it's been fine and we've continued to get closer but im gonna have to make a move soon and I feel like I'm gonna drop all my marbles. No idea wtf I'm getting into or how to manage the feelings of inadequacy when I'm around her - feels like she's way outta my league. Wondering if I should just hide under my covers for the next month instead of talking to her again.

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I've had weird urges as a kid, like swatting bees with a bat and such. Recently, I've been having strong urges. Fighting, breaking stuff, self harm (but not that cutting shit because I'm not a emofaggot.) Even during sex, I want to bite her. I even had a thought of eating a piece of her. Now, I'm not deranged or anything. I'm a functioning member of society and I pay my taxes and all that shit. So toss me some knowledge.

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Made a thread that I was adding posts to. Dumbass me accidentally closed out the tab that the post was on.
I was in icognito mode. Is there any way to find the thread again?