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I'm interested in taking dancing lessons, but I'm only 5'7" (and I live in the Netherlands).

Girls will only resent me for being shorter than them, right?
I'd rather not dance, than dance while my partner despises it/feels ashamed...

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for my own edification?

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At what age did you lose your virginity? How long did you stay with that partner?

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Hello my fellow /adv posters. I'm making this thread to give advice to people with ex problems. I'm doing this on a whim because I just had a silly one. I'll share it if you guys ask.

Anyway, if you have ex problems, post here and I'll try and respond to help.

Btw, I have bad wifi atm so replys will be slow.

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Hola todos, I'm white and I speak a conversational bit of Spanish and I badly want to pick up latina women who are at least as thick as pic related (yup, chubby chaser). In honesty, I'd be hard pressed to think of anything more attractive to me and aside from ordering at restaurants, I really don't have much experience or knowledge as to how to talk to latinos in general. I'm 21 and have relatively little experience with dating and hookups anyway as I've only had a couple of flings and never an LTR. I always enjoy talking to these people, though, as they always seem quite friendly. I just want advice on forming relationships and getting in on that guapa gordita.

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Redpill me on getting a STD from tinder.

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My room mate, who is a full on Chad, invited me to spend the entire weekend at his sick ranch.

Just yesterday though, he told me he invited three stacies he plans to fuck.

He just told me he is sick and he can't come.

I'm about to board a train to spend an entire week with three girls in the middle of nowhere.

I've never been so nervous. What the fuck am I gonna do?

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So short story, but kind of specific.
>Girl is taken, but says she likes me, also co-worker
>end up kissing and making out at work all the time. Finger her in my car when she goes on break.
>Saturday she says I'm perfect
>Sunday, tells me her boyfriend actually apologized, and it surprised her.
>I behave a bit clingy by hanging out at her work waiting for her to get on break to continue where we left off.
>She says she doesn't want her co-workers to find out, but we Only hang out at work because of Boyfriend.
>Gets upset because I hung around a little too long and risked us getting caught.
>I take the hint and take a step back for 2 days.
>Wednesday we still make out in the freezer, but she tells a co-worker/mutual friend she thinks she's loosing interest in me.
>Thursday is nothing but the cold shoulder at work.
What the fuck is happening? I'm 27 and my last relationship was 5 years long, so I've been out of the dating game for a while. Do women just lose interest like that? She has made some flirty moves to another co-worker who's Somoan so take that what you will. But was it my clingy behavior? Do I ask for closure? Do I ask what happened and what's up? Or do I just pack up my toys and say fuck it?

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I broke up with my ex an year and half ago. Since then, I dated:
>Diagnosed sociopath
>Suicidal guy
>A guy who literally lied about everything from his name, to his job to his marital status
>Bipolar
>Another diagnosed sociopath
None of these things went further than a few dates. The suicidal guy said he wasn't ready for a relationship and asked me to stay friends. With the others, I just cut it off when I realised/they told me what was going on.

What is wrong with me? Why do I keep attracting this kind of guys? Why do I keep being attracted by this kind of guys?

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I “am” a man.
I recently have some feelings with men, but still keep sexual feelings with women (physically).

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I am looking for someone to talk to and help me out. I need someone else experieneced with therapy/depression. Looking to possibly talk over the phone or a video chat.. I’m emotionally exhausted and I need help.
Snapchat: megann_hope

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The end of high school is looming over me like a knife on a thin thread. My plans for after high school only go as far as about two years. After that I have no clue what I wanna do. That's my main problem. I never know what I want. I just want to find something to be content with but it feels almost impossible. I'm always second guessing myself and wondering what I want. Go become a squatter? Get a job and apartment with my SO and start a family in ten years? Live on my own? Get a boring desk job? Travel the world? Be rich? I can't figure it out and it frustrates me. I just want to know what I want and stick with it.

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Is there even a point in trying to date when you're around 5'6 and aren't willing to date fat girls? Based on what I've read online, young women usually don't respond well to strangers hitting on them in person since nowadays pickup is mostly done through tinder, but studies have shown that on tinder you'll get virtually no matches as a short male, so it seems nearly impossible for a short male to date nowadays. I'm not even willing to try approaching in person because if it's embarrassing and awkward I'll remember it for the rest of my life and hate myself every time I remember it. I have a collection of cringy social moments I remember every once in a while that literally make me want to puke every time I remember them, so I definitely don't need more of them.

I don't attempt to talk to women unless they talk to me first. I'm 20 and the only relationship I've been in is with a woman who approached me on the bus and started talking to me first. I think the only reason a woman approached me on the bus is because I was sitting down and she couldn't see how short I was. I ended up breaking up with her half a year later because we didn't have enough in common, but no women have talked to me since.

At this rate I feel like I won't have another girlfriend for many years. Should I just try to forget about it and continue jacking off to anime pussy? And please no replies like "I have a friend who's dating a short guy" because it means nothing, studies have already concluded that dating is near impossible for short men.

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I have a gf that I've been together with since December of 2015 and I constantly think of leaving her, but I have a few issues with that on its own. Firstly, I don't think about leaving her for other people or anything like that, I just would almost rather be slightly less happy than I am right now as to not deal with the problems that a long term relationship brings. She's both the best and worst thing happening in my life right now.

The main reasons the relationship is so hard to maintain is because I live right in Utah and everyone is absolutely batshit crazy here. She honestly acts like a 10 yo in a 23 yo's body (19 btw). I've finally convinced her to move in with me because it was the turning point in my adolescence that really made me grow up and face reality, but even then I worry that she just won't ever hit the point of maturity I need in a partner due to her Mormon upbringing and this environment's effect on people.

My question is; should I call things off after leading her this far even though she's often one of the best things to happen to me? Would it be better to do it now even though we're in full swing with these plans to move in together or later after I'm driven even further towards the brink of insanity?

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Anyone else here just get sick of western culture social bullshit then decided to be an expat to escape it all?

I've hardly spoken to other white people outside of work in years now