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clearly you aren't meant to be then.
Shes just the first woman to ever give you time of day and you're falling for the "settled for a fatty" meme because you have zero self confidence.

also
>Implying its impossible for her to lose weight
Its a longer shot yes, since it's not something you can tactfully bring up, but she might lose weight later on down the road.

If the topic of sex comes up, just tell her you don't think you can do it because, while you like her as a person, you're not sexually attracted to her.

My partner is fat and took my virginity. I convinced him to go to the gym weekly for his health's sake. He's already lost 15 pounds since then. Even though I like touching his fat body, I am still interested what it will be like when he's a "normal" weight.

Even if he didn't lose weight though, being in love is awesome and I am happy and content with who he is so I don't see why I would end something good just to experience other people who might just end up being a disappointment and not worth it.

well, I guess you have some FREE TIME to think about what you want to do :^)

You know those hobby things that people do? Try one of those. Want a suggestion? Grab some paper and head to >>>/po/.

>forcing her to do anything

Fuck off back to /pol/.

>>18707240
I said get her to, not make her. It's like 100% better when someone is doing something they want to do for you.

It means that she is comfortable to the point where she can just be friendly with you. It's a good thing.
In saying that, please remind her of how much you care. I've been in a relationship similar and we split because the love faded and we felt like we were just friends that fucked. Good luck and congratulations, hope you two work out

She's comfortable being around you and doesn't feel like she has to put up a front or act different when you're around. That's not something that everyone feels and it can make relationships have resentment or discomfort. So she's happy.

In the future, just ask her in a curious way. Hearing it in her own words will make you guys feel even closer.

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>I don't really see myself having another relationship, so this is my one shot.

With that mindset, you're on the road to getting cucked then fucked. Tbh it's gonna bust wide open at some point whether it's in the coming months or maybe years. Either case your gonna wish you didn't waste yo time on her

Don't worry, just stop being retarded so it never happens again.

>>18707175
it's okay to feel funny sometimes. maybe it's the appropriate way to feel.

>>18707212
i feel drawn in even more by her now

Put a thing on your PC so you can only use it for a couple of hours a day, like anti-child lock thing.
It's fine if you know how to get around it or have the password to unlock it. The trick is to add that extra barrier.
A barrier that doesn't have to be high but does need to be able to completely stop you.

It will help.

>How do I make myself set aside 2-3 hours each day for the things I dream of when I have so little drive?
Come up with goals that you really care about. You should be open to the possibility that you don't actually care that much about the dreams you thought you had. So sit down and really think about and write down what you want to do with your life and WHY. You need to reason through why these goals matter so much to you because when you're tempted to just say "fuck it" and vegetate in front of your computer, you'd better be able to convince yourself that moving toward your goals is more important. I think this lack of motivation is often due to not being clear to yourself about what your goals actually are and not having a plan.
So after you've given yourself goals and a clear, concrete plan to work toward them, schedule your time. Be sure to schedule time to play games or whatever if you think you'll miss doing that. You don't have to give up any of these things that have been a part of your life, but you need to give yourself time for the other things you believe are important. Following the schedule will require discipline, which is the hard part. But if you gave yourself goals that you actually give a shit about, then you'll have an easier time.

>>18707140
No one in their 20's is a lost cause when it comes to women, we're all biologically prone to be humping machines. Just find some ugly bitches to practice on and you'll get better with time.

>>18707147
Yeah your right, and I do apologise if I seem to be moaning, it's just before I used to have more energy or I guess my libido was higher, now it's just I feel like my testestorne is shot or something, I don't get excited about things anymore like I used to before and I don't know how to get around this

>having a conversation on Snapchat
You're both in the wrong.

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Why do you care what we think?

You think you are right and she thinks she is right. And even if you were on the objective correct side here it's not gonna save you.

>arguing over Snapchat
>expecting logic from a woman feeling emotional.
>caring about who's right.

3 strikes and you're out. Get the fuck outta here. Nothing that comes up in that conversation will matter right now. Do it later, in person. If it's not even that important a subject, then who the fuck cares?

>>18707092
Lol, it will be terrible, because of people like me.

>>18707092
You're going to be dealing with a lot of frustrated people but it can't be too hard a job if they're outsourcing it to people who can hardly speak English fine.

Hi op,

Don't listen to these fucks. I'm working as IT support now and barely have any retarded customers. Maybe once every two weeks.

I'm supporting globally, so your problem will be india, Sri Lanka because of language barrier or any asians that live in Europe because they're cunts who think they're one step higher than everyone just because they live there. Also fuck singaporeans.

Other than that no, U.K. And Americans are generally nice people. Some cunts as well but its really rare. They call in, i repair their pc remotely, and fuckoff.

t. a global tech support for 9 months

>>18707072
Jam a knife into a wall so the blade is pointing outwards and run as fast as you can into the knife. Repeat if necessary.

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Why do you want to do it?

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>>18707072
Kys. If you actually wanted it, you would be already dead.

>>18707064
Take some with you.

>>18707064
Drugs, alcohol, and ciggarettes.

>>18707064
Distract yourself with drugs, vidya, alcohol, or whatever else
OR
Find something to live for; it's something that'll be in the back of your head for the rest of your life. You have to learn to live with it.

It depends on what it is. If it's something like salt or a toaster, then why the fuck wouldn't you share it?

>>18706927
It'll usually be stuff like clothes, or cologne and stuff. If I bought some good food that I really like, he'll ask if he can have some; It being limited supply, I mostly say no.

>>18706939
It's fair enough if you don't want to share personal items or good food. If it's something that's cheap and easily replaced or something like an appliance, that's when it's petty.

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>>18706919
>tfw i would do anything to have a homosexual boss who wants to sexually abuse me
GOOOOOOOOODD. I fucking hate my life. Stop rubbing it in. Why do you get all the fun you fucking ungrateful cunt?

>>18706919
Blow your supervisor. He seems like he needs to blow a load and he clearly likes you.

Realize the past isn't truly how you remember it and that there is nothing you can do but learn from it so you should take bits and pieces to readjust yourself

Remind yourself that few other people will remember your mistakes and probably don't care.

Get in a new environment - new town, new job, new friend groups, new websites even. It's so much easier to be reminded of your mistakes and problems if you see the same reminders of that time.

That sounds terrible. It also sounds like something I experienced as a child.

Who would you rather trust: 4chan, or someone who deals with side effects as part of their profession? Talk to your doctor and or psychiatrist.

>>18706801
I took trazadone as a teen to try and get rid of insomnia. It fucked me up for a while, bigly. Lots of waking hallucinations and such.

telll your doctor and get on different meds.