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Hi /adv/
Idk what to do. I'm 23. Live in Canada. I'm struggling with depression and anxiety. I've held down a decent paying job for the summer and am in the middle of university. I think I might have a sort of toxic relationship with my father ... It feels bad saying that. I don't really know anyone in person and feel super isolated. Since my parents gambled my student loans away right before they split a few years ago, I have been barred from student loans. My dad said he'd pay for me to go to school as long as I lived with him, but not anywhere else. But after this year, he has made it like he is not going to be paying for it anymore. I'm not allowed to get anything for myself without being questioned or even go anywhere without the validity of going there being questioned as well. I'm told I use my disabilities to take away the responsibilities of my actions... And it has been insinuated by him that I am a hypochondriac just like my mother...
I think a dog would really help me cope with my major depressive disorder, anxiety and adhd... But I'm not allowed to here because I've been told I'm not responsible or stable enough by my father.
I can't live with my mum because she is not okay in her own way. I grew up with her multiple suicide attempts and sickness and verbal, physical and emotional abuse. I didnt realize thats what it was at the time but I do now as an adult. She is manic depressive/bipolar and has disowned me multiple times even in adulthood.
I have enough saved for the first semester of the school year coming up... I dont know. I feel like I need to leave. For me. But idk if it is feasible. And my mental health is iffy at best. I've been referred by my family doctor for mental health services... But I've been waiting for over a year and even after contacting them several times about it, they havent even been able to provide me an appointment date.
What about rent? And holding down a job? Would I stay in this isolated town?
Help?
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How to get over ass holes? 2017-07-23 11:22:50 Post No.18549298
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How do you get over people being natural ass holes? It seems like lately everywhere I go someone is being a piece of shit or just ruining everyone's fun. It messes my day/good mood up.
How do you learn to just not care or get over it? For some reason it's like every time I walk out the door, boom someone walks right in front of me driving, someone gives me a sarcastic remark, someone cuts me off while driving and honks like a moron, someone is acting like a psychopath walking around.
I don't know how to just not care. I mostly just say indoors nowadays and want everyone to stay away from me so they don't ruin my day.
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If you think everyone around you is an asshole, the more likely situation is that you're a sensitive little bitch.
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>>18549302
how do I stop being sensitive then? I used to get into fights a lot (been in literally 10+ fist fights growing up, not exaggerating) and that doesn't seem to really 'toughen' me up. I just have a low tolerance for bull shit. idk what to do, I just hate being around everyone.
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You're probably an asshole yourself.
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[Please consider sharing something even short or futile in this thread.]
I've read about neurons, psychology, and depression for a while, and can only get to the conclusion that we all need to hear good stories to anticipate good things in order to feel good.
For all the Anons who can only anticipate bad things and thus have depression and are waiting for terrible events to happen, please share stories about how you were lonely and then met friends whom you shared good moments with.
Please save this board from the depression-sharing place it has become.
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>>18549253
I ate less than 2000 calories today
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>>18549253
I use to sit on the computer all day it started when my mom was a huge alcoholic and then it compounded when I deployed and came back with ptsd and failed to connect with people. But I've been hanging out a lot with my best friend of 22 years recently and my life's been better then ever. I hardly use the computer anymore and I have been getting into better shape and I don't hate people as much
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i moved to a new place a year ago and met a person at work who i really connect with and consider a good friend. our relationship is partially based around making art but mostly around binge consumption of alcohol. at least its better than drinking alone
i also reconnected with a girl i used to know years ago. she is as much of a cunt as she ever was and i hate her fucking guts, took me a while to realize it again though
it doesnt get better boys, wish it did
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Okay need y’alls help, I made an OkCupid recently and after a bit I 94% matched with this girl who is fucking awesome and gorgeous, sent her a message, and no reply... I looked and the last time she was online was July 15th. So fuck me right after a while of desperation I decided to search her username on twitter, found her and sent her a tweet, of course her last activity was on July 5th.. I maybe alittle desperate to get into contact with this chick but I can absolutely tell by our likes and interests she’d really be into me.
I definitely don’t want to give up what are my options??
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>>18549229
your reaching creeper levels of autism bro, calm the fuck down and move onto someone else
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>>18549229
>I definitely don’t want to give up what are my options??
Giving up is your only option. Any other option is going to make you look incredibly desperate and creepy. Its very unsettling that you're so stuck on one girl that you've never even spoken to.
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>>18549243
Fuck y’all are right, I should probably move one then just wish she would login
Is there a decent 4chan app on ios? I just switched and i miss clover. The app im using now cost 2 dollars and has no notifications for a reply, doesnt say when a thread is archived, and wont let me save pics from the app. The only thing it has over just using Safari is letting me watch webms. Doesnt even have flags for the boards that have it
>pic related: The Chan 1.99 on the app store
Is there any option for me?i dont want to jailbreak
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Sell iphone buy android
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>>18549215
iPhone fag here
the best you can do is download a Webm player and copy/paste the webm links to view webms. I havent found a 4chan app that doesnt make me want to kill myself
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Hi /adv/
stuff u need to know
>be me
>youngest out of my brothers
>all of them in uni
>mum comes from a different country
OKAY SO HERE IS THE STORY
>parents fight all the time
>they want to divorce but they won't cause I'm not in Uni yet
>mum is suffering
>I'm the reason behind it
I'm seriously considering suicide. I don't want to but I think it's the only way for my mother to find peace
>>inb4 no one takes me seriously cause of pic related
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Way to make this about you.
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Do you think your mother will find peace if her youngest son commits suicide?
No, it'll make things worse for her and will make her think she's the reason you're dead.
What is the reason exactly for the fights happening between your parents though?
Heya.
Long story short,
When I got home from work I started crying for no reason. I felt like shit, despite having a pretty good day.
Is this a sign of depression?
If it matters, i'm 21.
Thanks
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>>18549150
it means you've got aids
prepare to die in 9...8...7...
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Sometimes a long story is better because this story is shit. How the fuck am i supposed to know why you have been crying without knowing anything besides that you are 21 and have a job.
I can only imagine that some form of very deep feelings came up that have might been that might have to do with love, dead friends or something, loneliness, unsatisfaction in the job and so on. Just that this particular day has been pretty good does not mean that it was in the previous days..
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Does anyone have any advice for a person who stutters in english and has a Spanish accent. I cant even talk in Spanish without stuttering. I want to speak English fluently but I keep stuttering and its causing me to not talk at all. Any tips? Thank you.
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May it be that you have some form of esteem issues or small social experience?
If thats the case, you lack of training.
Otherwise you may try altough i dont know if this works to talk to yourself out loud. Having conversations if this is possible and just look whether this is fluently working or not.
Have similar issues, but my problem is that i talk to fast but i either dont care anymore or try to slow down
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Would a girl you've slept with repeatedly tell you you're the best sex she's ever had JUST to be nice? My fling told me this, I love sex w/ her, she told me I was better than all of her ex-boyfriends. Can I take her word for it? If I were w/ a girl who was kinda awful in bed, I might tell her she's "not bad in bed" just to be nice, but I wouldn't tell her she was amazing.
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Enjoy the compliment what the fuk dude.
A women might tell you today that she cant imagine a life without you and cheat tomorrow.
So just take the compliment and have more sex with her. In the end it is important how some one acts and not what he or she says, so if she'll come for your dick you will have your answer.
This is such a waste of time.
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>>18549103
maybe,
lots of girls lie about sex by default, others will tell you the truth.
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I don't care, I just got pussy. I could be a dead fish and still be jazzed I got pussy, fuck if I was good to her. It was good to me
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Femanon here. I've been seeing this guy for 2 months. He's nice. But I just realized that I'm not in love with him. When we go out it just feels like another chore, I don't get excited about it, all is just mundane. Should I keep going out with him to avoid hurting his feelings? I feel like if I keep stringing him along only for the real truth to come out later, that would only hurt him more and I'm not trying to do that. But I also don't like to be the person who breaks up? I don't know. What would you do.
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It's normal to not be in love with someone after 2 months, but you should know if you want to keep being with them. Break up with him, it's not fair on anyone.
>But I also don't like to be the person who breaks up?
So you like to be the victim. Gotcha.
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How do I let go of the past?
All I ever do is bawl because I'm afraid that my family will someday die. I'm also obsessed with a hard drive on which I store everything I ever loved and every piece of footage of me as a child. I still have all my toys I've ever had cramped in my bedroom. I feel like I should move on but I can't. It's been around 20 years.
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Get rid of all that shit, give it to trustworthy people or sell it, no matter how hard it is because you're obsessing over it and it's hurting you. Have you ever seen a therapist? They can help you a lot with that stuff
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>>18549052
I'm not sure about a therapist. I'm too much of a pussy to seek help directly
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>>18549090
>I'm not sure about a therapist. I'm too much of a pussy to seek help directly
Ok, then continue to be miserable I guess.
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How do I stop being so insecure about myself?
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Best way to maximize gains?
>got new job at warehouse
>5 days a week similar schedule
>lots of moving and lifting, some inside some outside
>sweat profusely throughout my shift
>already losing weight
>sore muscles every night
figure i can get decent gains and hope to recover quicker
my schedule is
>9 hour shift
>2 hours work
>15 minute break
>2 hours work
>30 minute break
>2 hours work
>15 minute break
>2 hours work
My question: When would you recommend drinking protein, eating food, and snacking on things like nuts and fruit, based on my schedule? Or does it not matter when?
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You probably won't gain much muscle at all as you're going to make endurance gains at most.
The reason you ache so much is because you've never had to do anything physical before.
>When would you recommend drinking protein
You don't drink protein unless you can't get enough through your usual diet, protein is a SUPPLEMENT not a meal replacement.
>eating food, and snacking on things like nuts and fruit, based on my schedule?
Eat when you are hungry, stop eating when you no longer feel hungry.
Ideally you consume something after an intensive training session, it doesn't quite apply to something your body will adapt to within 2 months.
Source: personal trainer and a sports nutritionist
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>have astigmatism
>don't wear glasses (uncomfortable and I don't like how they look on me)
>eyes always tired and out of focus
Are contacts worth it?
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So a few months ago, I broke it off with a manipulative and selfish girl. I'd been doing okayish with not thinking about her, when a friend of hers acted as a medium for her to talk to me, and now my weak mind is thinking about her again. I need to stop because it leaves me stressed and angry, advice?
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