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>>18084784
the best way into the industry is to start with male clients and build up to female clients.

Many such cases!

>>18084803
Yes, but I'm not sure if I'm okay with that, I mean, maybe some older rich guy, but I don't want to go too far to the point where I'll be crying in the shower and develop PTSD.

>>18084842

then dont become a prostitute. because you're too mentally weak to put up with it. and saying 'WELL ITS DIFFERENT WHEN ITS GIRLS' isnt going to chance anything when you're facing something that doesn't resemble a human with its clothes off.

horror has no gender.

If you can think of a solution come up with a presentation and you will be looked at for the next promotion as long as your company doesnt have a nepotism problem. Otherwise your bosses are retards who want to get blood from a stone and this will be the first of many problems like this.

If it were easy, anyone could do it

>>18084767
It's seemed to me like the blood from a stone theory. The line was only designed for 10 units a week. We were doing 10 a day when I started and I helped bring it up to 20. Now they want 30 with no excuses

They keep hiring minority immigrants and I'm pretty sure I work in a sweat shop but have no way out to better/similar wages

>>18084755
It sounds like you were kind of a dick boss to your son. If you wonder why he doesn't want to talk to you, then ask yourself: when was the last time you felt like talking to a dick boss from a job you hated?

>>18084755
You trusted some other guy over your son. Did you really have a reason for that?

I would have told him "look, I trust you and I believe you, but I'm in a situation where I can't appear to be acting out of bias because you're my son. I will do my best to confirm what you told me, Try not to get into conflicts with this guy in the meantime, and be sure that I'm going to be keeping a close eye on him."

If the dispute was that what the guy did was actually threatening to his safety, fuck appearances, that guy would be gone.

Anyway, at this point all you can do is keep trying.

>>18084755

>the son was actually right

jeez, how long ago was this? how long did it take others to come forward? what was the situation? why didnt you believe your own son?

Stop masturbating so much.
If you don't ejaculate regularly it builds up.
your bedroom must look like a putty factory under a UV light

Many such cases!

That's a pretty bold assumption. Maybe I don't like withholding it. Maybe I get laid so much that I can't hold it in for more than a day at a time. I (and my partners) both want an even more explosive finish

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>>18084721
>huge paranoia with an illness
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLjelIPg3ys
short vid please watch
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1
longer vid , also good
you should meditate

>>18084759
I keep thinking I have rabies even though the dog wasn't symptomatic and doctor said I was fine. It's been almost 2 months but I keep thinking that I have mild symptoms. I itch wherever I was scratched by dog. Watery mouth and speech trouble, twitching muscles not painful, even threw up white foam. Nothing seems to calm me down or reassure me. Mostly because I have read that it can take 4 or 8 months to a year to tell for sure and then its usually too late. I have a huge fear of dying especially when I could have been prevented. Now I feel like I can't be around anyone or animals at all. It bugs me but idk what to do.

>>18084812
meditate
http://marc.ucla.edu/meditation-at-the-hammer

well there's doctors and shit for this but sure 4chan is close enough

>>18084643
If I stay at this job for another week I'll have health insurance to see a doctor. I don't see how they could help though, unless they give me a scripy for Oxycodone.

>>18084636
Some advice. Easier said than done, but still possible. Don't take on other people's problems when you have chemical imbalances from doing drugs. Don't do drugs to deal with family problems. Stop now rather than later when things are worse. Do something that puts yourself outside of the situation you're in. Meditate, listen to music, play video games, use noise canceling headphones. Take generic immodium to deal with diahrrea from withdrawals. Take cold medicine to deal with withdrawal. Turn your attention to on to something else. Apply for different jobs. Think about yourself in a different way When you have negative thoughts rework them into more positive thoughts and focus on the positives instead of the negatives. Your family trouble will not always be there.

>>18084655
You could go to a suboxone or methadone clinic, go to a psychiatrist and get some antidepressants, and/or see a therapist to talk through issues.

>>18084626
Make an appointment with your school's career counsellor. They're usually free and very helpful.

>>18084626

Get a degree on whatever you like, then work on that actually fulfills you. The thing is to combine the two.

>>18084626
you wont know what you wanna do as a career until you've tried several careers.

protip: this doesn't occur in college

tl;dr imagine /r9k/ going clubbing with a sexy Latina. What do?

>>18084590
This is why you don't fake confidence.

It needs to come from within

lool bitch fake it till you make it. try youtube, search up whining and stuff you just need to be able to feel the music and move accordingly

Why not simply ask your boss to your overall performance? Tell him you need some highlights on things you'd need to improve on to better yourself as an employee because you care about your job.

>>18084592
I don't know

Severe social anxiety lol

Dude I feel the same exact way. I write this from work, my seventh day in a row. Last person went home long ago. I'm literally doing the work of three people. And I still feel this way too.

It's irrational.

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>>18084533

0/10

Standing by for the redpill meltdown.

Just cut loose and have fun. Everyone enjoys sex. Just know what and what not to pull ;)

>>18084549
Alright...

I wouldn't do this if I had a man but I'm failing there unfortunately

Damn

>>18084524

age? how long have you known each other? whats the context with the lotion? at the beach or what?

And years. At least 7

Just a quick note, I know physically and professionally I am low on the desirable category and dont expect success but id like to at least try.

Please respond

>>18084716
>>18084560
>>18084506
>>18084497

Post a exaggeratingly decent photo of yourself with only the words I wont send you a photo of my cock in the profile description. Thats it.

I really disagree with this view that your education is strictly for utility purposes, where you get a key that opens up a door and that's all it is. It's only partly true. A degree or certification is only going to help you to a certain point, the rest is all career moves. Every employer wants to see that you have that piece of paper but most of the time it doesn't matter what's on it, you just need it. The use of furthering your education is for you and your mind. You're exposing yourself to a massive amount of information at once, and more importantly, the tools to figure out what it all means. That's really the most important part of college, is learning how to think and organize yourself, both from doing the work and from the ideas you're being taught.

If you, say, go to trade school so you can get a job you don't get that, you just learn the one thing and then you have the rest of your life doing that one thing, feeling tired all the time, not being able to better yourself in any way, and seeing the same people who shut themselves off long ago and only want to talk about football. You won't get the learning and exploration there and you'll wish you spent your youth doing young people stuff instead of diving nose first into the workforce because it was a safe bet/society tells you that you need to "contribute".

t. going to uni for history at 27 because its what I love

behavioral psychologist

Good maths is only generally required for Physics and Engineering-type degrees, you'll make it through most other science degrees fine.

I just have to point out that if you want to get into a technical field, ignore what >>18084498 said. You'll still need the expertise, whether gained in college or on the job.

>>18084487

we just gonna gloss over this whole gf thing?

>>18084487
Set a new goal. Do something hard yet fulfilling. Do something you've thought was cool even in passing. Learn to fly a plane, join the military, go surf in Tahiti or buy a nice car and be a track day guy.

>>18084487
>my girlfriend is cheating on me but i dont care

Loving every kek

>>18084452
But literally no one is using it, obviously because none of us have friends.

>>18084593
what do you mean no one is using it? They still ned volunteers and even though people here are on the social edge they still tend to have at least one friend. If we help the researchers, they'll do the rest of the job and come with actual advice that makes sense; much more than random trolls on the board

>>18084452
looks like something done in Europe in 2015 by psychology students

ur just having a fantasy
ur gonna have to solve ur problems practically and in reality