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It's one of those things that affect everyone differently.
For instance, for me, right before I get my period I get really sad and emotional and things can make me cry more easily.

You should ask her about it though.

>>18075602
>>18075578
Oh, and definitely DON'T ask or accuse about this in a moment when she's being bitchy.

Bring it up at a neutral time.

>>18075602
Thanks, (btw I dont actually think she is or call her a bitch and the pic was a joke) I dont really want to seem like Im talkign down to her implying her emotions are bc of her period ad make her feel invalidated

Be nice to people, go out of your way to help them when they need it the most. It helps to find people that share similar interests but it's not even necessary if you are good at keeping up with conversations about other subjects. People will be nice to you if you are nice to them.

>>18075553
If only I knew, my man, if only I knew...

>>18075553
Some people just enjoy listening more than talking. That doesn't mean they didn't like you.

Be the child of wealthy benefactor to the college.

The American Dream is a meme.

>>18075517
1) Find out if you can afford to go there (check up on their offered financial aid package, food, rent, transportation)
2) Take into consideration if you are able to withstand 3-5 years of this.
3) Wait on offers from the other schools you applied to and compare.
4) Think about what your major's going to be, along with your job prospects that go with it. Yes, ivy league will open doors, but will your future paycheck be worth the accumulated student debt?
5) There's always graduate school if you want an ivy league thrown into your resume.

Be well connected or be a minority.

>>18075464
>Do I just drop the guy because of how he's treating others?

No I think you should let him continue doing this and you need to continue enabl...I mean, giving him the support he needs.

>>18075464
Do I just drop the guy because of how he's treating others?

yeah.

Then he will either learn to stop that shit or find new friends. Sometimes people have to learn things the hard way.

He's probably sick of being a doormat so it's natural to be kind of an asshole for a bit.

>>18075410
Type out a list of the things you consider to be abnormal about yourself. Reflect on how you can change those things listed.

>>18076052
Yep literally do the self-authoring course

>>18076052
This

>>18075381
>Would bringing this movie up to movie watching friends, damage my rep?

yes

>>18075389
Even when ranting and being high?

>>18075419
oh then its ok

>>18075325
You have no agreed upon lease and are not obligated to continue paying to the new owner. UNLESS you signs some shit.

But get out of there. they won't chase you down over month of rent because its not worth their time but if you drag it out too long they will throw the book at you to recoup costs.

It's like a week's difference. Call them and say you're fine with paying rent and leaving but only at the very end of March. They'll probably say meh w/e sure.

>>18075325
Well, yes? You'll be there partially through March, you pay the month's rent upfront. You can ask the new owner for an extension to the end of the month or a prorated rent, but they're not obligated to do either, unfortunately.

>>18075362
He is obligated to pay unless he'd like to be evicted as of the 3rd when they stipulated the rent is going to be due by. When property changes ownership, no new lease has to be signed between the owner and the renter. Advising not to pay is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard, they can collect all of his personal information from the prior owner and simply throw a civil case at him for a minute fee.

This is assuming you live in the states.

Don't go for her when she just got a new boyfriend, dude. I highly doubt you'll have a chance.

>>18075253
You've known her for 4 years and never escalated the relationship. You blew it years ago m8, now accept it and get out.

why are you so mad, dear OP?

>>18075240
Insult people on 4chan. Rub your anger off into your posts. So when someone asks for genuine advice; just say something like
>Fucking kill yourself you inbred faggot
Works for me.

>>18075240
Lift weights

>>18075225

Don't sweat it. It sounds like your insecurity will ruin it soon enough, so just enjoy it while you can.

>>18075232
This
stop being such a bitch. You have a good thing going don't fuck it up.

>>18075225
Watch 500 Days of Summer

Strong prejudice against eastern europeans in DK.

>>18075201
Danes are retarded Swedes
Dutch are retarded Germans

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>>18076035
Confirmed. Fuck off, we're full.

>>18075184
could be in heat if she is not fixed or was fixed when a bit older.

Other than that female cats get pissed about everything. litter clean? feeding schedule changed? you smell different? new food? new anything? who knows.

Your puss is angry that you left. Our cat used to do it all the fucking time. My current cat is all love and cuddles as long as I haven't been away for longer than two weeks (he doesn't stay by himself, mind you, he just lives with my parents), if it's longer then no pets for me. She's giving you an attitude because you went away, hoping it teaches you a lesson.

>>18075200
>>18075207
Thank you.

A lot of nervous tics need to be treated from within, they will disappear if you are actually more confident.

Train your posture. There's lots of exercises from balancing books on your head while walking around, to standing up straight against a wall and focusing on the shape your body takes like that etc. It's been a long time for me so I wouldn't know what the most effective is, google around a little, but I had mediocre posture as a teenager and corrected it to the point where my posture is one of the most common things for me to get complimented on.

And this is a protip I happen to have learned from my father: focus on a point, look straight ahead with your head held high. Then shuffle your feet one way then the other, so you are turning sideways, but turn your entire body while keeping your head still. Basically keep making exaggeratedly intense eye contact with this one spot even though your body is facing different directions. This is a very effective exercise for people who have trouble looking others in the eye, and making too little or too fleeting eye contact is one of the biggest things that makes people look insecure/unreliable etc.

First of all, it's important to find out for yourself, what those "reactions" you are talking about are.

For example, I used to scratch my nose when I was nervous (often considered a sign of lying btw.). Took me some time to notice it by myself. There are probably a lot of things you don't know about, because you never really paid attention to it.

Look up, what signs of confident body language are and practice those (don't have the time to explain every single thing. There are a lot of helpfull videos about body language and self-confidence on youtube).

Also, the next few times you are in a situation you are usually nervous in, try to focus on your body language and be aware of how you act. Rehearse your behavior in those situations.

And don't try to avoid this kind of situation, embrace it. You will only get better trough practice!

Good Luck!

>>18075126
You want a relationship without putting in the work. I would recommend you take some time for yourself to do some self improvement and see if you really want what a relationship has to offer or if you can find fullfillment in something else.

>>18075126
You are putting women on a pedestal then getting mad about it.

Best girl is also your best friend. try treating dates more like a chill and less like a calculated effort.

>>18075060
/b/ xray threads or learn to shoop.

>>18075060
or go to adult requests

Thanks