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>>18080508
first wut

Well no lolicons definition is girls that depict a 18+ girl with prepubescent or "lolita" type features.

seems like you just fell for the guilt fap. Dont think to much of it, just start weening yourself onto other types of degenerate porn

>>18080533
it happened once recently. Strangely enough it wasn't as exciting as I thought. I capped twice today to other shit. I feel really guilty about it though. also loli doesn't always have that 18+ thing going all the time

>>18080472

You just need to find the right group of friends I guess. That shit doesn't HAVE to change but it often does. People grow apart and they get tired of the same shenanigans.

>>18080472

like the other anon said, it doesn't have to change, but it often does.

men get older and they need less time out. in addition to that htey often work more, get more tired by it, and usually need to dedicate more time to a relationship or even a family.

even without relationship and family our poor modern diets make it so that were generally too tired to do anything after work, then on weekends were cleaning, doing grocery shopping, etc.

unfortunately if this is the way your current friend group is going there isnt much you can do to salvage it other than continually inviting them all and talking about it, but this often goes nowhere.

depending on how your group dynamic was they may also be tired of it. my last group of friends was AWFUL. i mean they were great fun people but there was no loyalty among friends. we hung out and had adventures but it was shallow. i need emotional connection with my friends and if all you do is hango ut in big groups and have advetnures you can never takl about anything remotely serious.

my curretn friend group i get a lot of 1 on 1 time, and eve in the group setting its still small enough that we can say things comfortably with one another and talk about our actual issues, so its a good ablance

Don't join enlisted ranks. Go officer.

>>18080351
>I don't know what to do at this point but I need a better job.

So, keep looking for and apply for better jobs. Might take a while to find one, but if you don't do this, you guarantee that nothing will change.

>>18080348
You're gonna get cheated on, so do want to feel best. If you aren't going to sleep because then don't sex her. If it doesn't bother you that much then fuck her brains. The regret from not having done it when you get cheated on later will be worse.

>>18080348
I dont think it's a good idea to have sex with her, now you know she got a boyfriend you have no excuse, if you do it, you will be a bad person, and knowing other people do it anyway doesnt make it acceptable if you are truly a good person.

Sex without emotion is worthless and pointless, if you really starving sex, go to prostitutes, but don't become a jerk.

You won't lose her if you explain her this way. You may even creat a greater desire towards you, because you will be a man difficult to get, a man she dreamt about but never had.

If she wants you, she must quit her boyfriend first.

Have you tried drugs?

>>18080358
Not really an option where i'm from, don't to either.

It's social media.
Girls typically have nearly a thousand friends, you think they're going to talk to every one of them? Nah. You're a number until they need something from you.

>>18080300

Based dubs. You're probably right. So should I just delete them and not waste my time?

>>18080293

Girls want to show in social media how pretty they are. It is just publicity.

Are you sure you don't just need someone that cares for you and will fuck your brains out?

>>18080257
Where is that store?

Study art. Why would you want to handicap yourself, when you can become a video game artist.

>>18080254
i agre, play on your strengths until you get a nice talent then ask around for help with the programming stuff, another suggestion is to get into animation, from there you should be able to craft cut-scenes and moving characters to make a game easier

>>18080258
Well, I do study art and I've been studying it every day. I'm doing really well with it. However, I do feel extremely called to make this video game.

I think it would be a good thing to force myself out of my comfort zone. I think it would inspire new ways of thinking, and I would learn some discipline.I want to learn how to think logically and rationally in spite of my learning disability.

>>18080250
It's always disappointing when something that has promise doesn't work out. That you've been single for so long and are trying to change that, maybe it's like "this has been my only chance in 8 years".

If you know you're looking for a relationship, it's worth continuing to try to meet people to find someone.

>>18080290
Well I hadn't started looking for someone until recently since I've been extremely fat and thought I could just be alone my entire life. Anyway, I changed all this and met this girl at a christmas party and we hit it off. Few weeks with things going smooth and then she wants to be friends.

I am already on the lookout again, but I'm a bit surprised to my reaction since I've just known her for a few weeks.

The logical part of me is saying to get over it and that there's plenty of other people out there but it doesn't help sadly.

I went through a similar thing but it was more of a slow simmer over some months, then some sudden attraction and a night of regretful drunk sex about a week ago. I still crave her and the pain of rejection is kind of raw but I've been in this place before and I've found that just letting yourself grieve and process it (while keeping perspective that you will get over her eventually) is the best way to go. If you try to invalidate your own emotions vis a vis just "being a man" or trying to get over it prematurely you're just going to draw out the process and cause other problems. When you're alone or in the company of trusted confidants let yourself feel. Pray, cry, be angry if you need to. Also it's important to keep in mind that you WILL meet other women, that she is not perfect or irreplaceable and that you are valuable as a person despite being rejected. Use the pain to keep calibrating yourself. Double down on your fitness, career progression, spending good times with your friends and loved ones, doing things to further your goals and purpose in life.


>In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.
1 Peter 1:6–9

Read, go to the library or a good cafe and read.

Do you have a vision for your life? Like what are your big goals? Your day to day activities should come from that, with some hobbies on the side to help you depressurize and some socialization.

I think concentrate on your self with your statements.

"You like my whore pussy"
"I want to be your whore"
"My tight little pussy has been wet all day wanting your cock"
"Suck my ass"

These sorts of statements directly verbalizing something you want using naughty words about your parts


After you get comfortable then ease into the dirty talk banter side of things where you tell him to do things. Of course complimenting him using dirty words to describe would be great also


Keep it simply. Use words you've never said out loud.

>>18080225
Thanks for the advice! I find this very useful.

But I think I might not have been all that clear. He loves the word whore because he want to be called a whore. We're degenerates, I know...

Concentrating on myself is useful advice, but I don't think that's the most effective so to speak.

>>18080230
In what context does he want to be called a whore?

I don't get how "blame him for being a whore" works because he has a hard-on. Do you mean "whore" like he's a slut who can't control his desire for sex?

What he might actually like is teasing about how he's helpless to resist your pussy.

Have fun in the drug infested shithole that is Seattle

>>18080175
You're about 30 years late for that dream.

>>18080175
>My friend has about 3000$ saved but isn't in school. I heard that he won't be able to get a lease without a new job lined up, is that true?
Let's put this question back to you: would YOU lend a property, one of your biggest assets, to a teenager with no means of paying you rent?

I just don't know how you could overlook something as simple as getting a job. Your parents probably weren't talking about you moving out when they said they'd support you too.

>>18080116
Well when you fall in love a kiss is euphoric. It's a dopamine rush from heaven. I once felt that way with a girl that I cheated on and left for some retarded bitch I had a kid with. I'm gonna miss that one girl.

>>18080125
Sorry to hear anon. I've never actually been with a girl before. I just hope the day comes.

>>18080133
Just ask a girl out. The worst thing that could happen is that she says no. Then on to the next one.

Japanese women like to ghost non alpha males. They get bored too easily.

Move on and find someone better.

Oh and I forgot to include the fact that I always send a revised copy of whatever she write to me. That is why on the bottom of the picture there is another email that is cut off.

>>18080005
Then why the fuck would she give me her physical address and then decide to cut contact?

Do not take it seriously unless she makes the first step. Girls her ages literally has no idea what they want and are still confused and finding themselves. She'll like the attention but probably not the idea of a serious relationship when she's still so young.

If you're up for fun then go for it, they're easy to impress and have great bodies.

She still has some time before maturity. Source: 25 yr old guy recently dated an 18 yr old.

>>18079937
I always hear about the immaturity part, which is what makes me overthink. Assuming I follow up with her for a few dates, I don't know what to expect because I'm generally a down to earth person and I take dating somewhat seriously. She said she had no money and was focused on school.

If you're right about her age, then there is a huge maturity difference between you. You'll find it endearing, and maybe even attractive, at first, but you'll soon get sick of it.

Also don't date her unless you're willing to pay for everything