Talk to me about 'bottom shaming'.
Is it a real thing? Personally I always feel kind of ashamed to be a bottom, and people always assume I'm a top literally until we get into the bedroom for some reason, which has caused problems in the past.
I just feel like people would respect me less if they knew I was a bottom, and I feel like trying to get a guy's dick is wayy more demeaning that trying to get a guy's ass. Know what I mean?
>Is it a real thing?
yes
>I just feel like people would respect me less if they knew I was a bottom
they would
the only thing you can do is recognize that this is a spook and not feel shame
>>7925600
internalized misogyny can make men in macho cultures feel that taking a woman's role in lovemaking is somehow inferior.
just let go of the shame and do what comes naturally.
being a bottom is hot and without bottoms there would be nothing for a top to fuck.
>>7925641
This. Bottom shamers are insecure and arrogant. More often than not they are also delusional in thinking that straights see them as equals.
So, non-white /LGBT/, are you out to your families? What are your experiences likes navigating through your cultures and communities as queer?
MTF here
I'm out to my immediate family and they're all accepting. Even my estranged, neglectful father was accepting. No one in my extended family knows.
Interacting with other beanfolk is a bit awkward and I get some nasty stares mainly from old Catholic beanwomen, but in general no one fucks with me.
>>7925512
I'm Mexican and I'm out to my mom (don't really have any family besides her and my grandma) and have never had really any problems with being gay, other than some Catholic girl calling me a faggot.
>>7925512
>That sign
God did not create us perfect. The idiot.
Cmon, I know theres another trap queen out there makin it happen, not all of you can be introverted autistic losers. HMU lets take over the world, or at least eastside
>>7925275
shit whats good with the guacamole
>>7925353
why bother with the code names just say it. Anywyas OP I own run lower eastside no joke,
business guys love traps
>>7925275
what is a trap queen?
>Want to be a cute trap
>6'7", Strong jaw, pronounced Adam's apple
How the hell do you cope?
>>7925260
Lol
Commit suicide or accept eternal hondom
>>7925260
>tfw always wanted giant mtf gf to dominate me
>tfw you started too late
Anyone else know this terrible feel?
>>7924992
>tfw you transitioned only 2 years too late and you'll always look kinda weird
I can't tell if this is worse or better.
>>7925008
so 14?
>>7925035
Go away cara
Hiro has allowed for up to one meta thread at any given time to discuss how to improve the board.
What needs to be worked on on /lgbt/
there is nothing on the board that could or needs to change aside for the eternal fact that it would be better for everyone to split between a T board and a LGB board.Is there even any other big problem?
i guess we could get a pinned thread with FAQ and some guides.
i think that cuckservatives and christcucks that want to open the usual retarded thread could use a prerecorded answer, same goes for gay men who want a first-anal-eperience guide and of course trans people need some link to resources and info as well as the number of a suicide hotline.
anything to reduce the number of tranny thread open by a single confused suicidal mess asking the same fucking questions over and over again.
>>7924976
Stop making these threads.
Mtf here, this board seems p okay but sometimes I do wish T had its own board cause it does seem like 90% of the threads at any given time on this board are about trans related issues. I mean people refer to this board as /tttt for a reason
Informed consent providers https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
Old thread : >>7923786
too early
>>7924965
carol thread
>>7924965
YOU'VE HAVE AWAKEN ME TOO SOON EXECUTUS...
So I want to try HRT for 1-3 months I have $120 is this enough to buy enough meds for a month or so? What should I order? I'm from Massachusetts which website would be good for ordering here? Anything you want to tell me about ordering hormones or about what to expect in the first few months would be great. I want to see if I feel better on HRT before I actually come out and go through all this bullshit with doctors. I live with my parents still I really hope they don't go through the mail. I'm sure they would look through a package addressed to me if they saw it.
>>7924883
>I want to try HRT
>I want to see if I feel better on HRT
In that case, don't do it! Your reason is shitty. HRT is NOT a psych medication (I do NOT think you should take psych medication either btw) and will NOT make you feel better except as a placebo effect. In, it is basically a second puberty and will cause mood swings.
>>7924905
It'll make you feel better if you have gender dysphoria.
>>7924905
I have dysphoria I just didn't go into detail about how I hate life and wish I was a girl daily.
So i huh, got an issue... my father won't allow me to take Hrt.. and i'm not sure how to get treatment now.. what do i do?.. i'm really stressed out, so i'm hoping someone can relieve my stress..
Any advice?...
>>7924752
Self med in secret
>>7924752
If your father can prevent you from getting hrt then you are too young to be on 4chan, you must be 18 to be here
You should be b& for being underage
>>7924833
i just turned 19..
I'm a young trans girl at the beginning of my transition and people keep telling me that I will never be a girl, that I always will be a guy. And the fact that many people won't date me just because of XY-Chromosomes. I hear this daily in real life and on the internet. It really makes me depressed until the point where I don't want to live anymore as it just hurts too bad when the only thing you want is to live and be accepted as a girl.
I know here are some that are against trans, why do XY-Chromosomes matter so much to you? They are just on the paper after a blood test and determine what their past was but now they look, act and function(without the uterus part) like women.
because they're probably right, unless you have really passable genetics you'll always look off at best, compared to biological girls. it's either something you have to deal with or stop transitioning.
Do it for yourself, not for the validation of other people.
>>7924653
Ignore them OP, you can be a girl never mind chromosomes or people who get triggered. They don't really care about your chromosomes anyway, they just want an excuse to hate you. You could magically become a cis girl and they'd still say you don't count because you grew up having to be a boy.
I'm ashamed of having a male member. What's wrong with me?
you're trans. either agp, hsts, or trutrans, those are the new orientations.
>>7924531
Men are so beautiful.
>love girls, but hate vaginas
>hate guys, but love dicks
Fuck me. What the fuck do I do?
>>7924511
You know the answer OP.
Start mones
>>7924518
what? what's that got to do with it? I'm talking about on another people you dingo
>>7924522
Yea yea that's how I started out too
Then I wanted to be the dickgirl
Then I started liking guys
Then I became the dickgirl
Just go for it senpai
Straight dude here. Why do you hang out on like the most right wing anti-LGBT major site on the internet? Just curious.
>>7924438
>Moot was straight
because im a right winged self-hating faggot thas why.
>>7924438
Only /pol/ is like that and nobody likes them. It's not like we're hanging on lynchtheniggergays.org
Stop sucking cock
Is it okay to eat pussy tho
stop worshipping a black cube in the desert
>>7924251
kek
Whats wrong with me, i thought i was trans and got meds, been on hrt for a year now, and now i dont think i am but i dont want to stop the meds, i like the idea of being a femboy, and dont want to go back to an emotionless person.
Should I stop hrt or just low-dose it?
>>7924028
If you would be happy continuing meds then keep taking them op c:
>>7924028
What is your sexuality?
What blockers have you taken?
And what is the color and thickness of your semen?
After a year, it may be too late to detransition depending...
>>7924028
There's nothing inherently wrong with that at all, as long as you are happy.