bottom shaming

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>Is it a real thing?
yes
>I just feel like people would respect me less if they knew I was a bottom
they would

the only thing you can do is recognize that this is a spook and not feel shame

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>>7925600
internalized misogyny can make men in macho cultures feel that taking a woman's role in lovemaking is somehow inferior.
just let go of the shame and do what comes naturally.
being a bottom is hot and without bottoms there would be nothing for a top to fuck.

>>7925641
This. Bottom shamers are insecure and arrogant. More often than not they are also delusional in thinking that straights see them as equals.

>>7925653
No, internalized misogyny is women wanting to take the submissive role.

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>get sexually aroused by being bottom shamed
>absolutely HATE it when im not in the mood

...Fuck.

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>>7925688
So if I want to be a bottom then I'm a misogynist?

>>7925600
>I feel like trying to get a guy's dick is wayy more demeaning that trying to get a guy's ass
It is.
Guys are notorious for wanting to put their dick into anything, but in the gay world, there are more bottoms than tops, so the narrative gets flipped, and bottoms have to fight to get dick.
It's demeaning to have to try really hard to get something that's supposed to be so easy.

>>7925600
Wew that pic though

>>7925773
I don't buy this meme. I find way more tops than bottoms when I browse around. To the point that I'm really tired of bottoming.

t. Vers bi guy

>>7925600
I get you bro

Even though i'm pretty small (inb4 manlet) most people assume i'm a top because of my personality and extroverted-ness

I've been a top, it's fucking horrible, it hurt, it was painful, I hated it. Bottoming on the other hand, is fucking amazing.

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>>7925779
>I find way more tops than bottoms when I browse around.

Most guys say that they are tops online because they are afraid their friends or coworkers will see their posts and they don't want to come across as passive.
But if you actually get men into bed you quickly learn that they all want to be fucked.

I do want to blow and take a guy in me but I'm all mixed up about that role. On the one hand it really turns me on. On the other I'm afraid I'd kick his ass if I suddenly didn't get into any demeaning talk. I have a twink body but from a baby I was in martial arts.

>>7925779
It really is true.
There have been independent studies that show it's about a 60:40 ratio, but I'd imagine it's higher if you include all the vers who say vers because they don't want to admit they prefer bottoming.

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>>7925820
>I'm afraid I'd kick his ass

So you have anger management issues?
Or you're schizo?

>>7925820
>I'm afraid I'd kick his ass if I suddenly didn't get into any demeaning talk

>from a baby I was in martial arts

So you've been in martial arts your whole life, but you haven't got the self-control to decide when you do or don't kick someone's ass? To the point that you fear dirty talk in bed could trigger you into a violent episode you somehow can't control?

This story smells like BS.

>>7925840
Idk. I'm all confused about it. I'd like to get the girl in the bed but respected out of the bed. Believe me, I wish I never had such desires but I've had them since I was little.

>>7925877
later. thanks for the help.

i cannot stand the feeling of anything going up my ass, it makes me lightheaded af and nearly pass out
for that reason i'll always be a top

>>7925877
he was raised from birth as a killing machine for the first order, but now he just wants to find the right...GUY for him??

CUMMING THIS SUMMER

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>>7925881

>>7925815
Maybe. I might end up bottoming a bit more because guys seem to really like being dom/sub, more than I do. I'm sure if I was just a little more assertive, they'd get on all 4s and beg for it more.

>>7925820
What if it's romantic sweet talk, instead of demeaning talk?

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>>7925944

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What about vers?

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>>7925979
Versatile is just another way of saying Bottom

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>>7926003
I pity those that think this way

>>7925831
I will say I do have a slight tendency towards bottoming because most guys seem to want dicks > 7 inches long. I het turned off immediately if asked how long I am. Which is to say, average

>>7925653
men don't experience misogyny so it's impossible to internalize it.

>>7925653
go back to tumblr

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>>7926032
>men can't be misogynist

someone's overdosed on the blanchard i see

>>7926032
Women are so self centered that, within feminism, they've included that all misandry is actually a form of misogyny.

>>7926017
Stop going after whores.
I prefer 5-6 in length, and still have trouble getting laid, because there are so few tops.
Also, I'm just no one's type, but still.

>>7926066
What does that have to do with blanchard?

Men experience misandry.

>>7926087
Its a mental thing. Even if the guy doesn't say he likes big dicks, ill still feel a little embarassed about my 5.7 incher, so I'll prefer to bottom because that way i can feel more confident about my performance

i know im good a bottoming, and i dont want to try new things for fear of disappointing the other guy

t. """vers""" guy who has had sex 20ish times and never topped

>>7925724
little bitch, bring your ass over here, let me run a have a go at it.

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>>7926092
Learn2Latin

misogyny is against women, not by women
misandry is against men, not by men

>>7926246
What does that have to do with blanchard, idiot?

>>7926087
> stop going after whores
I just wanna be loved. Whys it so hard to find decent people.

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>>7926207

I know youre only joking but that legit made my stomach flutter a little

I really, really, really hate having this fetish. And hating the way people like you can make me feel against my will makes me even more aroused. THERE IS NO FUCKING WAY TO WIN FOR ME.

>>7926274
nothing, idiot.
why are you obsessed with blanchard?

>>7926482
>>7926066

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>>7926473
>how to win?

stop repressing and start caressing

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>>7925600
no you're just insecure lmao

so am i but not about bottoming

>>7925600
bottom shaming is a meme heteros have forced upon us
see in the hetero world, getting fucked i.e. being a woman in a straight relationship is shameful/embarrassing/slutty/whatever other fucked up shit they wanna call it. look at our lifestyle, ok obviously the 'bottom' is the 'woman' so now all of these horrible insults about women now apply to all 'bottoms' and
congrats you now have a neurosis about your sexuality

>>7926487
>>7926473

>>7927105
It is funny that the vast majority of times haters talk about homosexuality the first thing they say is " how can a man want to stick his dick in a mans ass?". Straight people can be ignored when it comes to lgbt issues.

>>7925797
How could it hurt?

>>7927165
He's either retarded or trolling.
Topping doesn't hurt.
Okay, maybe it does if they shave their asshole and then it is prickly.
Or they squeeze super tight on your dick when they're coming, but that's not really painful just uncomfortable.

>>7925600
i'm surprised there's not more threads like this.

i mean most of us here are LGBT, right? and we're usually accepting of one another, if not always supportive. so why do we treat bottoms like trash?

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>>7927309
>why do we treat bottoms like trash?

speak for yourself
i treat bottoms like the whores that they are!

>>7927309
>>7927333
so, to answer your question, it's because some people like to roleplay on here

>>7927333
>dat Metamucil
>gotta keep the pipes squeaky clean

i dont know why that made me chuckle

>>7927165
>>7927260
Sensitive dick plus tight as fuck asshole, like unpleasently tight, like a vice

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>>7927422
loosen it up with a toy and some lube first
what are you 12?
>muh dick is so yoooge it hurts!!

>>7927363
Fiber is a bottom's best friend!