Ive always been with women, and Ive never had a gay experience or gay urges or attraction before. This guy started talking to me, and immediately off the bat I realized that he was actually really cute. I think he wore a very small amount of make up, like eye liner and mascara (or maybe he just had really pretty eyes, I dont know). He had very soft and feminine features. But he wasnt transgender, he was just a really feminine guy, but also he wasnt the "typical" feminine gay guy, if you know what I mean, he wasnt over the top. He just had this really natural femininity to him. He was very curvy, had a really attractive feminine shape, but still slim, he had long legs and almost female proportions, wide hips. Amazing long hair but still styled in a male fashion.
Anyway long story short is I was very confused because this is the first time I was attracted to someone who identified as a man. Ive seen feminine gay guys before, but Ive never been attracted to them. Im just not attracted to male bodies. But I dont know what it was with this guy. Anyway after awhile we met up just to hang out, talk and become friends, and I realized that Im actually really attracted to him. It kinda threw me for a loop.
What "label" are used to describe these type of men? Ive been trying to explore online and understand my own sexuality better and see what kind of gay guys Im attracted to, but I honestly am not attracted to like, any of it. I realize that I am mostly straight, or at least attracted to female qualities and feminine body types and expressions of femininity, but even when I look online for "feminine" gay guys, I still dont have any attraction to the guys I see. They are all pretty feminine yes, but for whatever reason Im just not attracted to them. Is there such thing as a label for feminine men who have very female features and body types? Im just really confused about why Im so physically attracted to this one guy but literally no other type of gay man is attractive to me.
It's a trap dog.
Boy mode trans girl. Definitely on moans
Any degenerates into a comfy bit of nihilism here?
Nope i love my life :)
Tfw had a lucid dream about being at my grandmas house but I couldnt make out wether it was a dream or not exactly so I went to the bathroom and looked into a mirror.
I changed my facial appearance to that of a girl and looked at myself for a couple of seconds and that fueled my feels of wanting to be a girl. What were your girl feels like today?
>>8552646
Does this make me a real trany?
>>8552745
Yes, grow conetits
>>8552747
Id be more than happy to atleast have that
Hey /lgbt/, I think I might be confused or something else and wanted to know what you think.
So as of recently I have caught myself fapping to trap porn. I have also been noticing when I look at sexual images I also find my eyes randomly wandering to the dudes crotch.
That being said I have 0 urge to look at just gay porn, I have never had my heart go in a twitter when I was around any dude just girls.
But on the other hand I have always been into short haired tomboy girls, I don't like lesbian porn at all, I find women in general pretty aggravating, and my recent sexual encounter with a woman ended very poorly as she was basically pushing herself on me while I was 1 step from completely shitfaced and kept saying no because she used to date one of my best bros. (like hard, she was not taking no for an answer) The weird thing was even though I wanted to do it I wasn't getting up which may or may not have been whisky dick but IDK. That event might explain something but again I have no idea.
Like I said I am pretty confused as of late and wanted to know what people who might have been there or understand things from another perspective think.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Also I don't know the unwritten rules of this board so if this is an inappropriate thread I will fuck right off.
>>8552580
Do you ever imagine you are a girl when you fap?
Have you ever crossdressed and found it arousing?
>>8552595
No. Don't think ever actually.
I do have a super big thing for anal though, giving not receiving that is.
>be me
>trans girl, had same gf for about 2 years. During that time I figured out I was trans
>muster up courage to tell her
>she says she needs time to think
>2 days later she packs up her shit and leaves without a goodbye.
Why does this happen?
Hmmmm...tough question...really boggles the noggin
>>8552548
you will find someone better, fuck her.
>>8552551
It's so odd because I genuinely valued bring with her, and I thought she did as well. Clearly not. I thought that me bring trans would be irrelevant as she cared about me as a person not just for looks or money. Again I guess I was wrong.
I so very much want to be a normie, no need to take hormones for the rest of my life, have a family who loves me...
Normies don't an hero.
At least they tend not to.
>>8552463
I mean when I respawn
>>8552495
Nah that's new game + shit.
>tfw passable, financially self sustaining mtf
>tfw happy in all aspects...besides no gf
How does one acquire a gf? Do all cis girls hate us and should I give up?
>>8552358
You're supposed to find a gf before you transition, dummy.
You'll never get one now.
I'm a cis lesbian and I'm dating a trans girl. I love her a lot honestly. know some other trans girls dating cis women, as well.
what kind of area do you live in? might be helpful to be in a major city or something.
are you not open to dating another trans girl?
>tfw barely passable mtf living with her parents
>tfw depressed
>tfw chaser bf and honestly i guess i'm gay actually
You can date me if you want :'3
estradiol snug as a bug in a rug under your tongue edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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>>8552267
ew dont headcanon scooby he's my boy
is super eurobeat trutrans?
Do hons (and I mean actual old hons) really hate younger transitioners and try to sabotage them? They've always seemed nice, even if they're cringey. Why do they do this, and what are some examples?
>>8552131
I know on places like Susans they really try their hardest to vilify self-medding and spread a lot of disinfo on it.
I'm not sure why, maybe generational differences? Like it's easier to look at history now and see how the medical industry has mistreated people but in the past psychologists could get away with anything and people just believed everything their doctor said no matter what.
They are just uptight and hate self medding, other people not doing their way, other than that they are pretty harmless
They'll give the reason they "self-medding is dangerous", but that's probably just the echo chamber. They start transitioning in their 40s or 50s or whatever, join communities of older transitioners, and learn everything from those same people. The people telling them about this horrible danger of self-meddings are only using that as justification because they are either in denial or trying to hide the fact that they are immensely envious of people who transition at a young age.
They feel like it's unfair that others get to live in a world where early transition is a possibility, where the psychologist community is starting to see that being trans isn't something you can cure with therapy, and where hormones are relatively easy to come by. They are resentful towards society that they could not also transition at an early age, that they had to go through the agony of living in a body they hate, having hormones destroy their body to the point where they will never fully pass as the gender they identify as. They take that resentment out on younger transitioners by trying to make them live the agony and pain that they had to live when they were younger.
So I was wondering if there are any significant differences when it comes societal acceptance between MtF and FtM trangender people.
I personally don't know any transpeople but have been fortunate enough to have learned about it at a young age.
It seems like being trangsgender has become something that more people have started to accept, or at least know about.
Still there seems to be a lot of judgment on the part of people that "accept" transgender people.
With the way the genders are typically characterized there seems to be idea that when someone steps away from masculinity this is seen as some kind of weakness, but that going from the feminine to the male would be very different.
I don't know, as I've said I personally don't have any experience but it seems to me that with the way society views masculinity and femininity there would be some kind of interesting differences when it comes to transitioning from one to the other.
>>8552007
ugly MtF (non-passing) people will always be treated like shit unless in a hugboxxing area
It's harder for MtF to have a successful transition but I think more people are interested in dating them than FtM.
FtM have an easier time transitioning and most will end up passing if they take hormones long enough and actively put on muscle but it's harder for them to get in relationships.
>>8552007
Womyn-born-Womyn events allow FTMs and not MTFs.
>>8552015
I figured that passing has to be a huge part of this.
I guess I'm wondering more about tolerance based purely on the fact whether someone is MtF or FtM.
Since there are transgender people that want to serve openly in the army as their desired gender, there has been a lot of confusion, but things seem to be moving forward. However, from what I've heard (anecdotal evidence, I know), FtM soldiers have an easier experience as opposed to MtF soldiers.
Of course the army is a very specific and traditionally very male community, so it's not entirely representative. But with the way we talk about "manning up" as something positive and "acting like a girl" as something more negative, you'd think that would have some an impact on people that don't feel comfortable with their assigned gender.
Maybe I'm wrong about everything. I honestly don't know and I'm curious
Why is transgenderism consider a mental illness but homosexuality isn't?
>>8551922
Trannies need to drug themselves to feel good and they need to cut off their genitals. Fags don't.
>inb4 some trannies don't want to cut off their dicks
That's only because trannies know they won't get an actual cunt.
Gender dysphoria is a mental illness you fucking fag. Not being transgender itself.
>>8551922
>homosexuality isn't?
But blanchard says it is.
Jesus, all these repeat threads are getting annoying.
Unlikely tranny thread, go.
Pic very related.
My vote's on Johnny Depp too.
>>8551822
Why do you think they're trans?
Also, Arin "Egoraptor" Hanson
>>8551868
I could believe Egoraptor.
Why I think Keith? Well, for one, he's a crossdresser who wears his wife's clothes. It doesn't get much more AGP than that. Has very feminine body language and styling. Also was besties with Mick Jagger, who's practically halfway out of the closet in my opinion...
For Depp, I've heard rumors from other trans people. It's not necessarily a conclusion that I would have come to on my own, but it makes sense to me... he's played quite a few transvestites (not that that means anything on its own), dated a bi chick, and has a "dandy" persona (something I've noticed other closeted MTFs do to cope). I dunno, it's just a feeling. Also friends with Keith, so there's that. IDK, I just find both of their gender presentations very strange for cis straight men.
>>8551868
Also, forgot to add: the fact that Keith was addicted to heroin for 10+ years for no apparent reason.
Ignore the white lens
Vague question. You're cute though.
Too masculine for what
>>8551258
>>8551269
Mtf
Are tall twinks unattractive / undesirable?
I'm pretty tall and twinky. Am I undesirable? I'm 6 foot 3 inches and pretty skinny.
Confidence is desirable. You can be hot regardless of your body type.
>>8551277
but will cute boys like me
I a mtf masturbates do that have any influence in the hormones shes taking in any way?
>>8551202
Well, it is supposed to make it harder, but otherwise, it's if you're NOT on HRT that you must not masturbate.
>>8551373
Im on hrt so can i or i dont?
>>8551373
>if you're NOT on HRT that you must not masturbate
[citation needed]