explain.
>>7502757
Basically just faggots and dykes with broken hearts, or some assholes who that feel bisexuals somehow "betray" the movement by also liking the opposite sex.
People have a hard time understanding you can like more than one thing at once. Not to mention how many people think bisexuals are inherently disloyal and will cheat on you. Also this >>7503878
I honestly don't understand why it throws so many people off
Because of countless people that come out as "bi" first because they think being bi isn't as "bad" as being gay only to never sleep with the opposite gender ever.
Bis are just weak gays.
Can I get your opinion and advice on something.
I'm 35 and a virgin. I'm gay and out to some people, but not as much as I should be. I'm reasonably attractive, have lots of friends, good family, great job. Basically I'm reasonably well adjusted, to set the context.
My lack of sex is just something that kind of happened. A combination of not being confident enough sexually, having body issues, and wanting sex to be very meaningful with someone who I love, not a one night stand.
My questions are as follows. Would you find this terribly strange? Should I tell the person who I do it with that it's my first time? I like to be fairly straightforward and uncomplicated so I'm not interested in lying.
>>7502746
Woops. Tell them if you want. Or don't. Since Prince died, ain't nobody the king of sex, so you do whatever works for you and your partner. Feel the vibe and go with the flow.
>>7502746
21 year old virgin here. I feel like i might end up in the same situation as the OP cuz I feel the same way about sex:
"A combination of not being confident enough sexually, having body issues, and wanting sex to be very meaningful with someone who I love, not a one night stand."
plz help.
Just be upfront and honest with them.
If being a virgin bugs them, then their loss.
Others could see it as a nice challenge and show you the ropes (badly). So be prepared
Long story short my parents may or may not know I have a boyfriend, now they're really curious and asking a shitton of stuff and want to have a "serious discussion"
how to get out of this, advice plz. pretty pissed considering i never wanted to out myself to anyone ever.
They gonna axe-murder you if you just tell the truth?
>>7502290
probably not. dont know if i could look them in the eyes and say i'm a fag though.
>>7502263
They already know. It's over
Which one is the bottom?
>>7502139
pink shirt
The cucky looking one
>>7502139
>tfw no one will love your belly like that
So, it seems like a lot of trans women, especially here, partake in mostly masculine or male-associated hobbies and career choices like game design, programming, computer science, etc. Can someone explain why is this so?
>>7501956
Because they're a way to be productive and creative without much human interaction. Many were also outcasts due to their cross-gender identification at a young age and subsequent social awkwardness and found solace in "nerdy" and otherwise solitary endeavors like many people who were outcast when they were young. Video games also offer an escape to a place where you can be who you want to be, and where your decisions and opinions matter to others and the world at large (albeit a virtual one). Also, the skewed marketing of video games initially led society to believe it is a "male-associated" endeavor, but it's for everyone and some of the most famous original game developers were cis women. Furthermore when it comes to programming, some of the most famous programmers in history were cis women.
Also this is 4chan, which was originally an anime imageboard centered around nerdy interests. It would be weird it weren't filled with nerds doing nerdy stuff.
>>7502002
Wow this is a super thorough answer, especially for this site and double especially for a bait thread. I wish we got more posts like this. Keep up the good work, anon.
>>7501956
That's fucking horseshit! Getting shoved into those life-directions is what causes gender dysphoria, not the other way around. It's dead fucking obvious if you just think about it!
I'm 34 years old and I have started talking to a great guy. My biggest issue right now in pursuing a relationship with him, is that he is 62 years old. Any advice? Any other /lgbt/ anons in a similar relationship? Just wanted to throw this out there to see if I'm doing something that I really want to do or if I'm just chasing a Sugar Daddy.
In twenty years, he'll be 82 and you'll be 54
>>7501901
Yeah. That is what concerns me. I'm aware of the math.
>>7501901
Or he'll be dead and OP will be 54 with significantly more cash due to life insurance cashing out
Do guys in the gay community feel pressured to act masc because its seen as more attractive?
I'm a gay guy and I don't act anything. I'm just me.
>>7501791
Masculinization is feminization and castration.
>>7502168
Get.A.Life
Aren't there better things to discuss?
Like what?
>>7501676
Blini.
No there isn't. Dick is my senpai.
I'm not attracted to cis-women or cis-men. I am only attracted to the aesthetic of trans-women. I don't care if they are passing although that is definitely preferred. I don't care what genitals they have (SRS or non-op). It's not about the genitals for me. It's about the combination of masculine and feminine traits. Something about the unique work of art and dedication that is a trans body intoxicates me.
What am I? I see a lot of the word "chaser" around here but I don't feel like a chaser. I'm not a perv or a player. Like, a man would never be called a "chaser" for chasing cis-women... Why am I stigmatized for wanting to be with a trans-partner?
I want a real, honest, loving relationship but I could only ever settle down with a transwomen (regardless of genitals).
>>7501579
The is exactly what I have. It's definitely the traits of being a very, very femme twink that appeal to me. Not exactly into non-passing transgirls, but if a transgirl passes too much it does nothing for me.
> Is there a sexuality that is only interested in transgender people?
Yes, it's called "chaser" :^)
>>7501587
>Cancerposter finally admits he's a chaser
I like this episode.
i hate a lot about being transgender. i will never feel normal, and i will never be treated like a normal person by most everyone. nobody gives a fuck about anything i go through, not my family not my small handful of friends. i have no mouth, and I must scream. i can smoke all the weed, listen to angry loud music, smash all the glass objects, go to the psych ward, lash out at everyone, post mean things online, but nothing changes. Is it time to commit an atrocity of some sort? will they have heard me then? nobody fucking hears nobody fucking cares
i just wish i had a shoulder to cry one so i wouldn't have these thoughts about ending all the fuckery
bump
>>7501396
If you think that's bad, try being born trutrans and being trans your whole life instead of making the choice to be it later.
What's the worst sex you've ever had?
I once tried to fuck someone while holding them up but I'm not very strong so I dropped them on the floor and they landed on one of my Xbox controllers. They never even replaced it even though, technically, they broke it.
Why should they replace your shit when you're the one who dropped them? That sounds like it hurts you should have given them something instead.
>>7501085
I've never had sex.
>>7501157
But it was their ass that broke my controller.
Beautiful :3
>>7500786
Anyone that hides their face in a picture can not be trusted.
>>7500795
Anyone that hides their boobs in a picture can not be trusted.
>>7500786
Anyone that hides their genitalia in a picture can not be trusted.
> I watched gay porn out of curiosity (No I'm not gay... yet) and I still shudder in pain seeing a man get pounded doggstyle.
> If you're gay I want to know how did you first find out that you might like dick up your ass? This is a legitimate question because coming from a curious straight guy I just can't see that being enjoyable at all.
> I have some questions.
> Do you prefer the other male to have a big dick or does it not matter?
> How old were you when you had anal sex and were you top or bottom?
> Does poop accidents happen a lot?
> Can you cum from being fucked in the ass?
You seem to put a large emphasis on anal sex, but the fact is that anal sex comes as an extension of two men being attracted to each other and not the other way around (ie, you like anal sex therefore you are gay). You don't even need to have anal sex at all to be gay. Seems to me like you just want to try anal, but you need to relate it to being gay.
>>7500685
>You don't even need to have anal sex at all to be gay.
Are there really gay male couples that have no anal sex?
>>7500765
Yep. There are also gay couples out there who are two bottoms, or two tops. I know right, mindblowing. How can it be, these puzzle pieces don't fit!
Can you really "discover" your gender identity late into your teens/adult years? Why do late transitioners push the idea that gender identity is not innate, or at least not recognizable as a child, and that early transitioners couldn't possibly recognize it within themselves?
>>7500381
>Why do late transitioners push the idea that gender identity is not innate, or at least not recognizable as a child
>tfw late transitioner who did realize it as a child but didn't take it seriously/didn't know what to do about it
Cus the spectrum of gender identity as well sexual orientation changes every year of ones' life.
>>7500381
>tfw late transitioner who did realize it as a child but didn't take it seriously/didn't know what to do about it
So much this. I didn't know taking hormones (especialy pre puberty) is an option and hell I didnt even know how it affects the body as a child. Even during puberty I didnt know that one could self-med to stop this shit. I tried to cope with it and man-up but in the end it just made me sick and hate myself.
Even now at 21, my face is feminised (large eyes, small chin, soft cheekbones etc.), I have a female finger digit ratio (which proves exposure to estrogen in womb) and oh well, at least I know I'm not agp
>>7500360
Mike "suck cock, get shocked" Pence
Mike ''Spear The Queer'' Pence
>>7500360
Mike "A little more juice will turn Caitlyn back to Bruce" Pence.