I'm a closet trans girl/femboy mode right now and last night i lost my virginity to a guy i met online. The sex was bad, painful, and gross, but i feel even worse now. I was presenting female, which i don't usually do, but i thought i looked ok. But it didn't make me feel like a woman. It made me feel like a fag and a failed male. I thought this was what i wanted but now i just want to die. Has anyone else ever felt like this? What's wrong with me?
>what's wrong with me?
Nothing, you just fell for the random sex with strangers meme.
>>7520195
I mean I assume it would be better with a person you love, but does it really make that much difference?
Don't feel too bad, sex is always awkward the first time, and no matter what happens, life goes on, even if you made a mistake, life goes on
i love people when there family hates then and sosidty throws them out
them
>>7519968
>i love people when there family hates then and sosidty throws them out
R E M TOO oma i get what u sya ng i agre
>>7519968
Are you drunk or did you just start 5th grade?
Here's me talking to a feminist today, lol expats in India.
Gross :P nuff said.
Fuck off!
I hear they have aids in India ... enjoy them
AGP edition
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
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• Discord: https://discord.gg/qjxGSxY
>>7518294
OP, where is that pic from?
i've come up with a genius plan as to how to get raped by an /mtfg/
step 1. develop a romantic relationship with an /mtfg/
step 2. violently coerce that /mtfg/ into sex
step 3. wait for an /mtfg/ justice warrior to track me down and violently repay the debt of rape into my anus
>You will never be a woman
>tfw your closet gay friend who has hit on you before calls you gay infront of his friends
anyone on /lgbt/ who has experienced this before?
>>7519305
Out him and watch him burn
Fuck his ass in front of them and make him cum in shame.
Thoughts about non-binary special snowflakes?
Also, why 90% are women?
https://www.google.com/search?q=non+binary+cuties&espv=2&biw=1366&bih=662&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiaxO_--KnRAhXIgpAKHYo4BTUQ_AUIBigB#tbm=isch&q=nonbinarycuties&imgrc=SDZ89VqpO9ZUvM%3A
>>7519264
I think a lot of them have a cool aesthetic going on and they also seem better people than trannies tb h
>>7519272
This。
>>7519264
I think non-binary is just the new thing that teenage and 20-something year old girls have latched onto to seem cool. They almost always never understand the difference between gender expression and the concept of gender itself. Wearing different clothes one day doesn't suddenly make you a new gender.
Hello /lgbt/, I want to ask something. For the longest time I've wanted to be trans but had no idea how to tell them because [spoiler] actual [/spoiler] crippling anxiety. But then, because my mom loves National Geographic so much, I found that she had pic related and stole it. She doesn't know i have it, and I don't think she will.
Should I use pic related as a way to tell my parents that I want to be trans?
>>7518879
>want to be trans
If you want to be trans, you're a transtrender, period.
>>7518879
How old are you exactly? If you're beyond 12 and haven't begun to show signs of natural pubertal feminization (if you're MTF) then don't bother and stop lying about being trans.
t. True Trans™ early transitioner
>>7518879
have you actually read that particular national geographic "special" issue?
The mainstream media is the real fake news.
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
• Discord: https://discord.gg/7ZNbm8q
prev >>7517042
>anon-made thread
>>7518299
you're the one who said anything about a collar
i was only looking for extreme unprotected handholding
who /consumed by crippling envy of early-transers and cis girls/ here?
Are there any MTFs or FTMs here sympathetic to TERF ideology? Is so why?
I agree with them that some cis women, upon clocking a trans woman, might have traumatic upset if they have had past experiences of rape by men in isolated, supposedly woman-only spaces, and that that is important and serious. But I do not think that trans women should be excluded from women's restrooms because of it. I've had some pretty ugly arguments with some nigh-TERFy people in my social circle over bathrooms because I got physically assaulted for using any gendered bathroom in high school and I'm a trans guym so I can't imagine the safety probs for any trans girl.
I also agree with them that the experience of female socializiation from birth onwards is different than what a trans woman experiences and that there are actually more commonalities between cis women and DFAB trans people in childhood experiences than between cis women and trans women. I think they think a trans girl has the same experience as a cis boy though, and I really, really don't think so.
Lastly, I am sympathetic to the idea that gender really is a social construct, ie that I was a girl (though possibly close to male-sexed somewhere in my brain) before transition because I was read as one. I don't understand when people do not possess literally anything that is attributed to a gender and still claim it because they identify as it, ie a female person who has no sex dysphoria /at all/, no interest in any types of male presentation or social roles, and still claim to be a trans guy. It's confusing because the term "guy" then basically has no meaning--it usually means someone with a maleish body type (or, to trans people, someone who is okay with having one) or someone who looks and acts a certain way. There's no mystical gendered auras to "identify" with in the absence of that stuff. TERFs would and have agreed with me on this.
Where we seem to differ, though, is being polite to people even if they do seem to believe in mystical gendered auras. I'll use someone's preferred pronouns even if I think they're silly, because it's costing me little effort to do something that would make someone else very unhappy to have botched.
>>7518227
I think the hypothesis that trans people are just self-hating supergays isn't impossible. What if body dysphoria is a facet of OCD, obsessing over yourself just because you don't look as naturally butch/femme as fits your personality?
With that said, a common theme I see among detransitioned TERFs is that they still have dysphoria, despite their supposed awakening.
Help a conservative understand the lgbt movement
>thinks gays should be aloud to do what they want
>think they shouldnt be allowed to force religious business owners to service them
>think transgenderism is a mental illness
>thinks there are only 2 genders
>>7518013
There is no 'lgbt movement'. There are crazy dykes agitating for revolution, trannies lobbying for more sissy pills and gay men running the government while the bisexuals moan about being hated.
Loads of separate things, one movement it isn't
>>7518013
Why are you making this so hard for us?
>>7518013
There's not really an lgbt movement, just a bunch of people who are in some form of minority that gets picked on that want to allowed their personal freedoms.
Bifag here and I'm really in need of advice about now please help. Basically I got really drunk and started talking about how I like a good friend of mine a lot and started saying all this pathetic shit about how I want him to hold me tight and shit (I was very drunk) and overall made an ass of myself. Then fast forward to today and it turns out they've told the whole school and him so not only am I getting some abuse from the less savoury characters in my school (which I don't overly mind) but he knows and I'm afraid that it'll be shitty now and we won't carry on being friends after what happened and I really don't want that to happen as he is one of the sweetest and most genuine boys in my class, please help guys, all advice is welcome
Duh. Talk to him.
>>7517981
Hey OP also bifag here, I stayed closeted til the very end of high school and never had this situation, but I will try to give you advice anyway. Your friend is probably straight and the only way to get past this now is to talk to him and move on. He will probably still be your friend if he is sweet as you say.
>>7518052
I have literally no clue what to say tho
So, basically, I have two options being a decent person and a gay man:
1: Pretend hardcore to be someone I'm not for the rest of my life and accept that any boyfriend will be short-term and cheat on me
2: Be alone and miserable
BONUS: 3: Find someone who wants to spend the rest of their life with Pai Mei
>>7517829
Option 4: be yourself, dating and stop making >tfw no bf threads
>>7517829
Just don't use Grindr to find a boyfriend and you might just find someone longer term
>>7517829
>Pai Mei
If you literaly look like a wise kung fu master I'd let you pound my boipucci
This is an official announcement from /r9k/
TAKE YOUR FUCKING TRANNIES BACK
Jesus Christ, there are more trans threads in the /r9k/ catalog than here, and it's getting worse over time. Why do they not post here, tell me why they post on /r9k/?
>>7517529
Because they came here from r9k when they decided to take estrogen in the hopes of actually having sex with lesbians and other trannies. Then that didn't work out because they are all hideously ugly. Then they went back except with more estrogen and fucked your board up even more by acting like women.
Us LGB would prefer you take your damaged goods back. Thanks!
>>7517529
Trannies are incapable of sticking to 1 thread or even a few threads, every single one of them is a special snowflake who just HAS to make their own thread so they can give their totally unique and interesting story the attention it deserves.
>>7517529
those are /b/ trannies not /lgbt/ trannies
>implying we would want to associate with robots
lmao we might be mentally ill but our standards aren't THAT low
Barbarella edition
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
• Discord: https://discord.gg/7ZNbm8q
older and wiser >>7515790
>>7517042
>Fujoshi general
please find a way to make boy mode Pejic cosplay Griffith
And think of somebody who could do a Guts
pls someone help me get the motivation and energvy to clean my apartment and shave mah hairy legs. PLS
>>7517056
you won't make any money unless you shave your legs
Should people be fined for misgendering people?
https://youtube.com/watch?v=yjhgD6PD8Rs
>>7516964
> be Canadian
Fucking no but it's not like I have a choice in the matter
No, trannies are so fucking needy.
>>7516964
No.
But the person doing it was probably being a cunt for no reason so he deserved it