FAQ
>What is a fem?
An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Most are gay.
>Are fem guys trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
>Can I be a fem?
It's possible. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
>Should I go on HRT?
You'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. There's more info in the pastebin.
>Is liking fems considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
>Pastebin?
http://pastebin.com/9Ab1SpRE
Old: >>7496889
xth for perfect blonde boys~
>>7517662
Look for one
>>7517662
be brave and be nice
Why do trans women often take a receptive role with men but penetrative with women?
>>7516162
They fail both as a man and a woman. I'm not even female but I'd never let one penetrate me.
>>7516162
[citation needed]
>>7516162
>receptive role with men
that's what women usuall do
>penetrative with women
that's agp
How does /lgbt/ feel about trans people in politics?
>>7511484
more like Brianna Whu? amirite?
>>7511484
What kind of question is that?
Anyone is allowed to run for government and shouldn't be judged by their gender and rather their qualifications.
Pic in OP is clearly not qualified nor representative of trans people in general.
>>7511555
>Gender
>Not a qualification
Check your privileged shit lord
>>7503627
h-heh
>>7503627
>>7503627
I smiled. Thanks op
It's been to long. Yall know what to do!
>A/S/L
>Sexual Orientation
>Relationship Status
>Text / Mic / Cam
>Favorite Music
>Favorite Movies
>Favorite TV Shows
>Favorite Books
>Favorite Vidya
>Are you interested in Skype groups?
>What languages do you speak?
>What are you looking for?
>What are you NOT looking for?
>Contact info
>>7487806
>>A/S/L
21/M/Washington DC area
>>Sexual Orientation
Gay
>>Relationship Status
Complicated. Long distance boyfriend I've actually fallen kinda sorta in love with but the distance is realllllllllly hard.
>>Text / Mic / Cam
Text and to a leaser extent mic and cam
>>Favorite Music
Classical: Wagner and later mostly. Love the romantic Scandinavian composers. Love Bartok and Stravinsky.
Middlebrow: Zappa, tons of 60s jazz, Minutemen, Dead Can Dance, tuxedomoon, trying to get into good hip hop but I'm the epitome of white
Lowbrow: MBV and twee shit
>>Favorite Movies
I like some entry level art film directors like Cocteau and Tarkovsky. Fargo is the best movie I've seen recently. I like character studies like Marriage of Maria Braun, I love that shit. I have a guilty pleasure for horror films.
>>Favorite TV Shows
I almost never watch tv. But Veep, Chuck, Fargo.
>>Favorite Books
Drama: Ibsen, Harold Pinter, Beckett, Shakespeare, Marlowe, etc.
Poetry: I have literally a shelf of just poetry books. Name any major or minor poet and I either know of them or have read them.
Novels: I've read most of the big names other than Tolstoy who is my winter project. Doing War and Peace soon.
>>Favorite Vidya
I'm not a gamer but I love RPGs. FF4 and FF6 are faves. I'm gonna try FF9 over break.
>>Are you interested in Skype groups?
Always have been. I need a place I can ask other LGBTs for advice and support.
>>What languages do you speak?
English. I once knew french down to B2 level speaking and listening and C1 level reading (read some Stendhal and Flaubert, kinda difficult but made it through) but it's wilted over time.
>>What are you looking for?
Friends!
>>What are you NOT looking for?
Not looking for fuckbuddies! I'm keeping pure for the distance love interest.
>>Contact info
theashbad (skype)
>>7487806
>>A/S/L
30/M/South-east england
>>Sexual Orientation
Bi
>>Relationship Status
Single
>>Text / Mic / Cam
Yes, not often, even less often.
>>Favourite Music
Heavy metal, classic rock
>>Favourite Movies
Car chases and gunfights and explosions.
>>Favourite TV Shows
The Grand Tour
>>Favourite Books
Sci-fi/fantasy novels. Just finished digging through the Known Space series.
>>Favourite Vidya
Driving, FPS, sim games. Currently playing Farming Simulator.
>>Are you interested in Skype groups?
No.
>>What languages do you speak?
English, Bad English
>>What are you looking for?
Friends, bf/gf, people to talk to.
>>What are you NOT looking for?
Morons, /pol/, spam, trolling, incomprehensibly bad English.
>>Contact info
Skorpychan on Skype.
>>A/S/L
23 / m / Norway
>>Sexual Orientation
Bi
>>Relationship Status
Single
>>Text / Mic / Cam
Sure / Maybe / If you're a qt
>>Favorite Music
I listen to a lot of different genres, so i dont know what to put here. Lately i've been listening to a lot of psytrance, but i'm also into less weird stuff. I'd be happy to share some youtube links and maybe listen to what you have to show me!
>>Favorite Movies
I don't really watch a lot of movies, but i do like the avengers line of films, as well as some various drama stuffs. And comedy of course, because who doesn't like laughing!
>>Favorite TV Shows
I watched westworld recently, it was pretty dank!
>>Favorite Books
Educational only. I am a sucker for sciencey stuff, though!
>>Favorite Vidya
Titan Quest, Ark, Overwatch, WoW, Quake, IWBTG, i could list a million more. Vidya is my main hobby.
>>Are you interested in Skype groups?
Not even remotely.
>>What languages do you speak?
English, Norwegian, i understand Swedish (spoken) and Danish (written) since they're very similiar to Norwegian.
I also know a few words in various languages, but not enough to communicate in any of them.
>>What are you looking for?
Realistically? Friends.
Ideally? A qt gf (or feminine-looking, perma-bottom boyfriend would also work, i guess) to awkwardly hold hands with, play games with, and to laugh at dank memes together at ungodly hours.
Bonus points if you're autismo like me :^)
>>What are you NOT looking for?
Normies.
>>Contact info
Skype: ThettoZ
discord: ThettoZ#7076
steam: ThettoZ
Is my post long enough yet?
This is the Trans Help General thread. We'll try to help you here with everything related to being transgender.
This includes questioning, appearance, daily trans problems, medical info, general info and other interesting stuff to name a few.
MTF, FTM and questioning people are all welcome here to help eachother and discuss possible solutions.
You can also share your transgender related stories here. Just came out? Or you just need to get something off your chest?
Maybe something wonderful happened today! We'll be glad to hear it, it's always good to know we're not going through this alone.
Links:
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Transgender FAQ: http://pastebin.com/8QbKyShU
Am i trans/ trans help threads archive:
http://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/
Therapists: http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Therapists_by_region
http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_search.php
sort by transsexual issues
What will hormones do?
mtf: http://imgur.com/lDBLSVR
ftm: http://imgur.com/HqTqvJg
Previous thread: >>7372798
Is there any special workout or diet I should follow prior to top surgery?
how does one deal with a huge forehead/high hairline?
are there any good haircuts to hide it?
>>7459186
Might have to go for bangs that come down to your eyebrows and not past, it can help. Trannybangs is a meme for a reason
Hello, I was told there was a faq so this topic somewhere here
But im new to 4chan and have no idea
All guidance is appreciated
>>7531983
Tribulus Terrestris
Fenugreek
Ginger
DHEA
Ashwagandha
Just take the hormones, you're on 4chan, you can't be trusted with a child anyway
Just take hormones, I kid myself that this would work for a year and it didn't. Things will be a lot better after a few months on them.
:p
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
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• Discord: https://discord.gg/qjxGSxY
previous
>>7530901
first for COCK
Real :p hours who up
>>7531952
I struggle if I am just a crazy hon. That I don't pass. I am a late transitioning Trans woman by any definition of late. I won't go into why I didn't do it earlier.
The consensus here seems to be that my age makes me a hon regardless of anything. I know I am not perfectly passable as people do spot me.
Yet people tell me I pass. I have a job. I get flirted with. I am confused about what is really taking place.
This may sound vain but bear with me. I think maybe I don't really pass, but I am simply pretty, and that tricks people into thinking I pass. Does that make sense? Like people either consciously or unconsciously go ok your Trans, but you are pretty so I won't really see you are Trans.
Or I am a delusional hon as my age dictates, and I am like most if not all people who transition at my age.
I hear I pass a lot. I feel hugboxed, but strait cis guys often flirt and are nice. That doesn't happen to Hons.
No I won't post a pic.
i feel you. i'm over 30 and just starting.
>This may sound vain but bear with me. I think maybe I don't really pass, but I am simply pretty, and that tricks people into thinking I pass. Does that make sense?
nope, it's irrational
your real problem isn't passing, it's your unwillingness to believe you deserve to be the beautiful woman you are
accept a compliment as genuine, even if you don't believe it you can accept that others do
and for the love, stop paying attention to the vile memes here. just forget the word hon entirely
>>7531884
post pics op
>>7531884
This guy isn't mtf, but if he was I would consider him nonpassing but pretty.
Also post pic.
have any trans peeps tried prostitution?
What was it like?
Why do so many mtfs do it?
easiest money around
>>7530046
Wouldn't you risk getting killed if they see your dick?
>>7530077
no, because they'd hire you specifically for your dick
Becoming a proper lady that DOESN'T LIKE OTHER GIRLS edition.
Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
• Discord: https://discord.gg/qjxGSxY
peasant: >>7529019
First for COCK
>boy tinklers
Remember kids, when lawmakers and republicans make anti-trans laws, they're going after scary old hons, not cute young transitioners like us.
Sleep well!
Thanks Le helpful third gender crabman.
>>7529773
dam u tripin what u smokein
>>7529773
Actually they just see us all as abominations equal to old hons. But mostly they end up targeting butch dykes cause most conservatives have no idea what most trans woman look like.
Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
• Discord: https://discord.gg/qjxGSxY
>>7527364
>tfw one of my gf's edits is the thread image
:)
nice gif edition
>>7529025
she's a good girl ^^
I do a little bit, but combined with the creaky voice of my accent (PNW) I sound pretty gay especially to non-locals
>>7528569
No, and I hate the men who do
yeah and so i barely speak anymore
*claps*
>>7528569
I speak like Will Toledo
Anything but heterosexuality is a mental disorder and damaging to society. You are directly contributing to the downfall of the single greatest civilisation in the history of man because you couldn't curb your hedonist desire to suck dick.
I cannot get it across how genuine I feel about this, please fucking stop.
LUL
stay triggered, ya fucking faggot
>>7528530
You realize we are in the winter phase of civilization and not only has fall long since passed, but there is absolutely nothing you can do about it?
Seriously dawg western civilization started dying like 200+ years ago.
Repressed tranny detected. Also,
>western civilisation
Heh, no such thing.