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Oh, more stuff this time concerning love.


I'd love to get married and have kids but this place and examples in my surroundings have destroyed the women for me. I see most as sluts and whores that should only be used once and thrown away.

How do I overcome this or learn to live life alone without anyone?

If it changes anything, offspring would be something that would drastically change my life for the better I think.

Sorry if some parts are hard to understand. Even though I've lived in England for a long time, living and using my mother language started to hinder and fuck up my English which used to be pretty damn fluent if I may say so

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More, learning this time.

I'm a lazy piece of shit and can't learn to save my life. I don't even know how I managed to pull of my grade ratio so well this year.

I don't know what I want to do in life and that makes me really fucking sad and angry

Literally no school subjects interest me and I don't want to learn a trade since I'd probably be shit at it anyway

>>18601850
Well, I don't know what to do about it, but you should know that you are not the only one...
I'm 19 and still don't know wthat the fuck do I want to do in life. No friends and stuff.
In my class, in Hungary, perhaps the half of the class have some idea of what they want to do.
I used to learn programming for years, but I figured it out recently that it's a so fucking boring and inhuman job though I was pretty good at it.
I'm a lazy piece of shit too, try to write a routine for yourself. It doesn't have to be strict but you should always follow it. It made wonders for me.
About interests... Try to find a job or money making opportunity or at least something that boost your confidence and happiness.
For example if you like gaming, then try streaming on twitch or something.
Just notice the things you like and do some research about them.
For example I always liked reading novels online and now I want to write one myself.

>>18601842
If your school offers it, take it if you really want to but make sure you have good grades.

Take a physics class, 100 level. Study had. Get an A. (take it second semester) Get A's or B's in English & everything else. Transfer to a good school and find a mentor professor...etc...

>>18601844
Sorry, study hard!! Late nite, no school tomorrow.

>>18601840
I feel you. My hairline is fine but I've got a big bald spot on the back of my head. No one even told me about for years because everyone wanted to be polite, I only know about it because I saw the back of my head in the background of a picture.
Anyway, try to be zen. Yes, accept your fate. There is nothing you can do to pretend that it isn't happening. Shaving your head is certainly an option - have you tried it? That look works well for some people.

>>18601840
You should accept your fate, and be grateful that you have a nicely shaped head. Don't shave your head, just trim. Getting sex and friends, especially as a man, is just a matter of taking up a good social position. Your balding won't really stop you, especially if you *are* handsome and take good care of your appearance.

generic minoxidil costs 18 bucks at walmart for a 3 month supply at 2 uses per day. I have been using it once per day for 4 years and got some moderate regrowth and no thinning since. Once per day means a 6 month supply for 18 bucks. Takes 2 minutes to apply (less than shaving, for example).

>>18601820
Don't take no for an answer, shes just testing you

>>18601820
Either go for her or forget about her. But do not stand in the friend zone holding your dick like a dumb ass.

>>18601820
Put yourself in her position for a minute.
Let's say you're engaged to a woman whom you love. You're making plans for marriage, things are going well. You're happy.
One of your friends one day tells you that she loves you. She knows you're engaged, but despite the fact that you and she have never had sex, or discussed having a more serious relationship, or even so much as gone on a date, she's hoping that you'll jeopardize your engagement to be with her instead.
How would you react?

>>18601789
Have you ever had sex with a girl?

Don't give a damn about your sexuality.

It didn't matter whether or not you are single or not single or how people think about you. The only one that shall judge you or known best about you is yourself. Fuck other people, you are a man if you have enough self confidence to stop giving shit about stupid meaningless crap like sexuality.

>>18601795
no I am a kissless virgin
>>18601801
I guess but I figured maybe that's why I was always so afraid to engage with girls because I'm gay or something

Small tight groups can be very dangerous. Be careful with that.

I have always preferred the anonymity of a big city, where you can forget bad experiences.

>>18601727
>Not really, we're in a small town and I'm black
I hope you realize that everyone who posts in this thread will denigrate you. Had they thought you were a white male, they would all be on your side and try to help you.

>>18601911
Disagree, I will not denigrate this man. Only faggots with problems with blacks will do it. I WILL however say that he made a mistake getting with a white woman in a small town, albeit not a huge one, unless she's gonna go to the police, which I doubt she will do.

Whether spoken about or not, there is a certain unconscious racism of all peoples, especially in a small town. A black man raping a white woman would be par for the course with these people. I live in a small town and the one half black, not even full black kid, here got in trouble for raping a girl, which he actually did. Now this isn't to say black people are rapists or whatever, I'm just saying that these people won't be surprised if you're a rapist, because of their mentality. That being said, if you're a nice enough dude, have people to back you up, I'm sure you'll be fine. I've been accused of molesting a girl, only to her bf at the time though, when it was completely consensual. I'm sure my ex is also telling people I tried to rape her, since she is a notorious liar, hates me, still talks about me, and wants her friends sympathy (some of which I'm mutual friends with).

This gets to a larger part of the human experience, transcending race (lol but for real); if this ruins your reputation with people, fuck em. As long as you aren't in trouble, fuck em. If they believe the first story they heard about you, and didn't ask for your word on it? Fuck em. They weren't willing to hear you out, so it's fuck em forever.

>>18601676
maybe they think you're a lesbian because of those eyeglass frames.

You look like a lesbian

Maybe try a lesbian dating app instead?

Don't fuck crazy, you did good breaking contact.

>>18601624
You probably caused more self harm scars on her by ignoring her for a month.

>>18601644
Well I did explain her that I was not looking for commitment and how she was a good girl etc. She was OK with it and wanted to become "film buddies" because we loved the same movies. That's when I ghosted her

Best course of action here?

>>18601623
Be patient but also prepare to live without her should she not come back.

>>18601634
solid advice my friend. Since there is no commitment, do not get attached.

do not forget that you must focus on this part
>prepare to live without her should she not come back

This way you dont build any expectation and it will only be a suprise you do not really give about because you have made other options for yourself

>>18601620
Why are you breaking up?

>>18601626
I don't feel attracted to her anymore

>>18601620
>>18601632
Then, no. It'd be wrong to lead her on.

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No idea OP but if you enjoyed Midnight Diner, give Bartender a try.

Probably the first step would be to work in restaurants and bars for a few years. It's a complicated and difficult business (so I've heard) and it's probably just good to see how they work.

>>18601688 here,

I just started googling some stuff because I'm interested in owning a bar someday too and this thread reminded me of that... highly recommend this link

http://firstwefeast.com/drink/how-to-make-it-rules-for-opening-your-own-bar/silver-lining-joseph-schwartz

I think atmosphere is the last thing to be concerned about desu. Making a bar comfy and low key is peanuts compared to getting capital and a liquor licence.

bump, my cute cousin has his sickness also now. began with anime etc and now fantasises over korean fcking sissies

>>18601665
How is this a problem and/or relevant to my thread though? Real life isn't like your animes, incest is uncommon, it's very unlikely your cousin will want you.

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not a chick, but experienced with koreaboo girls.

you cant compare basketball and kpop. kpop is highly sexualized. maybe if you watch female groups you'll notice it better: lots of choreographies revolve around simulating girls riding a dick, showing their asses off, or touching their tits to draw attention to them. Yeah, there are groups that enfasize the sexual part more or less, but it's what draws the views nowadays

Male groups are the same, all singers look pretty fit, in choreographies and tv shows they do a lot of teasing putting their shirts up to show abs, try to act cutesy (which some girls like) or even do weird homobait stuff between them just to rail up all the fanfic writers and shit. most koreaboo girls are teens/pre-teens because their hormones are shooting up and they like fantasizing about dreamy asian stars that act like some anime characters, it's all a show filled with fanservice

>gif related

i know a few girls that fantasize about the singers but won't ever date an average asian male. i think kpop sets retarded expectations for asian guys, i dont think those girls would want to be with any average korean, or they might settle while fantasizing and projecting their idols

Maybe she lied don't feel bad

>>18601572
Get over it. There are other girls.

>>18601580
I doubt that in this case.

>>18601583
>I don't know how to get over this.
Did you even read the post? Simply saying get over it won't do shit.

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>>18601493
You are about to enter the 4th dimension

>>18601493

Screen is broken.

How did you find it? Did you go to use the laptop and then find it like this? Or did it happen while you were using it?

>>18601493
someone probably left a peanut, skittle, m&m, or pistachio on the keyboard and then forced the screen shut. is there anyone else in your household that uses it?

>>18601425
No, it's just friendship

>>18601425
no, that's pretty normal in most of the world and it saves on rent. It's called being roommates or friends.

>>18601425
idk IS it gay op?