Self harm scars on a girl

Don't fuck crazy, you did good breaking contact.

>>18601624
You probably caused more self harm scars on her by ignoring her for a month.

>>18601644
Well I did explain her that I was not looking for commitment and how she was a good girl etc. She was OK with it and wanted to become "film buddies" because we loved the same movies. That's when I ghosted her

>>18601647
Exactly. She told you she wanted a friend and you couldn't even provide that to her.

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>>18601644
>>18601652

>Waah, be my friend or I'll kill myself

>>18601624
>Did I dodge a bullet or overreacted?

Both. If the cutting stuff is in the past she could have moved on to a healthier place in her life. On the other hand these people often have lasting mental issues. I guess I wouldn't have dumped her that fast but I would have kept my eye out for crazy.

I wouldn't have just ghosted on her after a BJ. Even without the self harm that's a pretty dick move.

>>18601644
>>18601652
Never let yourself get into this mindset. As soon as you start basing your behavior on what the other person will do, you've lost yourself to their issues.