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Cant help to send her a message. Worse come to worse she doesn't want to speak to you anymore and your in the same situation as you are now. Good luck lad

>>18073373
>I met a girl on r9k

uhh anon I have some bad news

>>18073373
You've posted this before. Make up whatever answer you're looking for and then do whatever the fuck you want, since that's what you're going to do anyway.

>>18073349
Be an asshole

>>18073349
Read more, I guess? half of being witty is being clever, and making connections where no one else can see them.
The other half is confidence, and I have no clue how that shit works.

>>18073300
Another question I have is how do I find out if someone is pressing charges against me. I was told by my lawyer that they offered me a plea bargain for 60 days jailtime. I want to know if it was the detective filing these charges or if it was the people who got me arrested are the ones pressing charges.

>>18073300
First, if the real estate company owned the building when you allegedly trespassed, then yes they can be party to the charges.

Second, talk to your lawyer about who is actually bringing the charges. It doesn't sound like the real estate people... they would be looking for costs plus a trespass notice, not jail time. A district attorney (or other government official) would look for jail time.

>>18073443
Thanks for the response, but is there anything else I can do to get this case thrown out? They're assembling a jury to listen to this bullshit case. Literally, the police report says, "I was sitting in a room with my laptop". They said the door was locked even though it wasn't (how else was I able to get in?)

You can try to work through it. If it's too much to stomach leave him.
Without trust it's a relationshit

>>18073291

Break up. I was in a similar situation years ago and while I thought we could work through it, it never happened and wasting time with a partner you can't trust is pointless. End it with dignity intact, give yourself time to get over it and find someone better.

My instincts tell me to leave, but subconscious tells me to stay and says the whole "what if" we've been together for about four years. Last year this girl entered his life and he payed her more attention, complemented her, went out on "friend" dates with her, hangs out with her at like 10pm. Idk, he says that there's always people with them, but I went through his messages and there was nothing about inviting other people along. Idk if he still talks to her now or not. (we're long distance)

>>18073260

DuoLingo?

>>18073260
I dont know amy great places but I can suggest you try to immerse yourseelf in the language by listening to songs in that particular language and once your vocabulary starts to grow read books in that language. Just make shure to be busy with the language on a daily basis.
Duo lingo is a website where you can practise vocab and grammer if im nkt mistaken, so that helps to.

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>>18073134
>>18073142
samefag bumping

>>18073134

Almost same scenario here mate.

You were probably feeling underappreciated back then, but now that you have been forced to face her market value you are confused and your brain is trying to cope with that by highlighting convenient memories to induce regret and make you feel stupid - which you are, but that's only part of the truth.

Humans are selfish yes, enjoy the opportunity to learn more about yourself and people in general.

>>18073047
there's nothing you can say can or do can "make it right". you asked her out, she said no and that's that. it's not awkward as long as you don't make it awkward.

>>18073047
if she stops talking to you after you ask her out that means she thinks youre really fucking ugly and a horndog.

>>18073047
Keep in mind, this is assuming she's a good person. She probably really enjoyed your friendship and company. Now that you've asked her how she's likely doing a couple things:

1. Racked with guilt that she did something to hint at or encourage you asking her out only to shoot you down and have you be humiliated.
2. Feeling as if you were only her friend so you could date her.
3. Not wanting to continue to lead you on by being friendly since that's what lead to this in the first place.

All you can do is kind of joke about it, break the tension, and let her know it's ok. That you'd thought you'd ask, but you appreciate her as a friend above all else. BUT ONLY IF SHE ISN'T A SUCCUBUS ASSHOLE!

Do you even know how to program?

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>>18073017
Looks like you got caught by a meme

>>18073017
ML expert here.
Tell me about your math background

I set up mine and in the first week got maybe 10 matches. Takes a while for you to get into people's feeds

>>18073026


I figured it was some shit like that because I saw all the bullshit under Tinder+


So basically if I just go through and swipe as many as possible when I get free time and then just ignore it for a few days and shit should eventually populate makes sense.


I'd much prefer if people would actually communicate at bars, it's hilarious watching multiple groups of people from work and shit who just stay in their group and don't go around talking to people like it used to be.

I apologize for the giant wall of text, I guess that didn't wrap properly.

But anyways, about the massage. I was nervous as fuck during the drive there and in the room. I got an hour massage and I couldn't really stop from tensing up down there. The massage was great, but my balls and heart did not feel relaxed at all. Even though I wasn't in the mood at all (I wasn't hard at all) I inquired about something extra at the end. Needless to say, as soon as I started to get a half-chub, I came immediately, it was fucking humiliating. I could not fucking control my body when she started touching me. She wasn't too attractive (completely average actually), but fuck, I just wanted to have at least one sexual experience. I half anticipated this happening, but I thought, fuck it. Had I known this would happen, I would have never initiated that. The fact that this happened makes me even more anxious sexually, especially if I get a legitimate sexual experience later in life.

So yeah, that's my sob story that i'm sure many KV's can relate with and people have seen here. I just want to become a semi-normie somehow, goddammit

semi-bump

I'm not really sure what kind of response i'm looking for, but I just felt like I should share this.

I really hate myself too; i'm stuck at a shitty retail job and I still live with my father and NEET brother who is even more worse off than me. I don't want to be a complete hopeless failure like him who hasn't believed in himself or tried anything remotely social the past 10 years. If anything, that drives me to try and improve myself. I have a few IT certifications, and i'm trying to sink a steady job along that line, but i'm not trying nearly as hard as I should, mostly because I doubt myself. I think I should really pound away at getting a successful career and try to make me actually like myself. I feel like if I enjoy myself and do somewhat interesting things with myself (and hopefully with other people) that will boost my self-esteem and approaching girls will come more natural. I really do need to try and get some decent hobbies other than just playing Magic, listening to metal, and playing drums by myself though. I really want to get a regular exercise regimen and join a band, but the anxiety kicks in again. It fuckin sucks.

>>18073225

feel ya bro.

I had my share of similar experiences and believe me I know scary that is.

But you can get past that, and how you do it is finding girls you feel really comfortable around in an intimate scenario. Ideally you want someone who had the same troubles, make it easier, someone slightly more awkward than yourself.

Sounds ridiculous but it's true, being in a situation where the girl is clearly more confident than you are can only work if (a) there's a lot of trust involved and (b) she is very patient - which as we both know, is very hard to find. Plus, there's something to witnessing someone else anxiety that induces our calm... probably something about our predator instincts. Bear in mind, I'm not telling you to rape anyone.

A pharmacy.

>>18072922
without a prescription

>>18072926
Go back in time 30 years and become a celebrity, people will just hand you them.

Or like... don't kill yourself?

>>18072910
Leave her ass and go out of state.

>>18072928
I love her though

>>18072910
kys, marry her, or dump her you degenerate twerp

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dude, just start napping in your spare time. understandably, you're freaked out. but stress is going to be bad for your health, the last thing you want is to get sick or worsen your condition by worrying about a symptom that isn't there

This couldn't be the result of hallucinations right? You're sure they're physical floaters, also fbpb you should listen to that anon

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>>18072823
I bookmarked this OP. Update us after the appointment.

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Jean-Paul Sartre was an ugly motherfucker but he was successful with women. In fact, a lot of rich and powerful dudes are ugly but have supermodel wives. Looks aren't as important as you'd think.

Opening up to people is terrifying if you're not used to it, but it gets easier with time. I don't know what you do with your time (school, work, vidya) but if you have an acquaintance somewhere out there you can get close just by opening up about yourself. Usually they'll open up too, unless they're put off by it. You don't need to confide in them the quality of your last bowel movement or turn it into a pity party.

People who are successful with relationships are like people who succeed in other areas: they fail a lot, and learn from their failures until they're experienced. It'll hurt at first but keep the end-goal in mind.

>>18072832
Thank you very much for the response, I really appreciate it.

>>18072775
You should never be failing in college. At worst you withdrawal because of emergencies and unfortunate events.

If you fail a midterm or struggle with concepts then go to your professor's office hours. Tell him you don't know shit and are struggling. The early the better, but they understand and are there to help.

>I play alot of video games

Well shit cut that and focus on school. What's more important to you, school or video games? It seems like your study habits need improving more than your math skills.

>>18072775
>Basic Mathematics: F
you should pick up some middle school books. I don't know any of them but perhaps go to amazon and see if there's a filter for math books of high school and lower.
The difficulty of math isn't the problem here, it's the teaching of it. I believe your teachers have failed and now only reading books in your free time can help you.

https://www.khanacademy.org/