So, ill start
About a week ago i asked out a girl at my work, whom i talk to on a daily basis. But lately shes been avoiding me, i want to text her something that she will see to make up for my mistake. I cant deal with the atmosphere being so awkward around us anymore
Also other people feel free to post your stories here.
>>18073047
there's nothing you can say can or do can "make it right". you asked her out, she said no and that's that. it's not awkward as long as you don't make it awkward.
>>18073047
if she stops talking to you after you ask her out that means she thinks youre really fucking ugly and a horndog.
>>18073047
Keep in mind, this is assuming she's a good person. She probably really enjoyed your friendship and company. Now that you've asked her how she's likely doing a couple things:
1. Racked with guilt that she did something to hint at or encourage you asking her out only to shoot you down and have you be humiliated.
2. Feeling as if you were only her friend so you could date her.
3. Not wanting to continue to lead you on by being friendly since that's what lead to this in the first place.
All you can do is kind of joke about it, break the tension, and let her know it's ok. That you'd thought you'd ask, but you appreciate her as a friend above all else. BUT ONLY IF SHE ISN'T A SUCCUBUS ASSHOLE!