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Where do you go for help if you really struggle to meet women and loosen up enough to be attractive? How do you find the motivation to be better when you realize you are woefully unattractive and undesirable and will remain single and loveless forever unless you change yourself? I realize that all of this is symptomatic of many larger issues like my inability to be intimate with the vast majority of people (I don't just mean physical intimacy, but rather simple emotional bonding).
What I'd really like a mentor/role model that can sort of teach me how to unfuck myself. Has anyone ever had experience with other guys sort of showing them "the way" when it comes to women and life? My dad was obviously not around to show me shit and I don't want to blame him but having no male role models or motivational buddies growing up, not even a brother or best friend or something, really sucked.
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Jean-Paul Sartre was an ugly motherfucker but he was successful with women. In fact, a lot of rich and powerful dudes are ugly but have supermodel wives. Looks aren't as important as you'd think.
Opening up to people is terrifying if you're not used to it, but it gets easier with time. I don't know what you do with your time (school, work, vidya) but if you have an acquaintance somewhere out there you can get close just by opening up about yourself. Usually they'll open up too, unless they're put off by it. You don't need to confide in them the quality of your last bowel movement or turn it into a pity party.
People who are successful with relationships are like people who succeed in other areas: they fail a lot, and learn from their failures until they're experienced. It'll hurt at first but keep the end-goal in mind.
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Thank you very much for the response, I really appreciate it.
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