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its ok mommy fetishes are the best

>>18491704
Insecure young people usually love it when someone acts as a positive and paternal figure in their lives. Sexual desires might also intensify. It's all very normal.

>>18491687

sounds like nothing important. some dreams have psychological reasons attached to them, others are just garbage files mixed with fantasies and weird food.

it sounds like you just had a cool dream.

>>18491687
fighting the power

>>18491640

They don't have disorders and they went out and socialised in the most crucial developmental phases of their early lives. As a result they have better social skills and understanding of social norms, and they actually like normie shit, because it's what they've always done.

They're not different. We are.

>>18491640

normalfags is just a blanket term thrown around by people specifically from 4chan. they are esentinally just everyone you see out and about. they arent different. they arent even that different from you really.

its too broad a term to start defining and saying what you do or dont have in common.

stop worrying about what they are and trying to find some silly little thing you think you can emulate that will somehow magically transform the rest of you.

focus on what you want out of life, figure out which of those things are contradictory to your intrinsic self, and start building towards the rest. building, not pretending.

>>18491592
Short answer: you cant.

Long answer:
She probably has husband and doest want to cheat. Even if he wanted to cheat, it would be in her own age category. Even if she wanted young boy, she would picked somebody random because she probably see you as uninterested kid aka not a lover.

Your best bet is to simply offer to do stuff with her. Invite her to dinner? She is twice your age. Be with her a lot, talk to her, try to get her drinken, stare at her boobs, she will notice.

Imho it wont happen, but ypu never know. Start by asking her to some activity. Walk in park? Picnic? Dinner? Help her with home chores?

And once she tells you no, just walk away. Dont make a scene.

It's really fucking unhealthy to do this.
If you ask him to stop he'll get really defensive because you said he could do it.

wow and I'm like not even half as bad as OP and I am insecure as fuck and currently losing atm

jesus christ OP... figure it out.. this is disgusting

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>>18491546
I like that part where you supported your bf to shorten his life and become obese. Almost like a novel.

My shit advice is to talk to him again. Maybe it is time to turn him >>>/fit/ or break up because honestly if you ever marry him, he will probably let go and end up super fat aka morbidly obese.

>pro tip
From certain point, his body will become so fat it will stop producing enough testosterone and his libido will die. But at that point he will probably have much bigger problems.

>he's still small
There is one objective method bmi:
http://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html
When it says you are fat, then you are either pregnant woman, professional body builder or just fat.

Tell him what bmi you wish and dont allow him to get any more fat.
>why didnt you tell him sooner?

most likely she's not into you. I'd stop trying to text her unless she texts you back

>>18491532
I will tell you what to do.
ASK HER ON DATE. ASAP.

Texting sucks. Stop overthing problems, buy condoms and go on the fucking date.

http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

>>18491411
But the whole friends with benefits title dosent really sit well with her, and to be honest I somewhat like the idea of a relationship. She has things that need work, but I like the chance to grab her thigh while I'm driving, or have her rest her head on me if we're just watching TV or whatever. I think that all of these things are just experiences that I want though, as a person she looks nice, but there are few things about her personality that just make me go "wow!". And yet when she told me she would love to go on a date, here I am looking at ticket prices and reservations. Am I just trying to make a quick grab at all of the romantic experiences I've never had until now, or is there a chance I'm actually falling for her somehow?

I've juggled the idea of going our separate ways, but at this point she would be crushed, and the last thing I want to do is hurt her. She really is a sweet girl. And unless I cut her out completely the chance of us drifting back towards each other is pretty high. I know for a fact we land in the friends with benefits category, but since she dosent like it I have no problem doing all the romantic stuff since I've never really had the chance to until now. If we need to go separate ways what would be the best way to go about it? Or should I just hang on and enjoy the ride and see if it goes nuclear somewhere down the line?

>>18491358
nope.

>>18491316
Just answer the fucking questions.

Is there no victim support service that can help you with this? In any case, the prosecuting lawyer should have briefed you and told you what to expect. Also the defence lawyer will be an asshole - it's their job to be - but the judge will be there to stop them being too much of an asshole. Everyone involved will know that different people having different speaking abilities.

>>18491316

you dont really, thats not really the point of this. just rehearse what you want to say, try to go over details in your head, and just take your time to think before answering any questions.

thats it. if you 'sperg' it doesn't matter, it'd just make people pity you more so...

>>18491307

>how to stop

by stopping

>but its too hard on my own

therapy.

alternately, give your dog away / have him put down because when a dog tastes human blood thats pretty bad.

What you're doing is self harm, due to stress. I recommend you see a doctor and get an appointment booked with a psychiatrist. It's nothing to be ashamed of, since everyone experiences stressful times in their lives. I hope you get better!!

>>18491307
you like pain?
Want bdsm?

>>18491295
>My ideal job would be working in a team with others designing something exciting, like a rocket or a revolutionary computer program or the software for a spaceship.

Find people that already do this, whether in real life or some dude on the internet doing this. Then reverse engineer. Find out what they did to get there. You might find that the degree doesn't matter as much as what people they surrounded themselves with and what they did OUTSIDE of the classroom.

>>18491282

dandruff is generally dry skin on your scalp. have you tried just not washing your hair?

Go and talk to a doctor.

It might not be dandruff and be fungal, looks similar but is harder to get rid of. A doc can prescribe you proper med for it that will kill it

Low self-esteem, shyness, tendency to hold back, unwilling to assert themselves, pessimistic.

>>18491255

i'd say depression is worse. i know it sucks but you'll get over it soon.

honestly nobody thinks you're a loser or whatever. i mean, i'm pretty sure they're busy thinking about something else, it's you that thinks that.

but yea you just gotta chill man, look for a job? if you have one, look for a better job to do something.

or attend school to learn something new to keep your mind busy

take care anon

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>>18491255
Depression is worse. Being insecure is easier to cure.

Just keep smoking the herb, don't give a fuck about what the others think. Focus on yourself and your feelings. You will come out of that dark place soon enough, but do it at your own terms, not out of worries that others will think less of you. Just don't take it to other extreme where your behavior causes great distress to others. When outside your 4 walls, try to pretend that you are a normal human bean.

t. high-functioning semi-alcoholic