A girl i have been seeing told me she is transgendered (m2f). She has had all the surgeries and you would never guess that she used to be a he. This doesn't bother me since she seems like a girl to me and doesnt have a dick, but my knowledge of this basically extends as far as seeing traps posted on this site. There are a lot of things i don't know. Can we have sex in the normal way? Can we get married/is it considered a gay marriage? Is it ok if i ask her personal questions about either her body or her past? And WHY would she chose to be a woman? I'm just not familiar with this type of thing and it's kind of daunting.
Tl;dr: red pill a straight guy on dating a transgendered girl.
>>6780661
>girl
kek
Enjoy eternal hellfire, faggit!
>>6780667
Go back to your trailer Dwayne
>>6780661
My advice: never talk to her about it, never ask questions about it, never bring it up. Pretend she is any other girl. Pretend you don't even know. Let her talk about it if she decides to. Never bring up anything even remotely close to even hinting at it.
This is how you play it safe. To do otherwise is to risk it all. Good luck.
T. has tranny gf
I've been having questions about my sexuality since highschool. Recently these questions have gotten louder. I don't really have anybody I can talk with this about. I feel kinda trapped.
>>6779626
Do you feel sexual or romantic attraction to the same sex?
if answer is yes you're gay, it's simple people just like to make it hard (giggity)
>>6779626
You a dude? You wanna fuck a bloke?
Congrats, you're a faggot. Enjoy it.
You a chick? You wanna fuck a gal?
Congrats, you're a faggot. Enjoy it.
>>6779640
I honestly don't know. I've met a guy here and there that pique my interest in a different way from the large majority of guys. It doesn't feel the same as the feelings I've had for the girls I've dated. I don't really know how to describe it.
I have noticed that there is a lot of hate directed at cis lesbians on this board. Can someone explain it to me? Like I understand its 4chan and everyone hates feminists and what not but why all the hate directed to lesbians? Aren't lesbians leading the LGBT, that is why their letter comes first?
>>6779248
Ah yes, lesbians, the women who won't shut up.
I actually don't know what you are talking about. There isnt much lesbo hate on here iirc.
>>6779248
Yeah not much lesbian hate here we reserve out collective disdain for biscum on /lgbt/
>>6779248
You mean like the lesbians that congregate on a thread that explicitly excludes trans people?
>that's why their letter comes first
Low energy troll
Of course at the end of the day noone on this board will ever hate anybody else as much as we hate ourselves.
I fucking hate him.
>>6778652
her*
>>6778652
just kuz she's ugly as sin?
>ur shallow
>>6778652
Why? Chris is fucking hilarious!
A spin on the Last song = identity thread.
Post your favourite game and have others guess your gender and sexuality.
Shadow of The Colossus here.
Undertale.
gotta go with pic related (persona 3)
>inb4 devs remove Gastronok from trunk
Why do the majority transwomen seem to have an instinctive extreme hatred for feminism and women in general? Why do they feel entitled to females spaces such as bathrooms and women's colleges, and the right to be "treated as a woman", but then turn around and disparage women and anything that they do?
Most people in general are ignorant about 3rd+ wave feminism, so most trans women don't even know that intersectionality is a thing and 2nd wave TERFs are actually a minority.
>>6772288
>implying that any young person in the modern day does not understand 'intersectionality'
>implying that transgenders really think all or many feminists are TERFs
Kek. Trannies hate feminists because feminists hate femininity, they think it is an evil device created by men to prevent them from becoming engineers and having orgasms. The feminists who didn't hate femininity happened to be TERFs for pretty obvious reasons.
>>6772319
>trannies endorse gender rigidity through toxic fetishistic exploitation of femininity and get thoroughly rectal-raged after people dare to call them out on it
that's more like it.
Are there any viable alternatives to transitioning? Not talking about conversion therapy, but is there evidence of people with gender dysphoria just being comfortable with their current self? Also post risks of hrt and transitioning
>>6767062
This is a question that has been asked and studied since the renaissance.
The only answer found so far is the sound of crickets in the distance.
I think it's safe to say at this point that further pondering of the question is extremely unlikely to be productive.
>>6767062
>gender dysphoria
>comfortable with current self
It's not possible to apply both unless you're lying about one or the other.
Slavoj, it's okay to come out. The world is different now and will accept you. You can be a normal woman and go stealth. Just ignore the transtrenders and 3rd wave feminist nonsense--it's just ideology.
So, how about posting whatever canonically trans characters you know of? Discussions allowed too. Anime, manga, live action tv, cartoons, movies, doesn't matter.
Pic related is from Hourou Musuko. Fyi, don't watch the anime first.
For those that like Hourou Musuko but want extra misery, check out Bokura No Hentai.
Apparently /u/ doesn't like trans women. That's a shame. Blaze and Clash is super cute would make a cute couple.
Surprisingly, Blaze is not the first mtf character I've seen that reminds me of McDonalds.
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First for having no hope for passing and taking HRT with the intent of just living as a male for the rest of my life.
Also, does QHI ship to the US? Or am I doomed to ADC?
>>6755350
>no hope for passing and taking HRT with the intent of just living as a male for the rest of my life.
Me too thanks.
>>6755350
QHI does ship to the US.
It's one of these things!
Link to the last song you've listened to and others guess your gender and/or sexuality
and don't be lazy, make sure to guess others too!
mine: https://youtu.be/Itt1nn9aWz0
Is this actually a thing you people do?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Jh49xDNbCg
This is me
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjMwdL5WtFc
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>>6729812
I liked Totally Spies and PPG. But so did my brothers, so I think they were just entertaining shows.
Total random, but serious question, but how do you all deal with irritation from shaving your butts?
>>6730840
Just ignore it is all I could think to do. I guess I would like to hear a real answer as well.
Old: >>6557836
Friendly reminder that you can hide the thread by clicking the little minus sign to the left, or by filtering "/acegen/" through 4chan's settings (top right).
>So, what exactly IS asexuality?
There are two commonly used definitions, the first (from dictionary.reference.com):
asexual (a-sek-shoo-el) in medicine
3. lacking interest or desire in sex
And the second (from asexuality.org):
An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction
(to prevent confusion; latter preferred)
>soitsfuckingnothing.jpg
If it helps, asexuality is recognized in the DSM-V: "if a lifelong lack of sexual desire is better explained by one's self-identification as 'asexual', then a diagnosis of... [male/female sexual/arousal disorder]... is not made."
>Okay, so, that didn't actually tell me anything.
So you want to read more about asexuality. Cool.
If you want science:
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If you want popular articles/videos/websites:
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Letters to an Asexual (and other relevant videos) (youtube.com/user/swankivy)
>/acegen/ I think I might be asexual!
Do either of the above definitions apply to you? Both? Yes? No? Not sure? Start by asking yourself whether or not you experience sexual attraction as it is described here: imgur.com/pdIxHYc
>[questiongoeshere]
Hey, we're pretty chill, so if you've got a question: ask it.
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So how does an asexual find other asexuals to date? Is there an online dating site that would work? I can't imagine tinder would be a very good place for it.
>>6653389
>Online dating goes against some basic privacy values that I really do not want to waver on.
How are you supposed to find anyone if you refuse to look?
so im meeting a guy tomorrow, and he wants to start a sub/dom relationship, but i dont have any experience in that field.
any advice for a new gay dom?
be as dominant as possible.
>>6802424
so gay subs are that thirsty?
>>6802427
you'd be surprised.
in fact......you may be shocked.
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Old thread >>6800911
Good evening everyone~
its dark
(I'll just copy and past this again because I want more people's brutal honesty)
"I know that anon from before is probably going to eviscerate me
but...
my shoulders aren't t-that bad...r-right
i hate myself"
Do traps in real life take offence to being called traps?
>>6801670
As it tends to be in these cases, it depends. A lot do, but I take it as more of a compliment then anything else.
>>6801670
Well, when you break down the actual source of that term... a lot probably do. It's basically saying that they are misleading people, "It's a trap," not to mention, sort of dehumanizing.
However, just as some gay guys don't mind being called fag or faggot, it can vary. To be on the safe side, I'd recommend erring on the side of not using the term outside of your porn hub searches.
I'd take offense to it (trans); but I'd more just want to not be near you because that's a term that I'd expect an aspie to use in person.
Online, idgaf.