I'm having an identity crisis. Up until recently, I had been confident that I was totally straight. The thought of being with the same sex didn't ever cross my mind as a possibility.
Recently I've become so infatuated with the idea of having relations with the same sex, but my thoughts about the opposite sex hasn't changed.
Does this mean I could be bisexual. This is all so new to me.
>>6802708
seems like you're just realizing you're bi
take it slow
>jerk off
>if homoerotic feelings subside you have a homo fetish, explore the root cause(s) with a therapist if it bugs you
>if they do not you're bisexual, welcome to the queer club, take a lapel pin
>>6802708
>Does this mean I could be bisexual
Probably, but if the label intimidates you then don't use it until you're more comfortable and certain.
There's nothing wrong with not having a sexual identity you are firmly cemented in and willing to brand on your forehead.
ITT We discuss our luck with the gene pool. Getting that masculine face or big thighs and ass we wanted etc.
Repression-hanging-by-a-thread tranny here. I have a nice bubble butt but no hips and my jaw is catastrophic. I'm pretty sure I have good eyes though??? Whatever I'll probably kill myself before I manage to transition anyway
>>6802650
my beef isn't with the gene pool save for being too hairy for my tastes, but it's with that asshole father time ravaging my body one second at a time
bi femboy/twink
good luck
>broad hips for a guy
>narrowish waist for a guy
>a small, manageable amount of body hair to shave
bad luck
>knee condition that limits my mobility on occasions
>teeth that are predisposed to shit, I have to keep them in pristine condition to prevent dentures at 30 like my father
>family history of diabetes(every male for 3 generations) so I need to keep an eye on that as well so I don't get that as well
Pretty decent I think, everything shitty is manageable and I feel lucky for the good things I got
I caught my son having sex with another boy, I honestly don't know what to do
here's what happened
>come home from shift, son is currently with me (split custody)
>bedroom light is on, I go in to tell him goodnight because I'm tired and want to check on him before I go to sleep
>he's in there kissing a boy, they are both naked as far as I can tell
>i quickly leave and go downstairs
>that was an hour ago and I still haven't went back up, he hasn't come down
He's only 15, I don't know what to do. I love him but he's my only child, I don't want him to be gay
*poops in ur thread*
>>6802558
>I caught my wife's son having sex with another boy, I honestly don't know what to do
Fixed it for ya OP
>>6802578
my son, we got divorced when he was three
IM GAY
>>6802355
>comes into troll but were basically as autistic
>>6802355
post boipucci
I'm confirmed bi (at lease sexually) and comfortable with it enought that Iwant to have gay sex for the first time. How do I find someone clean, trustable and safe?
I've chatted with people on craigslist, but I'm scared shitless of getting with someone with diseases (I read that POZ shit screencap).
I'm considering asking my dad if he knows someone since he's gay, but that just seems like the most akward discussion ever... If it wasnt for incest, I'd just ask him, but yeah I doubt that would work.
Wat do?
Pic unrelated.
>>6802153
CL and use condoms
>>6802245
Still freaks me out, what if it breaks?
what is this?
>transbian into coding
>>6801891
>mentally ill straight man
>calls himself a "transbian"
>>6801891
why is it so common for transbian hons to all work in IT? iv'e been coming to realize how dangerously accurate this stereotype is
>>6801907
I've noticed the the gays and transgenders who refer to themselves with derogatory terms like tranny, faggot, and transbian seen to act like they have the right to pass judgement on others because they're self deprecating
Why are there so few FTMs in comparison to MTFs? Do FTMs actually experience dysphoria? Why are the only FTMs who are publicly vocal about their experiences transtrenders and cis women who only take on a masculine appearance for gender-bend purposes? Are all FTMs transtrenders?
>>6801427
You got statistics on that don't draw from the numbers of people getting SRS?
All the statistics I've seen only count people getting SRS and it's not a surprise FTMs are less by that count.
>These numbers are based on those who identify as transgender. It is estimated that about 0.005% to 0.014% of males and 0.002% to 0.003% of females would be diagnosed with gender dysphoria, based on current diagnostic criteria.[6] Research indicates people who transition in adulthood are up to three times more likely to be male assigned at birth, but that among people transitioning in childhood the sex ratio is close to 1:1
now fuck off.
>>6801427
FTMs are generally ignored because MTFs are 5x more taboo and and FTMs tend to pass better once on hormones.
Yes (real) FTMs expierence dysphoria
Transtrenders are very vocal and annoying and thus are given a lot of attention. Most cis passing FTMs are ignored or purposefully go stealth.
Came out as gay in my twenties to a few friends and relatives. It was very weird.
It was weird because every time I came out, the person I was coming out to told me one of their own deeply held and far more serious secrets. I learned about: quit careers, serious illnesses, financial disasters, dangerous neighbors making specific credible threats, and the list of secrets I now have to keep for my family and friends from the rest of my family and friends goes on.
So what are your thoughts on this; how bad did I screw up and did people tell you their secrets when you told them you're a legbutt?
Oh boy, one more reason to not want to come out
>>6801332
I was told no secrets.
You have an unfortunate super power.
"Oh, you're gay? That's cool, I've been thinking about coming out as an adult baby"
I just had sex with one if my best friends, who is gay, and I liked it. But I think I liked it for the wrong reasons? Like vaginas feel better than anal and I dont really think about guys sexually. With that being said, it was way better than sex with my previous girlfriend. I think it's because I felt so close to him. He's my friend and I talk to him about stuff that I never would tell any girl about. I spend alot of time with him and we're always there for each other when things get tough. But like I said, even though sex feels physically better with a girl, the emotional feeling of being able to give him that kind of intimate pleasure just blew my mind. It was so passionate. I dont know whether to consider myself gay/bi now. It was all about emotion for me. Like I couldn't have sex with a random guy no matter how attractive he is.
>>6801061
>vaginas feel better than anal
virgin detected
Nigga, you didn't have sex.
You made love to your best friend.
That's why it felt better. No need to over analyze or label.
Its just better when the dick is attached to the heart, regardless of gender.
>>6801098
I guess I shouldnt label it, but I could never be that passionate with a girl. My guy friends and so in tune and relaxed with one another, it feels effortless. With girls, I always feel like we're playing mind games.
How are you supposed to come out to your parents which your transition depends on as trans?
>>6800867
Have a backup plan
Find a place to stay if they kick you out
Ask friends if they could give you a job if you need it. If you dont have friends start riding dildo to loosen your ass and sucking on them for bj practice.
Then tell parents ASAP. The sooner the better, always. If they react positively you can start transition immediately with full support. If they dont, you can rip the bandaid off and start working on transition yourself. It also gives them the maximum time to process the info and hopefully come around one day.
Just
DO IT
>>6800901
Ask yourself what's more important. Let's talk worst case scenario.
Obviously if you can, going to college and transitioining is the most preferential. But if you had to choose, which one?
College first, transition after
Transition first, college after
What are your real priorities? Because if you want to transition first, you need to just come out to your parents
>>6800918
wut
If op is trans than she's known since she was a little kid. If she's at college age it obviously isn't a phase
Do you have mommy/daddy issues /lgbt/?
Nah dog.
Mfw muh parents want me to be gay instead of just' curious'
I have an issue and it involves dogs. <3
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Also Nightwish and other similar bands
>tfw no gf
>>6800776
>tfw gf
I've known I was a lesbian for many years but now I'm discovering I might be ftm, and I have a lot of self hatred right now. Lately I've been having a lot of violent m/f rape fantasies, and I don't know what they mean? The thing is, I have absolutely no interest or desire to sleep with a man; I even tried to once and told him it wasn't turning me on and I just couldn't do it. so why am I having these intrusive self hating fantasies?
Do you fantasize about being raped or doing the raping
>>6800436
Psychological response to the thought that you could be trans
>>6800444
Kinda both, or just me outside of it witnessing two other people. Somtimes I think about men just doing violent things to me; not just rape but would never do it in real life ahh what's wrong with me
is this individual not one of the most attractive people ever !!!!
No, but i wish i was her
She's just decently attractive but has a good professional makeup artist and professional photographers. Without that she'd look like any other fairly attractive-but-not-all-too-special cis woman.
>""""""""""""cis"'""""""""""""""" women
>>6800122
>"""""""""""""""""""cis"""""""""""""" """people"""
>""""""""lesbians""""""""
I love how this thread is a butthurt response to >>6796656