I'm a ftm who hasn't started hormones yet, but I have short hair, wear guyish clothes, and look and act like a guy. It just really bothers me that some people still see me as a girl, especially my best guy friend. He talks about regularly how he has a crush on me and admitted he fantasises about me a lot. That in itself isn't bad cuz I'm not unattractive, but I hate it because it just reminds me even more that I'm a girl which I can't stand! I think I already act like a guy, but is there anything I can do or say or act like that'll make me seem more "manly" and not have my best friend lust over me?
>>6794480
Get muscles, learn to shit talk.
Voice is everything. Look up how to deepen your voice. Unfortunately without T you won't get too far, but I've seen some butch girls pull off pretty deep voices.
>>6794480
Understand the difference between a man and a boy (mainly, self-mastery, discipline and pride), and act like the former.
>you will never transition due to strict laws
>you will never inherit your parents vacation home in spain because they hate you
>you will never fall in love with a beautiful, tan hispanic boy who accepts and appreciates you for who you are
>you will never be the man you wish you were
should I an hero? I just wish I could go back to spain, the only place I feel safe. I know that feeling would fade, but just for some time.
what do I do?
>>6794233
>you will never transition due to strict laws
Break the law. Leave the jurisdiction. Stop making excuses.
If you want to kill yourself let the cops kill you trying to stop you.
>>6794261
ha, the cops here are pussies, they barely have clearance to carry mace. and getting T illegally will be even more difficult.I'm so sorry
>>6794270
>waah it's hard I'd rather kill myself if I can't have what I want handed to me
Go ahead and kill yourself then. You're not fit to be a man.
Should consensual incest between adults be legal?
Discuss
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3734951/Son-19-charged-incest-mother-36-wanted-SAVE-abusive-men-met-gave-adoption-baby.html
Huh, not the pic I posted but okay
>>6793305
Yeah it should. I don't see why it's such a big problem for everyone. If everyone is able to, and does, consent, then what's the big deal?
>>6793387
It could lead to grooming, which is unhealthy. If two relatives are separated for a long time and meet up as adults and want to go to the bone zone, that's fine. It gets sketchy when you're raising a 12 year old exactly how you want so you can fuck him up the butt when he turns 18 or whatever.
Would pic related be a possible result with this person's starting point?
If no, would it be possible with HRT and FFS?
>>6793099
not with a skull that large, pham.
also, the kid on the right looks 14.
>>6793139
Can that guy at least pass with HRT?
>>6793099
>implying the last pic is even the same person
Andrej(a) Pejic
>buys antiandrogens from the black market at age 14
>becomes a model for man's and woman's clothing a fews years later
>tells nobody that she is trans
>tells everybody that she wants to "redefine masculinity" instead
>being a "gender bender" is in, the fashion world loves Andrej (nobody knows about Andreja except her close friends)
>interviewer ask why she does not have a beard, she answers ironically that she prayed to god and he listened (never mentioning any medication!)
>interviewer ask her about her hips which have a pretty feminine shape, she says it's "genetics"
>makes a lot of money as a gender bender model
>comes out as trans to the public at 21:
>she's not a "genetic wonder", she just started taking antiandrogens early by herself
>she never had the intention to "redefine masculinity", she was trans all along
>she yells at people who use the name Andrej when talking about her past as a gender bender, "redefining masulininty" model, getting all sjw over them
>is now popular enough to make money as a transwoman looking like a basic cis model
What do you think about this, /lgbt/?
>>6793042
ikr
pretty annoying lmao
>>6793042
if she is happy I am happy
I could care less
>There will never be a general for cis girls to talk about their trans girlfriends or attraction to transgirls
>If there even was enough of us to make one, it'd be shittier than les gen as far as keeping trans posters out of the thread
>no alternative exists anywhere else
WHY
>want a thread to fetishize on trannies
>HURR TRANNIES GOTTA GO FAGGOTS GTFO HERE NOT WELCOME
>>6792035
Well, you've already made a thread, why not just say whatever you wanted to say anyway?
>>6792052
>fetishize
Yeah that's part of the reason. Transgirls on /lgbt/ are so defensive that they actually think liking a kind of person is the same thing as fetishizing. Fetishizing is what you do when you're masturbating to something or hooking up. If you'd actually consider being in a relationship and making that kind of person a major part of your life, you are not fetishizing.
And I could already go to transles gen. I just want a place to talk to other cis girls about this. What they like about transgirls, what their experience has been like, etc. I don't want to get swarmed by desperate pre-everything tgirls who think people like me are a unicorn. But there's no place ANYWHERE for cis girls to talk about this stuff. The few people I've told in person about liking transgirls were totally baffled and made me feel bad for bringing it up.
Tranny here.
So I'm going to go get my first sex toy soon and I was just wondering which is better, a dildo or a butt plug?
>>6791803
a vibrating dildo is what you want.
a sleek one. you probably dont want one with a lot of texture
>>6791803
just a stubby lil dildo
butt plugs are not really toys so much as equipment, and you will not be able to satisfy yourself the way you're imaging with a butt plug.
You want an aggressive and short stroke, so you can pump quickly. Your arm will be wrapped around your body in one way or another so you don't want a foot long thing to try to maneuver, the "p-spot" is only 3 inches or so in, so the extra 5 or more inches is just for show. Make sure it has a suction cup and make sure you can boil it. You won't boil it I imagine but that grade of silicon is the safest.
>glass
why?
>cheap
DO NOT!
Shell out 30 bucks and get a good one from a trustworthy looking site, perfectly a site that looks like it gives a damn (not adam&eve)
>>6791822
Nah, vibrators aren't really all that great honesty imo
>>6791892
This is good advice if you can only afford one toy
But you should really get both if you can afford it.
>Buttplugs are great for stretching yourself out, but thats really all they're good for
>You might want to get a dildo thats actually the size of an average guy because you wanna practice for the real deal (It might be a little messy sometimes though, because it goes deeper. You really shouldn't need to clean yourself out if you get a stubby one)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWbW0JGeRMA
my gaydar is off the charts. that laugh at the end sealed it
he has a mini yorkie named lily, god dammit
>>6791742
probably
>>6791742
5 seconds into this video and yes, he gay
I heard that Spironolactone taste like a mint, is this true? Can any trannys/femboys here confirm this?
My Cypro taste like a white no flavor powder pill :(
it tastes like ass
don't do this
Spiro tastes like mint for half a second before the coating dissolves and then it tastes like earwax. That's what the minty coating is for.
Estrogen however, tastes quite decent.
>>6791558
Truth here
Whats the deal with gay relationships? I thought it would be more like straight relationships with one being masculine and the other being feminine, but it seems like masculine guys want other masculine guys and feminine guys want other feminine guys. Why is that?
>>6791491
people have differnt preference and dont fit stereotypes
>i find that cute guys want masculine men and vice versa
>>6791491
>gay "relationships"
No such thing, gay people just fuck.
>>6791500
this desu
Why there is almost non good quality gay porn for man? Everything I found is ether trash constructor fetish, 14 years old twinks or bad filmed amature, I know we have more lesbian porn because "straight" man watch too, but Jesus fucking Christ, give me at least one good fucking video. Help me find good gay porn please.
>>6788188
It doesn't exist. Just stop watching porn.
>>6788188
Just search for Billy Herrington, Van Darkholme and Mark Wolff. They have some good shit, specially if you like very muscular dudes~.
If you want good then first define "good".
Also, a lot of lesbians hate "lesbian" porn because it's palpably made for a straight male audience.
Hello. Sorry for the long and unsensical text. I'd be glad if you could give advice or your thoughts on the matter.
>mom told me many times dressing or acting as opposite sex is sin throughout childhood
>was shy, quiet mostly
>some girls in elementary kept annoying me by calling me girly, I didn't like it back then
>wanted to talk to girls and be friends with them but I never could
>got into edgy/gore late elementary-early middle school, tried to act weirdly
>later in midschool started fapping. "I also like men sexually, okay". fapped a lot to every sort of stuff
>only fap to some things near early high school. wanting to be feminine a lot
>find out trans people. questioning.
>"I should express myself" but act like a wooden planck throughout hs.
>In late hs i can't even study because I keep thinking about "be a girl, can't be a girl, am just a faker"
Only things I remember in childhood that may be signs are: when I watched billy elliot on tv and sympathized with the queer(?) boy, I asked my friend if he ever thought about being a girl and he said yes but when I asked in hs he said he didn't mean it that way.
Family found it out but they're hopeful it'll change. Mom will disown me probably. I'm going to go to a psychiatrist in the city which I'll go for university. It'll be one year before they can prescribe hormones and I guess they'll want me to test waters socially. I'll be staying in an all boys dorm. I've only had one, very close friend (the one I asked) but I lost him because some relative threatened him. I think I'm socially retarded, I don't want uni to be same as hs. I don't know what to do.
Jus keep calm, do ya do
>>6792615
Thanks anon. I just feel like I'm somewhat rude to people. When they try to talk to me I either say something stupid or back away and I can see their face turn displeased because of me.
umm, btw parents cut my hair very short last week. I don't want to deceive anyone or attract too much attention but should I consider getting a wig?
>>6794731
Haha yeah, social interaction can be tricky sometime. To avoid feeling awkward I often stretch or yawn or rub an arm or my face, both when I'm sitting around in public and when talking to someone. It helps to distract yourself with and I figure the body language will make you seem more approachable.
When you're talking to someone actually pause and give yourself a second to think about it. At the worst you'll just look a little bit lightheaded, but it gives you time to actually think a response an try to be calm and casual ( wasn't too hard for me, I'm pretty slow already)
As for the hair, their is a lot of really cute or nice looking short cuts, look around at them, is it buzz cut short? And remember that the hair always grows back
You came home from work early and catch your 14 year old son making out with another boy in his room.
What do you do?
Unzip and let them both get to work
>>6787116
Time to beat the gay out of him
>>6787116
nothing other than telling him it's unnatural. you can't change people from being gay so its not worth the effort
Nostalgic OP:
"This is a place where us girly guys can come and chat about the issues that really matter, like make-up, cute clothes, shaving tips and >tfwnobf.
If you think you could make it as a qt3.14 femboy, or already are one, come and join in!
Here are some useful links to help you get started:
http://pastebin.com/xEPCE1ML
Here is a map of where your fellow posters are in the world, please add to it!
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=793617
And if you feel like chatting with a femboy, try putting in the tag "/femgen/" on omegle or going to irc.rizon.net at #femgen. Or you can post your skype, and someone from the femgen skype group will add you. (Space permitted)"
Old thread: >>6758917
First for anime
What a shit fucking OP, where are the anime traps
transexuals:
Now that you know what it feels like to be a man and to be a woman, explain what the difference is in the way that you think and feel.
to answer this question I'd have to know what its like to be a cis man, which i dont, before I lived in dysphoria land and didn't care about or feel much anything. I was just an antisocial fuck who barely had the energy to shower regularly, it was like being a zombie
>>6783464
>I was just an antisocial fuck who barely had the energy to shower regularly, it was like being a zombie
This is what being an average guy feels like
Again being trans means you will never completely know what it was like to be "a man"
that being said I managed to repress things pretty good for a while and feel I could mostly cover this.
I would actually say that being a male it is very hard to isolate things that are intrinsic to being male, and explain it in a way other cis males will get. Men take a lot of things for granted.
Transition allowed me to see more clearly what being male is/means via the contrast of being female.
What I am getting at with this is that, you will never really "get" the benefits of being male, without being something other than male as well. It will always just be your normal.
Now that that is out of the way.
Men have more energy, and better metabolisms. (Drastically so compared with comparatively bodied women.) What this means is that you can eat more food that is bad for you without getting negative effects. You can work out less and get more gains than women. You will be able to do things that would tire out women of the same athletic ability and still feel fine. (None of this is to say women can't be more fit then men because they can, and in plenty of cases are! It is just that they must work far harder to reach these places)
Trust. Men are both trusted more and simultaneously trusted less than women depending on the context. Ex: A guy talking about something in his field is given the benefit of the doubt, where as women are not, and often questioned about things that men would not be questioned about.
Men are seen as threatening in most cases, so they are trusted less around children or in "safe spaces" or on first dates because of male tendency to aggression. If someone committed a crime and there was a male and female suspect the likely hood would be that the male would be considered more likely to have done it.
Masculinity and the totem pole. Men compare themselves to other men all the time. Women do too but differently (PART 1 FIN!)