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How do you call a man who looks boyish but acts girly and why am so attracted to this kind of man?
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>>7551638
You call them a faggot, and it's because you're a faggot
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>>7551651
first post best post
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>>7551651
I meant a man with a girly personaliy but has normal masculine looks, voice and body language.

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Maeve is best girl edition

• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
>>7550268
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second for isla is a cool dude with a cool boyfriend
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>>7551568
mental illnesses have an awful social stigma when really it's just a thing that heavily impedes your quality of life and needs to be treated. it doesn't imply anything about morality or anything besides what i said really.

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Why do women hate gay/bi male so much ?

Even the one that seems most accepting start to hate you when they realize that you are not the all fashion all shopping stereotipe that they love
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>>7551445
because it's socially not acceptable to oppress them
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>>7551454
What?
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>>7551445
Beca fags/bi guys are full of hate towards women as exemplified by this thread

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I'm not trans, i feel dysphoric but there's no way I'm a woman. I'm 5 months on HRT and my chest is starting to show slightly through my shirts and I feel such fucking regret, the fuck am I doing. I'm literally living a delusion and for some reason the doctors supported and encouraged me to do it.

What the actual fuck do i do, I feel dysphoria when I act manly and then i feel dysphoria when I realise I'm living out a delusional and all my friends and family will disown me or at the very best, pretend and regret they ever had me.

I'm going to regret this shit in 5 or so years, I can tell. what the fuck do I do, I just want this dysphoria shit to stop so I can feel ok for once. I dont want to grow boobs and be a weird half man half freak that people always look sideways at
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>>7551429
How old are you
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>>7551434
20, I started just before my 20th birthday after spending years tossing up if this was a good idea or not and going to a dozen or more doctors and specialists who told me I suffer from BDD and gender dysphoria

idk what the fuck to do, if i stop this I might regret it later, but If i keep going I might regret it, can I just slow the breast growth down?? i hate this so much
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You feel regret about your breasts because you're afraid you won't pass and people will notice them and clock you. Not because you don't actually want breasts.

So your real question is, should you keep transitioning with the risk of not passing. That is something everyone struggles with. It's up to you. If you can possibly, at all, in any way live as male, then do that. But if you would rather commit suicide than live as male, then transition becomes your only option.

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I'M GAY!
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ITT we post Slavoj Zizek reaction images.
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Hey guys, I've always considered myself generally straight, but now I'm rather confused to be honest. I still feel the desire to date women and feel sexual attraction towards them but since about middle school I've had a thing for being in the female's perspective during sex. As my fetishes grew they often grew around this fetish, being the female in sex. As time draws on this desire becomes stronger and stronger to the point to where I'm not investigating the validity of my own sexuality.

The issue is I cannot imagine myself being transgender. Coming out to family, dealing with drama, meds, psychologist, no thanks. I'm also not sure if I'd be willing to permanently change my physical appearance. Turns out I'm not transgender! Oops. I also cannot imagine myself being in a relationship with a man. The idea of kissing a dude isn't appealing in the slightest way possible. I also do not feel like I'd make a good trap. I've taken a good look at my own frame and features and without expensive surgery or whatever I'd look like a dude still.

I'm 18 and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I'm really shy and awkward and lack self confidence. I do not feel desired. I've felt this way about myself primarily due to my inexperience of women and my acne (which is now being cured), so I never really got to experience the feeling of being "wanted" and "desired" if you get what I'm saying. I, in my fantasies, am submissive and they tend to tread into rather questionable territory like rape and what not. In my fantasies I'm a female because I view them as the ones being desired and being submissive in that context gets me going for whatever reason. Yet despite thinking through my problems like this and identifying the source I still feel the desire.

I honestly don't know what I am anymore and I was just hoping somewhere on here might have had a similar experience or would be willing to help me walk through my problems. I fear that professional help may be needed.
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>>7550549
you're experiencing something called autogynephilia, routinely shortened to agp
you might also want to research transvestic fetishism, even though you're not actually a crossdresser, given transvestic fetishism is also a presentation of agp
the specific term agp is stigmatized due to a long-running smear campaign against the researcher who came up with it, and /tttt/'s perception of how it works is...pretty delusional, but the validity of the experience remains
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>>7550549
>fear that professional help may be needed
Nothing to fear. Go talk to a professional or two. Get some opinions. Don't like it? Say thanks for your time and don't make another appointment
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>>7550549
You are most likely a straight dude with an interesting fetish. To explore it, you'd have to find a woman with a strap-on/real dick to play the 'man' role and you the 'woman'. You are not in a weird minority with a fetish like this--some women get off being in the 'man' role.

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Why are most early transitioners feminists, while most if not all late transitioners are traditionalist when it comes to gender roles?
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>>7550424
Drink bleach cancerposter.
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>>7550446
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>>7550424
Drink bleach cancerposter.

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no breasts, no bf edition

• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Grace grilled cheese princess
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
>>7549389
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fnufffffffffffffffffffb
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im a tomboy
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Man Eva you're on top of making these threads.

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Before i begin, I'd like to say that I have never been part of this community nor do I know how it "works". I just need help. If I sound like a fucking idiot it's probably because I'm fumbling around in the dark.


I feel lost. That's the best way to explain it? I've been a straight male all my life (I'm 18), or so I've thought.

Throughout those years I have been in a depression consistently. It fluctuates in terms of how bad, but it has always been there. I never knew way. I've been to counselors and what not and I'll always get a similar answer. That I'm interested. Well okay. But it doesnt fell quite right. The more I think aboutt being gay or maybe even trans the harder it gets to think about. The more I realize how much I've denied the possibility in the past, like when my mother flat out asked me if I was gay, to which I vehemently said no.

To further expand. I have always idolized the female figure in a way. When I play games I always pick a female character or create one. Online, aside from social media, my persona with always be female or feminine. I just gravitate towards it. I can't not do so. I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to be female. I don't know what to think.

None of this probably makes any sense, but it's all I got. Any words are welcome.
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I dunno, anon. I think you're just a generally curious guy, but nothing in your post screams "gay/trans". Unless you're deep in the closet, I'd say you're just a regular dude who might be a little bi.

Ask yourself these questions
>Do I feel especially uncomfortable in male-only spaces? e.g. bathrooms, locker rooms, public showers
>Do I generally relate to women more often than men?
>Am I uncomfortable in my body? If yes, are the reasons why directly related to secondary sex characteristics?

If you answered yes to more than one of those, I'd look into experimenting with trans stuff. Buy some panties, sit down when you pee, just try easy things and go from there. You know yourself better than anyone else, so you have to put the effort in to discover what your truth is

Either way, good luck and God bless
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>>7550248
I've always pee sitting down. It's just more comfy, like why should I stand because I have a dick?

I hate public restrooms of any sort. In higjschool I would alway feel anxious while changing in a lockerroom and when I was particularly antsy, I would change in the stalls.

As for relating to women, I'm not so sure. I was raised by women however. I have a strong connection to my mother, sister and grandmother.

Now, feeling uncomfortable in my body? I don't know really, I don't know how i feel about it. That's why I was hoping I might get some pointers to where I could research this more.
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>>7550144
You're welcome to explore here and talk with us. I don't have anything to say that isn't generic garbage. Don't just talk here though. Go on other places that aren't as shit as 4chan to get a well-rounded perspective on yourself.

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> Admitting you suck dick for $

> Think you're taking the high road for admitting so
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>>7549942
This happened with me and Ren Rikka but it was because I made fun of her dad and she got really defensive and crybabyish over him.
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Chaser btfo
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>>7549942
>Proposition whore for sex
>Bargain on price; fail
>Whore refuses your business, you insult her and brag on a Scandinavian skull-measuring geocities group about it

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Yeah I'm in a house with a bunch of cisgendered straight people. fuck me....
any advice please?
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>>7549537
Try harder
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>>7549537
Try harder.
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>>7549537
Try harder.

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I'm gay but I'm also ace and super sex repulsed. Do you think I'll ever have a chance at getting a bf?

[spoiler]Or getting one that doesn't dump me in the garbage after finding out I'm not interested in sex whatsoever? [/spoiler]
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I messed up the spoilers sorry it's my first time here
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>>7549437
/lgbt/ has spoilers disabled for some reason, it's not your fault
anyway, a cis guy will probably reject you, but you might hace more of a chance with a trans guy -- they're usually more open to things like being sex repulsed because of all the sjw queer kids who are obsessed with using ftms as progressive trophies
so there's a way for you to find love eventually
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All gays are sexual deviants, you will never fit in anywhere.

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• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Grace grilled cheese princess
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg

>tfw Kari is actually pronounced Carrie but you've been calling her Car-e like Wall-e and shes too nice and good of a friend to correct you but you've already introduced her to IRL as Car-e and not Carrie or Kerry
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Previous thread

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>>7547624
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The other one hasn't hit image limit yet you noob
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2nd for you're cute!!!

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>spends money getting a neo-vag
>doesn't spend a cent on fixing face

Oh I am laffin
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>>7548659
>srs is covered by insurance
>ffs is cosmetic and unnecessary therefore not covered
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>>7548659
There is not just one way to experience gender, in the the same way that there is not just one way to spell the word laugh. For example, Blaire White is lathable. See my point?
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>>7548659
>old thread died
>remake the exact same thread

O I am laffin

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>hair down my back
>need haircut badly, hair is a mess
>transitioning mtf still in the closet
>don't want to cut all my hair off to get a decent male style
>if I go full feminine i'll look stupid since I still present as a guy

WHAT IS THE SOLUTION
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>>7548522
no idea im in the same boat desu :(
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Just trim it yourself..
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>>7548522
I was in the same boat, but I just said fuck it amd went to the salon and asked them to trim my split ends and give me side swept bangs. I might look like a man still, but at least I LOVE my hair now.

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