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Did I fuck up, /adv/?
>gf offhandedly mentions "I even got herpes once" while talking about skin problems she's been having her life
>ask her about it later, if she has herpes and if I should get checked out
>turns out that the herpes she's referring to was probably not sexually transmitted, but somehow happened to her as a result of health problems
>she got incredibly offended
>exacerbated by fact that she hates how she's been chronically sick her whole life
Anyways, could I have handled this situation better? Or is her reaction justified?
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Lol dude dont feel bad for worrying about ur dick health, desu i wish more dudes would be so open and willing to being tested regularly. Sounds like a language/miscommunication issue. If shes not open to your explanation/apology... Uh, sorry that shes sick or whatever but thats no excuse for her ignorance.
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It depends which kind of herpes. HSV 1 (mouth/nose usually) is insanely common, and chances are unless she's your first gf, you already had it.
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>>18173849
This
if it's simplex 2 ur done m8
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So my girlfriend called me yesterday night and wanted to meet up to talk. I was already sleeping and had to wake up early, so I rescheduled it for Friday. We takled before that day and everything was fine. Also met up on Tue, went to a restaraunt and generally had a great and very fun time together. Generally we have a very caring and loving relationship.
I know what she wants to talk about, she's only my second girlfriend (I'm her first boyfriend, she's 20, I'm 28) and my first girlfriend died of cancer. I've told her when we just started dating that I loved my first gilfriend and that she was great (because she asked). During all our relationship she keeps thinking that I'm still not over and still love my dead first gilfriend and that's destroying our current relationship.
So a week ago or so she fould a archieved thread on my PC, where I was just messing around and writing a story as if that happened to me based on a manga I read, where the main hero also posted things that happened to him to a imageboard. And the girl in that story by description sounded like my ex. (it seriously wasn't intended like that, just a generic blond/blue eyed girl) This upseted her very much. And she asked lots of questions like "do you see future in our relationship" and stuff like this.
Anyway, what do I do with all this? I seriosly don't see a problem in this, because I act very loving and never mention my dead girlfriend, because I love my current one, but she can't seem to trust me on this.
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She needs to trust you.End of story.
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She sounds way too young and inexperienced. Shes going to compare herself to your previous gf even tho you probably never even thought to compare the two. Shes jealous that you had such a serious experience. Death is something you cant really "get over", especially if its your gf. And she will always take it the wrong way. She has to understand that this is a completely new relationship, and that even if she didnt know of your past, pressing too hard with intense future questions is a relationship faux pas. So fucking sorry about your previous gf. I sometimes think about what i would do if my man died. Fuck.
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Sorry man, but this is the shit you're going to have to deal with when your girlfriend is 20.
She's going to be immature and dramatic as fuck over stupid shit like this because she doesn't know better, is in a place where she doesn't have much life experience, and is still going through slight hormonal changes
This goes doubly so because this is her first relationship
Either call her out on it (without being condescending and directly listing the shit that I did. Use your own creativity for that--to be frank, I'm too lazy too which is why I stopped dating under 22 after I hit 25.). or try to have an adult discussion where you ask (aka guide) her what it is that's bugging her about all this (aka force her to utilize introspection).
Avoiding this ain't going to get you anywhere and will just make shit worse.
Hard truth: She's not mature enough to figure this shit out on her own yet (as evidenced by her behavior). As someone who's nearly hitting 30, you pretty much gotta show her the way to and to guide her in to growing up a little , or if you (or she) is not willing, next time pick someone with a tad more maturity to them.
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I was diagnosed with cancer yesterday.
I never thought I'd be here typing this, but i am. i am 22 years old.
I have hodgekins lymphoma in my chest. Stage 2, starting chemo at the weekend.
my family has been super supportive. Im mostly concerned about my girlfriend of 6 months.
she is extremelt doting, says she loves me but i havent said it back
shes great but she does wind me up, prior to diagnosis.
im going into treatment for the next 8 weeks. She wanted to move in together.
Now more than ever i cant be the boyfriend she deserves, and we havent been together all that long.
should i break up with her and focus on getting better, for her sake and mine? it would break her heart.
any advice welcome.
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Dont worry about her. Get the fuck better homie, jesus christ.
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Don't break up with her, hang on to her. Being sick and alone is a really bad feel.
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Who the fuck types like that! What is a paragraph, OP? Shit I am starting to believe those people who say cancer is just a way of cleaning up weak genes
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>literally fucking hate Apple and iPhones beyond belief
>prefer iMessage FaceTime and other apple exclusive features
Wtf do I do? My phone is literally always dead (piece of shit iPhone 5s) and I literally can't use it without charging (it literally gets 120 degrees every time it charges)
What do i do? I fucking hate iPhone like ALOT But I like iOS.
WhT do. I fucking HATE iPhone hut I hate android even more.
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>>18173342
Are you 15? I quit reading because you said literally 2x. I hope you die
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>>18173372
He literally said literally two times.
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5s? Youre either 11 or 85 years old. Nobody cares. Try to beg your mom/nurse to help u get a new one i guess.
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things i should do with a cheating girlfriend 2017-03-30 06:15:52 Post No.18173332
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things i should do with a cheating girlfriend
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2 months after having a steady relationship
>things seem to be going well
>wake up one morning gf sleeping next to me
>see stupid heart emoji
>proceeds to open phone because stupid bitch gave me her password and forgot
>looks in DM sees shes been steady cheating with the same person she told me not to worry about 2 months prior
>not even mad, but she gets 6k next month and i plan to mooch and pretend not to know
>is this ethical? or should i just dump her?
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certainly is not ethical no matter how much a bitch she may have been. that said, i think few will judge you seriously on it. personally i'd just cut all ties with her immediately though, no sense in having this circus in your life.
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I'd wait for her to leave one day, dump all of her stuff outside the door. Call her up and say "You're stuff is outside, don't contact me ever again." Block her from contacting me. Then go stay at my buddies for the night smoke a bunch of weed and drink.
And you know what, it felt fucking goooooooooood. Her friends told me she "tried" to kill herself and I said "That's her decision." Haven't spoken to the bitch since.
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milk her for money dude. Ask her for some gas money. Then use her money on a date you go on behind her back. Send her a pic of the girl's ass with your dick in it and neber see her again. karma's a goddamn bitch.
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Should we act based our age? I'm 22 yet I don't feel like acting as an adult. I don't even want to act like an adult in my 30's.
Is there a way to escape our only destination which is marriage and having a child? I just don't like it.
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Don't marry and don't have a child.
You will have to act like an adult though, otherwise nobody will take you seriously.
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>>18173302
if your major issue is not wanting marriage and kids, then just dont get married and have kids. there is no 'escaping' it, its not a fate you are destined too, on the contrary many people struggle to get to that place in life. it is by no means our 'only destination'
just dont do it if you dont want.
no, there is no magic button you can pres to stop people from pressuring you about it, every single choice you make will have a downside, this is one of them, as is feeling left behind while others settle down and spend less time with you and think less of you.
if your issue is wanting to be taken care of by parents, you may be out of luck as your parents might not put up with that, though only oyu'd really know.
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>>18173302
Not wanting to be an adult IS YOUR PROBLEM.
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So I suppose I should give some background. I was in a relationship for about a year, 8 months of that was a dead bedroom. It was also the biggest factor in our breakup; not saying there weren't other factors involved but that was essentially the main issue.
Needless to say the constant rejection, the feeling of being unwanted, unattractive, and unloved has taken its toll on me. I became severely depressed after our breakup but since then I've made some progress so now I suppose I would call myself mildly depressed. My self esteem has taken a huge blow, and honestly I dont see how it would recover to how it once was.
I've been battling with these issues ever since leaving that relationship. I've drawn clear lines on what I need to be sexually compatible with someone, and I no longer downplay that side of me. I fully understand that for me regular and good sex is an integral part of a healthy relationship. I no longer feel ashamed of myself nor do I feel ashamed of telling friends the real reason of why I left. I now have gone into bodybuilding for about 3 months now, and I have seen noticeable improvements in my physique. I've started to dress better and have gotten a new hairstyle which complements my face much better and I have gotten many compliments. One girl even remarked saying I now look like a different person.
[Pics are of my workout progress (3 months) this is my first pic of December 12 2016]
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However with all that said my self esteem has not improved at all. I still feel super ugly, and the no matches on tinder/OKCupid/Match sure as hell hasn't helped. On top of all that, the more time passes the more I stop caring about trying to be in a relationship. I would really like to be in one but I feel so jaded about the whole concept. I read stories here and on the deadbedrooms subreddit and every time I do I just think to myself of how I dont want to deal with those feelings and stress anymore.
So as my username states, I'm on the road to self improvement. So far I've started to improve my body with the bodybuilding, my mind with starting a journal and getting back into reading, and now I figure it's time to tackle the emotional side. So I ask, how can I start to overcome these issues of mine and move on to lead a happier life?
TLDR: Was in an unloving relationship as my first and only relationship and am now jaded and cynical towards love,romance,dating etc. How to overcome these feelings of resentment?
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More recent progress pic (2 weeks ago)
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So I accidentally cut a chunk about the width of a sliced cucumber out of my middle finger at work the other day. It bled like hell but I've been taking good care of it, and it looks just fine and is healing exceptionally well. However, literally a few hours after the cut I got extremely feverish and dizzy, and I've been this way for about 48 hours now. I'm wondering if I'm just coincidentally getting sick, or if the wound has anything to do with it.
btw not my picture but it's pretty much identical
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>>18173280
Dude we aren't doctors.
Go see one.
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wash it in warm water, put a piece of aloe over it and wrap it up with gauze
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go see a doctor and get your workers comp
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Is this it? Am I going to be like this forever? 2017-03-30 05:36:07 Post No.18173277
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Is this it? Am I going to be like this forever?
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I'm a male college student in America about to graduate this semester.
I've been single for the past four years, ever since college started. I've been rather depressed lately because of it. I've asked out about twelve girls in that time, all who I knew well and who I thought was interesting. Every single one of whom has rejected me.
I don't know what to do about it. Not a day goes by when I don't wonder how long I'm going to go about doing this. Its not even that I don't try; I go after most opportunities that I can, its just that no woman wants to reciprocate my interests.
I'm a normal college student, according to most of my friends. I have a good GPA, I workout and eat healthy, I do research, I've had internships, and I'm a very friendly and amicable person, yet I still can't get over the fact that it might be like this forever.
Has anyone else ever experienced this? How do you deal with the frustration and the sadness?
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>>18173277
post a picture of yourself and we'll start there.
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It'll happen when it happens.
Also three girls per year really isn't that many
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I'd rather not reveal my identity on the internet. As far as physical appearances go, I'd say I'm an Indian American, 5'7
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All of the posts i see are beta effeminate weak men asking questions they already know the answer to.
if you wanna know what you should do regarding women just DONT BE A FUCKING PUSSY.
yes its that simple whatever method or criteria you have for reaching that no one else can tell you.
now lets have a thread about real questions and advice k?
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>>18173272
Yep.
Lift some weights and eat some fucking steak, faggots.
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>>18173272
Where did I put my keys
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>>18173349
Think about before the last time you think you saw them but dont imagine anything
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So I went out with this cute girl who likes me and wants to see me again, but I found out she's a die hard Christian who doesn't even masturbate. Honestly, I just want sum fuk. Should I keep going and try to crack her without committing?
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I cannot fathom what makes you think this is even remotely a good idea.
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Unless you want an overly atttached girlfriend in .003 seconds, i'd say go to your nearest titty bar and treat yourself to the champagne room.
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>>18173356
Hard second this
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. As for HOW, that requires first hand experience to understand. Just go out and do it. Over and over.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Should I contact/try one last time/confess how I feel before they move away because I want "closure"?
Let's be real here. You don't want closure. Closure is a lie you're telling yourself. What you actually mean is you want is to magically convince/trick them in to liking you. Move on. This isn't healthy.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy
Fuck off
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LADIES:
I'm playing games with this girl I met in omegle and she considers me attractive in everything, like she's been dying to chat w me again
I kno if I do it she'll get what she wants and I'm not that easy.
Was this text too much orrr what cause she stopped responding yet I think she went to sleep since she actually goes to HS
I'll probably see her in person in the future tho and fuck her, wtf should I text her back tho
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>>18173279
How the fuck are we supposed to know? Also without context, that text is inappropriate as fuck.
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Girl here.
How do I bring up to my partner that I'd like to try a rape scenario? Not with me being raped. I'd like to tie him up and gag him and then pretend to rape him.
I know female-on-male rape isn't a very common fetish so I'm worried how he'll take it. I don't want to hurt him or make him self conscious. He's a sub but we've mostly done vanilla stuff so far
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OP here. Guys, I don't know how else to say this but I am so INCREDIBLY horny. It's the kind of achy horny that won't go away with masturbation. I need fingers, dick, lips, a body, something. I'm aching for it. It's a literal ache on my skin. If this was my regular situation I would just find some woman or man to spend the night with, but unfortunately I can't do that. This is a problem. I recently went off the hormonal birth control pill to better my health and I heard this would be one of the symptoms but I had no idea it would be this bad. Is this how dudes feel all the time? How do I deal with this? I'm reaching Frollo levels of sexual frustration.
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>>18173253
I'll fuck you for free, where you at
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>>18173253
>OP here.
Thank goodness you included this, I would never have known who was writing.
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How do I get used to sleeping for as few hours a day as possible? Is it just a matter of staying awake? How bad is it to use, say, one or two 5 Hour Energies a day?
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bumping out of interest
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>>18173232
>How do I get used to sleeping for as few hours a day as possible?
You don't. Some people are just wired to operate off of minima amounts of sleep. If you are not biologically one of those people, you will do incredible harm to your health by forcing yourself to not sleep the amount your body requires. Waking is the simple act of your body signaling to you that you have had enough sleep. Forcing yourself awake or staying awake unnaturally is going against your personal requirement of sleep.
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>>18173265
To add to this, it's a myth that such people are overrepresented in the ranks of the rich, successful and famous throughout history. Name a given politician, inventory or polymath, living or dead, and it's overwhelmingly likely that they slept 6-9 hours per night like everybody else.
At its heart, requiring very little sleep is an abnormal genetic condition and these people are not necessarily getting off scot-free, they may just be deferring their sleep debts or paying them in different, less obvious ways. It's tempting to feel like they won the genetic lottery, but that's not necessarily true.
For you two,
>>18173232
>>18173258
I'm afraid it's true -- there's just no way to train yourself to sleep less than you need without experiencing negative consequences, and anybody who tells you that they've done that is fooling themselves, just like tipsy people who think "nah, I'm fine to drive." Any given engineering student who regularly sleeps 4 hours / night probably THINKS he's still performing optimally, but he's not. Guaranteed.
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I asked /v/ but they didn't help.
I have that 9/10 chick in class ( studying managment and economy nothing vidya related).
She keeps staring at me all the fucking time, so today she did come sit right next to me and did the same look at me shit and smiled at me, it was no bullshit, she wasn't trying to fuck up with me I know it, I know I should have done something.
I fucking looked away( I heard you have to ignore them so they chase you), couldn't bear it.
What should I do, next time?
I don't want to end up a wizard.
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Talk. Easy and simple.
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>>18173236
What I say?
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Hi