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Also, not sure if needing "advice" per say, but would like to understand wtf happened. She told me to "not talk to her again" because I was with her friends we THINK.

Maybe she thought you were hinting at sleeping with one of her friends?

All of them are guys haha

>>18175798
>I get this mental image that I'd be really creepy suddenly talking to her from out of nowhere and I really have no clue as to how to go from barley conversing to asking her out.
definitely not wrong about that. honestly you need to talk to her to see if you actually do like her and are not just idealizing her. use some situational humour or reference, it shouldn't be hard if you've both been in the same class for a while.

>>18175798
>In an attempt to get over it all I've been hitting the gym and getting in shape, gone from 124kg down to 108kg in about 3 months.
You still got a lot of work to do, this problem should make you to train harder for her, OP.

Was about to say what the other anon said but you should be able to lose more bodyfat % and become handsome as fuark too.

Just sayin', no more advise for you but the other anon is right, you should do some talk about coursework and then other things and finally ask her out.

>>18175808
>>18175839
Cheers for the advice
Honestly no clue how I should actually ask her once I get to know her a bit better. Was thinking a coffee place on campus, or should I go for something else?

Also any tips for small talk in terms of getting to know her better?

should clarify , I am wondering if this is something to worry about? or short term stress / medication related?

>>18175789
You should read about the side effects of those anti-depressants, could be that.

>short term stress
Definitely could this be too but what is happing has been for a month or two like you said.

IMO it's the meds, read about them, OP.

>>18175789
obviously nothing wrong with your dick if you ccan still get it up. proably just feeding into the psychological part of it.

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>>18175783
I seriously hope I'm not going to make you mad for this shitty advise but you really should see a psychiatrist about this.

I don't think we have a MD that could help you right now, since pretty much you need the meds so you can control your anger issues.
Maybe, MAYBE there is some anon that knows, but I don't guarantee it.

>>18175810
atleast you tried..cant get mad about that i guess

>>18175783
listen to ajahn sumedho talks on youtube

Don't lose hope, OP.

I guess if you are unstable and cannot go back to school then your last option is to get your GED/HiSet.

You can take it and be self taught in your home, but you gotta study a lot so you can finish that high school equivalence.

Tell your parents you still want to study and tell them that you want to get your GED.

Oh and seek a psychologist, you still have to become emotionally stronger and start having a better work ethic since that isn't going to take you anywhere in life, OP.

>>18175775
i dropped out of college, i was in my second year. so i do have a highschool diploma but thats not good for anything these days anyways. thanks man ive been thinking about a psychologist

Do it. Life on the road is fun. Youre an actual cowboy.

>>18175754
Could you go into detail regarding your experience in truck driving? I'm super interested, but scared to dive into it because I don't know anything other than the dumb stereotypes people spout about truckers.

>>18175742
> Would I be laughed out the door at trucker school?
No. I know the dumbest, most irresponsible fucks who drive for a living. It's a pretty easy job. The training will be the hardest part, honestly. It's rather similar to driver's ed. They'll teach you how to maneuver the vehicle based on the size of the box, the amount of hours you're allowed to be on the road, what to do if/when a tire explodes, stuff like that. You take written and driven exams and boom. You'll be fine.

>>18175734
You gotta move on to move up. I say do it. Upward mobility and opportunity for good experience is the most valuable benefit.

why wouldnt you at least try it? U have nothing to lose but a bit of time from your day. It sounds exceptionally better than ur current situation imo, and desu ive not known many accountants who relied on their social charisma to be successful. One of my best friends is a CPA and hes a total social fucktard. Makes 150k a year

For starters, this depends on everything about you.

Getting that new job with more salary and experience for your BSc is really good and I think you'll be fine with the new coworkers if you become more sociable.

But you're writing this because you're concerned about the responsabilities of the new job, so I'm saying this will depend 100% on you, since you must have the will to be more responsable and don't fuck shit up in your first job as an accountant since that will be on your record, Anon.

Not much advise I know but there isn't much I can write for you.

>>18175679
So the root of the anger is that you're mad at this person for making you anxious, and you feel like you've had to work harder to get to where you are?

>>18175686

Not the first part, but the second part, yes.

>>18175713
well, ya know. the buddha said anger is like carrying a hot coal to throw at someone else, you're the one who gets burned. so first make sure you're completely convinced of the uselessness of the resentment.

next, think about how silly it is to compare different people's paths like that. billions of people around the world (probably) worked harder than you just to survive. you're looking at things under a microscope.

and finally, focus on the work itself. maybe you'll learn something from this fucker, or you'll just look good at the end. just think about the outcome.

>>18175663
at least where i live, it IS possible to get a computering sort of job without a degree. just takes tons of initiative and some luck, and you'll always get paid a lot less than if you had it.

there are lots of people in your situation, OP. it's a tough pill to swallow, but pretty much all jobs suck. you do it for the money. and you get the $30k piece of paper for the money also.

it's not an easy choice at all.

>>18175663
also if i could go back in time, i'd pick something easy like being a teacher.

i'm a semester short of getting my CS batchelors and it's a BITCH, at least at my school. lots of math, and they make classes that should be easy, like compilers and algorithms, as hard as they can just for the hell of it.

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>>18175663
Do you REALLY have a passion for computers now?

Then go take some IT/CIS classes and try to learn a lot of programming languages on your own.
Read the /g/ wiki as well.

And I'm not reccomending you CS classes because I don't know how good you're with math, since you generally need calculus.

I seriously hope you finally decided IT/CIS and are not going to give up, because you're wasting a fuckton of money.

Have some /g/ info.

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Shave it all. Looks disgusting man

>>18175665
yeah but it always looks gross at first, right?

it's 1 month in

Just shave it, better be clean shaved than having an ugly beard.

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Look at it this way… It costs you 300 dollars to get rid of him. He’s never gonna bother you again. He’s never gonna ask you for money again. He’s out of your life for 300 dollars. You got off cheap. Forget it.

>>18175641
you're not seeing it again obviously. what possessed you to think this was a good idea is beyond me.
>>18175658
this all true too. just forget about it, a loser like that isn't worth getting mad as fuck about.

>>18175661
I felt bad for him because he's a "decent" person, and I didn't want him to be fucked because he didn't have enough for rent. It was a moment of weakness.
>>18175658
Anon...

Make up shit on ur resume

Get skilled in an in-demand field.
Kind of gig where they'll hire you so long as you're still warm and your qualifications aren't expired.

Protip: that means healthcare. Baby boomers be getting old.

>>18175631
>no experience
Tough shit, you made the mistake of not getting experience in your teenage years.

Either go back to college or fuck off and get a job you lazy fuck.

>>18175628
How the hell are you an 18 year old in his sophomore year of high school?

am 16

>>18175628
>I believe I might have high functioning autism.
No, you're lazy as shit OP.

>How can I not procrastinate, manage time, and organize life in general?
Need to know what motivates you in order to tell you that you should be able to focus on that so you finally stop being a lazy piece of shit.

>manage time, and organize life in general
You just need to make a schedule book or w/e they're called in the US in order to manage time better, since if you do this you gotta do it and never be late.

Start making dates with hours on what are you going to do OP, you need some discipline so you stop being a lazy shit and start taking your classes on school.

Some anon might have a better advise than more of fix what I wrote so wait.

>>18175574
Yes.

>>18175574
Yeah and you should too if you don't know.

>>18175576
>>18175584
I have a friend saying it's a waste of time because what are the odds, etc. She can't swim btw.

I'm worried because my kid might grow up and be on a boat eventually, or something like that, and fall off and die. She said that those floaty-rings exists and that's all you need.

Holy shit you retard.

You probably fucked the baby's life and there's a chance she will have some problems if it was THAT ROUGH.

And she's just 1 month, OP.

This is why you don't give a baby to a retard, kids.

>>18175538
She's probably fine. Babies bounce for a reason.

if it scares you all enough just go to a doctor. If thats not an option best thing to do is just keep an eye on the baby and watch out for any abnormalities like excessive crying or swelling or, i dunno anything that just doesnt seem normal. If the baby calms down and seems fine just be grateful, keep checking up on her and just be extra careful anytime you hold her.

I wont say its nothing, these are very crucial months for the baby and its development, but no use in beating yourself up over it. learn from your mistakes and pay attention to your surroundings and be careful when you're taking care of her. Maybe next time stop moving, switch arms, then start walking again.