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Outside of 4chan, how do you meet people to talk to?
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You dont
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i would also like to know this
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>>18463366
join a local sports club for a sport you're interested in, hit a bar on your own and try and strike up convos with people, tinder

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Getting a job.
What's my next move.
This is a retail job.
>Got a call 11 days ago
>sort of an initial interview, invitation for group interview
>group interview 7 days ago
>was told there the next step was a background check via email
>got the email 3 days ago
>background check was completed yesterday morning
>no call or email as of yet

Do I call? Be patient? Go down in person?
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Call them. And ask when training is.
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>>18463304
Just like this?
>"Hi my name is ___. I applied for the ____ position and had the group interview last week. when can I expect to train?"
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>>18463452
Yes or email. Whichever but def ask an update on the status of your application

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I'm talking to some girl I know from college about classes related stuff using text. That's all we talk about. How can I change the subject to something not school related without it being jarring and creepy?
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"Let's change the subject, you free Friday afternoon."

Do this. I don't give a damn if you feel this is too forward, you live life once and easing your way into talking to her about a date could take months. Be bold and hope for the best.
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>>18463191
Maybe say "none of my buds wanna join me for (such n such)... Are you free?" or something like that. I meeean who wants to go to a such n such alone???
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>>18463191
Wait for something to happen. Ideally you wanna have a casual conversation irl. If there isn't any chance you can talk to her, text her about something she posted that you find interesting. End up asking her to go out with you.

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I'm a 23 year old male and got this intense desire to have kids and start a family for some reason. Should I get my estrogen or oxytoxin levels checked?
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i mean i'm a girl and never get these feelings so... i would say no on the estrogen part
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>>18463168
No, my boyfriend is this way and his hormone levels are fine.
You just want to foster your seed within a quality woman to create ultimate children.

The fact that you think this way makes you a top-tier male. There are too many men out there that want to fuck around and forgo having families. Society needs more family men like you because it is what makes a society strong.

Go for it!
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>>18463168
You are of child-rearing age

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Is Comp Engineering/Math a better combination than CS/Math? Which is more useful/practical, CS or Comp En?
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Computer engineering definitely but it is much more harder.
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>>18463125

How much harder?
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Data scientist here.

Comp sci and math is good for all SE positions generally speaking. Computer engineering is good if you want to do, well, computer engineering. I've noticed CS people do better for development and engineers do better for cybersecurity.

Hope this helps

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How do I get a gf?
I cannot stand these feels.
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>>18463006
what do you have to offer?
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>>18463016
I have much in the way to offer,
I am smart
I am caring
I am nice
I am a cultural connoisseur
I have hobbies like table tennis
I am currently unemployed so have much free time
I am open to new experiences.

Why must I, the man offer everything though?
Why is it not okay for the woman to offer anything now feminsim pretty much made most women basic bitches
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>>18463006
Meeting people online sucks, but it helps you figure out what kind of person you click with. I met my bf through his ex, so you can try through mutual groups or friends to meet girls. Just be carful doing so. Also theres random meetups for people with similar interest, you could try that? Just dont get kidnapped!!

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I was walking on campus when a group of students asked if I would join their demonstration. I asked what the demonstration was about. They said gay rights. I said i'm not gay. The group gave me a look and one of them started getting verbally abusive. I started walking away but this individual kept following me and screaming off the top of his/her lungs.

At this point I start to freak out because a lot of people are turning to look and some of them were even giving me nasty looks. Suffice to say that people consider me a discriminatory "bitch".

I never meant it in a bad way and I just wanted them to know I had no interest in their activities however now i'm wondering if I could have handled things differently.
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Wait wait, what kind of verbal abuse?
Did they invite you as in "HAHA U GAY U NEED TO GO TO GAY RIGHTS DEMONSTRATION"?
Or They invited you to an actual demonstration, and when you said "I'm not gay" they went SJW ballistic?
I need some more context mate
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Faggots should be shot. And they say normal people harass them kek
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>>18462997
epic thread xD

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Should I say fuck all to what my parents think and hitchhike across the USA?
I unironically believe it is the only way to save myself from a life of NEET-hood since I will be separated from the comforts of my home life for the duration of the trip, which could very well last half a year.
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>>18462567
Did you watch Into The Wild? I watched it last week.
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>>18462567

once you get back from your hitch hiking the inevitability of sinking back into neetdom exists. having been a hitchhiker isn't going to make you any less of who you were. if anything it will just further cement in your mind that you need excessive relaxation and comfort after such a journey.

its also just illegal and easy to get robbed and whatnot.
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>>18462582
But I feel like if I can learn to live without those comforts then I will be able to understand how I can live a fulfilling life without such things. When I return, I would return with a new outlook and also new experiences which would broaden my horizons in some sense.
Also, I'm taking a self defense/pocket knife and a handgun. Plus, I've taken self defense courses in the past but in all honesty I'd say that the usefulness of those courses can be debated on top of the fact that I've forgotten much of the material.

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I kind of really want a baby, I keep getting maternal feelings

My only option would be sperm donation

Should I consider it?
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>>18462165
*sighs*

ok, i'll seed you
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why is that your only option?
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>>18462165
How old are you?

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I have been having romantic and sexual feelings for my dad, and it is making me feel extremely guilty and broken.

I think the reason I'm attracted to him is because he is a very helpful, open-minded and optimistic man, but he is strong when he needs to be. He is hopeful that I will be with a wonderful guy. I have dated 3 guys in the last 4 years (all with his blessing), but they all showed negative qualities that turned me off from them.

After my last breakup (the relationship lasted more than a year), I have been hugging him a lot more than before, and I havr started cuddling with him whenever we are alone. In the last two weeks, I have been wearing clothing that shows cleavage when cuddling with him, and subtly flirting with him. Two days ago, I lost control and got on top of him and started quickly kissing and dry-humping him. He pulled me off before long and said "Now is not a good time". I went to my room and started crying. Yesterday, I went to him and apologized. He said that he forgave me, but seemed angry (which is very rare for him) and said "We can't have any sort of romance, and that's THAT".

I feel really guilty, because even though he said not to, I still want to be romantic with him. I'm scared that what has happened will damage my relationship with him, and maybe the rest of the family (I'm not sure how my mother and siblings would feel, but I am afraid to ask).

How do I stop being so messed up, and make this situation better?
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>>18461754
Just kill yourself, its your dd for fuck sake. Disgusting
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There's a possibility your dad is going through a similar thing as are.

Whether or not such a relationship is morally right, it's undoubtly a very very bad idea considering the surrounding society. You need to both go your own way.

Good men are probably as hard to find as good women, but they're out there. Keep looking and you'll probably be glad you did in the long run. Is your dad married or what ? If not, hope that he also looks for other people.

My point is: there are men who are good people but also not your dad.
Also, how old are you ?
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>>18461754
This is bait, right?

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What are some conversation topics you can use with people in general to make up for some awkward silence? Besides the weather, of course.
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How about not talking if their presence is awkward for you?
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>>18465357
How immigration is great and how gay marriage is definitely what people want despite it being rejected by the electorate
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>>18465357

I usually talk about things we see or that had happened recently, so it's not like I can give you a list.

Like, if I'm tired, I say "I'm so tired" and then explain why I didn't get so much sleep last night or why my job was particularly awful that day etc.

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How can I be happy when no one cares about me?
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Start caring about others more than yourself. After a while, you'll be amazed that people will start caring about you.
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Care about yourself, don't judge your worth entirely on what others feel
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>>18465131
>>18465133

I'm an awful person.

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>live at home
>constantly making reports to mom; every time I come in and leave, every time I leave my room, every time I make any noise that's loud enough to be heard, so on
>every time I'm on the phone with a friend, talking online to one, or god forbid go to hang out with one, I must relay what I did and what we talked about to her
>figure this is just being protective or whatever and will wear out as I get older, become adult, it doesn't
>move out, find roommate
>finally can walk into the kitchen or accidentally drop something without giving a status report
>she does the same thing as my mom
>deal with this for a while, financial problems + roommate fucking off means I have to go back home for a while
>figure maybe it'll have calmed down now that the family's had time to be without me and I'm bringing money into the house each month
>it's even worse now
>seeking new roommate, friend says she's game
>bring up my desire for privacy, how my mom/last roommate did this
>she agrees but tells me that this shit is pretty normal
Is it really normal for people to stop and report every time they go to take a shit or get a glass of water? Do people have eight trillion pointless conversations all day just to let everyone in the house know where they are and what they're doing all the damned time?
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>>18464993
Absolutely not that is controlling and fucking stupid
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nah that isn't normal, why the fuck would your room mate even want to do that?
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>>18464993
nah loool wtf

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Is it a good idea to freeze ringworm off with canned air?
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not gonna work unless you freeze off like quarter to half an inch deep and it's probably already in your bloodstream anyways.

Go to a doctor and get the right antibiotics asap, you don't want them to spread.
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>>18464930
It's a fungus though, it almost never enters though bloodstream unless you've had a surgery or something like that
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>>18464973
>>18464881
Do you understand what you're proposing? That propellant can get to below 50 degrees C. You're going to give yourself frostbite and ruin a that patch of skin which will be far worse than what you dealt with before.

I know this is gonna sound somewhat fucked but I'll try to organize my thoughts and questions. Also I did ask x but its apparently mostly fuckwads with no reading comprehension skills.

For background I'm a 20 year old American dude. Wiccan, middle class average schmuck. I worship Hades so that might be affecting whats going on but I only started recently and this has been going on since I was 8.

I've been a believer in the supernatural for a while now. When I was a little kid I didn't think ghosts were a thing but as I grew up that changed. I've had plenty of experiences ranging from random whispers to loud chanting in the middle of nowhere that sounded like it was right next to me, to actual physical things like shit getting thrown around or knocked over or knocks on the wall. Its got nothing to do with where I live as I've moved a lot and it goes where I go.

Fast forward to now. I got a reading from several psychics who know nothing about me and say that I experience the paranormal regularly. One says that I have a black cloud hanging on me that doesn't seem like its from an external source, and another says that shadow people frequent my life and that they actually follow me for some reason. This is huge considering the times that ive actually seen a spirit of some sort was always a shadow on the wall. Usually a man walking past my door or entering rooms when there is no way a shadow couldve been cast from something like a car.

My question is rather huge: what are these shadows? Are they ghosts? Spirits? Demons? And why are they following me, and what does the black cloud mean?

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Paranoid dillusions bought on by wish fulfillment and deceptive lighting.
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>>18464867
its not supernatural shit but shit that is around everyone all the time. difference is you can see and hear it naturally and others have to train themselves. relax
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>>18464897

Gonna have to agree with this chap here. Don't take any psychic charletan's word for truth, they will only tell you what they think you want to hear.

Maybe /x/ will be able to better help you if you're looking for people that believe there is something otherworldly.

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