hello,
probably a very simple answer but this is the first time i've actually had this come up in a job application, so I wanted to know the exact answer.
a recent job posting came up that i would like to apply for but it states at the bottom : Apply by sending your resume quoting competition #.
now it says resume only and not cover letter or proof of credentials. does that mean i should only send in my resume? would it hurt if i attached my cover letter as well?
im thinking that this process just skips the bs of reading a cover letter and goes straight to your credentials on your resume?
any thoughts or opinions, please?
what type of job is this?
gov't?
retail?
>>18464228
Always send the full package unless clearly stated otherwise
>>18464230
local government
>>18464234
i normally always do but this just says resume, almost every other post i have looked at says please send a copy of your cover letter and resume to XXX
i got a speck of plastic in my eye two days ago; the speck washed out, but the eye is infected now. today i saw a doctor at the drive-through clinic (ausfag btw) and he prescribed Apo-chloramphenicol eye drops and to see him again in three days' time, but i don't think i'm going to last that long - each time i blink, it's like being stabbed in the eyeball with an ice-pick. if i go to the local hospital emergency room, i'll wait in the queue forever as more seriously injured patients come in. wat do? i don't think aspirin is going to help here.
>>18464065
Go to to the hospital and wait it out.
Ophthalmologist here... Go the ER, you probably need stronger antibiotics drops like quinolones and to patch your eye. It hurts to blink probably on the account of a corneal ulcer. I could go on about retards who waited it out and that I had to take the eye out because the infection spread if it convinces you
>>18464065
Go to the ER. Unless you want to lose the eye? In which case keep posting here and post some pics as it slowly gets more fucked up.
They're really disappointed and mad at me and her. Should I ask for forgiveness? I dont want things to get awkward between me and her family. Please give me a piece of advice
Either you stop doing it, or you delete your dirty chats after you do it.
In any case - don't confront. It's one of those things that should be forgotten and never talked about - like accidentally seeing your parents having sex. Don't talk about it, don't think about it, don't mention it.
Just hope the awkward phase will pass as fast as possible.
>>18464054
You should get off /adv/, because you need to be at least 18 to post on 4chan dot org.
>>18464054
JACKY LMAOOO
on topic: do as >>18464062 says
Need advice yall , nothing illegal inside , confuses me even more , never left the origin though , only hours later was it seized. Anyone have any experience
What was in it?
>>18464048
If there was nothing illegal inside just go see law enforcement / postal inspections. They probably had a false positive and will return it.
>>18464048
Also yeah, in the great words of Gyneth Paltrow - WHATS IN THE BOX
How realistic is it to move to another country where you have no relatives and barely any friends?
Language wise I can speak to some degree and getting better so I'm not worrying about that.
Lately I've been thinking about moving from where I live now, the problem is I am really not sure if I can do it both mentally and money wise.
I've been thinking about getting into uni over there once I control the language and study medicine on a scholarship.
How far fetched is my dream? I am only 20 and don't know shit about the world.
What are my chances of succeeding? I am afraid to waste my 20s and I feel like I'm already wasting them..
I have until next October to decide, to some degree..
>>18464025
You're projecting alot of your insecurities onto the future. You don't need to be afraid of what will happen if you move because you will figure it out as you go along. Listen to your passion and desires and go for it, just be smart about it, and realize there might be challenges, but don't let fear stop you from doing something you really want to do.
You could search for a job online, or maybe go there for a week or two and try to land one, once you do everything will flow.
Also, which country? And where are you from anon?
It's easier than ever to find jobs or study places all over the world thanks to internets. What is not so easy is to get a residence/work permit.
Looking for some real wisdom here. (on 4chan?)
Gf is mad and says that watching porn is sorta like cheating. Doesn't want me to want to pornography.(She's very self conscious) Is this just something men give up when a relationship gets serious? I understand not all women feel this way but is she right? Can it be justified?
Sounds like a bitch, I know you won't break up with her, so here is my advice. Watch it in secret. If you are too moral for that, then you are shit out of luck, my friend.
>>18463955
I would assume having the real thing would suffice. Watching porn can be seen as you thinking your partner is not good enough
2D should be out of your life once you find a 3D.
Friendly reminder that gf is for losers who can't download the porn.
So there's just no point in even trying to date anyone if you have a three inch penis right?
Don't lie to me, don't reassure me. Just give me the truth
>>18463883
You do know that it gets longer when you get a boner?
>>18463892
It's only about an inch or so longer when it's long if that much
>>18463883
>yes-or-no question
>Don't lie to me, don't reassure me. Just give me the truth
So you just want to hear the internet echo your options back at you...?
Im a server and today while serving a group of cute young girls came in and the cutest one left me her number. After texting back and forth we agreed to go on a date but she's 16 and I'm 22. Assuming I don't do anything stupid to piss her off, should I be able to trust her and fuck her? So long as she doesn't get pregnant does anyone really take statutory rape seriously between a 22 and 16 y/o? She also says she's turning 17 soon. I can tell she wants dick and she is seriously HOT as hell. Pic semi related this is what she looks like maybe hotter.
>>18463873
playing with fire for a cheap thrill.
take it as a compliment and move on.
>>18463873
>Im a server
No you are not.
You are a waiter.
>>18463882
What's the difference?
Cutting a long story short:
Have been crushing on a girl for about three years now. We're decently good friends, but last year I probably blew all my chances with her after an argument turned bad. Normally, I'm a pretty confident guy, but she gets me shy as all hell. I still love her though, and will do anything to date her. Any advice on how to do this? Anything will help at this point.
>>18463854
>and will do anything to date her. Any advice on how to do this?
Apparently not. The simplest thing to do is ask her out, and in 3 years you haven't been able to muster the sack to do it. That is literally your only answer and solution. Ask her out and either succeed, or fail and finally have some peace that the situation has come to an end.
KEK A DOODLE DOO
>>18463854
She's probably getting blacked as you read this. Sorry anon. Moveon
My girlfriend no longer wants to have sex with me when I try. I feel like I'm failing as a man to turn her on. She says she's still attracted to me but actions speak louder than words to me. If we're not having sex does that mean we're basically just friends who hang out and live together? I love her.This girl I know keeps wanting to hang out. I'm not that kinda guy I won't cheat ever but it makes me feel good to text with her when I get turned down or feel badly in the relationship. I just want my gf to want me like I do her. Wat do?
>>18463781
How long has it been since you've had sex? I mean, regular sex?
>t. Anon who literally went through this EXACT scenario word by word.
>>18463783
I'll give it to you straight. I asked this same question here and got this.
>Bring up the no sex and ask what the issue is.
To explain this, best case scenario she'll tell you what the issue is and you can move on to fixing it together over a period of time (Not overnight probably)
Worst case scenario, she tells you there is nothing wrong and she just doesn't feel like it. (Like my ex did) In which case your best option is to give her your reason for bringing it up and explain how it's affecting you or you deal with it like a cuck. Remember, your a human too and have needs just like her. While the choice of sex requires consent on both sides, if one is suddenly not interested it usually means there is a serious issue..
I hope for your sake it's nothing serious but I can't say I see a happy ending with this situation.
Be prepared to either give the breakup or receive the breakup if she's refusing any steps to remedy the situation.
People can lose their sexual appetite for many reasons related to their health. This is why doctors always ask people about their sex life, it is a strong indicator of their general health. Your girlfriend could be stressed, depressed, tired, sick, and so on. I think you should ask your girlfriend if she is stressed, depressed, tired, sick, and so on. Ask her if there is anything she noticed about her recent health which may affect her sexuality. Don't let her avoid the discussion when she says she's still turned on. You are right. Actions do speak louder than words. She should acknowledge that you have sex less often. She should acknowledge that something changed. Tell her that you don't want to judge her or pressure her. Tell her that you want to understand her and help her.
Are you supposed to have a sore throat after 3 vaccines? I'm not sure if it's the HIV i might of contracted or the vaccines causing the sore throat
HIV wouldn't cause a sore throat.
>>18463733
Maybe you just have a sore throat?
>>18463736
then what the fuck is causing it?
I'm trying to find out what sort of career I could have as a disabled guy. I have chronic pain which can vary from a mild announce to "please just fucking shoot me". It can happen at a moment's notice and can last for months at a time leaving me dependent on pain killers that make my very forgetful and rather dopey.
I live in the middle of no where and can't drive in case I have a flare up while behind the wheel. So how do I create a career for myself and get off of NEET bucks? I've tried running an ebay store and there's just no profit in it, so I'm looking for other options.
I'm willing to put the effort in to develop new skills but part of my problem is that I am very unreliable, I could need months off at a time while still maintaining an income or else I'd be better off on NEET bucks.
What options do I realistically have? I had considered doing some writing but I imagine that's over saturated and hard to break into, but it seems to be the only realistic option there is outside of making a patreon funded youtube channel based on my warhammer hobby skills (which are pretty high)
>making a patreon funded youtube channel based on my warhammer hobby skills (which are pretty high)
Well why not make a hobby a career? You'll get paid and it is something you can do on your own time.
>>18463715
If you look at any of the successful warhammer hobby streamers (kenny boucher, rob baer, etc) it is pretty much a full time job for them, to prepare for their streams, entertain their viewers, and do commissions on the side, and they aren't exactly rolling in cash for it.
Pretty much every smaller streamer needs a second job to pay the bills.
>>18463706
you say you're willing to put in the effort, but are you willing to make any lifestyle changes if an opportunity arose? Like moving?
and are you 'murican?
So I wasn't sure I was going to post this but what the hell.
I'm 23, I've flunked out of college about a year ago and it's been about 3 years since I've had a job.
I was hoping to get through college and get a job in software or web development. I have actual skills
in those fields but without any sort of degree and professional experience it's hard to get a job.
I've tried to do freelance and I have a portfolio online but I haven't been able to get any clients and
it's been about 2 months since I've started. So obviously what I'm doing isn't working. My parents have
been pressuring me to find a job, which is completely understandable, I've wasted a lot of time and I
don't like the situation I'm in. I just don't know what to do now, I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to get a regular
job but it's hard to motivate myself to get one. I want a job that I can best utilize my skills, and make okay money
so I can afford college. I messed up my loans with my bad GPA.
I've royally fucked myself, but I believe I can turn it around. I don't know what are my next steps.
So should I give up on what I want to do and find regular work, or try to find another way.
To put off pressure from your parents show them your progress of finding a job. Even ask for advice to make it seem like you are looking for jobs 24/7. But in the end it will be you who chooses a job or if you work or not. If they kick you out that is bad parenting. You don't sound like a lazy ass. Just because you have been out of school three years does not mean you can't find decent entry level job. If it is not in your field/interest so be it for the time being. Put money aside from a decent job for your preferred job. If you have skills utilize them. Many local places seek out a social media associate. For freelance you have to keep working at it. My mom has done freelance for years and worked other jobs. She is now a successful author and runs a business. If you say it won't work, you set yourself up for failure. Don't listen to people who want you to be simple. The advice might sound good, but inside they are scared. Your inner critic is probly also telling you not to do stuff. I'm in the same spot bro. But saved up a lot from wagecuck job for self employment, so I can go back to school, etc. I will post how to find clients in a while/get more work.
>>18463913
not OP but you sound like a good guy
I find myself in a similar situation as OP.
I'm desperately waiting for the call of this one place
best of luck m8
>>18463656
I find some contradiction in your post. I assume you studied coding/web development in college, and this is the kind of job you want, but still you left? What made you leave? Is this field a passion to you?
What is a good gift for a girl? I was considering on buying to a girl I met a usb with the shape of a mini camera.
She studied photography, have two kids and works on ads. Kinda pretty and she is single, her girls. She is 34 and I'm 28
I don't think buying clothing would be wise, just an accessory or stuff like that but honestly I don't know much about it and it can get expensive and weirdly suspicious.
Don't buy presents for people you aren't exclusively dating. That shit is weird.
>>18463614
Is it her birthday?
>>18463614
what is it you are trying to accomplish here?
Alright, so I was at comic con in my city this weekend, and I went to an after party at this bar, where a cosplayer I thought was really pretty showed up. I'm a good looking guy that is generally confident, but I completely lost my nerve because she was dressed as pic related, and I've never hit on a girl at a con. I ended up getting hit on by some other girls and I never got to talk to the one I was interested in.
By a stroke of luck, I found out I have some friends in common with her. Should I try to get set up, or is that too creepy? I feel weird about it.
>>18463483
You retard, cons are orgies.
She fucked more dudes than she can count on her fingers.
>>18463483
Yes that is creepy. You never spoke to her. Hitting her up out of nowhere, via friend or whatever, is super creepy. It screams:
>I'm too much of a weirdo to approach you in person and pussied out before but pls talk to me on facebook
totally lame and stalkerish. You blew your chance. As other anon said, she rode 10 different cocks that weekend. Cocks who were confident enough to approach her irl. Man up next time.
>>18463927
R9k pls go
It can go different ways, but if shes interested she might find it really flattering. Bear in mind though shes probably got 1000 of those messages already.
An alternate plan is seeing if any of your mutual friends is chilling with her, and asking for them to introduce you guys.