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why specifically transgender?
>oh boy dis gon b good

because I dated a trans girl before and it was by far the best relationship I've had, I've dated two girls since & now I want to specifically date a trans girl because of my past positive relationship

>>5651311
You're looking for a long term relationship in a bar?

Post a pic and I'll let you know if you'll win.

>>5651212
There's a miss transsexual pageant? That's a thing that exists?

>>5651218
I can't post my face because I'm stealth but I'll get a body shot up shortly.

>>5651152
;_; iktf brah

I'm starting to feel like there just aren't even that many girls who are into being dominant to begin with. I know 20 sub girls for every dom.

>transbians

>>5651182
I'm mentally ill, what do you want me to do?

>asking someone before you know their orientation

I wish I was this brave but than I remember we will always be a minority so this is pretty much just setting us up for failure

this is literally the only reason i've never asked anyone out. i have people that i think flirt with me but i can never 100% tell because it's always at work and most people are nice + also me asking them out at work could get me in trouble

>>5651063
My gaydar is on point.
Step up.

as long as the mtf/ftm is still loyal to their family throughout transition i dont see an issue. if the family/partner rejects the mtf/ftm then thats not the ftm/mtfs fault. my only issue is when the mtf/ftm deserts the family in the name of transition to live out some agp fantasy or whatever.

>>5651007
It's regrettable that they couldn't come out earlier in life, but that's in the past. So long as they continue to care for and respect the wishes of the family they've built, I don't see as they can be morally faulted for their actions. The situation can be very painful, but with compassion and sincerity, I think it can usually be turned around.

It's nauseating and heartbreaking to think on the times when things turn out otherwise due to the person transitioning, or their family, or both.

>>5651007
If they marry someone who is bi then it can be worked out but if they have kids at the time they shouldn't be transitioning at all. It is selfish for them to be focusing on that when they need to be raising their children. Yeah, it sucks but they should have thought about it before they decided to reproduce.

If they marry someone who they know is straight then they are selfish for assuming their partner would just continue being in a relationship with the gender they aren't attracted to.

>>5651006

PS: This scenario assumes you're male and want to be female.

>>5651006
If my brain is altered so heavily, than, it's not really me any more. This scenario is basically me dying, so, I would say, no.

>>5651006
Where are you getting the deceased women from? Is it like being an organ donor instead you join a program to give your body to a tranny if you die?

Shut up, Meg

You look great, hon!

>>5650869
kek

>>5650672
THEY suck YOU for money? Dude, you need to do the other way round if you want any reliable income.

Rock river arms makes a cheap .38 snub revolver.
Good luck. Don't use it on yourself whore.

>>5650850
Actually there's a surprisingly decent amount of guys willing to pay to suck dick. I've gotten messages on POF and grindr from guys willing to pay to suck my dick or for me to fuck them.
If you're small and kind of cute a lot of bicurious guys will be willing to pay for the opportunity to try stuff with you since they generally shy away from big bearish guys and want a more gentle experience I guess.

>>5650447
how else am i going to pay my bills?

I want to try, but don't know how. I know this one girl who gets fucked for 50 a pop at porno book stores, but yuck. There has to be a better way.

Becoming an escort is part of the reason I'm transitioning.

>>5650312

pls no, I j-just wanted to be your friend ;_;

>>5650320
baby you gave it to me cause you said I was special, im not special anymore

People who meet each other from /soc/ are complete naive idiots

None are as good as omegle for stuff like that.

Unplug your router when you go to sleep and turn it back on when you wake up and you should get a new IP. Also clear cookies before going on the website again.

>>5650366
thanks, love

>>5650268
why do Americans always feel the need to remake British shows? Just watch the British ones, it's the same fucking language

>>5650282
This show's also produced in Canada

>>5650247

X files has a new season or something?

>>5650258
Yeah, it turns out the humans were the aliens all along.

They showed the trans character for like a second, but the conversation about it was funny. The whole episode was awesome.

I have no plans of ever transitioning and don't really experience the crippling bodily dysphoria that most here speak of, so I don't really plan on HRT just yet. Though I am AGP and am a HUGE closet case, in that I can't get off without picturing myself as a woman during sex, so the burning desire is still there to become what I fantasize. I mostly just go to work, come home, play video games and browse LGBT to channel my hatred of myself onto others. So yeah, I guess you could say there are levels.

>>5650145
yes, being aware of the issue but largely unaware of the distress during childhood (no puberty yet) made me a girly fag. the numbness and shutting self away from people as a teen was a thing, but as i aged i couldn't achieve it alone, i turned to alcohol for oblivion and abusing testosterone to make up for my failings. neither worked and things only got more extreme and drove me to greater heights as people thought i was a hilarious drag king act or a deliberately aware social commentary on grotesque masculinity as in private a was quite shy, quiet, and reserved. i also turned to mdma for social events as it stopped dysphoria for a while and i could let people touch me without me freaking out, and i could dance to my heart's content. crossdressing in private, crying a lot and showering in the dark helped too, along with repressing memories.

so i'd say there were levels of in the closet trannyness- being a flamer, being numb, or full on repression

>>5650288

So how do you compare being numb and full on repression? Numbness is like feeling on some level you are trans, even if you don't know the word for it, and numbing yourself to everything? Is repression pretending it doesn't exist at all and being in complete denial about it?

>>5650138
>came out as mtf a year ago
>still not on hormones
you're gonna be in a serious bodily shit storm soon if you don't get on that soon. This is assuming you're 100% sure you're trans. Getting on them if you wanna stay androgynous is probably a good idea too :/

>>5650138
They are completely safe as long as you are getting regular blood tests.

>>5650138
Estradiol (especially as you move from a low/negligible concentration to a high one) can precipitate deep vein thrombosis. Being young, exercising regularly, and slowly increasing your dose rather than starting at a high one are all great ways to prevent this. Do not take premarin, as it has many other chemicals to take into account, and is less effective mg for mg than bio-identical estradiol.

All anti-androgens available to adults have a host of risks that need to be gotten into individually.

The whole package puts you at heightened risk of developing breast cancer (vs. a male), and reduced risk of developing prostate cancer (vs. a male).

If you get blood tests and medical backup, the actual risks are negligible.