Can childhood experiences really tell someone is trans?
I'll use mine as an example. As far as i recall, i always liked cars (Specially the ones that you can open and fit many things inside. Am i gay because of that?), beyblades, power ranger dolls.
However (maybe during to bullying) i never liked to play sports (football, volley, basket), and i hated contact with males. But the only contact i realy had with a girl was at 13-14, so i've stick with my nerd friends.
At most, i've liked to play "house" with my friends where we built houses from Legos and every one had a wife, childs, dogs and weapons. Nothing to do with being trans, i don't recall wanting to be the girl and nothing like that.
However, i remember a kind of "genital dysphoria". The worse day, i was sitting at the couch and felt a kind of "itch". I wanted to have a vagina and masturbate as a girl, and i was extremely jealous of how girls have more pleasure. I remember stealing my sister bras and clothing too. I was 8-9 at the time.
This disappeared, i didn't felt like this for years, until i had access to my slut aunt clothes 24/7, and for years i've been a slutty "crossdresser". I'm 19 now and still doing this, stole some panties and bras, a pair of high heels and all.
But i don't want a vagina anymore, i find them fucking gross and i like to have a dick (I don't like to use it for sex though, i feel nothing, i just think it's better to have it and i can get more pleasure)
However my skinnyfat body, my giant beard and my body hair depresses me everyday. I even got out of the gym fearing i would get even more masculine there.
How do i cope with these feels?
>>5671190
click on pic related, bud
>>5671203
Kek, but i'm not sure if i like the side effects of it like boobs and... yes like boobs. Dick is not a problem, however i'm almost sure i don't want to remove it.
I also have history of kidney disease in my family, wich makes me uncomfortable if i need to go through it.
>>5671628
1.HRT wont make you pretty.
2.if you can't do it with out passing don't do it
3.you will never be a women you will be a transgender women
4.nothing wrong with just keeping it a fetish
>tfw everything is horrible and you hate life and you don't see it ever improving
im a tranny btw
What if I told that getting a sex change was never going to be the solution to your depression.
Lolrekt
>be NEET-bucks-less NEET who lives withs his parents for four years
>Bad anxiety and sociak akwardness
>Apply for a job that still has paper applications
>Stutter to the manager a bit
>Get the interview
>Shy and nervous as fuck
>Stutter some more
>Get the job
>Shy and incredibly insecure
>Just nod and say yes a lot
>Learn quickly and do a good job
>The submissiveness makes me polite and friendly
>They tell me they all like me
>They say it's hard to find people with my traits
>They start training me for assistant manager
>O-okay I g-guess
ITT those of us who are college students post our college, our year, what our brand of queerness is, how strong the LGBT community there is. Or we just discuss what the LGBT college experience is like.
Bi male, stanford, junior. LGBT community is super strong for the L, G and T. No B community to speak of :(. School in general is really good for LGBT, I haven't had a single bad encounter despite being reasonably visible (I paint my nails).
MtF (pre-HRT) at GA Tech, 4th year. No one really has time to give a shit about LGBT people tbqh, but that's a good thing. Everyone is pretty live and let live, never knew anyone that really hated gays or trans people, aside from the evangelical group that shows up once a year for a couple days. Counseling center had been great for me, LGBTQIA center is pretty helpful, never been to a Pride Alliance meeting so I can't comment, more support stuff for trans or NB people than I was expecting when I first started to try and find stuff.
>>5669855
gay, dartmouth, pretty well represented except T, excessively liberal/PC,
>>5669408
Kill her.
transition and become prettier to spite her
>>5669408
i see the next adam lanza, uh oh
Are you guys ready for the first gay president Marco Rubio?
>>5669159
marco rubio is a cutio but he would make a shitty presidentio
>>5669159
>>5669231
>TWELVE
sup legbuts,
I need somebody's opinion about my situation, please.
I haven't posted much but considering I've been a long-time lurker of this board or in general in 4chan, I've developed an understanding of it.
However, my life just got fucked up and I'm not sure if I'm just imaging.
I guess I'll go for a green story.
>>be 16
>>gay
>>slowly coming out of closet by a lot of important people
>>family, best friends
>>family was extremely shocked, esp my brother
>>we once had a real fight
>>mum is feigning ignorance
>>we never speak of it again
>>best friends are seemingly chill with it
>>even hoping for me to get a bf
>>be now
>>occasional sex
>> no qtbf btw
>>my friends and I start smoking weed regularly
>>we said like "every weekend"
>>now we start to smoke on workdays
>>suddenly developing a fear
>>o shit I might be a girl
>>I get that gorgeous wig
>>do kinda shitty make up
>>get stuff from my mum/sister
>>go to friends
>>lel might be trans, guys.
>>get high
I mean, I even told my grandma so.
I didn't even came out of the closet to her, but she knew of course.
She tells me, she believes me. I used to dress up in my childhood.
Used Make up for fun, and like playing with barbies.
I knew that too. I was aware how feminine I kinda was.
However I never could find the culprit. I used to be very overweight.
I've told myself I gotta lose weight, otherwise nobody will ever love me how ugly I am.
I lost 35 pounds and I still smell of failure.
My question is: should I just stop and live my life as the gender I was born to?
Or perhaps, I keep on, an lose friends/family because I'm acting like a madman.
pic related, it's me.
>>5667854
oh fuck; I missed that point to tell you, I'm 21 right now. :^) youre welcome.
>>5667854
picture is not clear
>>5668021
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Previous thread: >>5619075
Hi.
feedback on voice please?
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/27371943/2.ogg
ignore cat snoring in the background
>>5660252
Don't know if it's because the english is not my main language, but for me, it's look really natural, nothing seems forced
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Plagarism: >>5682511
>>5684142
the GOAT
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twQlpFrm5iM
>>5684164
hell yeah dude we gonna run this town with da bike gang
what kind of bike should I get? looking on CL right now.... imma get one in a week or two once I move to my new place
B I K E H Y P E
>>5684175
klr250 is p good
Will you be watching the Superbowl today? Who do you want to win?
Claim your football husbando. Tommy is mine, hands off.
Old: >>5681104
>>5683474
worst gen tbqh
Late 90s early 00s Favre ţbh. Imagine the look on my face as a little balkan queer coming to Wisconsin and all the other boys are worshiping this man. Turns out I did too but for different reasons.
Too bad the we're stuck with a closet case now
>>5683476
but anon think of all the hunks
D*ck sizes of /lgbt/ Poll
http://strawpoll.me/6734730
>tfw only six inches
Fml
I have contributed a vote for an answer that does not pertain to what is true for real life.
Thus I have introduced a certain fallibility to your results, rendering any and all conclusions drawn invalid!
Effectively the result is so: That all your effort in creating this poll and your intentions to analyse the accumulated data, is entirely in vain!
>>5672052
Just
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Butch dyke thread: >>5681569
Old thread was better
Kill
Who else is alone and hates the happiness of others
>>5681104
this
other people being happy hurts
holy fuck
i look so hot with pink lipstick on
no tranny though
>>5681125
Show us, anon.
How do I get over a guy that is straight?
>he's my best friend since we were 3 (23 now)
>He's kinda hot and very kind, great personality and we have a lot in common
>kinda have a crush on him for a couple years
>he hasn't dated a lot of girls, so that gave me hope for a while (now I know that he's more asexual than in the closet)
>recently out to him and he's chill about it, he just made clear that he's straight
now
>we do some kinda "couple fights" even in public about something we disagree (i usually act mad and he tries to comfort me) but we laugh about it
>he's telling me about a nice girl girl that he met at the gym and he's planing to ask her out, but she has a boyfriend
>obviously encourage him to do it and be happy
>actually dying inside and having actuals dreams about being happy with him
Pls halp, I don't know what to do anymore
Forgot to mention: today's his birthday and I plan to get really drunk and just have the courage to tell him everything I feel, it seems like the most straight forward (kek no pun intended) way of end this. If he's really my friend he'll understand right? .......... Right?
>If he's really my friend he'll understand right?
Why don't you understand that he simply isn't capable of returning your feelings and be an adult about it? I understand that you're in a lot of pain right now, but the things you're imagining simply aren't possible. Focus on the fact that you do have a great friend who loves and accepts you, that's not such an easy thing to find, and certainly not something to be taken for granted. Be grateful for him, appreciate your friendship as it is and check your thoughts when you get greedy. Avoid fantasizing about you as a couple. Jerk off as much as you need to, if you start crying while jerking off, keep going, trust me, it helps. Once you've got that out of your system and you're not such a whiny, ungrateful, greedy bitch, try and find a nice guy with a compatible sexual orientation. If it all works out with him, you'll laugh at how silly you used to be.
Good luck.
So you're okay with losing him as a friend forever?
If so, let it all out.
If not, then bottle it in. If he were interested he would've made the first move, after you came out to him.
Out of sight, out of mind. Avoid him. Move to another town or whatever.
>you're not really bi, you're just confused!!!!! you'll settle down with a nice girl eventually
>you're just fake-bi for attention you fake fuck!!!
>so....you're gay? no? you're straight?? no? i..i don't understand
>you don't belong in the queer community fucking biscum
theyre right tho
>>5664469
pls no bully
>Are you gay then?
>Sort of, I'm bi
>Ugh, that's exactly the same thing
Question for cis guys and girls, do you ever get annoyed when trans people have misconceptions about what living as the opposite gender is like?
>>5675379
sure, but I'm just going to get shouted down, because this site is packed with MtFs. Seems kind of impossible to "feel like a girl" when you've never been one.
>inb4 muh scientifik studiez
>>5675702
it isn't when you have a fetish that makes you think you're a girl
>>5675702
I'm MtF and I'm curious about what you have to say, I won't shoot you down because I know I have some ideas about how girls think that likely aren't true. Can you give some more specific examples?