Sorry if this isn't the right place to put this. Was a toss up between this and advice board. Anyway
I'm a cis-bi guy. My SO is also bi and has recently came out to me as genderfluid. I've known him for five years. We've been seeing each other for 9 months. I accept the idea of genderfluidity, but this sudden change has really thrown me for a loop. I feel bad about wanting to keep him the way he is. I've just not had time to adjust to it I guess. I'm still not sure this will even last.
So my question is, is it normal for someone in my position to feel the way I do? Also general advice appreciated.
>>5688944
Yes, it's normal. You're feeling this way, because as you know, the purpose of dating men is to get fucked. Inevitably, you'll have to do some of the fucking to make it a fair partnership. However, one partner transition to a more feminine role is likely to bring with it the expectation of less topping. When they do top, it's less appealing because they now lack the characteristic power, and are instead (essentially) a sissy.
>SO
Stop using that fucking term. They are either your boyfriend or girlfriend.
>genderfluid
This is not a real thing. There is no reason to accept someone elses delusions. Dump that retarded queer.
>>5688952
This feels somewhat right. The sexual aspect is important, but it's more him(?) than it is me.
What's a hon?
>>5688300
Anyone who started hormones after you did.
>>5688317
self rekt
Is it more AGP to get GRS or to keep your penis?
It's generally considered more AGP to keep it but I have AGP centered on cutting it off so...
>>5688271
>Anonymous 02/08/16(Mon)03:06:51 No.5688271▶
>Is it more AGP to get GRS or to keep your penis?
Its AGP to be newman
I don't know why everyone hates Newman
He seems like an okay guy. I'd rather be friends with him other Jerry or George.
Hey /lgbt/, I'm a ftm psych major and I'm looking for some data for a research project. I want to prove that the stress for transgender students in gendered bathrooms proves that my university needs more gender neutral bathrooms.
If you're a transgender person, please think back to incidents where you were in a gendered bathroom with cis people. This is about your level of stress just being in a gendered bathroom, or incidents when you felt uncomfortable because of comments, stares, or violence. Then fill this out, with 5 being the most accurate, and 0 as the least accurate.
Filling this out, and talking about your experiences will help me help other trans students feel safer on my campus. Thank you very much!
>age
>ftm or mtf (or transmasculine of transfeminine)
>whether you're a college student
>I had difficulty falling or staying asleep after being the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I felt restless when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I tried to avoid feelings about being in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I would jump in surprise at the least thing when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I tried to avoid activities that reminded me of my experiences in gendered restrooms. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I felt hyper vigilant or "on edge" when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I tried to avoid conversations about the incident. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I tried to avoid thoughts about the incident. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I felt irritable or had outbursts of anger. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I avoided contact with people who reminded me of being in an incident in a gendered bathroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I had difficulty concentrating. 0 1 2 3 4 5
>I tried to stay away from gendered bathrooms 0 1 2 3 4 5
>22
>ftm
>University
>I had difficulty falling or staying asleep after being the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
3
>I felt restless when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
>I tried to avoid feelings about being in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
>I would jump in surprise at the least thing when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
3
>I tried to avoid activities that reminded me of my experiences in gendered restrooms. 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
>I felt hyper vigilant or "on edge" when I was in the gendered restroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
>I tried to avoid conversations about the incident. 0 1 2 3 4 5
3
>I tried to avoid thoughts about the incident. 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
>I felt irritable or had outbursts of anger. 0 1 2 3 4 5
0
>I avoided contact with people who reminded me of being in an incident in a gendered bathroom. 0 1 2 3 4 5
2
>I had difficulty concentrating. 0 1 2 3 4 5
3
>I tried to stay away from gendered bathrooms 0 1 2 3 4 5
5
This is how I filled this out
>>5688140
The only time I've been bothered about gendered restrooms was when I had to go into the guys one at an airport because the women's was packed and we were in a hurry to hit a connecting flight
didn't even end up going cause that was super crowded too and just left
>>5688225
can you fill out the stress test anyway? It doesn't have to be super dramatic this is all about subjective feelings about it
Hello lgbt where my fello Canadians? post area code for possible smoke, drink, fuck, coffee fight or whatever I'm 20 pan and male
area 902. N.S. Lower Sackville
'nother bump
250
>>5687676
mount uniacke haha
whats good my sackville bro?
Does /lgbt/ hate black people and the jewish also?
>>5687558
I have a general dislike of the former group and an ambivalence toward the latter.
That is entirely dependent on the individuals affiliated with /lgbt/, just as with all boards on 4chan and people in general, some do some don't. I myself don't though
>>5687558
i don't
>watching a straight pornographic feature
>get to part where woman gets penetrated in her vagina
>start to feel sad that I don't have a vagina
>switch off feature and don't even masturbate, just go to sleep and cry
This cannot be normal behavior.
Just pretend your butt is a turbo vagina and your dick is a mega clit.
>>5687015
Whether or not it's normal, it sounds miserable. Has anything similar happened before?
>>5687059
Generally it happens most of the time I try to watch porn.
So I usually avoid it, so I'll go maybe 3 or 4 weeks without masturbating. I find it to painful to watch straight porn, and whenever I watch it I picture myself as the woman, but as I said I never really cum when I watch it I usually just switch it off.
Trans people, post your expierrences in public washrooms
>never went into womens bathrooms until I passed, spoke with passing voice, dressed the part, etc
>never have had any issues
Got some weird looks in the mens room when boymode was failing though.
>>5686316
>be mtf
>go to club with friends (straight club)
>get drunk as fuck but need to pee all the time
>use male bathroom like law abiding citizen
>bathrobe visit 1, drunk guy says "hey you can use this bathroom as long as you stand like the rest of us ha-ha"
>walk into bathroom and piss standing up
>bathrom visit 2, some guy starts freaking out to his friend worrying that he is in the girls bathroom
>bathrom visit 3, some Lebanese person grabs me by the wrist and smiles at me on my way out of the bathroom
and that's the last time i ever went to a club again :DDD
I've been fortunate enough never to have an issue using public bathrooms after 5 years of being full-time. It's still scary as fuck though, and I'm still not sure how to pee properly.
Is it weird to tell an older friend / coworker (my mentor) that he's my role model? How do I best communicate that?
I'm 23 and he's 40. We've only known each other for six months but we're incredibly close. He's a clear father figure for me.
I've never really had a positive male role model like him before, so I'd like him to know how much I appreciate his help/advice.
>>5685742
You do not.
>>5685750
Why?
>>5685763
It would be very painful.
What's their name /lgbt/?
>>5685688
Sick dubs bro
Don't be shhhy
Whats your name?
>be ftm
>pass and need to piss
>go to men's restroom
>terrified that loud hissing sound that peeing vaginas will make will out me, causing a man to kick the door open and sexually abuse me while stuck in the stall.
>>5685442
Guys don't care. As long as it doesn't sound like violence or sex nothing will come of it.
A man being able to identify your gender based on your pissing sound is pretty silly. I don't particularly listen to other mens pissing sound patterns while I'm in the washroom.
Even if they did notice it sounded weird, or even identified that it was a girl pissing, I don't think they'd start trying to fucking kick down a locked door lmao.
Just carry a pocket knife if you're so scared. Let him get close and act like you're into it, then sink that fucker into his gut a dozen times. Or get a stun gun thingie if you're not the homicidal type.
>>5685550
>stun gun
WORTHLESS
You get a TASER brand taser, a knife, or a real gun. Something that can actually incapacitate someone. Stun guns rely on the person giving up on the face of pain. Tasers shock you real fucking good so your nervous system freaks out unless you're desensitized. Guns and knives are pretty self explanatory.
TL;DR: Fuck stunguns.
>be cute, attractive, 100% passable mtf
>in college, on my way to a class
>suddenly this hideous-looking hon shows up
>he's at least 6'2, with linebacker shoulders and a huge man chin with a bit of beard stubble visible, wearing a patterned skirt with those silly socks hons seem to love
>he's clearly going to the women's restroom
>I step in, look him in the eyes, and say as loudly as I can "Excuse me sir, you're looking for the wrong bathroom"
>proceed to flick my hair back and give him a smug smile
>he looks at me with a murderous look and starts going on about how he's a real womyn
>cut him off mid-sentece and tell him I'll call security if he doesn't use the correct bathroom
>he calls me a bitch and looks as if he's about to slap me
>at this point like 7-8 people have gathered around to gawk
>this cute, nerdyish guy I'm friends with is like how dare you
>I take my phone out as my friend and another dude step in
>they hold the hon down since he's clearly getting violent
>I call security, tell them some creepy pervert in drag is trying to sneak into the women's room and threatened to assault me
>make sure he hears every word, and use as much he/him pronouns as possible
>a few minutes later security arrives and leads him out
>they congratulate and thank me for letting them know a pervert was prowling around women's restrooms
>I sweetly smile and thank them for helping me out in turn
>give a smug little wink at the hon as he's being led out of the building
Why are hons so icky, gross and disgusting, /lgbt/?
>>5685328
https://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/thread/5066286/
>>5685328
The biggest lie of this story is that a cute, attractive, 100% passable tranny actually exists. Try harder
>>5685386
I've seen boys who look like girls without HRT
I think its possible
Do you think the trans editor for BuzzFeed passes?
>>5683536
She looks like an albino mongol
She passes as having down syndrome.
If I saw her, I would think she is female. Just exceedingly ugly
>>5683556
kek
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8RNbzscfXQ
>husband and his bisexual wife get into time management issues
>husband works too much and bi wife wants a gf
>husband says he's okay with his bi wife getting herself a gf
>bi wife gets herself a bisexual gf
>the more they hang out, the more the bisexual gf likes the husband more than the wife
>wife becomes third wheel
>they have threesome, wife is given priority but wife doesn't want to have sex with either of them due to insecurity issues
>wife is being a cunt despite being the center of attention
>husband innocently cuddles with wife's gf
>wife goes apeshit
>husband and wife separate (they have two kids btw)
>husband has to pay monthly court payments to wife
> they're getting back but their relationship has been completely wrecked
TLDR: husband allows his bi wife to get a gf, bisexual wife does so and ends up getting cucked by her own bislut girlfriend. She then precedes to ruin her husband's life as well as her own family with their two kids.
Never date bisexual women, never marry them. Straight guys, I know you think bi girls will get you hot girl on girl action and awesome threesomes, but look at this cautionary tale and be careful.
Onision is a piece of shit, I hope he cucks himself broke. That mentally ill derange person is fucking dangerous.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmwguN9074o
>>5683537
he's just loud and opinionated. He's never actually gone out and made a campaign against anyone
>cucks himself broke
what's hilarious is that it's his wife that ended up getting cucked by her own bislut gf
but he's such a pussy whipped fag, he's basically cutting off his balls, handing it to his cunt of a wife and telling her to beat him with it.
Onision pls go shill somewhere else
I'm a cis female. If I take MTF dosage of HRT, will I just become super hot? I'm only 18, so there's still parts of my puberty that aren't done.
>>5683038
No you'll turn into a tranny.
>>5683038
You will become to females what females are to males and go one level beyond to an entirely new ultra-female gender which hasn't yet been observed by modern science. You will also probably gain special mutant superpowers like in X-Men the animated series.
>>5683038
It's possible you'll get more feminine. Some women experience more breast growth when their estrogen is elevated on, say, taking lots of birth control, or being pregnant.
But maybe you won't. The effects you'll experience will probably be minimal at best if your estrogen levels are normal.